Lessons. Edited to fix a typo
One of the best times to reap lessons is after failure.
* You can walk away before you hand over the donation. You can even walk away afterwards. Don't fall prey to the sunk cost fallacy.
* Think long term.
* Think with the big head.
* If you saw her in the real world, would you turn your head to watch her as she passed? You wouldn't? You'd actually look away? Then walk away. You can do it with respect and dignity. Say, "It's not you. It's me. I just realized I lost my meds. " Or whatever.
* If you don't feel satisfied with the conversation, that's probably how you'll feel with the visit.
* Be polite, be clear.
* Believe and act as if your needs are reasonable (unless they aren't; most of us are not good judges of ourselves).
* Believe and act as if her needs are reasonable.
* If there's no overlap, no common ground, walk away.
This is kind of the opposite of "go get that pussy. ".
Don't (just) go get that pussy.
TGTBT usually means just that
I was curious about the Asian ad that promises deep kissing, licking, showering together. Who wouldn't be?
[URL]http://madison.backpage.com/WomenSeekMen/asian-girl-sexy-b2b-815-668-9021/17908981[/URL]
So I figured, why not check it out.
The girl opens the door, she's got to be nearly 50. No thanks. I didn't even enter the room.
Confirming my instinct that the Asian ads largely prey on white guys who are fixated on Asians. You get there and they think you'll operate based on the sunk costs fallacy. Why not come on in and have fun with granny?
No thanks.
Don't go get that pussy.
What's the deal with this girl?
[URL]http://madison.backpage.com/WomenSeekMen/new-party-girl/18062519[/URL]
This ad screams fake pics, but she insists they're real. Anyone seen her or talked to her?