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[QUOTE=ChillPill;2704937]After one month on SA and getting hosed repeatedly I'm done w / it. I expected a classier and more normal lady and instead I ran into 3 SB's that were total scams. [/QUOTE]CP,
Sorry to hear about your misfortunes. There definitely are some scammers out there but my experience is much less than BP girls. The worst I have come across is a young lady that flaked out and went radio silent when we were to meet. Even then it wasted some time but no finances.
Indy Guy.
[QUOTE=ChillPill;2704937]After one month on SA and getting hosed repeatedly I'm done w / it. I expected a classier and more normal lady.[/QUOTE]Sorry about your bad experiences. Thank you for sharing. Hopefully we can all learn by examining what went wrong in those scenarios and avoid any similar situations in the future.
Chill Pill,
I'm sorry you had those experiences. I wouldn't give up but rather adjust how you go about doing the SA thing.
1. I don't agree to an amount prior to meeting if at all possible. Most sugar babies want a meet and greet and it should cost you nothing. "Let's meet over coffee and talk about an arrangement, and see if chemistry exists. " You may find yourself at your house that day, or on a second date.
2. SA saves all of your messaging, so be careful what you say online. Even if you delete, you can go back to the same lady, hit "view messages," then hit restore conversation. I'd make sure to tell them you'll only discuss it offline.
3. Download a texting ap like "text now," give them that number. If they go crazy, delete the ap.
4. Avoid the ladies that ***** sbout bills, want deposits before meeting, or that jump right into "how much can you pay me?" Especially avoid those that jump right into what type of menu they offer. Most are scams or too dumb to be discrete and careful. They'll meet uncle soon enough.
5. Search their name and umber on Facebook. I avoided a lady who had all druggie friends, and announcing house arrest. I searched mugshots and found she was arrested for child endangerment. A little homework can save you problems.
6. Never give money to a lady beyond what you agree to, I always say "I want a set per visit amount we can agree to, as I want to enjoy our time together without drama, and without this feeling like a transaction, beyond that amount I do not want asked for more. " I've only had one try, and I dumped her.
[QUOTE=ChillPill;2704937]After one month on SA and getting hosed repeatedly I'm done w / it. I expected a classier and more normal lady and instead I ran into 3 SB's that were total scams. 1st one, SD WANTED from good ole Warsaw, in fact turns out she only
lived less than 5 or 6 miles from me here in Northern Indiana. I agreed to pay $200 to meet (which I know is stupid) but thought I would only give it if she ended up going home w / me. She agreed but ended up getting sick and for a week later
demanded more and more money which I declined. Stay away from her.
Next Crystal7979 from good ole Greenwood. We met and chemistry was good. Later on she hit me up for rent said her previous SD drained her account and she was going to get kicked out of her house. I bought the sob story and next
day she claimed her money I gave her was stolen by her daughters friend. Wanted me to give her more. I declined and so after several days of texting I have no longer heard from her. She's very cute, very believable and very crooked.
Stay away,
The one who took the cake was only1 4 u from South Whitley. We arranged a meeting place, she claimed she had car trouble and her sister was bringing her to our meeting location. She hopped in my car and her sister followed us to my
house. We had agree on an overnight, she brought her clothes in my house and asked for an extra hundred for her sister cause she was pissed she had to bring her to meet me. I said no but she insisted. I gave her the money and
she dashed, I texted her a big WTF and she replied that she was coming back and had left her clothes there, she was getting gas for her sister and would be back shortly. Well needless to say after 30 min of texting w / her she was
silent and haven't heard from her since.
I've reported them all to SA but don't expect a whole lot. I've seen escorts for years and never had so much as a problem. Guess I'll stick w / them. Much simpler and cheaper.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=JohnBuddy;2704525]She is very real and will gladly meet you in your car and very economical. North Indy very petite! 4-11 100 lbs Nice girl. $.[/QUOTE]Does she have good hygiene and a cute face? I noticed this one but her face is hidden, what I can see looked awkward:
Chill pill. I'm sorry to read about your experience. Like Goodtimes mentioned if you change your approach you'll have success. I'm having the time of my life. I have 21, 22, and 23 year olds I'm doing on a regular to semi regular basis. Made a few early mistakes, but learned from the veterans on this site in Richmond and Los Angeles on how to work it and the girls.
[QUOTE=GoodTimes007;2707004]Chill Pill,
I'm sorry you had those experiences. I wouldn't give up but rather adjust how you go about doing the SA thing.
1. I don't agree to an amount prior to meeting if at all possible. Most sugar babies want a meet and greet and it should cost you nothing. "Let's meet over coffee and talk about an arrangement, and see if chemistry exists. " You may find yourself at your house that day, or on a second date.
2. SA saves all of your messaging, so be careful what you say online. Even if you delete, you can go back to the same lady, hit "view messages," then hit restore conversation. I'd make sure to tell them you'll only discuss it offline.
3. Download a texting ap like "text now," give them that number. If they go crazy, delete the ap.
4. Avoid the ladies that ***** sbout bills, want deposits before meeting, or that jump right into "how much can you pay me?" Especially avoid those that jump right into what type of menu they offer. Most are scams or too dumb to be discrete and careful. They'll meet uncle soon enough.
5. Search their name and umber on Facebook. I avoided a lady who had all druggie friends, and announcing house arrest. I searched mugshots and found she was arrested for child endangerment. A little homework can save you problems.
6. Never give money to a lady beyond what you agree to, I always say "I want a set per visit amount we can agree to, as I want to enjoy our time together without drama, and without this feeling like a transaction, beyond that amount I do not want asked for more. " I've only had one try, and I dumped her.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the advice and condolences guys. The advice you gave me was same as my good friend Freckle Freak gave me. I was just totally taken off guard. I just expected a much classier and girl next door type of woman and happened to latch on to players instead of real sugar babies. I'm going to take a break for the time being and depending on.
What happens I will try again. I'll just treat them like escorts instead of women in need of money and companionship.
Curious if anyone has Intel on Harley? Her legs have my head spinning. PM if you like.
Warning: ariana0089 . Had a meet and greet with her and she seemed cool, cute as her pictures for sure. She had a horribly strong perfume on that I made note to ask her not to wear if we saw each other again. Her finger nails were dirty, but other than that seemed like a struggling college chick. She wanted 250 per meet, I told her I'd think about it. The next day she sent enticing pics, so I decided to meet her despite her giving the red flag "I need to pay rent" bs. We met in public as I was limited on time. We began kissing and playing around a little, when I noticed a horrid smell of BO and strong odor of fish (just sayin' Moments later she began sweating so bad I just couldn't take it, I've never seen so much sweat with so little effort, so I gingerly bowed out. She blew up my phone with texts for about two days with more debt issues, then disappeared. Her hygiene was either a drug or health problem, either way I chose the high road and thought with my big head for a change. It's a shame as she was one cute lady. Some may not mind the aforementioned and if so I imagine she's good to go. But. Not for me.
[QUOTE=GoodTimes007;2707841]Curious if anyone has Intel on Harley? Her legs have my head spinning. PM if you like.
Warning: ariana0089 . Had a meet and greet with her and she seemed cool, cute as her pictures for sure. She had a horribly strong perfume on that I made note to ask her not to wear if we saw each other again. Her finger nails were dirty, but other than that seemed like a struggling college chick. She wanted 250 per meet, I told her I'd think about it. The next day she sent enticing pics, so I decided to meet her despite her giving the red flag "I need to pay rent" bs. We met in public as I was limited on time. We began kissing and playing around a little, when I noticed a horrid smell of BO and strong odor of fish (just sayin' Moments later she began sweating so bad I just couldn't take it, I've never seen so much sweat with so little effort, so I gingerly bowed out. She blew up my phone with texts for about two days with more debt issues, then disappeared. Her hygiene was either a drug or health problem, either way I chose the high road and thought with my big head for a change. It's a shame as she was one cute lady. Some may not mind the aforementioned and if so I imagine she's good to go. But. Not for me.[/QUOTE]GT,
Sorry to hear about your bad experience. However, I think you may have met her on a bad day. A couple respected senior members on this board and myself all know her and have had nothing but great times with her. None of us experienced the issues that you had. Not questioning that it happened just saying it may have been a bad day for her.
Indy Guy.
[QUOTE=IndyGuy123;2707992]GT,
Sorry to hear about your bad experience. However, I think you may have met her on a bad day. A couple respected senior members on this board and myself all know her and have had nothing but great times with her. None of us experienced the issues that you had. Not questioning that it happened just saying it may have been a bad day for her.
Indy Guy.[/QUOTE]IG,
I was a respected senior for some time (a few years ago) until I disagreed on an experience and received back lash for having said so on here. I had to change my user name as a result. I surely do not want to start that again, but can assure you that my experience was questionable enough to worry about my health and potential discretion. Glad to hear all went well for you.
I've recently exchanged messages with a Sugar Baby on SA, but she was rather direct (maybe even too direct) about her expectations and pricing:
Me: What are you looking for in a daddy?
SB: Someone to sexually pleasure once a week and be friends and get an allowance.
Me: Sounds perfect. What kind of allowance are you looking.
SB: $300 per meet.
Maybe I'm being overly paranoid and / or she is young and naive, but that's enough for anyone to run into trouble (especially when it's in writing). Would anyone else be comfortable seeing someone who wrote that to them?
She is a very hot older lady 40 ish. Never had kids, wild as hell in the sack. She is one beautiful lady. Only problem is she is southern Indiana. Be nice to her she a sweetheart and loves the Colts games! Play nice!
[QUOTE=Bigg2003;2711521]I've recently exchanged messages with a Sugar Baby on SA, but she was rather direct (maybe even too direct) about her expectations and pricing:
Me: What are you looking for in a daddy?
SB: Someone to sexually pleasure once a week and be friends and get an allowance.
Me: Sounds perfect. What kind of allowance are you looking.
SB: $300 per meet.
Maybe I'm being overly paranoid and / or she is young and naive, but that's enough for anyone to run into trouble (especially when it's in writing). Would anyone else be comfortable seeing someone who wrote that to them?[/QUOTE]I had an identical conversation with an Amber who also listed out a bunch of rules. I passed as she seemed careless in her communication and lacked the charm that many more affordable ladies offer on that site. The best SBs know what we want and prefer to meet and talk prior to setting a price. In my humble opinion, if they aren't concerned with chemistry the experience would likely be no more rewarding than BP for you, and 300 is an awefully high price for a BP style arrangement.
There is another "boy looking" young lady trying to collect the same amount and reaching out unsolicited with "want to meet up? $300. " I took one look at her profile and question her legal age. Play safe.
[QUOTE=JohnBuddy;2711623]She is a very hot older lady 40 ish. Never had kids, wild as hell in the sack. She is one beautiful lady. Only problem is she is southern Indiana. Be nice to her she a sweetheart and loves the Colts games! Play nice![/QUOTE]How far south? How do I get her number without paying outrageous SA fees?
[QUOTE=GoodTimes007;2712622]I had an identical conversation with an Amber who also listed out a bunch of rules. I passed as she seemed careless in her communication and lacked the charm that many more affordable ladies offer on that site. The best SBs know what we want and prefer to meet and talk prior to setting a price. In my humble opinion, if they aren't concerned with chemistry the experience would likely be no more rewarding than BP for you, and 300 is an awefully high price for a BP style arrangement.
There is another "boy looking" young lady trying to collect the same amount and reaching out unsolicited with "want to meet up? $300. " I took one look at her profile and question her legal age. Play safe.[/QUOTE]I know Amber. Total waste of space on this earth. If you met her it would be the worst $300 you've ever spent.
And I also got the message from the extremely young looking girl. I asked her if she was even 18. She said yes, I told her I'd need to see I'd.
[QUOTE=Bigg2003;2711521]I've recently exchanged messages with a Sugar Baby on SA, but she was rather direct (maybe even too direct) about her expectations and pricing:
Me: What are you looking for in a daddy?
SB: Someone to sexually pleasure once a week and be friends and get an allowance.
Me: Sounds perfect. What kind of allowance are you looking.
SB: $300 per meet.
Maybe I'm being overly paranoid and / or she is young and naive, but that's enough for anyone to run into trouble (especially when it's in writing). Would anyone else be comfortable seeing someone who wrote that to them?[/QUOTE]That is a big red flag for me, and more cash than I would want to agree to pay without ever having met. The appeal of an SB over a Pro / UTR for me is the dating and long sessions spent together. I won't do any talk of price before the meet and greet. Also be wary of getting locked into a price. Price are more likely to go up over time, not down. Plus 300 is more than any, and I mean any of the girls have ever asked of me on SB after texting / meeting. Maybe I'm lucky.