Sam is usually busy and disorganized
[QUOTE=ClearGuy;5411109]In town for a bit and looking for a good BBBJ provider. Read the reviews here and in the BBBJ forum and settled on Sam in Calumet Park. I'm sure this is a YMMV situation but that choice ended up being a bad idea, so much more trouble than it's worth.
Communication was great in the beginning. Texts were prompt and we agreed on a time about 45 minutes from the last text. Since I'm only just visiting, I don't have transportation outside of ride sharing services so I made sure to provide updates so that I'm not waiting outside in an area I'm not familiar with. Literally as I arrive, she sends me a text saying "So what's up?" In my mind, I'm like "bingo this is better than I thought" and I shit you not, text back within 5 seconds informing her that I'm outside, and asking for a room number. A couple minutes later, she said she just had a client leave so she needs some time to freshen up.
This kinda annoys me a bit since she just texted me asking what's up as if she's totally free, but not even 5 minutes later you need time to freshen up? Idk, but I give her the benefit of doubt and agree to wait. Mistake #1.
5 minutes go by. 10 minutes go by. 20 minutes go by and I'm standing outside this seedy motel all awkward in an area that's not the best. There was this pretty tall, lanky dude CLEARLY high off something pacing back and forth around me that was pretty unsettling.
I call this time and it rings until it goes to voicemail. Text again, no response. At this point I'm thinking of just cutting my losses and ride share back to my hotel about a half hr away. But I'm stubborn, so I decide to walk to the nearby by pharmacy, pick up some tea and kill some time while I wait for text back.
After I leave, I try calling again, this time I get sent to VM. Okay, so plan B, I open up my second burner app and text her. Guess what, immediate response! I go back to my first burner app to see if I just missed the text. Nope. She either blocked me or is straight up ignoring me in the first convo. Wasn't rude or anything in the conversation. Anyway, I pretended to be a completely different person and pretended to be like "oh Calumet Park, I'm already 5 minutes from there" in an effort to keep her attention. Mind you at this point 45 minutes have already passed since I've arrived to my destination. She said "great I have to take a quick quick quick shower and I'll be ready. Just come over and as soon as I get out, I'll throw you the room number. ".
So, the bit from earlier about her needing to freshen up earlier was pure BS. 20 minutes had passed from when she said that from my first burner to the next. At this point, I really should have cut my losses but nope, I'm too stubborn. I get there 5 minutes later, and even spot her another 5 minutes before texting her again that I "made it" even though at this point it's approaching an hr that I've been outside. Another 20 minutes goes by before she texts back, apologizes, and gives me the room number.
I go up there and she's brushing her teeth saying she still needs a bit to get ready. The hell? What were you doing the last 20 minutes?! I'm like whatever, at least I'm finally in the room. Mind you, I'm our text conversations, for both burners, I specified that I wanted a hhr. She tells me that one of her regulars is going to be outside in 5 or so minutes so she's making my visit now a QV and low key blames me for saying "well you said you were 5 minutes out, you can't expect me to not book you when you're that close. " WHAT. THE. FUCK. I tell her to make his ass wait. I'm sorry if you're that regular and you're reading this, but at this point I've been waiting for close to an and hr and a half standing outside this shitty ass motel. She refuses and agrees to take her QV price from. 8 to. 6. At point I'm just like whatever and I agree. Arguing just isn't worth it and I want to head back.
We finally get to it and she gives a great BBBJ. I'm above average but not huge and she was able to get most of it down and paid attention the balls and shaft. Kept going until I unloaded everything, BBBJCIMWS and even deep throated me while I was still emptying the clip. Absolutely one of the better BBBJs I've gotten. Was it worth all of the hassle and bs? No way on earth, the only way it would have been worth is if I had the hhr with mulitple pops and it was Sinn the Truth blowing me (for those who are familiar).
I know this was a really long review, but wanted to make it as detailed as possible since I know a lot of travellers come into Chicago and might take the plunge so they can at least set some expectation of what could happen, but as always YMMV. If there's any takeaway from this, it should be to have multiple burner apps, that way you can swoop in and save yourself in case a provider stops responding to you for whatever reason on one app.[/QUOTE]Sorry you had that kind of experience. Her current motel is in a hood af spot that gets rough even during the day so I can only imagine how bad it gets at night. I'd hate to be there, without my car, especially if you're not a brother. You'd stick out like a sore thumb. At least I can blend in and I grew up in a neighborhood like that.
Sam is super busy most days of the week (great service, amazing attitude, GFE / PSE at a good price) and like all working girls, she will prioritize her regular clients. I've been seeing her for a while now and even I get pushed back and have to wait if I book her on a busy day. Usually I just chill and grab an ice cream cone from a McDonald's nearby her pad. I've had her forget my appointment once and I had to wait for 30 minutes but she always makes it up to me in the end.
Also if you're visiting a new city, keep this in mind too. I've heard this from most of my regular girls here (probably true for Sam too) that they don't trust phone numbers from outside Illinois, Indiana, or Wisconsin. Chicago is a big city but we don't get anywhere near the level of outside traffic You'd expect for a city this size.