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[QUOTE=RobFordsGhost;3552905]So in looking through many of the BP ads I see many girls don't list rates and don't seem to have websites where that info is listed, but then also go on at length in there ads about no explicit talk etc, which I would assume would also include asking about rates. I'm assuming people don't just meet them and then discuss rates, or am I missing something. I am just reminded of the of the saying "if you have to ask you can't afford it" but I don't believe that is the case for most of these BP girls. What am I missing?[/QUOTE]Ask for gift or donation amount. Neither are incriminating.

Hi all.

I'm visiting ATL and would appreciate recommendations for providers. Would love to your best of recommendations of all kinds.

And I especially appreciate recommendations for providers who give a real CMT massage with special benefits.

Also appreciate recommendations for fem doms or regular massage providers who do extreme edging a la Klixen.

Thanks.

[QUOTE=RajRj;3553477]Well said. I usually text. Just to add, If you ask politely they will even tell you the menu and whether they are open to the idea of bare / protected (I prefer protected). And the ones who do not answer even when asked politely, I usually skip them. Since, there will be drama later.[/QUOTE]Having had a number of disappointing encounters over the years. I concur with my fellow mongers.

I start by texting:

1) a quick hello. Aim: see if there is a timely response;.

2) introduce myself with a quick description (age, ethnicity, body details.); Aim: get them interested in me, and comfortable with who they are going to be seeing;.

3) usually at this stage they will provide details on pricing. If not. I straight up ask how many Roses?

4) if the dollar number works for me. I say "YES. Thankyou that sounds great "; Aim: continue to build rapport;.

5) ask for the location and if they are available Now. (Again, using please and thankyou as often as I can).

6) assuming, that I now have a location and confirmation that they are available NOW! I send a text confirming the price for an UNRUSHED 1 hour /30 minutes (whatever you have agreed) AND that it is a girlfriend experience!! This is the key for me!!

At this stage they are either interested and agree to the GFE, or I get silence, or a straight up "NO Baby. No kissing Everything covered".

Usually by the time I get to communication number 6 (the GFE question) - we have established a rapport that I'm courteous and respectful. I would say 99% of the time I get a response of which about 1/3 agree to the GFE.

Some of the responses are pretty funny. But essentially if I don't get a direct YES, it means No (However you slice and dice it! In which case I just move on.

If I get a response along the lines of "you need to meet me to discuss it in person " - in my experience that pretty much always means a NO. In the early days I would go to meet them. But 95% of these ended up in disappointment or a huge upsell $$.

Not to say that I still don't find the odd very disappointing outcome. But this has certainly reduced the number of crappy experiences.

[QUOTE=RobFordsGhost;3552905]So in looking through many of the BP ads I see many girls don't list rates and don't seem to have websites where that info is listed, but then also go on at length in there ads about no explicit talk etc, which I would assume would also include asking about rates. I'm assuming people don't just meet them and then discuss rates, or am I missing something. I am just reminded of the of the saying "if you have to ask you can't afford it" but I don't believe that is the case for most of these BP girls. What am I missing?[/QUOTE]BP was forced to close down the "escort" section so all the girls moved to W4 M but they are not allowed to mention rates or it becomes another escort section. That's my understanding. One girl told me she can't say "outcall" so she said "I come to you" and all was well. Go figure.

[QUOTE=NiteMan2020;3553777]Having had a number of disappointing encounters over the years. I concur with my fellow mongers.

I start by texting:

1) a quick hello. Aim: see if there is a timely response;.

2) introduce myself with a quick description (age, ethnicity, body details.); Aim: get them interested in me, and comfortable with who they are going to be seeing;.

3) usually at this stage they will provide details on pricing. If not. I straight up ask how many Roses?

4) if the dollar number works for me. I say "YES. Thankyou that sounds great "; Aim: continue to build rapport;.

5) ask for the location and if they are available Now. (Again, using please and thankyou as often as I can).

6) assuming, that I now have a location and confirmation that they are available NOW! I send a text confirming the price for an UNRUSHED 1 hour /30 minutes (whatever you have agreed) AND that it is a girlfriend experience!! This is the key for me!!

At this stage they are either interested and agree to the GFE, or I get silence, or a straight up "NO Baby. No kissing Everything covered".

Usually by the time I get to communication number 6 (the GFE question) - we have established a rapport that I'm courteous and respectful. I would say 99% of the time I get a response of which about 1/3 agree to the GFE.

Some of the responses are pretty funny. But essentially if I don't get a direct YES, it means No (However you slice and dice it! In which case I just move on.

If I get a response along the lines of "you need to meet me to discuss it in person " - in my experience that pretty much always means a NO. In the early days I would go to meet them. But 95% of these ended up in disappointment or a huge upsell $$.

Not to say that I still don't find the odd very disappointing outcome. But this has certainly reduced the number of crappy experiences.[/QUOTE]Wow! Thanks for the detailed MO that you use. As a noob, this is very useful to me. However, I am still concerned about getting trapped in an LE sting. How are you supposed to protect from incriminating yourself by mentioning stuff such as rates, menu, etc. ? Since they can be produced as verifiable evidence of intent at the very least in the court? That is my biggest fear about texting.

Has anyone had experience with this? Any info is greatly appreciated!!

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[QUOTE=NiteMan2020;3553777]If I get a response along the lines of "you need to meet me to discuss it in person " - in my experience that pretty much always means a NO. In the early days I would go to meet them. But 95% of these ended up in disappointment or a huge upsell $$.

[/QUOTE]That's a deal killer for me.

[QUOTE=Sekuded;3553586]Hi all.

I'm visiting ATL and would appreciate recommendations for providers. Would love to your best of recommendations of all kinds.

And I especially appreciate recommendations for providers who give a real CMT massage with special benefits.

Also appreciate recommendations for fem doms or regular massage providers who do extreme edging a la Klixen.

Thanks.[/QUOTE]Can't PM until you clear your Inbox.

Nicely said,

I usually just re-iterate what I'm expecting when I walk in the door and before I put anything down on the dresser.

[QUOTE=NiteMan2020;3553777]Having had a number of disappointing encounters over the years. I concur with my fellow mongers.

I start by texting:

1) a quick hello. Aim: see if there is a timely response;.

2) introduce myself with a quick description (age, ethnicity, body details.); Aim: get them interested in me, and comfortable with who they are going to be seeing;.

3) usually at this stage they will provide details on pricing. If not. I straight up ask how many Roses?

4) if the dollar number works for me. I say "YES. Thankyou that sounds great "; Aim: continue to build rapport;.

5) ask for the location and if they are available Now. (Again, using please and thankyou as often as I can).

6) assuming, that I now have a location and confirmation that they are available NOW! I send a text confirming the price for an UNRUSHED 1 hour /30 minutes (whatever you have agreed) AND that it is a girlfriend experience!! This is the key for me!!

At this stage they are either interested and agree to the GFE, or I get silence, or a straight up "NO Baby. No kissing Everything covered".

Usually by the time I get to communication number 6 (the GFE question) - we have established a rapport that I'm courteous and respectful. I would say 99% of the time I get a response of which about 1/3 agree to the GFE.

Some of the responses are pretty funny. But essentially if I don't get a direct YES, it means No (However you slice and dice it! In which case I just move on.

If I get a response along the lines of "you need to meet me to discuss it in person " - in my experience that pretty much always means a NO. In the early days I would go to meet them. But 95% of these ended up in disappointment or a huge upsell $$.

Not to say that I still don't find the odd very disappointing outcome. But this has certainly reduced the number of crappy experiences.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=FirmOffer;3553797]BP was forced to close down the "escort" section so all the girls moved to W4 M but they are not allowed to mention rates or it becomes another escort section. That's my understanding. One girl told me she can't say "outcall" so she said "I come to you" and all was well. Go figure.[/QUOTE]The ladies are becoming a wordsmith thanks to BP. Got to love it.

[QUOTE=Vagrazer;3554458]The ladies are becoming a wordsmith thanks to BP. Got to love it.[/QUOTE]Perhaps a few but most BP ads are still the same. Haven't noticed an influx of wordsmiths on BP. Most providers / pimps can't write a basic sentence (LE as well) so it's a defense from a bad situation, is it not?

[QUOTE=Novalimber2;3537758]No that's not the one. Vanessa was in Smyrna / Cumberland area.[/QUOTE]She's hot but service wasn't good when I saw her. She doesn't want you to put it all the way in. I should have left.

Does anyone no what happened to her or where I can find her. ?

Checking the scene on that side of town today.

[QUOTE=Dripster;3554715]Does anyone no what happened to her or where I can find her. ?[/QUOTE]Her last pics on escortbabylon l, she looked totally cracked out, loosing a lot of weight. Escort Babylon probably still has her listed, looks like she has a pimp because 2-3 other girls use the same place etc.