Finally broke the bad streak
[QUOTE=Rkamz23;3082563]Roselle, Schaumburg, and ads with Northwest Suburbs ar bye mostly Jack Shacks. They give usually give an address (Lake St.) near a bowling place.[/QUOTE]After nearly half a dozen failed attempts to dream with different providers for various reasons, including $. Sunk cost at the jack shack, I finally hit the jackpot today (pun intended) with an independent provider. It cost me a bit more than I like to spend but it was worth it. It also took nearly two hours of waiting after the scheduled appointment time before I was able to see her. I Specifically asked if she wanted reviews or referrals and she said she didn't want me to do any of that because no one knows that she does this and she wants to keep it low profile. So I will respect that.
I wanted to post here not to make folks jealous but more importantly because I think I have learned an important lesson in this hobby that I want to pass along to the newer folks like myself in this hobby. I am very punctual, man of my word, generous tipper, type of guy and I was holding the girls to similar standards. I would get upset and angry when they stop responding to texts suddenly, don't show up, show up late, look uglier than their pics and all that. All that will still continue to happen but I have realized that these girls simply don't think like us normal guys do. Most don't really care about the long term client retention and repeat business that they would get from being reliable. Just by lowering my expectations, I am much more at peace now. If a girl ends up wasting my time or money, I am disappointed but I am trying not to get upset and frustrated. I wait a few days or weeks to save for the next one and try again. It's a game of odds and there will definitely be a bunch of duds. But if you keep trying, once in a while it works our really well. And once you find a few good ones, then you always have the option to see them again very easily when the new ones don't work out.
Warning reminder: avoid Belmont and Cicero
Noticed their new post. They post Belmont and Cicero, but they're actually on the 3100 block of keating. 773-366-8748.
They're posting new, different pics. Fake pics, building looks abandoned with no lights. They'll try to jack you if you try to cancel, leave. Look up my post from a couple of weeks ago.
[URL]http://chicago.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/38576282[/URL]
Glad to hear that I saved my money
[QUOTE=Chicago41;3088380]Probably a heavy crack smoker. Real shame, as she's GND cute in the pics.[/QUOTE]About two months ago I set up an outcall appointment with her via text. She agreed and seemed very sweet. On the day of the appointment I called her on the phone to confirm. It seemed as if she didn't remember our earlier conversation at all. She gave me a higher rate and said she would not do outcall because she could be making money seeing other clients during that time. Then she tried to explain why I shouldn't worry about her incall. She said she doesn't get why anybody would want to create trouble with strangers in their own home. She looked hot so I got really tempted and agreed to do incall. 5 minutes later I git cold feet and cancelled on her. I always second guessed that decision but I feel better now about cancelling on her.
