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[QUOTE=BillyBobDilly;7335576]Is anyone else having issues with all the seeking links from this forum coming back as "profile not found or deactivated"? Can we all agree to post a screenshot of the woman in question as well to make it easier? Please and thank you.[/QUOTE]So I've come into this problem as well. It logs me out and then I log in and then it shows me the profile. Not sure if its because of this website or just the SA site having issues.
[QUOTE=BillyBobDilly;7334751]I have been sugaring now for a few years and had mostly good experiences and met some wonderful women. This post is not about that. I generally subscribe to the "Don't ever give money in advance" mantra that everyone on here may or may not have learned the hard way. So far, it has worked out for me until tonight when I let my guard down and was stupid. Maria (not her real name but her name on the site) messaged me on Whatsyourprice (WYP). She also has profiles on other sites like Seeking, SD, and SB; but I can't remember which one specifically. Anyway, I am posting a pic of her below as a warning for everyone. She looked good in her pics, but her pics were definitely better than real life. She wanted to go to this restaurant. I like that restaurant and haven't been in a while so I thought, why not? We meet there and I am 50/50 on staying or leaving based on the fact that she is not up to my normal standards but I think why not see if it gets better? I was already there. Dinner and the conversation were okay. We leave to go to the hotel and she tells me that she likes cash up front because a friend had a bad experience. She is in my car, mind you. Ok. She also says she needs to deposit the money at a retail pharmacy on her electronic bank account and we stop at the pharmacy. I know. I know. Never give money upfront. Anyway. I sit there for about 15 minutes before I check the app we connected on and realize that she has blocked me. She must have walked out the front door where I couldn't see and ubered herself back home. I am a big boy and was stupid on this occasion so I probably deserved it. I should have just been blunt / rude, and left when she showed up to begin with, but it is what it is. All I want to say is to remind everyone: Never pay upfront. Send her packing if she won't accept that. And also, Avoid Maria (DM for her real name). Pic attached. It would make me happy to know her scam ends here. Best of luck out there, Gents! Be safe.[/QUOTE]Oh no, she's been on this site for quite a while. She got me for 3 oo a while back ago as well. Sometimes you have to learn the hard way unfortunately. She's been known as a scammer on SA. Best to report her when ever she pops up.
If you click on the link a few times, the profile will usually appear. I agree its frustrating. But 9 times out of 10 the profile is active.
[QUOTE=BillyBobDilly;7335576]Is anyone else having issues with all the seeking links from this forum coming back as "profile not found or deactivated"? Can we all agree to post a screenshot of the woman in question as well to make it easier? Please and thank you.[/QUOTE]
Yeah I've been having the same issue. When you click on the link in USA it adds a lengthy string of characters to the end of the URL that identifies where the link is coming from, in this case from USA guide. This is normal web site behavior so the fact it won't launch the page correctly on SA seems intentional by SA.
What I've been doing is going into the URL and deleting that identifier string. The string of characters starts with?_cf_ref= so start at that? And delete everything to the right. This gives you just the direct url which will successfully launch the page.
[QUOTE=BillyBobDilly;7335576]Is anyone else having issues with all the seeking links from this forum coming back as "profile not found or deactivated"? Can we all agree to post a screenshot of the woman in question as well to make it easier? Please and thank you.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BillyBobDilly;7335576]Is anyone else having issues with all the seeking links from this forum coming back as "profile not found or deactivated"? Can we all agree to post a screenshot of the woman in question as well to make it easier? Please and thank you.[/QUOTE]Refreshing the link seems to work (but shouldn't have to).
[QUOTE=PauFord;7336157]Yeah I've been having the same issue. When you click on the link in USA it adds a lengthy string of characters to the end of the URL that identifies where the link is coming from, in this case from USA guide. This is normal web site behavior so the fact it won't launch the page correctly on SA seems intentional by SA.
What I've been doing is going into the URL and deleting that identifier string. The string of characters starts with?_cf_ref= so start at that? And delete everything to the right. This gives you just the direct url which will successfully launch the page.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the tip. I will try that for sure!
[QUOTE=StanCopier;7336196]Refreshing the link seems to work (but shouldn't have to).[/QUOTE]Not for me. But what I do is after you land on the error page click on any other link on SA(search, favorites, etc.), let it load, then try again. Some cookie must be getting refreshed after you visit a normal SA page (not a profile page).
Yet another price increase at SA (now $130 w / o discount). As with so many things in life, more money for a lesser experience. It becomes harder and harder to find someone decent on there. Seems to be more semi-pros, flakes and scammers. But. One can always hope and continue looking for the elusive prize.
Not sure where all the hot 20 somethings (and early 30 somethings) went, there used to be many, looking for an under the radar lucrative ongoing fling. Its not a great job market and the cost of living continues to increase. Maybe OF and other revenue streams.
[QUOTE=Donger999;7337237]Yet another price increase at SA (now $130 w / o discount). As with so many things in life, more money for a lesser experience. It becomes harder and harder to find someone decent on there. Seems to be more semi-pros, flakes and scammers. But. One can always hope and continue looking for the elusive prize.
Not sure where all the hot 20 somethings (and early 30 somethings) went, there used to be many, looking for an under the radar lucrative ongoing fling. Its not a great job market and the cost of living continues to increase. Maybe OF and other revenue streams.[/QUOTE]Honestly, this platform feels pretty overused. Like the same conversations and patterns repeating. I wouldn't be surprised if some of the women share notes on which guys are handing out money just for company.
A lot of the younger ones seem more interested in the experience—trying out a nice restaurant, enjoying the vibe, and that's it. Once that box is checked, things usually fizzle out. If you come off too eager, they might even try to get a second outing out of you, but it rarely goes beyond dinner.
There are very few options out there as you said. No point in shelling out so much for a membership.
[QUOTE=ArielDude28;7338072]Honestly, this platform feels pretty overused. Like the same conversations and patterns repeating. I wouldn't be surprised if some of the women share notes on which guys are handing out money just for company.
A lot of the younger ones seem more interested in the experiencetrying out a nice restaurant, enjoying the vibe, and that's it. Once that box is checked, things usually fizzle out. If you come off too eager, they might even try to get a second outing out of you, but it rarely goes beyond dinner.
There are very few options out there as you said. No point in shelling out so much for a membership.[/QUOTE]I can guarantee you that many of the girls are sharing info. Not only is there a "club" that I have seen on IG (Gold Coast Private Club, experience. Elite and luxeleaguesociety that is composed of several SA girls that I have seen in person and on the site but also one of the girls that I am seeing currently has told me that she is part of a chat group with other girls from SA. Mostly more expensive "bottle service" girls and higher end and more experienced girls in the 500-1 K range. Much of what is discussed is how to find the "whales" who spend 1 K (and I was told of one that would spend 2,500) for an evening. Don't begin to think that it is only guys sharing info.
New SLN Girl Shawnee 30.
[URL]https://sugarlifenow.com/profile/Shawn123/[/URL]
[QUOTE=BillUnderwood;7338127]I can guarantee you that many of the girls are sharing info. Not only is there a "club" that I have seen on IG (Gold Coast Private Club, experience. Elite and luxeleaguesociety that is composed of several SA girls that I have seen in person and on the site but also one of the girls that I am seeing currently has told me that she is part of a chat group with other girls from SA. Mostly more expensive "bottle service" girls and higher end and more experienced girls in the 500-1 K range. Much of what is discussed is how to find the "whales" who spend 1 K (and I was told of one that would spend 2,500) for an evening. Don't begin to think that it is only guys sharing info.[/QUOTE]That makes a whole lota sense on the patterns they learn from these close knit clubs. Dinner would not turn into anything unless they see the potential. For everything else its like whatever little money they can grab while experiencing a dinner, lunch. LOL. Having said that, here's another example of this pattern I recently experienced - [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0db73685-dcdc-4a27-a3b3-d5efc49a16f3[/URL].
She wanted a 200 for dinner date. LOL. I said, I am bring some money but not 200 and if she is still interested and she said fine. I took her to a place that would not cost me more than 30-40 tops. She complained but I said the idea is for us to talk and see if our expectations are met. We can go to michelin stars after we establish the arrangement. LOL. This lady has some mental situation or something as she was unable to focus on the conversation, was showing few food photos on her phone (probably showing all the experiences from past. LOL). Who cares and I said what's her goal she gave some weird long explanation of long term. Etc. When asked she said not thinking sexual until she is comfortable (sign for nothing). When walking out I handed $40 for her uber. She did not count and or may have done later and I just said bye and walked my way. Stay away from this profile as I don; t see anything, unless someone else found it.
More importantly, the new pattern. I was in this game back in 2018's and wow those days were different. Been in situations where we would agree to jumo in right after coffee or easy going lunch, sometimes in the car.
Also, ethnicity seems to playing some role. Reliability of Asians, Middle Eastern, Latina profiles seems to be super low in that order. I don; t even care to approach them as they mostly turn into scammers. Caucasians / white is a mixed bag and it depends, Blacks I feel are more reliable but there could be other situations to take care. I am neither a white or black. FYI.
Has anyone have any success off sugarmeet website? I'm thinking of using that since SA is going to increase their prices. Any other recommended sites? Thank you.
If she was actually 160 lbs, with that figure she could be somethin'.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ac046891-4903-4c80-908a-264f2c026ead[/URL]
A few of my recent experiences from Seeking:
June:
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/27b5a8fc-23e6-4ea4-a3ff-e85e9b092e04[/URL]
Communicate and moved to text. She sent pics via text and we set a date to meetup for a drink. The day before our meetup she asked if I wanted to buy some videos off her prior to our meetup. Red flag and told her I don't pay anything until I've met in person. Haven't talked since.
Katie (mysticalSiren).
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/97af2420-7340-4529-9bec-6da1cee6a7e6[/URL]
Moved to text and met for dinner. Got along pretty well and she seemed like a cool girl. Paid $200 just for dinner date but she said she wanted to have some fun next time. Meeting for a drink this week and got her down to $400 for sex at hotel. She's been sending me pics since. She's hot.
Lola:
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/233b70ac-68d1-48a5-87d0-a481755b9bca[/URL]
Texted and setup a date to grab drinks. Communication via text was good but a few hours before the date she said she had to take her dog to vet. She asked to reschedule but I lost interest and am talking to other girls. She did text me pics to prove it was her. She is cute. We never discussed money.
Kassidy:
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/f9f4fcad-4bb3-42af-9aad-fb80c422e6e8[/URL]
Lives in Iowa but said she comes to Chicago often. Texted me sexy pics but wanted $1000 for a meetup. Pass.
Sara:
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5b7c59e7-7574-4d74-b5ce-da1e6ea739d9[/URL]
Moved to text. Good communication. Setup a time to meet for drinks. I'm the one who actually had to cancel so she said she would love to reschedule. I just have been too lazy or busy to do so. Pics look good though. We never discussed how much $$ to meetup.
Diana:
Posted about her previously. She's not on SA anymore and said she doesn't want to reactivate her account. We've been seeing each other often. 18 yrs old, tight body and submissive. My all time favorite right now. She is very sweet.