She was in over her head.
[QUOTE=LoveSmallPerky;3556597]I had contacted quite a few providers starting around 3 am Sunday morning but only a few replied. I sent a very specific text of a scenario and what needed to be done and a couple replied with hhr / hr rates and I replied that it needs to be a flat rate. Finally Sunday afternoon Mitzi replied and she was "fuc yeah" and asked if it was in or out. I said it was an out and that I could provide a ride but she said she found one. She said she was leaving in 5 min at 6:13. After many texts I told her be here by 8:00 or cancel but then she replied and I gave her till 8:30, then 8:40 and then I told her to forget it. Then she showed up at 9:15, I gave her 10 for the gas and said she had to go because the other gal is almost here. She did lift her shirt and lowered her pants to give me a preview for next time.
Now for the bad turning to worse. I don't remember the name she gave but her ad doesn't have one. She did ask if I know about this site and if I saw the review of the guy that put a couple bucks down, the girl didn't count it until after and then the guy grabbed her friend by the arm to get away. That provider was her friend and she was the one that had her arm grabbed. She did take 5 hrs to reply to my first text and stated that was because she was having her hair done and offered before and after pictures. The before may be her but looks a few years old to me, the after is nothing like her. During the fiasco she did say that she allows assplay but no anal and no CIM. The text screen grab is below, said bright pink Polish which she said she had with her on the way here but her friend then had to go buy it and got crappy red. While we were doing other stuff waiting on her friend to return with the Polish, that she had said she had with her, she said that her normal rate is 160 and that she "would come back again to give me a reward" As for the RED ass, it was barely pink when she quit because my comments about how it felt like a fly, snoring noise and when she said to count out 10 and I got to 5 I then said 3 and then she said that was RUDE and that she was done. Apparently she thinks that what was texted doesn't matter and that she will do anything she wants and if you try to steer her to where it should be, you are being rude. It is on my video which she agreed to but after watching it I see that she recorded it on her phone also. She claimed that it was no problem because she is also a Domme but, even though this was a first for me, she was no where near a Domme and she was just like a normal provider being nice. There is a picture of the 3 toys that I had out for her to use. If you look at the crop type whip there is a leather loop off the handle (circled in yellow) which was what she was hitting with and broke the strap portion. The other square end (circled in red) has the X on one side and an O on the other side is the actual part to use for hitting and that was what she used as a handle. It was also interesting when she left, before finishing and only 40 min into it, she left my door wide open.
[URL]http://wisconsin.backpage.com/WomenSeekMen/looking-for-a-man-thatll-make-my-toes-curl/25125147[/URL][/QUOTE]Not necessarily Nikittas fault you asked a human being to do an inhumane thing (don't take any of this as a judgement) her being late and having the wrong color are on her but perhaps some of the sessions results are due to your reactions and can be fine tuned over time.
I have dated 2 pain sluts in my time (both met off quest chat in the good ol days). I am not a sadist in any way. What ended up enabling me to do things that would harm another person was the fact that they liked it. They visably enjoyed what I was doing. One was pretty lowkey nothing was discussed but evolved over time. I noticed (was hard not to notice) she would scratch and dig her nails into my thighs during sex. It fucking hurt and I didn't like it and told her so and would hold her hands down to stop her. She responded well to that moaning etc. Then I pinched one of her nipples pretty hard and she seemed to like it alot. I pinched harder and harder and her response was an orgasam. I would pinch this chicks nipples till my fingers hurt yet she loved it. I realised I was in fact inflicting pleasure on her. Same thing with the other chick but she was a self professed pain slvt. She would openly tell me what she wanted. caneings hard with red stripes accross her ass. Her only complaints were that they weren't uniformly spaced enough. My favorite memory of her was tying her wrists together above her head and to a tree branch then taking a single tail whip to her back ass and thighs both lashing and cracking it to leave welts. The way she kicked her legs was so damn sexy but through it all and what gave me the ability to do it was the way her face lit up and she had a huge smile the whole time. After a short affair with her I released her to another dom who could provide for her finacially so she could follow her life's dream. Which was to become a race horse and pull her master in a cart while he whipped her. Yea she wanted to become a pony girl and spend her free time in the pasture and whicker. Yea no shit that's what she said. I found out there was actually a group out east where these pony girls performed both as show and race horses. Was no way I could come up with 12 k for a cart and that was just the start of expenses. Getting a riding crop and flogger ain't shit check out the prices of human bridles and reigns and bits yada yada. Even Jimmychitwood would probly cringe.
Anyway enough of my memory lane stuff. My point being if you show an inteligent provider with good empathy your enjoyment for pain she will pick up on it and draw energy from it and be able to perform. There is only one provider I can think of in my entire monger carrier who could pull this off for you (keep in mind this is not what I seek) but have come accross and luckily for you that was very recent. Bad news is your going to have to change your name here to lovesbigfloppy and call bbw katie. Like I said in my review of her, her best asset is her brain and she knows how to use it.
Good luck, be safe.