Why Buy the Cow if the Milk is Free?
I am a married, mature man having an awesome amount of fun off Seeking. I lost track long ago of the number of women I've banged off that site. Several have evolved from paid to free and one I just clean forgot to pay her the first time (she was off WYP) and then the topic never came up again between us. That being said, as a married man, I much prefer to pay. The payment keeps a psychological barrier up to anything evolving from just sex to the dreaded "relationship" which could become very disruptive for me at home. The payment also provides me a psychological "free pass" when I want to move on. So, yes, free sex does exist on Seeking, but in the end nothing is actually free and I stay careful to avoid what I wish for. That is why it sometimes is better to pay for the milk. And not buy the cow.
[QUOTE=Satine;5117876]To be fair, I wouldn't post their links if I had such fantastic girls, lest some idiot disrupts my setups.[/QUOTE]
Disclosure? By posting here.
I wouldn't disclose the ladies either, Cargin. However, if I was getting everything for free, why would you be on this site or for that matter, the Seeking site?
It doesn't make a whole lot of sense, IMHO. Thus, I don't think any of it is true. Of course, you don't really care what I think. Or do you? LMAO.
[QUOTE=Cargin;5118309]Ok, I honestly don't care. I don't need to prove anything to you or anyone else. I'm not going to link profiles of girls I see for the same reason others keep certain ones private. Keep paying up for the PPM girls, I've done it too. I prefer to get the ones who have real connection and actually want to see me for more than a transaction. I know they exist for me, but seeking is full of creepy guys, so if you're witty, funny, and normal you can stick out against the awful competition of pervs and those who treat women like meat. The ones who are free won't talk to you. I asked for dinner date advice because I had not paid up until that point. The girl I am seeing and had the 3 some with no longer has a profile, but her username was puppet4 you. Her friend is not on seeking. I saw ihavenicelegs in Feb, paid her the first time, the next time I saw her she said she would see me for free. Saw her a couple times and paid nothing except the wine I bought her that she didn't ask for. She actually said she would want to date me. Broke it off shortly after, I could tell she has been at this for a while. But puppet4 you definitely is not someone who made the rounds. Also saw thatkittykatgirl. She is still active. Never discussed money. We met up and she gave me head and I gave her a facial. I offered her a tip when she was leaving but she refused. I would not recommend as she is very immature and mentally unstable. Anyways, good luck and stay safe![/QUOTE]
I could use the help of this group
I recently joined SA and OMG, it is unbelievable. Not necessarily in a good way.
Between sugar babes who are demanding money upfront, what is the best way to decipher who is real and not real?
Also, what is the conventional way of making payments?
I have had girls post they are from Boston and they are not. One told me it is because that location attracts the guys.
This seems like it is a full-time job.
Thanks for any help. I am a raw rookie at this game.
Looking to check on Amanda Mac
Hey guys. I am new SA (like opened my account 2 days ago) and wow! My mind is blown. Holy crap! It is its own world. My god! Anyway, I started to talk to Amanda Mac - [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/70103e26-d427-63a5-081d-69677904a73e.[/URL] I know she's been reviewed here. One of the things that stands out to me. I asked her to meet at public place and come to a hotel for our first time just to make sure (just in case nobody is recording in closet, LOL) - call it my paranoia. She won't go to a hotel and is adamant hosting it in her house. Claims her house is 5 bdrm with 4 dogs and 1 roommate. I am planning to see her on Tuesday. Have people who have seen her seen her at her house or their own. Curious!!