Some cheap "skank" would be no use as reference anyway!
[QUOTE=Ioerror001;1380133]I'm a first timer. Been on here a while, and finnially decided to schedule with the lovely nicole and she won't without references. Obviously I want to meet someone that won't get me in any trouble, but if all need references anyone have any idea how I'm supposed to meet a nice lady without having to buy some skank that doesn't screen first? Just wondering how you all go about scheduling with her. Kinda confused here.[/QUOTE][b]Providers who want to check references are only going to accept other providers whom they, in turn, trust as references anyway[/b]: so anonymous BP advertisers would be as useless, as references, as street_walkers! You either need to find someone who's willing to screen your identity & employment herself; or you're going to need to pay to join one (or more: if you have zero provider experiences) of the Verification services: Prefered-411 ("P411") , RoomService2000 ("RS2k") , or DateCheck ("DC") ; some providers may accept background-checks & employment-checks{checking that you're not employed by any government-agency, or some business, or some profession (news reporters, preachers, social workers, etc.) that wants to put providers out of business} from 2 or 3 of these screening-services in lieu of any other screening: others may still want to do additional screening themselves. How discreet you need to be, &\or who your employer is, may be the limiting factor[s] for your choices!
Either that; or go to one of the Legalized licensed brothels in one of only 10 sparsely populated rural-desert Counties in Nevada {by t' w' Las Vegas (Clark County) does NOT have legal prostitution: the closest licensed brothel, in Parhump, is about 50miles across the desert} to "pay to play" legally & safely!
Sorry there isn't any happier answer: "it is what it is" is just the way it works; sincerely: A K