Seeking Arrangements

[QUOTE=Numonga;5142496]I need a little assistance, I bought a $100 Visa vanilla card with the hopes of getting signed up. I have no interest in using any of my real info. Is what I'm trying to do doable? It keeps getting declined. Thanks.[/QUOTE]I have used this card 4 times over the last year to sign into Seeking I never used my real name, city or anything else that was real. Inever had a problem so you must be doing something wrong. Always use a text app or burner phone and be prepared to work hard for anything worth seeing.

Just talked online, haven't made it off-site yet.

[QUOTE=ActonMan;5143221]I have used this card 4 times over the last year to sign into Seeking I never used my real name, city or anything else that was real. Inever had a problem so you must be doing something wrong. Always use a text app or burner phone and be prepared to work hard for anything worth seeing.[/QUOTE]Make sure you add a zip code to the card at the card website. This held me up once.

This one has at least 3 active profiles, all logged in today.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3f6b2a1a-aa47-4735-b367-ff5ec0778334[/URL]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/bc2f426e-b375-189c-f7b6-8b164bb70224[/URL]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/57fec604-c01e-43b1-895a-da86dea8f794[/URL]

[QUOTE=PaulRew;5144127]This one has at least 3 active profiles, all logged in today.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3f6b2a1a-aa47-4735-b367-ff5ec0778334[/URL]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/bc2f426e-b375-189c-f7b6-8b164bb70224[/URL]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/57fec604-c01e-43b1-895a-da86dea8f794[/URL][/QUOTE]Reads like a pro who is trying to maximize her coverage.

[QUOTE=Patriarchist;5140525]I've re-evaluated the semi-pro Babylove858. She texted me offering a session for 100 which I accepted. This time no cig smell and actually, although she's had three kids, there is no severe "baby damage" or stretch marks. They are really only on one of her breasts which she covered up this time. Almost makes me think she might read have read what I said LOL. Yea she's not as slim as her pics but I'd be more inclined to repeat at that price point.[/QUOTE]If she is reading here or any others for that matter she should shoot me a PM. I haven't renewed my membership.

Wants 1 k.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ea3c72fb-b88b-4039-bcff-58f861ad972d[/URL]

[QUOTE=PaulRew;5144127]This one has at least 3 active profiles, all logged in today.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3f6b2a1a-aa47-4735-b367-ff5ec0778334[/URL]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/bc2f426e-b375-189c-f7b6-8b164bb70224[/URL]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/57fec604-c01e-43b1-895a-da86dea8f794[/URL][/QUOTE]My guess -- messages quickly turn to requests for funds online before meeting. I also think that there's a good chance the woman in the pics does not exist.

Has anyone talked to this girl. Wanted 20 $ through Venmo to make sure I was legit. Then she wanted to go my the dispensary for edibles and then see if we vibe for fun.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f511f3c2-dd79-4960-bb6a-670a59f8f6d9[/URL]

[QUOTE=NastySD;5142800][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f741ecdc-916c-4a23-b61f-c020e97654e0[/URL]

Anyone have any intel? Suppose to see her Monday.[/QUOTE]I would love to find out I chatted before but we couldn't agree on time.

[QUOTE=MeloYello;5144968]Has anyone talked to this girl. Wanted 20 $ through Venmo to make sure I was legit. Then she wanted to go my the dispensary for edibles and then see if we vibe for fun.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f511f3c2-dd79-4960-bb6a-670a59f8f6d9[/URL][/QUOTE]NEVER PAY IN ADVANCE.

I don't know how many times this has to be said. It's a scam. She will take the money and disappear, never to be heard from again. Tell her she gets the sugar when you go behind closed doors, never in advance.

[QUOTE=MeloYello;5144968]Has anyone talked to this girl. Wanted 20 $ through Venmo to make sure I was legit. Then she wanted to go my the dispensary for edibles and then see if we vibe for fun.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f511f3c2-dd79-4960-bb6a-670a59f8f6d9[/URL][/QUOTE]There's literally a million posts on what sending money upfront results in. If you really insist why don't try it out and let us know how fast she ghosts you?

[QUOTE=NastySD;5142800][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f741ecdc-916c-4a23-b61f-c020e97654e0[/URL]

Anyone have any intel? Suppose to see her Monday.[/QUOTE]Would you mind letting me know how that goes? I'm also interested. Thanks!

No shit Dick Tracey, I never said I was going to send her money. Just repeating what she asked for and to see if anyone had a experience with her. Thanks for the useless reply.

[QUOTE=EvilTmp;5145136]There's literally a million posts on what sending money upfront results in. If you really insist why don't try it out and let us know how fast she ghosts you?[/QUOTE]

How many times do people have to say it. Never pay in advance. Just move on to the next one. The only time I've paid for now action was for gas money or dinner / drinks at a meet and great.

[QUOTE=MeloYello;5144968]Has anyone talked to this girl. Wanted 20 $ through Venmo to make sure I was legit. Then she wanted to go my the dispensary for edibles and then see if we vibe for fun.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f511f3c2-dd79-4960-bb6a-670a59f8f6d9[/URL][/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Patriarchist;5140525]I've re-evaluated the semi-pro Babylove858. She texted me offering a session for 100 which I accepted. This time no cig smell and actually, although she's had three kids, there is no severe "baby damage" or stretch marks. They are really only on one of her breasts which she covered up this time. Almost makes me think she might read have read what I said LOL. Yea she's not as slim as her pics but I'd be more inclined to repeat at that price point.[/QUOTE]I talked to her and she quoted me $300 and one pop. I was like, rent a place to only get one pop wasn't what I was looking for. She sounded fun and cool to be with but the one pop is a deal breaker for $300.

Wants gifts before meeting LOL to make sure you're not a scammer.

[QUOTE=Tribeca67;5145834]Wants gifts before meeting LOL to make sure you're not a scammer.[/QUOTE]I could fill up a forum with these -- seems like 50% of the girls ask for money up front. Block and move on.

[QUOTE=Bran001;5144424]My guess -- messages quickly turn to requests for funds online before meeting. I also think that there's a good chance the woman in the pics does not exist.[/QUOTE]Bingo. The cashapp scammers (fake or real otherwise) have multiple profiles because they know guys will report them.

[QUOTE=LoveOralNs;5145141]Would you mind letting me know how that goes? I'm also interested. Thanks![/QUOTE]I'm pretty sure she has been discussed somewhere on this site. And the reviews were not that great.

I saw her about five years ago in her apartment in the Beverly area. My memory is that she was nice and sexy, but was charging high fees for minimum service. I think she was occasionally advertising back then, mainly for massages, off craigslist or backpage.

She has been mid thirtys for approximately 10 years. LOL.

[QUOTE=NastySD;5142800][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f741ecdc-916c-4a23-b61f-c020e97654e0[/URL]

Anyone have any intel? Suppose to see her Monday.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=LoveOralNs;5145141]Would you mind letting me know how that goes? I'm also interested. Thanks![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=NastySD;5142800][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f741ecdc-916c-4a23-b61f-c020e97654e0[/URL]

Anyone have any intel? Suppose to see her Monday.[/QUOTE]So any feedback?

[QUOTE=Hobbyist420;5146761]Bingo. The cashapp scammers (fake or real otherwise) have multiple profiles because they know guys will report them.[/QUOTE]Today, sa no longer removes female profiles for this. "Online only" is now acceptable to sa. They can spin it as promoting 'covid-safe intimacy' but in any event if you report someone for it all it does is block them for you.

Said she is located in Lawrence. I am setting up a M&G with her. Anyone has info?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f65b8164-5cc1-49bb-ba65-a3ff6c492095[/URL]

Lucky for me she is not really in Boston. I am embarrassed by what I may have given her for a couple hours LOL.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8ea4cafa-f377-44e1-ae6e-6c51ce57232e[/URL]

And yes I am aware she is probably some Insta hottie haha.

Saw this one a while back. Probably around 24-26 yo. Scheduling sucked so it took a while to get together with her. Plus, her incall isn't reliable. I just got lucky one day. Smokes A LOT of weed. Could take a pounding. Photos are pretty accurate. She looked like she lost tons of weight. Not a looker by any means as face is kind of busted. Pretty laid back (again, smokes tons of weed) Gives a mean BBBJ. DT and LOVES to choke. When I say choke, you're practically tickling her uvula as she's inducing vomit. Was kind of a turn on as her saliva drips down your boys to the crevice. Don't think she likes CIM. Greek is available although I did not partake. BBFS probably on the table. Was there for over an hour. Could have stayed longer but I needed to go get takeout before places starts closing.

-Cricks.

I haven't met her yet just texted. She's located in Manchester and eager asf to meet. She really needs the cash. Anyway, she says she'll do anything for 1. 5. Prefers to keep things under an hour and BBFSCIP, BBFSCIA, BBBJCIM are all on the table. She can't really host so you'll need a room or a place to host.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d025550c-fd55-41e7-a0ea-bddbe658774d[/URL]

Was going to meet this one and she ended up rubbing me the wrong way. She came off as a real gold digger who just wanted money. We all get why they are on SA or any other site, but she was just off putting on how she handled business. And she is also on Tryst.

[URL]https://tryst.link/escort/elizabethstj[/URL]

Apologies if this has been asked and answered before. My SA membership is soon to expire and I'm not sure I'm renewing it. I'm thinking of trying WYP.

What are the differences? Are their PPM women on WYP too? WYP doesn't seem to be based on a membership fee from what I was reading.

Thanks in advance.

She said she was on one of them. I met her on the street and got her number and she obviously sent me this picture but her phones disconnected now. And I've tried her from a couple different #'s so I know she didn't block me or something like that.

[QUOTE=NastySD;5142800][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f741ecdc-916c-4a23-b61f-c020e97654e0[/URL]

Anyone have any intel? Suppose to see her Monday.[/QUOTE]Tonight I succumbed to her pursuit. I wish I had more self-control and said no. Not even bare; it was covered.

[QUOTE=OkWhatever;5149047]Apologies if this has been asked and answered before. My SA membership is soon to expire and I'm not sure I'm renewing it. I'm thinking of trying WYP.

What are the differences? Are their PPM women on WYP too? WYP doesn't seem to be based on a membership fee from what I was reading.

Thanks in advance.[/QUOTE]Yes, there are PPM women on there. I tried it once and thought it was a rip off. From what I remember, you initially buy tokens. Once you both agree to a dollar amount (the money you have to pay for the first meeting) that opens up the communication channels. The higher the number, the more tokens you use. Usually 100 to 200 bucks is the norm I believe. Of course it is just a verbal agreement but that is what the woman is expecting at the initial meet and greet. You can go through tokens very quickly so you have to be careful because it can get pretty expensive very quickly. So the first problem is you agree to pay money for the initial meet and greet which is usually over a cup of coffee or dinner / drinks which is ridiculous. I get the vibe most women on there just want to get paid to go out to dinner with no intentions on moving forward. Great deal if you are a woman though. I also think there are just some fake profiles in there designed to suck up your tokens. SA is expensive but you can reach out to as many women you want without the fear of wasting tokens. Plus you don't have to agree to pay for an initial meet and greet. I was in contact with a few women but got the vibe they just wanted to have dinner, empty my wallet and go home alone so never pulled the trigger on anyone. For me, I am not paying an allowance unless I know I am getting laid for sure and they get paid after the deed is done.

[QUOTE=OkWhatever;5149047]Apologies if this has been asked and answered before. My SA membership is soon to expire and I'm not sure I'm renewing it. I'm thinking of trying WYP.

What are the differences? Are their PPM women on WYP too? WYP doesn't seem to be based on a membership fee from what I was reading.

Thanks in advance.[/QUOTE]I landed a real beauty of WYP after the first try but that was it. I don't like the payment plan for messages / dates. SA seemed to have a better selection however many of these girls want to sell content or just online. Your location makes a big difference for the options also. All of the sites suck compared to the good ole days but it's a different world now so I would recommend trying all of them out until you find what works for you. I don't do allowance and only will do PPm some girls are OK others no way.

Any chance you can post her profile link or at least what her username on there is? Thanks.

[QUOTE=Crickets;5148699]Saw this one a while back. Probably around 24-26 yo. Scheduling sucked so it took a while to get together with her. Plus, her incall isn't reliable. I just got lucky one day. Smokes A LOT of weed. Could take a pounding. Photos are pretty accurate. She looked like she lost tons of weight. Not a looker by any means as face is kind of busted. Pretty laid back (again, smokes tons of weed) Gives a mean BBBJ. DT and LOVES to choke. When I say choke, you're practically tickling her uvula as she's inducing vomit. Was kind of a turn on as her saliva drips down your boys to the crevice. Don't think she likes CIM. Greek is available although I did not partake. BBFS probably on the table. Was there for over an hour. Could have stayed longer but I needed to go get takeout before places starts closing.

-Cricks.[/QUOTE]

I have tried WYP and it is nowhere near as effective as SA. The women there seem to think it is a dating site which is what it advertises itself as. I did strike gold with one woman there who never even asked for the initial 100 I promised her. I saw her regularly for a bit until she went back to her significant other in Ohio, but that was the definite exception. All others took the premise of the site seriously! For a married man like me, WYP is basically useless because having to pay for multiple dates in order to get laid is too complicated to organize given all the PPM options available on SA and SB.

[QUOTE=OkWhatever;5149047]Apologies if this has been asked and answered before. My SA membership is soon to expire and I'm not sure I'm renewing it. I'm thinking of trying WYP.

What are the differences? Are their PPM women on WYP too? WYP doesn't seem to be based on a membership fee from what I was reading.

Thanks in advance.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Crickets;5148699]Saw this one a while back. Probably around 24-26 yo. Scheduling sucked so it took a while to get together with her. Plus, her incall isn't reliable. I just got lucky one day. Smokes A LOT of weed. Could take a pounding. Photos are pretty accurate. She looked like she lost tons of weight. Not a looker by any means as face is kind of busted. Pretty laid back (again, smokes tons of weed) Gives a mean BBBJ. DT and LOVES to choke. When I say choke, you're practically tickling her uvula as she's inducing vomit. Was kind of a turn on as her saliva drips down your boys to the crevice. Don't think she likes CIM. Greek is available although I did not partake. BBFS probably on the table. Was there for over an hour. Could have stayed longer but I needed to go get takeout before places starts closing.

-Cricks.[/QUOTE]Her availability might be better if you saw her after Mid November, although she was considering moving to get away from her roommate. BBFS, and I believe CIP was available. She likes it rough. No kissing. Make sure you use a burner, she will contact you when she needs attention,.

Her current profile is.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c94f20cb-0869-4d76-9824-91546731f971[/URL]

She's been on an off the site for years.

I just signed up for Secret Benefits. Looks light weight compared to SA. Do they monitor messages? I feel like I can say whatever on their platform and nobody will care. I'd rather talk game before giving out contact info.

Is my assumption correct?

Thanks.

[QUOTE=OkWhatever;5150294]I just signed up for Secret Benefits. Looks light weight compared to SA. Do they monitor messages? I feel like I can say whatever on their platform and nobody will care. I'd rather talk game before giving out contact info.

Is my assumption correct?

Thanks.[/QUOTE]Not sure on the monitoring but I think the site is just loaded with bots. Guessing like 10 times more than SA. I literally get 30 messages (not views, actual messages) a day and my pics are hidden. I have recognized a couple of women from SA on there but I think it is just a wasteland of bots for the most part. Like WYP, the goal of the company is to get you to burn through your tokens as quickly as possible so you can buy more. You want to view private photos? Going to cost you tokens. Want to read a message? Going to cost you tokens. Want to message someone? Going to cost you tokens. The tricky part is finding someone that is not a bot. I would start by avoiding any profile that is not labeled as verified. The good news is the bot won't report you LOL.

[QUOTE=Spike77;5150822]Not sure on the monitoring but I think the site is just loaded with bots. Guessing like 10 times more than SA. I literally get 30 messages (not views, actual messages) a day and my pics are hidden. I have recognized a couple of women from SA on there but I think it is just a wasteland of bots for the most part. Like WYP, the goal of the company is to get you to burn through your tokens as quickly as possible so you can buy more. You want to view private photos? Going to cost you tokens. Want to read a message? Going to cost you tokens. Want to message someone? Going to cost you tokens. The tricky part is finding someone that is not a bot. I would start by avoiding any profile that is not labeled as verified. The good news is the bot won't report you LOL.[/QUOTE]Ever read the Terms Of Service on SB? Of course not, nobody does. Your Interactions with Other Members, has this paragraph: "From time to time, we may create test accounts to test certain features of the site." They're practically saying, implying, they use bots.

I haven't looked at SA, WYP, or other sites' Terms Of Service to see if they have comparable statements.

I usually don't go shit posting, but have yall seen this?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/40439171-a109-48b9-81b1-ad6dfc78e2e1[/URL]

I feel bad. Like something has to be wrong. Eating disorder maybe? I dunno.