Legalizing Our Playtime Here In Chicago.
[QUOTE=ReadyForRub;2946428]What we sneak around for here is out in the open in Australia; and, to a lesser extent, New Zealand. Advertising is everywhere, and the menus are published. Sex work is NOT illegal there, and it's available everywhere.[/QUOTE]It would be great to have it in the open here in Chicago.
Scheduling Meet and Greet
Next time we have a get-together we should use the "General Thread" instead of Backpage. I heard from a couple guys who simply don't follow "Backpage Thread" since that's not their activity. (Myself included). My other problem was going out when my wife is not around. That eliminates weekends and evenings for me. I know my schedule should not dictate a group meeting. But I want'ed to explain why I often can't make these types of meetings. Bob.
[QUOTE=UBeMyFriend99;2951786]I'll keep my eyes open for the next meet and greet. I would have liked to join you guys.[/QUOTE]
Half The Time Not Knowing Anything.
[QUOTE=Bob521;2952213]Happy to share. Keep in mind, half the time I don't know anything. Bob.[/QUOTE]You knowing half more about Asian Girls is a lot more than me because I know nothing.
First time in almost 2 decades of hobbying this has happened
I've been hobbying for almost two decades and have always taken precautions when visiting with a someone new, but for the first time ever I had a provider steal from me during the session. I've heard the horror stories of meetings going completely south so I never bring more than is absolutely necessary to an appointment. Once I have the room number, I leave my credit cards, phone, and any other valuables safely locked up in my car. All I'll take up to the incall is my I'd, car keys, the donation and my wallet which only contains whatever I plan on leaving as a tip. I've never had a problem in all these years until this past weekend.
On Friday evening, I met with a very well reviewed provider and we had a great session. Before we'd gotten started I made sure to leave the donation out so she knew she wasn't getting stiffed. After we had finished with the fun, I'd hopped in the shower and she agreed to join me. We didn't spend long in the shower, and as she was drying off she left the bathroom while I dried myself. When I joined her in the bedroom not 60 seconds later, I started to dress. As I was pulling on my pants, I knew right away that my wallet was not in my pocket the same way I had left it (maybe I'm a little OCD, but I know how my wallet feels in my pocket based on the fact that I put it away with the fold on the bottom, I could tell by the way it felt that it was in upside down). Despite the fact that I had every intention to leave her a tip based on how much fun we had over the last hour, I decided I wouldn't even reach for my wallet as I didn't feel like making a scene or causing her to panic since she had no way of knowing how I'd react in the moment. The main reason I said nothing, though, was because I knew she couldn't have taken any more than I had planned on leaving her anyway.
While walking to my car, I checked my wallet and discovered that she had only taken. 2 of the 1 I had brought. For just a second, part of me felt bad, because up until the point where she took the initiative to unscrupulously tip herself, I had planned on leaving it all for her, because the time was so enjoyable. But that feeling lasted only a moment after I thought about how pissed I was that she did something so unprofessional, and how so many providers who I've seen over the years have NEVER done anything like this. It made me even madder that she knew she wasn't getting stiffed as she had put away the donation envelope, the contents of which, I saw her take a discrete count. Perhaps she felt that because the tip wasn't in the envelope that I didn't plan on tipping (I never put the tip in the envelope, because as much as I hope for good service, I've had my fair share of ladies half-ass it, or just plain not provide any service after getting the donation. Did I mention I've been doing this for a long time? But regardless, total classless move by someone who I felt we had a mutually fun time with, and someone who was well reviewed.
Anyway. I thought I'd share, just as a reminder to the community that even the "good" ones will do bad things. My takeaway; Even though I've done my diligence in ensuring I don't ever lose any more than I'm prepared to, I'm never leaving my personal belongings out of my site at a session ever again.
FYI. I'm not going to out this provider publicly, but I will respond to PMs.
Trusting Your Regular Providers.
[QUOTE=SteamTrain98;2952283]I've been hobbying for almost two decades and have always taken precautions when visiting with a someone new, but for the first time ever I had a provider steal from me during the session. I've heard the horror stories of meetings going completely south so I never bring more than is absolutely necessary to an appointment. Once I have the room number, I leave my credit cards, phone, and any other valuables safely locked up in my car. All I'll take up to the incall is my I'd, car keys, the donation and my wallet which only contains whatever I plan on leaving as a tip. I've never had a problem in all these years until this past weekend.
On Friday evening, I met with a very well reviewed provider and we had a great session. Before we'd gotten started I made sure to leave the donation out so she knew she wasn't getting stiffed. After we had finished with the fun, I'd hopped in the shower and she agreed to join me. We didn't spend long in the shower, and as she was drying off she left the bathroom while I dried myself. When I joined her in the bedroom not 60 seconds later, I started to dress. As I was pulling on my pants, I knew right away that my wallet was not in my pocket the same way I had left it (maybe I'm a little OCD, but I know how my wallet feels in my pocket based on the fact that I put it away with the fold on the bottom, I could tell by the way it felt that it was in upside down). Despite the fact that I had every intention to leave her a tip based on how much fun we had over the last hour, I decided I wouldn't even reach for my wallet as I didn't feel like making a scene or causing her to panic since she had no way of knowing how I'd react in the moment. The main reason I said nothing, though, was because I knew she couldn't have taken any more than I had planned on leaving her anyway.
While walking to my car, I checked my wallet and discovered that she had only taken. 2 of the 1 I had brought. For just a second, part of me felt bad, because up until the point where she took the initiative to unscrupulously tip herself, I had planned on leaving it all for her, because the time was so enjoyable. But that feeling lasted only a moment after I thought about how pissed I was that she did something so unprofessional, and how so many providers who I've seen over the years have NEVER done anything like this. It made me even madder that she knew she wasn't getting stiffed as she had put away the donation envelope, the contents of which, I saw her take a discrete count. Perhaps she felt that because the tip wasn't in the envelope that I didn't plan on tipping (I never put the tip in the envelope, because as much as I hope for good service, I've had my fair share of ladies half-ass it, or just plain not provide any service after getting the donation. Did I mention I've been doing this for a long time? But regardless, total classless move by someone who I felt we had a mutually fun time with, and someone who was well reviewed.
Anyway. I thought I'd share, just as a reminder to the community that even the "good" ones will do bad things. My takeaway; Even though I've done my diligence in ensuring I don't ever lose any more than I'm prepared to, I'm never leaving my personal belongings out of my site at a session ever again.
FYI. I'm not going to out this provider publicly, but I will respond to PMs.[/QUOTE]Sorry this happened to you. In my experience I had my wallet re-located only once. Even then I never carry Cash in my wallet. So other than my wallet being removed from my pants pocket nothing was missing.
I know my trusted regular girls wouldn't do this to me. But still I'm careful when I'm with them. My Cash stays out of her sight. I keep my Cash well hidden and buried with my other clothes. My clothes stay within my sight. I make sure that she can't reach over to my Cash when we're playing. I've had no problems. If they did get my Cash wiithout me giving it to them I would confront them politely and ask why she did that.
If you like seeing her you may want to ask her about her getting your Cash. It could be just a one time incident because she may need money for billls or rent.