Not thinned skinned, just sweet and sensitive...
"don't let the door hit you on the way out". "you are a dumbass". "you aren't better than anyone else". These are all comments thrown at me for one little misguided question. I apologized, and once agin. KATIE is the only one who hasn't yelled at me. I'm not thin skinned. I am just a very sweet person who doesn't have people in my life that yell at me and call me names. THe hostility was overwhelming. Anger and hatred isn't something I'm used to. However, so many of you ahve given me wonderful words of encouragement and have told me the best way to handle this is to just stand up and stay. Don't run from the bullies.
So. Ignore all the members who want to rag me and pay attention to the people who like me and enjoy talking to me and visiting with me. I can do nothing more than what I have done. I apologized. Get over it. I think I've been properly punished for my crime. Stop attacking every little blunder. ANd if anyone has a copy of that rules book I could use one so I make no more mistakes. I enjoy participating in the forums. I've learned alot and some of the stuff is really funny and makes me laugh. The "I quit" was a rash move because I wanted to get away from the meaness. Please accept my sincere apology for my faux pas. Can we get back to the fun stuff now? Please? I've learned my lesson on this one and it won't happen again. Let's just all have a drink and get laid. Ha. COme on folks. Anger and such will make you old and give you wrinkles. I don't want either of those.
I have a short memory and this is history now. I don't want to quit. I like too many of you and enjoy the humor.
XOXOX Melissa
Testing frequency isn't prevention
[QUOTE=Reggie Miller]Dkuym not to be taking up for sw but they might get tested more than escorts.
Chances are sw goes to jail more often. A test is mandatory![/QUOTE]IMHO the frequency of one's testing is irrelevant for two reasons. First, testing has little to do with whether one catches something. It only confirms the results of risky behavior; nothing preventative about it. Second, I wouldn't be surprised if many SW's who test + for something still turn tricks while infected because either they need the money that bad or out of spite / revenge for someone infecting them.
I'm not saying testing isn't important, as some will act on the results. I'm just saying testing frequency isn't the only variable or even the most important variable in comparing the risk level of women. The more important variables are the preventative measures they take to reduce the risks of becoming infected and the frequency of sexual activity; not frequency of testing.
Compare an escort who sees 1 guy a day on avg., always uses protection but never gets tested to a SW who sees numerous guys a day, goes without protection on many occasions but gets tested every time she's thrown in the slammer. Which of the two will more likely be infected? (rhetorical question)
CA Report on the weekend CL bust...with a twist so to speak
[url]http://www.commercialappeal.com/news/2009/mar/02/crime-report-cops-tag-driver-altered-temporary-pla/[/url]
So much for “a happy ending.”
"Authorities netted four suspects over the weekend during a sting targeting prostitution solicitations on Craigslist.com.
The MPD Organized Crime Unit conducted the undercover operation early Sunday morning, resulting in the arrest of the women on charges that include prostitution near a church or school and, in one instance, possession of a controlled substance.
When contacted by a decoy, the women each agreed to exchange sex for money at locations less than 1.5 miles from American Way Middle, Shelby Oaks Middle and Winchester Elementary.
Police say (name redacted), in an apparent attempt to skirt the law, offered to perform “massage services” with “a happy ending” to the decoy. According to the affidavit, “Happy Endings” are commonly known as oral or natural sex in the massage parlor industry."
Gotta love the headline....
SL
Is Angela really Kimber? No.
I wanted to confirm or put to rest the rumor that Kimber and Angela are the same person since they do have similar looks in photos and have shared a number. So, I had the following dream about it. I called the number listed for both and asked to speak to Angela. The person answering said it was Angela. We chatted a few minutes and I even asked if they were actually only one person. She said absolutely not. I arranged an incall meeting with Angela. The location given was an apartment complex in the Germantown Parkway, Walnut Grove area. Upon arriving at the complex I was directed to drive to a particular building and apartment number. The girl who answered the door was definitely the girl in the Angela photos. About 5’6", thin but not too thin, great face, dark hair, very pretty. She looked like all of those untouchable girls you knew in high school and college. I had dreamed of Kimber late last year (when she still had the St. Louis area code) at a hotel near Poplar and 240, and this was not the same girl. We chatted for a few minutes and eventually got to the donation discussion. Angela brought up the sum of 3 for hh, which I told her was ridiculous and way out of line for the market. After additional discussion, it was decided that things could be arranged for half of that. After handing her the donation, she said "you know this is just the donation for the time, tips are expected for more services. " I again said that was not going to happen. She agreed. I dreamed we both undressed and her body was perfect. Cute, perky firm Bs, great back side, smooth tan skin. Even the slight (and I mean very slight baby fat) belly was a turn on. We cuddled some, gave some mutual back rubs and I played a bit with what I wanted to play with. She talked about some of the usual conversation items – haven’t done this much, going to school and this pays tuition, etc. You can believe what you want. For me and my dream, it adds to the experience to believe. Angela was not GFE, no kissing. But the cuddle was warm. I dreamed she then went on to a BBBJ and the dream ended doggie. Everything was done with mild enthusiasm. Main differences between Kimber and Angela. Kimber was more enthusiastic, Angela is better looking. Though both are certainly very attractive. If you want that uppity high school prom queen experience with a spinner, it is worth the call. But, don’t back off on price you want to pay. Remember, it’s only a dream.
Angela ad: [url]http://memphis.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/_your_true_desires_can_come_true_simply_the_best_19/classifieds/ViewAd?oid=752681[/url]
Kimber ad: [url]http://memphis.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/_1_gentlemen_s_choice_no_regrets_professional_disceet_22/classifieds/ViewAd?oid=734508[/url]
And, a new ad has surfaced (Crissy) with the same number as Angela: [url]http://memphis.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/_please_take_your_time_one_of_a_kind_satisfaction_guaranteed_18/classifieds/ViewAd?oid=757391[/url]
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Something just not right?
I dreamed a friend of mine told me a story about " a Classy Young Lady Who Wants To Please" - she has been advertising for some time now, although her ads say she is new in town (when do you stop being new?), and although the ad is posted by "Dillon", advertises "outcall" and says "No text messages", apparently the voicemail answers "anna", and after hanging up without leaving a message, this friend of ours began recieving a series of text messages from Dillon offering a "gfe" incall in 6 hours. Attempts to call back continued to get sent to voicemail, although text messages kept coming in?
Anyway, one of the last messages asked him to meet in a hotel parking lot, pay a certain sum up front so she could get a room, and then the rest latter. Although I have never read any bad reviews of this provider (but have also never had any personal contact either), the best advice i could give him was that there were too many inconsistancies in this story, and that the arrangement seemed like the type of thing that the police might consider illegal. Am I just paranoid, or is something just not right here (I mean, anyone could have that phone and be texting messages/posting this image!)
Maybe my friend just missed out on a good time, but it has also been reported (and I checked/verified) that this same person/pic can be found on CL under the girls looking for guys section... without entrapment concerns.
Big Boi, I found your socks!
Thanks Big Boi, I'm glad you decided to hang out with me. I had a fantastic time with you and I'm looking forward to our next encounter.
I appreciate the kind words. You USA guys have been so good to me.
Ladies, I'm putting a gold star next to Terry's name. I'm certain you'll enjoy his company.
[QUOTE=Big Boi Terry]I've had the opportunity to meet some amazing providers that have knocked off my socks. Providers such as Sarah, Amber Silk & Molly, there are others but I can't name them all but I experienced one that either pulled off, knocked off or burned them off because of the heat. I tried this provider because of good reviews even though initially I started not to because I usually prefer the spinner types and boy or boy I am glad that I did. This BBW was none other than JuicyKate and I can truly say that she is one amazing provider, georgeous, tall, sweet and oh so good. I would repeat many, many, many times. I have no complaints other than wondering what happened to my socks! (LOL)[/QUOTE]
Dillon and the green tube top.
During yet another of my bored moments in the wee hours of the night I was browsing the Women Seeking Men section of the CL personals. (it never hurts to know your competition) and that same picture of the girl in the green tube top was looking for a dating relationship. She was confused why she can't find a guy and why guys like women that treat them like crap. Hmmm. I, too have advertised for REAL dating situations. Not "work", but maybe she is just using it as another avenue to attract men. I don't know. Just thought it was funny, because you guys read the erotic ads and the personals. I'm surprised someone hadn't caught it yet.
Play nice.
Play safe.
XOXOX
Melissa
