[QUOTE=Darkman808;3547742]Been mongering long enough to know (MOST of the time) when I should 'recalculate' what I'm about to do. I know, as much as everyone else does, that your little head tends to takes over.
"Go ahead and go for it! Fuck her, she's just a hole. You're ready now. Too much humbug to turn around and leave. Already paid for parking. Etc, etc, etc".
Sound familiar?
But if you're like me, after awhile, you start thinking with a clearer head (the BIG one) and realize, you are about to throw good money down the toilet. Literally! You see that condom you are about to flush away? Yea, throw a few hundred dollar bills in with it, too. Meanwhile, that cheap ho is in the other room laughing at your dumb ass.
"Another sucka! One born every minute".
She's already on her iPhone texting her next customer, answering emails and calls. NEXT! "Hurry up and get your stink ass out, I got to make the bed!
Don't get me wrong. NOT ALL PROVIDERS ARE THIS WAY. But certainly there are an ample amount of them on BP that BP as a meeting place, has a well known reputation for being real hit and miss. Thus, that's why this website is so valuable. The more you contribute, in a timely fashion, the more providers like THIS will not survive or will move on. And we as customers will be the better for it.
My last post about "Jennifer" who had an ad on BP that showed clearly fake pics, but got several good reviews here on this board, was another example, at least for me. Nothing at all like her pics. Even the mongers who reviewed her made little mention of her looks being vastly different from her BP ad pics (long blonde hair, compared to the reality of long lack hair? So when I showed up to play one morning, I was surprised (a little) that the girl I was standing next to was not the girl in the ad (So I politely left). Buh-bye!
BOTTOM LINE?
Do NOT make a scene. DO NOT slam the door. I strongly suggest one of two ways to 'get out' without making a big deal about it all.
1) First and simplest way. If you are not sure about this chick that's there with you in the room (at an AMP or in a hotel), simply ask to use the bathroom. Leave, go in the bathroom, and take 2 or 3 minutes to pause and rethink what the fuck is going on? PAUSE. Have that infamous discussion with your dick, that by now, is no longer hard. Yea, time to leave, right? Ok, we're out of here. FLUSH THE TOILET even though you may not actually have used it. Walk back out to the girl and say calmly and slowly, "I think I'm going to be sick. I just had dinner with friends (or lunch). Think I may have had some bad food. I need to leave right away".
Trust me, if the provider thinks you may throw up or are about to shit all night long in her hotel room or AMP, she'll be more than happy to see you leave. At that point, you're likely already dressed still and just head for the door. She will be happy to see you leave. Go and don't look back. Don't be rude or angry or nasty. Just fucking go away.
2) If you genuinely feel some Ho at the door that lets you in is is really taking advantage of you and has totally bullshitted her way through her ad, texts that you exchanged, and maybe even a phone call or two, perhaps you are pissed that NOW you are about to engage in a money wasting session and you are not even that horny anymore, time to rethink. Just look at her and say, "You're not the girl I saw in the ad? She may say something stupid like, "Yes I am" or maybe "Well those were taken a long time ago" or some other stupid statement. I always have the ad of the girl I'm seeing on my phone when I walk in (except local AMP's of course). Hold up the phone in front of your face, look at the pic, look at the girl and say, "Um, sorry, but no. I've got to go. " She may get pissed you are about to walk out, ask for some money "For my time" because you set up a date!? Right?
Remember, that's not your fault. Its her fault.
Tell her, "I made a date with the girl in the ad, not you. " And then just quietly leave.
Know this fact. EVERY time I have left a girl behind and NOT done the deed, I have always been glad I did it.
Also, EVERY time I stayed and did the deed and NOT enjoyed it, I have ALWAYS regretted wasting my money and time on some shitty experience. I suggest every monger do this when necessary simply because you learn from it. Once you know the feeling of saying "no" and walking away, you quickly learn, it's a good thing to do and you will NEVER regret walking away.
There are too many AMPs in this town to settle for a shit experience. Too many girls around to settle for shitty providers. The cost of a session is generally cheap, so move on to someone else.
Stay safe out there mongers![/QUOTE]Very wise. Should post this in the tips and guidelines thread. My recent mistake, on the mainland where the choices and options are less known than here at HOME, I went to see an indie at a hotel after seeing one review, asking for more info and receiving squat. Went anyway popped a V, when I open the door I could tell she had a big jelly roll gut, should have walked, but I didn't want to waste the v or my time plus she was quite young looking with cutish face so went with it. After blowing load, that's when you feel, ugh, jipped. Here at home, see ya, got back up plan.
