Vasectomies are not necessarily a good thing.
[QUOTE=Concupiscent69;6034598]You should have had a vasectomy.[/QUOTE]I had a vasectomy after my third child with my first wife. I basically did so because it was a less invasive solution compared to a tubal ligation for the wife. Vasectomies are not necessarily good things for two reasons:
1. Despite what the doc may tell you it changes the way sex feels, particularly the ejaculation. Basically ejaculation feels incomplete. I know "feels" is pretty subjective, but that's the way it is for me.
2. Since my divorce I have met three very fine women who wanted to have a baby with me. One is my second wife (marrying her was best decision I ever made) and the other two are GFs that I really love. Yeah, vasectomies are often reversible but it adds complexity. Keep your options open and avoid the knife.