Naughty Deb on the North Shore visit
Since I like older providers decided to try Deb. It was easy to arrange the rendezvous, traded a few emails then phone. Was directed to a run down apartment building in a North Shore town. First impressions, she on the heavy side but sometimes personality trumps all & hers was pleasant and bubbly. The pictures on her site & ads are definitely 10+ years old. Other reports are accurate, has a cat which is a major issue with me, hard to explain to wife coming home with clothes completely covered with kitty hair. Apartment was cluttered and filthy but as always the little head decided. Some chat then time to get more comfortable. Laid on the cat hair covered futon and got an OK BBBJ to start. She executed the one speed (fast) no-hands technique. When I was ready slapped on a raincoat and she got on top. Did cowgirl for 10 minutes or so the asked to do mish. Here's where it went south. Ready to start mish I was hit with a stomach churning odor and Junior withered like a daisy on a cold day. I've spent some time on tuna boats and this odor from her was nauseous how couldn't she notice? Took off raincoat & asked for BBBJ finish, couldn't believe she'd put that in her mouth with that odor on it. Managed to finish, get dressed in my cat hair covered clothes, small talk and exit stage left! Will not repeat. 1/2 hour $.20.
Um damn! I want to give Rexxbreefs and Baconbits their money back.
Well I don't know what to say. I just don't get why I have so many regulars. If you had told me how you felt I'd never take your money. The pics are from the summer of 2010, but I just don't wear make up when I meet guys. I will just start wearing it I suppose. Maybe I need yet again more botox and laser? I just got that done. I don't like anyone coming to my apt. I hate that place. It's so hard to keep clean with the cats and all. I just had it professionally cleaned yet again. I have been hosting in hotels and I do warn guys about the place when they come over. No one will be over again until I move. I'm 15 lbs heavier than my pics and would like to get new one's taken. I started organic today and have been going to the gym. Wish me luck! I will check out the pussy and go to the doctors BTW. I don't know why the pussy stinks, since I shower daily. I'm so tired lately with the full time social work job and so bummed out about it. One of my clients has alzheimers and she's going down hill fast. And I took on recently volunteering at a food shelf. I'm taking some time off though soon. Please contact me about the money and how I can give it back to you two. I never meant anyone harm or a bad experience. Peace! Debbie
Breeze on the South Shore any info on her?
I've been seeing her post for a little while now and she has a smokin body just wondering if anyone has seen her?
[url]http://boston.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/the-lovely-breeze-100-puerto-rican-23/20024051[/url]
Seriously, emailing me, saying they will hit me, coming to my place, slash my tires?
I'm getting some serious emails like this from the posts. Also that they will say I do drugs and spread that on the net, and call the police? Can anyone comment on how I should deal with it? It's scary. I have already offered to refund anyone. If that's not good enough, if I use the money that was paid to me for services and donate it to the foodbank charity I'm volunteering for? I don't know what else to do. What should I do? I certainly don't want anyone coming to my place looking for me to hit me or slash my tires. Seriously? Are you guys serious about these emails?
Anthony let me please give you your money back. K? Meet me at a cafe
No has taken me up on my offer yet.
Thanks KK for the insight and the advice
[QUOTE=Kit Kat; 1446391]Psychos and stalkers were the reason I had to stop offering in calls a few years ago. I even had to move, because they would just show up knocking on my door if I wasn't answering my phone. For me, hotels weren't an option as I only see one client per day, so I just had to switch to out calls only. Maybe you should do the same.
I don't know you, so I won't comment on anything else that's been said. But in my experience, and that of a few other girls I know, offering in calls from your home always turns out to be a bad idea.
Xoxo Kat oxoX[/QUOTE]Thanks Kat for the comments and the insight about the incalls. Hopefully she will take your advice although she certainly hasn't taken any of mine this weekend. Sometimes you do have to put your hands up in the air and scream. I saw Deb both in hobbying and again for a lunch or two a couple of times about a year ago. We both consider each other a little more than 'business associates' and acquaintances. While I won't get into anything about the reviews written since I obviously wasn't there and find no reason to doubt them publically I can say that the times I saw her I found her to be a nice woman and certainly of clean hygene. You can believe me or not I don't really care. Her place on the other hand not so much which is what can happens with cat and working a few jobs. Again that was a year ago and MY experience although I wouldn't have any expectations that it had changed dramatically. Again my reason for not seeing her was more financial and her place is quite a haul for me and not anything else. Like everyone else Deb has her issues which she will probably certainly agree with. One of which is she tends to open her mouth when she should keep quiet. Like at least one other on this board she doesn't care that a lot of guys here want the providers to keep their legs and mouths open and not say a peep especially when they have been 'wronged' (rightly or wrongly). When one takes exception to something I (SO) says they speak up. The same is not expected to happen when it happens to a provider. And when it does happen it is like a race to see who can beat them to a pulp first and best. (think Deanna S for one). That was the gist of the other forum BS which one can certainly argue didn't belong here.
My main reason for responding to this though is to tell you the disgust that I feel right now about some of the 'gents' in this hobby. Now we all know that there are some assholes out there but once again this has resulted in pointing out how many there actually are. And I'm not talking about the cheap pricks or those who don't treat the ladies with the respect they deserve. (and they do believe it or not) Deb forwarded to me some of the BP responses she got over the past week. Besides the disgusting language and lack of respect from some of the responders the more than veiled threats to do her harm, do harm to her property, show up at her place and threats to turn her in to LE (like those writing the replies are virgins to the law) go way beyond human decency. This was also the case of some of the phone calls received. Now we know that most of it is BS but with the idiots in the world one never knows. And sadly many referenced the thread here on USA. While I am pretty confident that it isn't with those I converse with myself here (or my sense of judgement is way off) it is still pretty disappointing. I've been doing this for 35 years and what I read and heard is hard to digest. I have written bad reviews on some but never have 'piled' on or resorted to the kind of garbage I read. As long as it was just a case of a bad day or bad karma (not stealing or rip-offs) things usually worked out (mostly better) with a future visit or phone call. While Deb, Deanna and other providers may occasionally deserve a bad review they are still ladies that don't deserve the kind of crap that went on. Maybe it is time to hang this up rather than be 'acquainted' with some those in this hobby. Times have changed and I'm not sure I want to change with them.