What in the fuck are you talking about?

[QUOTE=QueenCityGuy;5124852]The one time I shared a referral with one of those one or two post guys he visited her then quoted my post saying how bad she was and he recommended everyone not to visit! If the WTFAYTA thread had been up then I would have called him out!

If I message guys that I have not conversed with (which I do when I travel) I always intro myself as a Sr member and they are welcome to check out my posts. If asking for a referral I'll also be honest about being older but someone they will not be embarrassed to refer. And hey, if they don't respond I respect that, their sweat equity.

The ones that get me are the ones that do post like they're Mr Expert, talk a big game, then hit me up and act all arrogant saying they have some things to share but I have to share 1st to see if my quality matches theirs. Yeah right.

Some of those that I have shared intel with come back with theirs that are STG gals that everyone knows about. So I don't do that anymore.[/QUOTE]I'm usually reluctant to reply unless I know the person. A year or so back, a monger asked me about a pretty detailed post. I thought it provided all details. Anyway this guy wanted to know girls name at an AMP, the layout of the parlor and time I visited. I was suspicious and just restated the post. Next day I learned a Dept of health inspection was conducted and the inspector was asking if any condoms were kept on the location. The girl I knew was asked about the "guy" who visited last week and wanted to see security video of that day. They were smart enough to advise that video wasn't a health dept matter then started storing video history for 2 days only. So, if I haven't developed a rapport with you, don't pm me.

[QUOTE=HoeRyda;5125108]I'm usually reluctant to reply unless I know the person. A year or so back, a monger asked me about a pretty detailed post. I thought it provided all details. Anyway this guy wanted to know girls name at an AMP, the layout of the parlor and time I visited. I was suspicious and just restated the post. Next day I learned a Dept of health inspection was conducted and the inspector was asking if any condoms were kept on the location. The girl I knew was asked about the "guy" who visited last week and wanted to see security video of that day. They were smart enough to advise that video wasn't a health dept matter then started storing video history for 2 days only. So, if I haven't developed a rapport with you, don't pm me.[/QUOTE]You know what, we all have our ways of hobbying but what you just said, cameras, is the major reason I don't frequent those establishments or motels when I can avoid it. Understand their need for security but I have a need for anonymity since I have a frigid SO and decent portfolio so I prefer to stay "down low". No paypal, cashapp, or anything, if I can't get someone off a site and onto my private email or burner # I drop 'them like a hot potato. Some of you don't have those concerns and I get that. The wonderful thing is I'm at an age I can still perform but think through the right head. (most of the time LOL). And your story is the main reason I don't refer a newbie for sure because you don't know who they are or why they're asking. Have my trusted friends and their friends and my regulars and that's good enough for me. But hey, I'm always open to suggestions! LOL.

It's always good for us to stay UTR also. As much as possible. Here are some more suggestions on how to remain untraceable. Use a burner phone. Pay for it with cash. Buy minute refill cards with cash. Keep the phone turned off and hidden. Clear it of all recent calls and texts. Even hide the battery separately. Change the phone number on it occasionally. When you drive to a location, change places at the last minute. If you're picking her up at a hotel, park next door and tell her to walk over. If you're spending time at a hotel park your car anywhere else and walk over. Cameras are hard to avoid but wear hat, sunglasses, and dress very plain. No loud colors or shirts with wording on them. If you stand out somebody might recognize you.

Also avoid stings by reading and following the 22 rules of street mongering on this site.

Keep up the good work and stay under the radar. Be glad your body and equipment are still working. Mine is starting to fail me.

GB40.

[QUOTE=QueenCityGuy;5141068]You know what, we all have our ways of hobbying but what you just said, cameras, is the major reason I don't frequent those establishments or motels when I can avoid it. Understand their need for security but I have a need for anonymity since I have a frigid SO and decent portfolio so I prefer to stay "down low". No paypal, cashapp, or anything, if I can't get someone off a site and onto my private email or burner # I drop 'them like a hot potato. Some of you don't have those concerns and I get that. The wonderful thing is I'm at an age I can still perform but think through the right head. (most of the time LOL). And your story is the main reason I don't refer a newbie for sure because you don't know who they are or why they're asking. Have my trusted friends and their friends and my regulars and that's good enough for me. But hey, I'm always open to suggestions! LOL.[/QUOTE]I agree completely.

Listening to what everyone is saying is so true. I let my guard down a couple years ago and was going to meet up with someone then all the sudden they had all my personal information and threatened to tell my family if I didn't pay. Luckily it was not a lot of money but the fact they got some. Got to be careful out there.

[QUOTE=Royal742;5149987]Listening to what everyone is saying is so true. I let my guard down a couple years ago and was going to meet up with someone then all the sudden they had all my personal information and threatened to tell my family if I didn't pay. Luckily it was not a lot of money but the fact they got some. Got to be careful out there.[/QUOTE]Please don't tell me you fell for that Mexican Cartel scam.

Firstly, I want to thank this board for all the information over the years, and this has been one of the active boards ever. I learnt a lot from this board.

I was scrolling through the board and found the topic that surfaces time and again, falling in love with the girl you meet. It's been a while I was thinking to share my experience and thoughts over this topic, and now found some time to write it up.

Reading few positive reviews of Jess, she reminded me of Riley from Atlanta, who was active few years back (now retired I guess). I was going through lot of personal life turmoil and got to see her a few times. Riley had this combo, beauty with brains. I believe it is natural for anyone to occasionally fall in love with the girl, because s*x is an act of love. And, for people like me, who have gone through lot of personal life turmoil, it is even more natural to get attracted to someone who treats you right and communicates well. Riley used to talk about a lot of things, she was intelligent and empathized with me, and I got carried away a few times to treat her as my leaning shoulder or a friend to talk to.

Here is where I learnt my most important lesson, I texted her few times when she is out of town, and never got a reply. I only got a reply once she is in town, and it was purely business. Again, when meeting her, she used to talk with same old empathy. This made me realize that no matter how well your encounter goes, you can never be her friend, you are nothing but business, these girls are really clever. And all that empathy talk was to avoid MSOG. LOL.

I personally believe that we all meet here, because deep inside, we are MISSING something. For few, it could be love, for others it could be good s*x or whatever. For these girls, please understand that they are MISSING financial well-being, and nothing else. These girls just want to make some money, and you have that money to pour in.

So, long story short, if a girl treats you right in this business, it is mostly because one, you treated her right, and two, you have the money. You are that sugar daddy who she can count on and will default you as her regular, so that when she has no one else to see, you are the go-to person, and she can make some money.

I am still going through some personal life turmoil, and still want to see few girls who really connected well, and miss them, but at the end, it is what it is.

So, my friends, I posted this not to open any argument. If you find some value from my post, take it, otherwise, kindly ignore it.

I have few other experiences to share in MP and SW section, but they are long write ups too. LOL. But till then cya.

CTL.

[QUOTE=ChicagoTrueLov;5167550]Firstly, I want to thank this board for all the information over the years, and this has been one of the active boards ever. I learnt a lot from this board.
I was scrolling through the board and found the topic that surfaces time and again, falling in love with the girl you meet. It's been a while I was thinking to share my experience and thoughts over this topic, and now found some time to write it up.
Reading few positive reviews of Jess, she reminded me of Riley from Atlanta, who was active few years back (now retired I guess). I was going through lot of personal life turmoil and got to see her a few times. Riley had this combo, beauty with brains. I believe it is natural for anyone to occasionally fall in love with the girl, because s*x is an act of love. And, for people like me, who have gone through lot of personal life turmoil, it is even more natural to get attracted to someone who treats you right and communicates well. Riley used to talk about a lot of things, she was intelligent and empathized with me, and I got carried away a few times to treat her as my leaning shoulder or a friend to talk to.

Here is where I learnt my most important lesson, I texted her few times when she is out of town, and never got a reply. I only got a reply once she is in town, and it was purely business. Again, when meeting her, she used to talk with same old empathy. This made me realize that no matter how well your encounter goes, you can never be her friend, you are nothing but business, these girls are really clever. And all that empathy talk was to avoid MSOG. LOL.[/QUOTE]Very well spot on. Including the Riley experience.

[QUOTE=ChicagoTrueLov;5167550]Firstly, I want to thank this board for all the information over the years, and this has been one of the active boards ever. I learnt a lot from this board.

I was scrolling through the board and found the topic that surfaces time and again, falling in love with the girl you meet. It's been a while I was thinking to share my experience and thoughts over this topic, and now found some time to write it up.

Reading few positive reviews of Jess, she reminded me of Riley from Atlanta, who was active few years back (now retired I guess). I was going through lot of personal life turmoil and got to see her a few times. Riley had this combo, beauty with brains. I believe it is natural for anyone to occasionally fall in love with the girl, because s*x is an act of love. And, for people like me, who have gone through lot of personal life turmoil, it is even more natural to get attracted to someone who treats you right and communicates well. Riley used to talk about a lot of things, she was intelligent and empathized with me, and I got carried away a few times to treat her as my leaning shoulder or a friend to talk to.

Here is where I learnt my most important lesson, I texted her few times when she is out of town, and never got a reply. I only got a reply once she is in town, and it was purely business. Again, when meeting her, she used to talk with same old empathy. This made me realize that no matter how well your encounter goes, you can never be her friend, you are nothing but business, these girls are really clever. And all that empathy talk was to avoid MSOG. LOL.

I personally believe that we all meet here, because deep inside, we are MISSING something. For few, it could be love, for others it could be good s*x or whatever. For these girls, please understand that they are MISSING financial well-being, and nothing else. These girls just want to make some money, and you have that money to pour in.

So, long story short, if a girl treats you right in this business, it is mostly because one, you treated her right, and two, you have the money. You are that sugar daddy who she can count on and will default you as her regular, so that when she has no one else to see, you are the go-to person, and she can make some money.

I am still going through some personal life turmoil, and still want to see few girls who really connected well, and miss them, but at the end, it is what it is.

So, my friends, I posted this not to open any argument. If you find some value from my post, take it, otherwise, kindly ignore it.

I have few other experiences to share in MP and SW section, but they are long write ups too. LOL. But till then cya.

CTL.[/QUOTE]I can understand what some of why'all are saying. However once money changes hands or is left on a nightstand or dresser then that love is out the window. Ask for a freebie and see if that love can get you some.

[QUOTE=ChicagoTrueLov;5167550]Firstly, I want to thank this board for all the information over the years, and this has been one of the active boards ever. I learnt a lot from this board.
I was scrolling through the board and found the topic that surfaces time and again, falling in love with the girl you meet. It's been a while I was thinking to share my experience and thoughts over this topic, and now found some time to write it up.

Reading few positive reviews of Jess, she reminded me of Riley from Atlanta, who was active few years back (now retired I guess). I was going through lot of personal life turmoil and got to see her a few times. Riley had this combo, beauty with brains. I believe it is natural for anyone to occasionally fall in love with the girl, because s*x is an act of love. And, for people like me, who have gone through lot of personal life turmoil, it is even more natural to get attracted to someone who treats you right and communicates well. Riley used to talk about a lot of things, she was intelligent and empathized with me, and I got carried away a few times to treat her as my leaning shoulder or a friend to talk to.

Here is where I learnt my most important lesson, I texted her few times when she is out of town, and never got a reply. I only got a reply once she is in town, and it was purely business. Again, when meeting her, she used to talk with same old empathy. This made me realize that no matter how well your encounter goes, you can never be her friend, you are nothing but business, these girls are really clever. And all that empathy talk was to avoid MSOG. LOL.

I personally believe that we all meet here, because deep inside, we are MISSING something. For few, it could be love, for others it could be good s*x or whatever. For these girls, please understand that they are MISSING financial well-being, and nothing else. These girls just want to make some money, and you have that money to pour in.[/QUOTE]I am going to piggy back on your post. I've been trolled for raving about a former favorite of my. To be honest, I raved about her too many times. I won't post her name but most of the members on this board already know who I am talking about. I first saw this favorite July 2018. On the first visit, I was so shocked that her pics were 100% legit. From July 2018 to November 2020, I would see this lady on an average 2-3 times a month. Obviously, I'm no longer seeing her. I liked her for her beauty and personality. She was actually very normal and down to earth. We actually had good conversations about life. She must have thought something of me because she did this special favor for me on every single visit that I had with her including the very first visit. She's probably done this favor for a few of her clients but not every time like she did for me. I will never share what she did because a lot of you would not believe it. All I will say is there was no bare or anal sex. Nor was there CIM BJ. To be honest, if any of you ever met me, the first thing you would notice is there's nothing special about me. I'm only average looking and not rich whatsoever. When we were tight, I was one of the regulars who always got a response back on my texts. She would even answer most of my calls.

There's an old saying all good things eventually end. Even though my visits have ended, the memories never will.

I actually fell in love (Infatuation is a better word for it) with Lexi in Salisbury. I live just minutes from her incall location. I was actually with her tonight and told her about it. It passed and I am recovered from the ordeal and see her as a friend / neighbor. I am quite fond of her still and will always have a piece of her in my heart but the infatuation passed before I became Neurotic which is a risk when a customer falls for a hooker.

I never fell for a hooker like this before, and it was happening as people were discussing the topic involving a monger in here and a girl he fell for. I bit my tongue because what was said of that fellow was word for word what could be said of me. With Lexi there was a mild reciprocation she is actually fond of me but she isn't in love with me. She totally could have taken advantage of the infatuation and gotten me to do anything for her but she didn't. She treated me with respect the whole time and let me work it out so I could be normal again. Think with the little head not with the heart.

I actually discussed it with her tonight, the cause of it, how these things happen. And how it ended.

The cause was actually another woman I am best friends (she asserted it a surrogate brother / sister relationship) with but can never become a romance. Long story short she looked just like Lexi 20 years ago and they have a similar personality. I was displacing my love for this woman into Lexi. Once this was discovered the infatuation ended.

Dang, we need to make a blog out of this.

In fact I haven't but got pretty close to one that did fell in love with me and since I started this hobby in early 2000 I had 2 others that really liked me. Those that liked me will have sessions with me for as low as $40 when they use to charge more than double that. The one that fell in love with me retired and continue to see me for over a year. I would pick her up at home or her work, we used to have lunch together. Just before she retired we were hanging out in front of her house and she goes "will you lick my pussy? I'm like yeah but I don't have any money on me, she said you don't have to pay for it any longer. She retired no longer after that and we fucked like rabbits, bare, but she was not in birth control so I had to pull out. We did that for a bit over a year but as that year came to an end she was pretty much demanding a real relationship which I could not offer. I realized I should not be that selfish and keep her for having a real life and she help me by changing her phone number and not letting me know. I of course knew where she lived and worked but respected her decision. Who knows, maybe she was hopping I showed up like John Cusack, boom box over my head. But I didn't. Really messed up thing is, every time I smell Walmart personal wet towels I think of her. Dang.

[QUOTE=TwoShots;5169404]Dang, we need to make a blog out of this.

In fact I haven't but got pretty close to one that did fell in love with me and since I started this hobby in early 2000 I had 2 others that really liked me. Those that liked me will have sessions with me for as low as $40 when they use to charge more than double that. The one that fell in love with me retired and continue to see me for over a year. I would pick her up at home or her work, we used to have lunch together. Just before she retired we were hanging out in front of her house and she goes "will you lick my pussy? I'm like yeah but I don't have any money on me, she said you don't have to pay for it any longer. She retired no longer after that and we fucked like rabbits, bare, but she was not in birth control so I had to pull out. We did that for a bit over a year but as that year came to an end she was pretty much demanding a real relationship which I could not offer. I realized I should not be that selfish and keep her for having a real life and she help me by changing her phone number and not letting me know. I of course knew where she lived and worked but respected her decision. Who knows, maybe she was hopping I showed up like John Cusack, boom box over my head. But I didn't. Really messed up thing is, every time I smell Walmart personal wet towels I think of her. Dang.[/QUOTE]My regular at a local AMP "retired" but I continued to see her on the side and still do. We've had lunch together once, but most of the time we just email back and forth and I'll swing by her place and we have a really good time. I'll toss her $$ every other month to help with bills, but that certainly doesn't cover 4-5 times of seeing her in that time span. I've had a V and believe she's on BC, so double coverage there, but ya, we go bare and it's incredible.

[QUOTE=CuriousGeor;5213183]I've seen her twice, just have not left a review here because there's nothing new to say. Truth is she's attractive, reasonably priced for her looks, and enthusiastic. Given that she's certainly not in a situation where she's desperate for new clients so she's selective in who she sees. Much like I'm selective in who I'll see. Lots of people get mad and talk a lot of shit because it hurts to be rejected by a working girl, many of why'all think money is the ultimate equalizer and it's clearly not here, so it's probably a pretty big hit to someone's pride when they have to realize even a few hundred $ isn't worth it for some girls to get with them. I get that this probably sucks, but I don't think it's necessary to then lash out and talk shit about that person's business practices. We've all got different tastes and standards. It's inherently going to cause some awkward tension when people are discussing the type of chick who does a QV for like $100 and juxtaposing her standards against someone who only does full hours and charges several hundred. They're just two different types of providers, and they're looking for different types of mongers.[/QUOTE]If you think the average girl on STG is running a business there's no helping you. It's begging for drug money with an extra step. Calling anything in my post lashing out because of "rejection" is essentially like calling someone "privledged" or "entitled" for going to a restaurant and expecting to get the food they ordered.

But hey, not every guy chooses to take the red pill and that's ok too.

I'm with Belmont28 on this one. We aren't dealing with legit small business owners here.

Providers can decide who they want to see of course. Not responding to an inquiry or not scheduling someone is ok but setting appointments and ghosting is a flagrant foul IMO.

Some folks have a different tolerance for that kind of treatment I guess, which is fine with me but I don't understand the emotional white knight stuff from some of the posters.

[QUOTE=Belmont28;5213717]If you think the average girl on STG is running a business there's no helping you. It's begging for drug money with an extra step. Calling anything in my post lashing out because of "rejection" is essentially like calling someone "privledged" or "entitled" for going to a restaurant and expecting to get the food they ordered.

But hey, not every guy chooses to take the red pill and that's ok too.[/QUOTE]