Married & mongering

[QUOTE=JamesD2004;6996773]Guys are looking for simple solutions all over the world based on their own circumstances that don't apply to all. In SVG along I10, all the hostess clubs are full of married guys with a full parking lot of MBZs. They go out when their kids go to bed. It's sort of tradition that communism didn't erase. The California twist is that the wives could have half any time but they choose not to. There's no need to act fast when half of the pot keeps growing.

In my current situation, I don't want to sell out and split. If I'm forced to sell out, I have to find some places to make it last long, until my 70's if I'm lucky. Or make some fireworks with it and suffer the consequence whatever it may be.

If I don't need to sell out, I won't. If the pot keeps growing, I have more to leave for my kids. My dad is the legend of the family. His kids are doing quite well having like a house each when he retired. My kids get less of what I inherited plus growth and interest. I also squandered a lot on hookers. I feel guilty for my kids but my excuse is to keep my mental health. I never need that much sex. I need a boost when I'm down, a cheerleader, better in uniform. I can manage a few times a week perhaps. When I went to Argentina for a week, it was not fun anymore after the 1st two days. But I soldiered on to feel better about my flight ticket.

I started in Soho with my wingman. We saw a woman wrapped up beautifully in like a few bandages. We were shy and went with her up her apartment. She was old and had a bad figure. But it was fun because she didn't take off her bandages like a corset and we did doggie (GFE not common). We did some because I always got to go first! It wasn't gangbang. We paid full price and he waited outside the room for his turn. Most ladies stand outside their apartments and go up when they get a client. Most were local British girls at the time before being taken over by Eastern Europeans and other nationalities. We met some unbelievable girls compared to the price and standard later in the US....[/QUOTE]Thanks for sharing your personal situation. I understand why you do not want to "come out" as polyamorous with your SO. Your kids. You are a beautiful man to love your kids so much. I had two daughters and I did not fully come out until they had graduated from college and were working or in grad school. My ex-wife knew about my playing long before that. She tolerated it but hated it. During those last few years, when she knew but we were still miserable coexisting, I refrained from sex with her. I advise you to do the same.

When you are ready, you should break out. You should tell the world you are multiple partner guy and you cannot, will not and do not want to change.

Polyamous guys of the world unite. All the pussy on earth is your inheritance. You have nothing to lose but your shame.

I think the difference between Mars and Venus is very simple. Some women are sluts. But men are all sluts for that definition. I once talked to my wife a long time ago and she said she has nothing to look forward to. So it's gardening, vacation, or anything that looks good and waste money. Men build wealth and legacy. Either you can't or you have spare time. That's all sex for me. Men love sex even when they physically can't. Viagra is the proof. I can fuck my wife but that's moot because she retired from it. Depending on my disposal cash, I look forward to all-nighters or a cruise on Fig.

Everything become normal since my last bust except that she is supposed to watch over every cent. I'm sad to find out that no gas station chain is supposed to give cash back. Supermarkets are like ATM but I have no excuse to visit. When all hopes dim, I got a refund. That will last me over a year until the next one. If I'm crazy again it may last at least a few months. I remember the time when I discovered Macy Lin when she was 19. I tried to book her again but our schedule didn't match. Sadly, that was the end of my pool of money. When I had the next pool of money, I rediscovered Daisy as Holly. When she retired, I switched to Macy but it wasn't the same again.

A slight problem is that the refund is in her name. So I opened up a check account the same day I received the refund check. But I can't deposit remotely because the amount is too large. Luckily I picked a major bank so I just drove to the nearest branch and deposited it. But still, they have to hold it for a few days. I can draw about $200 in the mean time.

My nearest motel is $200 a night. That wasn't an option so I did it in the trunk. It wasn't that comfortable. It dawned on me that I lived next to a state park. Day use is $5. So I bought a tent that opens like an umbrella, cheap on Temu. I had an air bed originally for the trunk. But silly me I brought a 10 in thick one thinking that it must be more comfortable. But I never used it because it raised my body up to the window level feeling very exposed despite that the windows are all blackened. It inflates very quickly but it needs 12 V.

I may leave the car outside the park and walk in saving me $5 but the real reason is saving me 15 min of travel time. That's important because my wife will text me asking me where I'm if I go out for close to an hour. So I need a good battery inflator. Surprisingly I already had one and it works fine.

Since my delivery wouldn't arrive till 3 pm, the hottest time of the day, I am going to buy a misting fan. It must be good because it uses a power tool battery and sits on a bucket for water.

Waiting for my tent to arrive in 3 business days. I must admit I am into black porn lately. The AI porn videos start to be appetizing but not there yet.

Married and Mongering "never" works out!

[QUOTE=JamesD2004;7048447]I must admit I am into black porn lately. The AI porn videos start to be appetizing but not there yet.[/QUOTE]Black porn? Nah, been banging IRL flesh and blood ebony girls for the last decade. My specialty is 18-21 yo skinny-petite young ebony and mixed girls. You posted a nice AI rendition of my target preference in this group. My cloud has almost 800 GB of Nubian stuff I've saved and collected over the years. Many of these girls are hot asf. Like young Vanessa Williams and Thandie Newton hot.

Once in a while would come across hot And strange. Like this 21 yo gorgeous spinner below in SB, Rialto, Highland, and Colton. Like after a few pumps inside her tight pussy and she's already asking daddy to pull out and violate her tiny little ass instead LOL. Some clips from one of my many anal dates in the IE. Greek freak plus gorgeous. What's not to like?

Leah 21 yo 100 lbs Greek Freak IE.

[URL]https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fo/68n20v5i8ylvitnxld3l0/AOZk2ZrED__9X6sByCiEM1M?rlkey=v62ts2g7h2vac3uqdhwqvng0k&st=8h35mj09&dl=0[/URL]

[QUOTE=AceMcNasty;7050178]Black porn? Nah, been banging IRL flesh and blood ebony girls for the last decade. My specialty is 18-21 yo skinny-petite young ebony and mixed girls. You posted a nice AI rendition of my target preference in this group. My cloud has almost 800 GB of Nubian stuff I've saved and collected over the years. Many of these girls are hot asf. Like young Vanessa Williams and Thandie Newton hot.

Once in a while would come across hot And strange. Like this 21 yo gorgeous spinner below in SB, Rialto, Highland, and Colton. Like after a few pumps inside her tight pussy and she's already asking daddy to pull out and violate her tiny little ass instead LOL. Some clips from one of my many anal dates in the IE. Greek freak plus gorgeous. What's not to like?

Leah 21 yo 100 lbs Greek Freak IE.

[URL]https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fo/68n20v5i8ylvitnxld3l0/AOZk2ZrED__9X6sByCiEM1M?rlkey=v62ts2g7h2vac3uqdhwqvng0k&st=8h35mj09&dl=0[/URL][/QUOTE]Not black / African enough, LOL. I don't know why they are opposite to the HX girls who wouldn't give up their back door so easily. When I pressed my Fig favorite for more GFE, say DFK and BBBJ, she covered Greek instead. She also agreed to shower together, wear my costume, and read my screenplay while filming. Everything must be covered!

[QUOTE=JamesD2004;7051068]Not black / African enough, LOL. I don't know why they are opposite to the HX girls who wouldn't give up their back door so easily. When I pressed my Fig favorite for more GFE, say DFK and BBBJ, she covered Greek instead. She also agreed to shower together, wear my costume, and read my screenplay while filming. Everything must be covered![/QUOTE]Ok LOL so you prefer your ebony sub-Saharan dark. Nothing wrong with that. I have had both light skinned to the point of almost Caucasian and also deep dark skin. One of my ATF is Pink Jewel below. Multiple creampie dates. Also used a pink rose vibrator on her and she squirted and soaked me.

Anorexic skinny with huge natural titties. They are real and they are spectacular. Unfortunately, probably out of your price range because as you said, your monger funds are limited by how much you can hide from your SO without arousing suspicions. No condoms with her ever.

PJ red hair creampie doggie CIP finish (link expires in 48 hrs).

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[QUOTE=AceMcNasty;7052563]Ok LOL so you prefer your ebony sub-Saharan dark. Nothing wrong with that. I have had both light skinned to the point of almost Caucasian and also deep dark skin. One of my ATF is Pink Jewel below. Multiple creampie dates. Also used a pink rose vibrator on her and she squirted and soaked me.

Anorexic skinny with huge natural titties. They are real and they are spectacular. Unfortunately, probably out of your price range because as you said, your monger funds are limited by how much you can hide from your SO without arousing suspicions. No condoms with her ever.

PJ red hair creampie doggie CIP finish (link expires in 48 hrs).

[URL]https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fo/30cml0lympsstvoqn3m59/AI5JSc0-ma3lnmmhaJMVMS4?rlkey=lup3njyd0f9w1r60rtmnjnlir&st=m00kcvvx[/URL][/QUOTE]Ha ha, the last thing I'm looking for in a black girl is anorexic. Asian girls are fine with that but for black girls, I'm after extra long legs and a firm round bottom that Asian girls are lacking on average. Also, I have a little test closing my eyes imagining her in Titanic, DFK, and anal sex at the same time.

I know this forum is for you married mongers. What about those who ain't no more? I belong in that group and it seems silly and redundant to start a new sub-topic so I will just spam this one. Who was your first 304 after the ink was dry and you were freed from traditional servitude and bondage?

I never mongered when I was married but after it ended I went ballistic like a diabetic fat kid in a candy store. Joined every app I could find online and just went vagina crazy. No, I did not go the AMP or asian-org route. I set out with a specific goal in mind. To bang as many white girls I could not bang in HS and college. Hence my particular proclivity for 18-20 yo skinny girls.

Take Doug below. His former house master just recently emancipated him. So what did Doug do? He went to Lost Wages (of course) and snatched the hottest casino girl walking around tricking tourist traps from the Midwest. Takes spinner to his suite and only the baby Jesus knows what he did to that girl. Not going to show the front but believe me she is smoking hot. Divorced Dad Doug. Another day, another Doug. See you later new Doug.

While married and mongering I have to be much more budget-friendly and local and discreet. But if marriage wasn't the issue I would definitely do Tijuana and then I would definitely do one or two Asia trips, maybe Japan, maybe Bangkok. And likely Vietnam as well.

[QUOTE=AceMcNasty;7055075]I know this forum is for you married mongers. What about those who ain't no more? I belong in that group and it seems silly and redundant to start a new sub-topic so I will just spam this one. Who was your first 304 after the ink was dry and you were freed from traditional servitude and bondage?

I never mongered when I was married but after it ended I went ballistic like a diabetic fat kid in a candy store. Joined every app I could find online and just went vagina crazy. No, I did not go the AMP or asian-org route. I set out with a specific goal in mind. To bang as many white girls I could not bang in HS and college. Hence my particular proclivity for 18-20 yo skinny girls.

Take Doug below. His former house master just recently emancipated him. So what did Doug do? He went to Lost Wages (of course) and snatched the hottest casino girl walking around tricking tourist traps from the Midwest. Takes spinner to his suite and only the baby Jesus knows what he did to that girl. Not going to show the front but believe me she is smoking hot. Divorced Dad Doug. Another day, another Doug. See you later new Doug.[/QUOTE]

I didn't wait for the ink to dry or even to wait until one of us moved out. I joined a dating app and within one month was banging a hot Brazilian MILF. I even fucked her in my pool and spa when my wife was gone. Fuck her. The ***** is still fighting me for more alimony.

After another girl I met off the app broke my heart, I said fuck it and just went balls to the wall with civvies and professionals. I'm at 30 bangs now and have had a fucking blast. I still prefer civvy sex, mostly with foreign girls, but in the interim I'll fuck at an AMP or through P411 whenever I feel like it. I've given myself permission to just have fun and not get bogged down in a relationship. And the funny part is, when I'm upfront about that with some civvy girls, they appreciate it and still want to bang me.

But for the life of me I can't manage a threesome in real life. That will have to be reserved for the stellar AMPs in Santa Ana.

[QUOTE=AceMcNasty;7055075]I know this forum is for you married mongers. What about those who ain't no more? I belong in that group and it seems silly and redundant to start a new sub-topic so I will just spam this one. Who was your first 304 after the ink was dry and you were freed from traditional servitude and bondage?

I never mongered when I was married but after it ended I went ballistic like a diabetic fat kid in a candy store. Joined every app I could find online and just went vagina crazy. No, I did not go the AMP or asian-org route. I set out with a specific goal in mind. To bang as many white girls I could not bang in HS and college. Hence my particular proclivity for 18-20 yo skinny girls.

Take Doug below. His former house master just recently emancipated him. So what did Doug do? He went to Lost Wages (of course) and snatched the hottest casino girl walking around tricking tourist traps from the Midwest. Takes spinner to his suite and only the baby Jesus knows what he did to that girl. Not going to show the front but believe me she is smoking hot. Divorced Dad Doug. Another day, another Doug. See you later new Doug.[/QUOTE]

I had 30 min to kill without a car. There wasn't a coffee shop around but a MP that was open. I went in asking if they accept Cash App. She didn't speak a word of English, only pointing to the poster with the word cash on it. I was leaving but she pulled my arm to stay and went inside. I thought she was going to bring out a beautiful girl or someone who speaks English. It was her phone and she asked me to speak to it. Then some Chinese characters came out. But I didn't think the translator would be right. I opened Cash App hoping she recognized it. She nodded that she did but I didn't think so. So I made an excuse to walk out. She was a healthy short woman, not too old but in the sense that it looked like she had been working in the fields all day long.

I seem to have lost interest in porn. Do I need meds to get an erection? No, the meds seem to have no effect.

I had a long drive returning alone so I had the chance to call my favorite outcall provider. I made a reservation with Motel 6 for $60. Fucking inflation. It was only $6 in 1962! It wasn't too bad. If you don't know one and walk in, it could be more even on Fig. After confirming with her on two days and paying the non-refundable rent, my kid wanted to skip class and ruin everything. I hinted at her to change her mind, almost making Mom suspicious.

It was the last room available. There was no bedding on the bed, just sheets, or I think it was. No towels. The curtain support fell down. I hanged it back up. It looked clean though.

Katie asked for 40 min later than my suggested time. I adapted with difficulty. Before that I told her I couldn't wait a minute because that will cut into my available time, 20 to 30 min at best. Shortly before the event she texted that her ETA would be 10 min late. That was a huge improvement but really I couldn't wait. But I agreed to wait. That was a mistake because the ETA didn't mean that she would arrive at the time. When I was ready to go she arrived 3 minutes late. She managed to find the back of the large motel where I could see her car.

It turns out that the meds work, just that I needed the other ingredient. Visual stimulation. She did the job well. Other than that she is like Asian with longer legs, bigger breasts / butts, I actually dick her face. She grew on me since I picked her up on Fig. And I have influence on her makeover when she meets me. She knows what I hate and this time she wears a tiny crop top and a long tight dress, unthinkable in Fig. But she said she was on her wait to Fig after that.

I would think there are plenty of black model materials on Fig, but many would have disappeared, wouldn't last as long as her, checks on me regularly, returns my calls, and will travel. Now she stays in LV for cheap and return occasionally to Fig for the weekends. Even if I have the chance, it's not easy to find someone to work with. Now I may have 3 HX enclave girls that I could call on since they are semi-active or dormant. But it would cost me.

I don't always enter her ass because it was usually tight. This time I brought a 3 pack metal butt plug. It was so good flat ironing her. I remember my first ATF, a beautiful Viet / Chinese American.

We met once a month and that seemed enough for me. I would forget my wallets and glasses in the motel rooms, or lost my mind.

In the end, she asked for the butt plug. I said why she didn't take the unopened ones? She told me that they are not the same. They are of different sizes and she took the smallest ones. Did I miss something?

[URL]https://imgur.com/a/6OLREXW[/URL]

[QUOTE=JamesD2004;7082599] I would think there are plenty of black model materials on Fig, but many would have disappeared, wouldn't last as long as her, checks on me regularly, returns my calls, and will travel. Now she stays in LV for cheap and return occasionally to Fig for the weekends. Even if I have the chance, it's not easy to find someone to work with. Now I may have 3 HX enclave girls that I could call on since they are semi-active or dormant. But it would cost me.

I don't always enter her ass because it was usually tight. This time I brought a 3 pack metal butt plug. It was so good flat ironing her. I remember my first ATF, a beautiful Viet / Chinese American.

We met once a month and that seemed enough for me. I would forget my wallets and glasses in the motel rooms, or lost my mind.

[URL]https://imgur.com/a/6OLREXW[/URL][/QUOTE]Nice. Hot tiny little ebony your Katie. Greek friendly too!

Yeah Fig is crawling with young black girls with perfect bodies, like these 2 hoes below. Enough to cause a gridlock LOL. But of course service will be a roll of the dice. You never know, because some of my surprise PSE dates were with AA girls. But since you're married, I doubt if you rawdog these girls.

The chick with thicker thighs is hot but the one in red lingerie is like damn!

Hey,

I wanted to ask for those of you that have been able to indulge in everything that you've wanted, BBFS, threesomes, Greek, frequency, etc, does your sex drive actually get satiated? For me, I can't see providers multiple times a week because of financial / relational reasons but I want to. I wonder if I could, would I go on a binge and then be satisfied and cut back to like once a week or something less frequent? Or would I always want to see providers even more? Other forms of pleasure I've tried like travel or food or games or sports can get boring if I indulge too much but I wonder if it's the same for sex.

Thanks!

[QUOTE=HandsOfMidas;7103475]Hey,

I wanted to ask for those of you that have been able to indulge in everything that you've wanted, BBFS, threesomes, Greek, frequency, etc, does your sex drive actually get satiated? For me, I can't see providers multiple times a week because of financial / relational reasons but I want to. I wonder if I could, would I go on a binge and then be satisfied and cut back to like once a week or something less frequent? Or would I always want to see providers even more? Other forms of pleasure I've tried like travel or food or games or sports can get boring if I indulge too much but I wonder if it's the same for sex.

Thanks![/QUOTE]I would think this is a personal thing. Do you have an addictive personality? Some guys can be satisfied by one encounter a week, others will see multiple girls each week, sometimes multiple on a day. From your last statement, sounds like if you go on a binge, you might scratch your itch and be satisfied for a while. For me, as soon as I'm done, I'm contemplating my next conquest. But I'm able to moderate my desire and let the big head reason with the little head. Some weeks, I'll go out 3-4 times. Other weeks, I'm good with only one encounter. It all depends on what else is happening in my life. As long as you can afford it, I don't see anything wrong with what you're doing.

[QUOTE=SCJohn;7103566]I would think this is a personal thing. Do you have an addictive personality? Some guys can be satisfied by one encounter a week, others will see multiple girls each week, sometimes multiple on a day. From your last statement, sounds like if you go on a binge, you might scratch your itch and be satisfied for a while. For me, as soon as I'm done, I'm contemplating my next conquest. But I'm able to moderate my desire and let the big head reason with the little head. Some weeks, I'll go out 3-4 times. Other weeks, I'm good with only one encounter. It all depends on what else is happening in my life. As long as you can afford it, I don't see anything wrong with what you're doing.[/QUOTE]If a magic wand made my SO disappear, and I had complete freedom to blow my ample cash, I would be seeing hot girls at least every other day. I would be tempted by all the sugar babies that want to be kept women. At least for try-outs. I could see that getting old after a few months, and missing having a real partner, which I have in my SO. Just not someone I want to spend a bunch of time in 'flagrante delicto' with, to release myself. I want that young skin, elastic vag, perky boobs, and responsive / orgasmic libido of a young SB.