Secret Benefits may be just broken
[QUOTE=ScottPete;5588386]I've tried the Secret Benefits site and I was lucky to even get replies from messages sent. I see girls online for days in a row but no response. I get responses from messages on seeking. I just don't understand that. I do see many that are also on the Seeking site but never had much luck on the site due to the lack of response.[/QUOTE]I'm not sure if Secret Benefits really works, like technically. I subscribed a few years back and either wouldn't get responses or responses seemed not real. But then I met a woman on another site who was also on Secret Benefits and asked to have her message me on SB. Over several tries we never saw each other's messages! So maybe women aren't even seeing what you send, or you never get a response.
I had way better luck with SA in terms of getting messages back, and actually meeting a few women. I decided that approach wasn't right for me at the time but maintain an SA account and will probably try there again.