Of lap dances and other deviant behavior
Lap dances surely are NOT the way to get value for money. And I generally try to get to the OTC route wherever possible, generally via some mere wining and dining, or maybe that one lap dance in exchange for math.
But occasionally there's this super hot gal, who just won't budge and you know that the only taste you're going to get is during a lap dance. Prime example. A girl that used go by Sam at CL. She's now at Desire. Damn hot, spunky Brazilian, hardly ever drinks, unless she's with someone she trusts and will stick around for a long time, eg yours truly LOL. She never ever goes to the champagne room. So, either die fantasizing or spring for it and try her out with a lap dance (and I challenge you to stop at one lap dance). Your choice entirely, but if you do go the lap dance route remember that it's a very slippery road. She, and hottie stuck ups like her, are very talented at how to reel you in for more and more. At some point you'll have to learn to tell them to GET LOST. They'll never talk to you again. But that's how it's got to be. Whenever I go to Desire I'm half hoping not to run into her and half hoping I will. Those who know who I'm talking about might understand.
[QUOTE=CadillaCock;3059332]Agreed I try to stay away from the LD's which is how they can get a lot of money out of you and than not agree to exactly what you want. I drink and chat with them and get down to exact details and prices. And again if you get the details and the price written in stone and you pay upon completion you are almost 99% guaranteed stellar extras. I just LOVE it when they say if you don't like it you don't have to pay me!! I will accept that offer every time. A long time ago I was at CF and a beautiful blonde stinking drunk told me 100 for everything I want. If you don't like it don't pay me. I went in the booth with her. She started giving me a wild and crazy BBBJ stark naked. I stop her to put the party hat on and before I could do any CFS she totally passed out right there in the booth! I put my pants on and walked out and told the bouncer she was passed out in the booth and to go get her out. Of course the short BBBJ was free since I never got to CIM or finish CFS.[/QUOTE]
Sam, cythia, giovanna at CD
I laughed the other day when a poster here said sam doesn't do CR's. I know she does because she tried to get me into the CR. I've also seen her in lust. Giovanna will give a HE but you'll have to head down to the local bank to get a loan. Ridiculous. I always wondered about cynthia. She tries and team up with another girl who is cute but that's a bad sign for a room.
Personally I don't believe that if you propositioned sam with enough money that she wouldn't give a HE. I think almost any dancer in providence would. Let's see a guy wave $500 in sam's face and not get a HE.
Club Desires- Hot New girls
There is a brand new girl at CD called Dashia, smoking hot body and face. She was a model in Vegas and has done some Playboy modeling. If your looking for extras don't waste your time. I talked to her for an hour and also a few of my heavy hitter buds talked to her and got nowhere as far as extras are concerned. The only dancer I have ever seen in CD's with her nipples criss crossed taped and hidden. Hopefully she will loosen up a little but I doubt it.
Auditioning, lapdances vs the "dark corner" method!
[QUOTE=XBingoX;3066095]I'm with you on that strategy. If you're trying to do things on the cheap, the club is more than likely the wrong way to do it. There are plenty of guys in there willing to spend and if you're not one of them you're not going to get very far. Look at it like an investment. I use the lap dance as a confirmation to make sure we vibe and it has saved me hundreds. You could look at it like I've lost hundreds too but I'd prefer to pay for a bad lap dance than pay for a bad CR.[/QUOTE]With all due respect, I have gotten VERY far with my own method of "auditioning". I have found that if they are not willing to make out in a dark corner and let me stick my fingers up their twat, they are then very unlikely to be down for what I want in the VIP booth anyway. Because as I said I am looking for good PSE or GFE sex or at a minimum a BBBJ. I'm not looking to play head games with them for cash or pay for lap dances. So if they are not ready to deliver honest sex or at least a BBBJ for a fair price after a little chat and a drink in a dark corner, then I just move on. And its not a matter of being "cheap". Its a matter of being frugal--I'm not Donald Trump, LOL! But the way I do it, I do not have to pay them in order to audition them. In addition, many girls are willing to sit in a dark corner and do more "naughty" shit (where nobody can see) than in an open, brightly-lit lap dance area. And if you get a reputation for being a "booth guy" rather than a "lapdance guy", then they know you are serious when you "audition" them in that dark corner, and they behave accordingly--the word about different customers' individual preferences gets around quickly in any club after you return a few times, and after they know that you WILL indeed take them in the booth for a fair price if they pass muster in that dark corner! Many in fact already have their hands down your pants and will begin to get to know your equipment quite well before any financial transactions even occur. On a couple of occasions at Cheaters on a slow day when there was no one else in Godiva, I had some of them spread their talented pussies and let me eat them out right on stage as part of the "audition"! In return for a couple of portraits of George Washington. (I'm not sure if you can get away with that these days, though--in the USA I only was able to do that at Cheaters, even though its fairly standard fare in clubs Mexico!) One of the things I audition them for, BTW, is the hygeine level of their twats! I do not want to waste time and money on a lapdance when I can just get them in a dark corner, insert a finger, and perform the smell test, LOL!
I fully respect other guys' methods, though, and I am very willing to listen and learn despite the fact that I may indeed be perceived as an old fart set in my ways. So please keep those suggestions cumming! But insofar as auditioning them prior to getting laid in stripclubs, I have found that, after getting sex and BBBJs from dozens of strippers in VIP booths, my own preferred "dark corner" method has surely worked very, very well for me!