Seeking Arrangement

[QUOTE=MichiganMan686;5083497]Love this guide. Long time hobbiest but new to SA. One last need of help. When you ask for the specifics of the arrangement do you do it in person, cell to cell, email? What is the safest way? I don't want to be foolish to the SB, s. TY agian. I'm looking all the time and once I'm meeting up with them Ill report back. Happy hunting my friends.[/QUOTE]Person is the safest, but I tend to do it in text beforehand so as to not waste anyone's time.

[QUOTE=BrandoM;5083765]Person is the safest, but I tend to do it in text beforehand so as to not waste anyone's time.[/QUOTE]Definitely discuss meeting particulars off-the site. I have heard that you can be kicked for discussing money / payments in the message area.

[QUOTE=BrandoM;5083485]This one messaged me and said she used to work at Flight Club but can't do to Covid and wants 2500 - 3500 a month for unlimited meetings. I gave a hard counter of 300 a meet just to see the response, but she kept talking about her prior SD or something, haha. [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0f2de369-fb7b-43e2-9c39-7c0fdc9267fb[/URL].[/QUOTE]If she bites on the 300 let us know. She pops into my searches and she looks pretty tempting! Good Luck!

[QUOTE=BrandoM;5083485]This one messaged me and said she used to work at Flight Club but can't do to Covid and wants 2500 - 3500 a month for unlimited meetings. I gave a hard counter of 300 a meet just to see the response, but she kept talking about her prior SD or something, haha. [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0f2de369-fb7b-43e2-9c39-7c0fdc9267fb[/URL].[/QUOTE]She was down to 2 K with me.

[QUOTE=SeMichman;5082770]This has been my experience too. I find it's the norm and not the exception. I have actually asked a couple of women if there is some website with scripts for these girls to use. [/QUOTE]There clearly is some place that a lot of these girls get their profiles, as identical language turns up over and over:

"This isn't all about money for me, so please do not insult me by pretending it isn't part of the arrangement. Also if you are looking for intimacy before an arrangement, you are on the wrong website & profile. I do not get intimate with anyone until I am certain comfortable both financially and physically. If you can exceed my expectations I will certainly exceed yours. ".

"I am a force to be reckoned with, but emit only positivity -- something I'd love to see in the world. ".

Or the ones who say that we'll "have dinner by sunset on _ eating (insert fancy dish here) and sipping a 2017 (wine that she's never heard of). ".

I've seen this identical language scores of times, but I never contact any of them, so I have no idea if they're real people who just got a template for a profile somewhere or if they're just bots.

Does anyone know where this stuff comes from?

[QUOTE=BrandoM;5083485]This one messaged me and said she used to work at Flight Club but can't do to Covid and wants 2500 - 3500 a month for unlimited meetings. I gave a hard counter of 300 a meet just to see the response, but she kept talking about her prior SD or something, haha. [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0f2de369-fb7b-43e2-9c39-7c0fdc9267fb[/URL].[/QUOTE]I am new to the site but have found it useful over the last couple years. I have had pretty good success with seeking. I have met a lot of very good looking girls, and a handful that I was fooled by filters. I figured it was time to share and help others. I usually get them to add me to their snap chat, if the aren't pros I usually learn their name at that time. Great way to prove they are who they are as well, utilising the snap option. I talked to this one, she agreed on three. Sent me a verification and a full body nude. Great body. She then tried to get me to send money for pics. So I do not know if she agreed to it just to try to up sell me. I can confirm she is legit though.

[QUOTE=Jay23;5084112]She was down to 2 K with me.[/QUOTE]That one is also after me. I haven't negotiated yet but will report back. MM686.

[QUOTE=DMichael5;5083937]Definitely discuss meeting particulars off-the site. I have heard that you can be kicked for discussing money / payments in the message area.[/QUOTE]Yes you absolutely can. Don't say anything about amount, or ppm or anything like that. I get their number within the first two messages and then never talk to them on the site ever again.

If a girl even say ppm, I reply with something like " that's against the terms of the site.

But shoot me over your number and we'll work something out".

That lets them know you're down but can't talk about it on site. If they push to only talk on the site before a number, I block them. It's not worth it. Getting harder and harder to create new accounts and get your money back when you're banned.

[QUOTE=BrandoM;5083765]Person is the safest, but I tend to do it in text beforehand so as to not waste anyone's time.[/QUOTE]Yeah a lot of girls won't even meet up unless they have an amount told to them ahead of time. Smh. These girls feel they are entitled now a days.

[QUOTE=BrandoM;5083485]This one messaged me and said she used to work at Flight Club but can't do to Covid and wants 2500 - 3500 a month for unlimited meetings. I gave a hard counter of 300 a meet just to see the response, but she kept talking about her prior SD or something, haha. [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0f2de369-fb7b-43e2-9c39-7c0fdc9267fb[/URL].[/QUOTE]Okay she wants 3 k and I would say then we will meet 30 times per month, depending on the month of course. Each time she would get 100 per meet. Of course I am not likely to get ANY further responses, or at least any kind ones.

Be careful on your messaging, all it takes is a girl to get pissed off and complain about you. My fault was asking "So will you spend the weekends with me for a 2 K I am paying you".

[QUOTE=DMichael5;5083937]Definitely discuss meeting particulars off-the site. I have heard that you can be kicked for discussing money / payments in the message area.[/QUOTE]Yes, it is dumb. I got a warning / Temp ban a couple years ago because I talked about a per meet allowance, obviously the girl reported me for it. I argued with customer service about it, because in some of their blogs / official sa message board or something I saw girls talking about PPM. I said "How am I supposed to meet someone and not discuss an allowance, these girls are not meeting for free"(even though that is what the site tries to tell you to do, no girl is going to get together for nothing, most of the time).

At the same time, the girls constantly ask for money up front and try to sell pictures, which is also against the rules, and it seems like a lot of the time they do not get banned, or just keep coming back with new profile after new profile.

Ever since then I am extremely careful what I say in messages, and I move to get the conversation off SA and move to texting asap. Even then I generally make them initiate a payment option and find out what exactly they are interested in before I counter and state what I am interested in.

I haven't been a paid member on the site since Covid, because that just seemed to increase the number of scams and bs. "I won't meet in person because of covid". So, I cancelled about a month in and only now started browsing again, but haven't found anything worth re-activating the account yet.

[QUOTE=Spike1300;5072385]She has sexted me. Lord all mighty she is beautiful. Has some tatts but no biggie there. Can't wait to trace with my tongue. I can't figure her game though. I've given her some $ but doesn't seem important to her. She's smart, English degree. But seems a bit lost. Likes alcohol it seems. Monday and Tuesday she agreed to go on my medical appointments. How boring for her. Her boobs are pink and pert. No kids, has an ex at 26. Man I would never have let that go. So hard to wait.

Guys. There are ladies of all ages to bid on for a date. It costs a bill or two to search and partake and I am getting hit on. Sure it's a SB / SD site but if I get some interest who knows for you. There are scammers but be selective and careful you might have some fun.[/QUOTE]I've met this gal a few times. Playing with the tatas and she introduced me to the dog. I think I'm good to go with more. Get a time setup for a couple of hours. She even feels comfortable having me come to her room. We meet, dogs there, his a big Doberman, very friendly to the point of being annoying. Dog settled down finally. Were on the bed chatting, and chatting. I start out with some petting. She is very nervous for some reason. She keeps talking and having a beer, gets a bit mad I'm to handy. I'm not listening she says. Want talk about how her x is in jail for kidnaping her and trying to kill her and his other x and blah, blah, blah. She go to walk the dog, leaving me in her room. I should have left at that point. She comes back to say she only can spent a half hour more with me. Ok, I really need more time than that. I want the GFE not the wambam. She's seems more receptive, and begin kissing, I pull her top down cup the handfuls. She has amazing boobs. She turns around, lowers my pants asks how can I make you hard. I'm 62 it takes a bit. Suck it please. She acts like that would be the last thing she would do at the moment. Moves up my body not even touching my jr. I flip her over on her back, kissing her belly trying to go lower and she stops me telling me she was spotting. I tell her I want to see how beautiful she. She says she doesn't do that. WTF. I managed to get some fingers in her wish she liked, but the odor started to come from below. Girls have a sent but this was a bit stronger than I am used too. I got her off, nothing from her for me. Takes my hand to the sink and washes my hand a basically send me out the door. WTF again, what just happened. I mean really why are you on the site to take $. And not put out after a few dates. I think the alcohol makes her brave but when it come down to play time she not willing. Some much beer in the room. I think she has a problem with more than one thing. Stay safe out there.

P.S. The dog was almost more fun.

Great exchange this morning with a diva out of Flint who calls herself Olahbaddie.

Baddie. Not going to waste no ones time what you looking for.

Me. Hookups.

Baddie. Yeah see glad I didn't waste no ones time. Goodbye.

Me. LOL! What are you looking for. Bootlickers?

Baddie. Goodbye.

I'm 99.9 percent certain this one is fake. She immediately started asking for financial help for little things (diapers, phone bill, etc.). I asked for more pictures, since there was only a head shot with her profile. After several days of delays, she finally sent some. The "dirty ones" she included, without me requesting them, were topless shots that didn't show her face. But I know Emily Ratajkowski's tits when I see them, and a Tineye search confirmed.

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