Women on Seeking are a breed of their own LOL!
I've been a paying member on Seeking now for the past 2-2.5 months and have yet to find someone who's halfway decent for something ongoing. My type is SB's who are newer to sugaring, more of an UTR. Women around 24-32 appeal to me the most.
When I first joined, I was putting a lot of effort into messaging women; I'm always direct but never pushy or aggressive. I try to get off of the site as quickly as possible to text or many ask if I have SC.
After a few texts I always ask what their schedule is so we can meet for a coffee, etc. At this point, this is where 8/9 out of 10 girls usually do the same thing- some form of they will let me know, or some type of low interest response. After that I usually tell them to reach out when they figure it out. In most cases I never hear back from them and I don't like to reach back out again when I put the ball into their court. If things do make it to the actual day of our M&G, many will flake or something always comes up. I do all the leg work to find a time, place, somewhere that's close to them all they have to do is show up LOL!
So far, though, I have met two POT SB's since I've been on there for a M&G but one ghosted after we had an arrangement made and the other I could tell was going to be more of a headache long term than what it would've been worth.
With that being said, I've received lots of messages on there- the usual scammers, undesirables, awful communicators who don't seem all there in the head.
I'll give it a little longer, but I'm getting close to giving it a break for awhile.