[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/da665...9-c87ffd6bef2f[/URL]
She reached out to me about a week ago, and her profile made me curious so we started corresponding (I live in metro-RVA, so I don't usually look further north than Ashland). She gave me her phone number pretty quickly, which let to some hot and heavy sexting. We had a very good connection (I thought). Yesterday I invited her down to RVA (business is slow. Go figure), and when she asked what she could expect I gave her my usual offer (plus $ for the travel). She said she's been offered 6 $ to 1 k just for dinner, but she likes me so she'll "think about it. ".
Between what she shared with me and what I learned with some FB and Spokeo digging, here's some background: She's 44, not 34 as she claims on the site; she's a nail tech and business has fallen off dramatically since last week; she claims to have been out on several dates through SA but not gone further than fooling around (ie, kissing and BJ).
Back to the story: this morning I get a text from her saying "honestly what you offered is not worth my effort (not that I want to make this sound so transactional) but I make more (at my real job) in less amount of time I have to put in to come down and see you. " I pointed out that 1) no one is going to be taking her to dinner if all the restaurants are closing and 2) she's not making any money at her real job if all her clients are cancelling. She points out (again) that she doesn't want to sound transactional but she thinks a visit with her is worth more than that.
I wrote back that now I understand: she's a high dollar * I offer that I'll be around when she changes her mind because she has no income in a month, but good luck until then.
That was 3 hours ago. Needless to say, she hasn't texted back.
In summary: 1) 44 years old.
2) Employment prospects looking shaky.
3) Thinks $$$ isn't worth her effort.
