What in the fuck are you talking about?

I am going to copy and paste this below as I said this in the past month and this is going to be the last I reference this at least for awhile. There's a difference between being fond of a provider and falling for one versus harassing, stalking, and being obsessive. That's to an extreme. Men and women sell dreams to each other. However, we've got to know when to let it go on both sides. Most of us, have entirely too much too lose and it makes no sense in anyone (client and / or provider) going to extremes to ruin someone's life because something didn't go right. It's called setting boundaries. We have to be smarter than this and remember this is a business. The purpose is to find someone that fulfill our needs and go on about our business / life. Vice versa. The providers are working to fulfill whatever need it is, which is financial (even if it's to get drugs, pay bills or whatever). If someone goes over and beyond for one of these girls, just know it never seems to be equally beneficial. Especially, in the end, something always goes wrong and is seems unbalanced. Even in our real life, it isn't. We have to know when to cut ties and just walk away. We can't let our emotions fuel our decisions. Especially, to the point it makes us or even a provider go after the juggler.

"You'll be surprised how many people take it too far and don't have anything else better to do than to try to ruin someone and make their life miserable because someone didn't get their way or became too obsessive, Etc. I know plenty of GREAT providers that this has happened to and it's absolutely sickening. "People who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones. " IMO, it's like move on and worry about your own life. My 2 cents".

If you want to save yourself the trouble, live by the pimp's creed: real pimps don't fall in love, they make love!! Go to it my bothas! Now, back to the beaver safari.

The simp's creed states that it's okay to fall in love with someone that you make love to many times.

[QUOTE=Titlicka;6226801]If you want to save yourself the trouble, live by the pimp's creed: real pimps don't fall in love, they make love!! Go to it my bothas! Now, back to the beaver safari.[/QUOTE]

I would like to give my opinion if I may on the issue of "going obsessive or to far." I was raised in a culture where you stick up for what is right and you don't let people or business's screw you over by taking your money or lying to you. In the event I don't care who you are I do have a specific set of skills and you take advantage of me and my kindness and generosity. I was raised that if you come to an agreement between two parties and one party does not follow through, Lies or just rips you off you have every right to seek compensation. Doesn't matter what you get back in compensation as long as you are satisfied wit the return. So I understand that some of you are passive and don't like confrontation or you are married and don't want to ruffle anyone's feathers and keep your flings as hidden as much as they are. I on the other hand am not so when and if anyone was to screw me over again don't care who you are business or individual I want some compensation. I don't like being played a fool, you are an adult so am I you tell me something I assume you are good on your word. But my money is precious to me I work hard for it. Some of you may have more money and don't care if you loose 3 or 4 hundred its okay not me. So if you call it obsessive or going to far I don't blame the person or persons that want some of their monies or dignity back from the providers that lie to them or take advantage of. What gets me is that all the people here side with the provider and accuse the client of being in the wrong. Again I understand if your passive and don't like confrontation or MARRIED I understand you wouldn't do anything about it. That's just my opinion and I understand. Thanks for listening.

Problem: "you tell me something I assume you are good on your word". Probably should not assume. Just like you probably shouldn't assume we're siding with a provider. Maybe we are looking at it in a different perspective and know what we are getting ourselves into when we assume. The assumption that us mongers made is not on them, but really on us for assuming where we look like an "Ass". No one makes us do anything nor make a decision, but ourselves and that's where the accountability of our clouded judgement comes into play.

[QUOTE=GoFigure69;6228106]I would like to give my opinion if I may on the issue of "going obsessive or to far." I was raised in a culture where you stick up for what is right and you don't let people or business's screw you over by taking your money or lying to you. In the event I don't care who you are I do have a specific set of skills and you take advantage of me and my kindness and generosity. I was raised that if you come to an agreement between two parties and one party does not follow through, Lies or just rips you off you have every right to seek compensation. Doesn't matter what you get back in compensation as long as you are satisfied wit the return. So I understand that some of you are passive and don't like confrontation or you are married and don't want to ruffle anyone's feathers and keep your flings as hidden as much as they are. I on the other hand am not so when and if anyone was to screw me over again don't care who you are business or individual I want some compensation. I don't like being played a fool, you are an adult so am I you tell me something I assume you are good on your word. But my money is precious to me I work hard for it. Some of you may have more money and don't care if you loose 3 or 4 hundred its okay not me. So if you call it obsessive or going to far I don't blame the person or persons that want some of their monies or dignity back from the providers that lie to them or take advantage of. What gets me is that all the people here side with the provider and accuse the client of being in the wrong. Again I understand if your passive and don't like confrontation or MARRIED I understand you wouldn't do anything about it. That's just my opinion and I understand. Thanks for listening.[/QUOTE].

You read what he said and made it into something else IMO,
But I feel you man or maybe I don't? You felt like you made love with a provider, but is it their fault they might've not felt the same way in all actuality?

[QUOTE=MiddleAge57;6228050]The simp's creed states that it's okay to fall in love with someone that you make love to many times.[/QUOTE]

GoFigure and Stormer a lot of both of your posts are about Sammy and the situation in the past with a lot of the same exact argument? Is this the same individual with multiple handles? Not that I'm expecting anyone to admit the truth. You both seem to have popped up at the same time.

[QUOTE=GoFigure69;6228106]I would like to give my opinion if I may on the issue of "going obsessive or to far." I was raised in a culture where you stick up for what is right and you don't let people or business's screw you over by taking your money or lying to you. In the event I don't care who you are I do have a specific set of skills and you take advantage of me and my kindness and generosity. I was raised that if you come to an agreement between two parties and one party does not follow through, Lies or just rips you off you have every right to seek compensation. Doesn't matter what you get back in compensation as long as you are satisfied wit the return. So I understand that some of you are passive and don't like confrontation or you are married and don't want to ruffle anyone's feathers and keep your flings as hidden as much as they are. I on the other hand am not so when and if anyone was to screw me over again don't care who you are business or individual I want some compensation. I don't like being played a fool, you are an adult so am I you tell me something I assume you are good on your word. But my money is precious to me I work hard for it. Some of you may have more money and don't care if you loose 3 or 4 hundred its okay not me. So if you call it obsessive or going to far I don't blame the person or persons that want some of their monies or dignity back from the providers that lie to them or take advantage of. What gets me is that all the people here side with the provider and accuse the client of being in the wrong. Again I understand if your passive and don't like confrontation or MARRIED I understand you wouldn't do anything about it. That's just my opinion and I understand. Thanks for listening.[/QUOTE]You're in the wrong hobby if money is so precious to you.
This is the game we play with providers sometimes we come on top sometimes they do, obsessing over what happened or her isnt gonna put the money back in your pocket
Trying to get back at a provider by fucking with her and getting her kicked out isnt compensation by any means.

[QUOTE=MiddleAge57;6228050]The simp's creed states that it's okay to fall in love with someone that you make love to many times.[/QUOTE]Thunda J, if this is your game, who am I to judge?

No we are not the same, he is a good friend of mine and introduced me to this and Sammy. I am not as adventurous as you or he is I like Sammy and her style it is unfortunate that the providers go through situations but I guess that's like any other business you have to take the good with the bad. And again no we are not the same. Gofigure69 is a college buddy he is out there more than me.

Sorry.

[QUOTE=Stormer91;6231209]No we are not the same, he is a good friend of mine and introduced me to this and Sammy. I am not as adventurous as you or he is I like Sammy and her style it is unfortunate that the providers go through situations but I guess that's like any other business you have to take the good with the bad. And again no we are not the same. Gofigure69 is a college buddy he is out there more than me.

Sorry.[/QUOTE]A "college buddy" and yet you both sound similiar in the way you type and are both asking the board for references on providers that swallow. Doesn't really pass the smell test.

Wow your pretty good if you can tell people Type the same that's amazing. So I can take it then that you aren't friends or buddies with anyone here and don't discuss or talk about or post about the same things. Come on really, are now hunting down new members I thought we were here to inform each other not to castrate because I have a friend that wants to explore. I don't know it sounds like high school and you are amazing if you can tell by the way people text.

That's how Admin and us other mongers can figure out who is who. Especially, the banned members who try to come back. What else are we supposed to go on? Your voice? Your face? LMAO It's suspicious and it does seem that you are the same individual, but I just asked a question and put it out there as I know for a fact; I'm not the only one thinking the same thing. Goodluck, Happy mongering to you "both!"

And no, I don't know anyone personally on this board and I wouldn't want to know or meet anyone personally, to be honest. It's not a good idea.

[QUOTE=KingEpqng;6228836]GoFigure and Stormer a lot of both of your posts are about Sammy and the situation in the past with a lot of the same exact argument? Is this the same individual with multiple handles? Not that I'm expecting anyone to admit the truth. You both seem to have popped up at the same time.[/QUOTE].

[QUOTE=Stormer91;6231209]No we are not the same, he is a good friend of mine and introduced me to this and Sammy. I am not as adventurous as you or he is I like Sammy and her style it is unfortunate that the providers go through situations but I guess that's like any other business you have to take the good with the bad. And again no we are not the same. Gofigure69 is a college buddy he is out there more than me.

Sorry.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=CaptCipher;6231303]A "college buddy" and yet you both sound similiar in the way you type and are both asking the board for references on providers that swallow. Doesn't really pass the smell test.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=GoFigure69;6232372]Wow your pretty good if you can tell people Type the same that's amazing. So I can take it then that you aren't friends or buddies with anyone here and don't discuss or talk about or post about the same things. Come on really, are now hunting down new members I thought we were here to inform each other not to castrate because I have a friend that wants to explore. I don't know it sounds like high school and you are amazing if you can tell by the way people text.[/QUOTE]

Well I'll take your word for it, I don't know any of you. You might even be a provider I don't know. You and admin make the rules. I'll just go along with the flow.

You both have the same argument, views, and paranoia, I see LMAO

[QUOTE=Stormer91;6223142]I'll take the words from (NC Transplant) "These girls are human too" and I would hope you have the same opinion of the people that post here. (well some of them). Any way I was wondering if these people that claim to be wronged or have been told things by a provider. How do you people in charge know that they are not the provider just trying to drum up sympathy or support from you clients of them? I was just wondering it would be a great business ploy. I am new to this but some of you people don't know if any of you are women "Could be" no offense but thank you for trying out all these sites and different women. To the guys that go BARE "OUCH" hope you are not married. In closing I just want to say I am a real person (MAN) with feelings and a private life I like to keep. But thanks for the tips.[/QUOTE].

[QUOTE=GoFigure69;6236834]Well I'll take your word for it, I don't know any of you. You might even be a provider I don't know. You and admin make the rules. I'll just go along with the flow.[/QUOTE]