Characterization of a Dancer
I've been around quite a while and have had a fair share of encounters with dancers (strippers) both in and out of the clubs. In my younger days, the thought of meeting a dancer out of the clubs (read that HOTEL) seemed to the impossible to fulfill dream. As time went on I soon realized that those dreams could come true, however, also that some of those dreams could turn into nightmares that we have all read about on here. I tend to agree with prior posts that than many, if not [U]most [/U]of the girls who work at the clubs either "are" on drugs, or are recovering addicts (which is code for that interlude between when they are on drugs and next will be on drugs.) I can't tell you how many times I get "distress calls" (txt msgs) that the landlord is foreclosing, or the water is being shut off. I've become immune to those. I have had a couple of times where I was duped into paying ahead with the girl then forgetting about the prepayment. I'm done with that.
I am now very particular who I play with since I have been fooled too many times in the past. I prefer to pay-to-play when I know the money is going to feed the kids or for rent vs. Feeding a habit. I have been fortunate to meet a couple of girls at the Harem who appeared to me to be clean when I met them, and as I got to know then over time, convinced me by their behavior that they really are not on drugs. The story is a familiar one. A single mom taking care of a family the best way she knows how or the primary wage earner in the house. Taking a job at Walmart might earn them $10/ hour which is only $400 per 40 hour week if they are lucky enough to be full-time. Working at the club a decent girl can earn a lot more than that in cash. Some can make that in a day. I've "advanced" this type of girl once or twice and each time been paid back. These girls are hard to find, but they do exist.
As far as rates go, I've learned that the $300 date is generally a girl who thinks a lot of herself (considers the guy lucky to have her) and usually turns out to be a dud. Most girls I know ask for between $150 and $200 and usually go out for $100-$150. I almost NEVER go over $150 except in rare cases. I've actually been invited out a more than once to give a girl a good massage with no money expected. (I really do give a nice massage. And they certainly return the favor).
Summary. There are druggies and there are sweeties. - Look for the gems.
Let your BIG BRAIN do the thinking vs. The little brain in your pants.
Let the market dictate worth and never associate PRICE with QUALITY.