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[QUOTE=DJprofessorK;5516764]In my opinion, this depends almost entirely on the type of women that you like. If you like women who are 21-25, you're competing with almost every other man on the site. [/QUOTE]If you look at my matches (Tinder, Bumble) 21-25 outnumber 26+by 4 x.
[QUOTE=DJprofessorK;5516764]And expect them to take forever to get back to you, or not at all, give responses that consist of one or two word answers like, 'Chilling, wbu?' [/QUOTE]Secret answer: want to meet.
[QUOTE=DJprofessorK;5516764]In my opinion, this depends almost entirely on the type of women that you like. If you like women who are 21-25, you're competing with almost every other man on the site. And expect them to take forever to get back to you, or not at all, give responses that consist of one or two word answers like, 'Chilling, wbu?' Women who are under the legal drinking age, in my opinion, should be avoided. Because almost all of them want to drink a lot and if you give them booze, that's on you. Not to mention, they quite literally receive hundreds of messages a day. Women who have been on the site for a bit longer and seem to have been jerked around a lot may come off bitter, but warm up quickly if your intentions seem genuine. One woman told me that she can spot serious men when they are definitive about their answers, such as 'I'd like to meet tomorrow at noon at X', instead of, 'Yeah, I think I'll be in town sometime next week and I'll hit you up sometime around then. I'll let you know. ' That's vague, she knows you're either lying or playing games, and she won't give you much more attention after that.
Women who are a bit older, in their 30's and above, have real needs to address with some urgency, you show them some genuine interest, type in complete, clear sentences AND you don't remind them how old they are or that they're 'competing with hotties in their 20's' will be interested in meeting rather quickly, in my experience. They're also the group who can spot a BS'er, have accepted that men have needs and use the site to satisfy them, and they're also the group who may have not been treated to a nice date in a while and they actually want that. Older women WANT to feel appreciated by men, those women in their 20's don't give a * about you and are almost entirely interested in taking photos of their drinks and meals for their social media and hotel selfies WITHOUT you in them. And getting the date over as quickly as possible.
I'd focus almost all my time on the attractive, mature women who have taken care of themselves. Know not to show up in fishnets. Have real responsibilities so she's too smart to be a social liability. AND will recognize that if she treats you right, you'll come back because she's a comfortable and reliable date.
I promise you, that 20 something will drop off the face of the planet if someone offers her even a dime more than you do, he'll probably flake, and she won't respond to your texts until the very second her credit card bill is due or her phone is about to get shut off.
The mature, but still very much attractive women are where it's at.
I've had SB's in their late 20's / early 30's come to my house, do the deed, and then gladly cook me a full dinner afterward. All the while being genuinely affectionate, look forward to me touching them, and will eagerly ask for more.
Mature/older women will vet you to ensure that you're not a lunatic. Younger women will waste your time because 'their one friend told them that some guy in Minnesota paid her $$$$ for just feet pics and that you're a creep for wanting to touch them'. Clearly there's an obvious choice.[/QUOTE]I love hitting the young ones, but they are difficult to nail down and keep a schedule. Best SB I ever had was 30, had a job, and just wanted some extra spending cash. Could take her out to a decent restaurant, she could plan a trip so I didn't have to, etc. Icing on the cake was that she was a top tier fuck. If she had limits, I never found them.
[QUOTE=RegularJoe21;5516772]I googled exactly what you recommended and no links. Even added "escort" and no hits.[/QUOTE]You can't google it. You have to me an SA member, then you can do a keyword search of the profiles.
[QUOTE=DJprofessorK;5516764]I promise you, that 20 something will drop off the face of the planet if someone offers her even a dime more than you do.[/QUOTE]If all you have is money to get their attention then this is true, but if you have something more, then I disagree. Not totally disagree, but I have had quite a few at a $ that got up to 5 bills from other guys while I was seeing them. And have many times seen them turn down 5 bills if they didn't like the guy for whatever reason.
The way that I carry myself, my outlook, and my priorities usually connect really well with the SB's in their late 20's and early 30's. I've had M&G's with a couple of women in their early 40's (they were both very attractive, and one of them actually wanted to date me vanilla style) This is my own fault, and my inability to keep a poker face, but the interests of most 20 year old's are nauseating to me. And she can tell that I'm struggling to maintain my attention. Again, that's a personal failing of my own. Most of these women who present themselves as muses, inspirations, divas, and princesses annoy the hell out of me. I actually wish I was smoother about it, because a lot of these younger SB's are some of the most attractive women I've ever seen, but I just can't do it. I've tried. I'm also not much of a drinker or partier, so loosening up in order to tolerate stuff that makes me want to blow my brains out is not on the table for me.
You sound like you've got it figured out though, so I'll have to live vicariously through you. Snag the young hotties for the rest of us, brother! I salute you!
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;5518864]If all you have is money to get their attention then this is true, but if you have something more, then I disagree. Not totally disagree, but I have had quite a few at a $ that got up to 5 bills from other guys while I was seeing them. And have many times seen them turn down 5 bills if they didn't like the guy for whatever reason.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=CallMeTater;5465382]Been trying to get a hold of her for weeks now. I know she's legit but also pretty elusive. Her SA account is down and she recently deleted her Reddit username.
If anyone can PM me some assistance, I'd greatly appreciate it.
Thanks,[/QUOTE]Anyone know how to get a hold of this girl? Reply or PM please. I can trade if needed.
Thanks.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9c48502a-c16d-4dcb-b752-652b09fe97a5[/URL]
Wants 1 k a meet.
I bet her rent is due. Haha.
[QUOTE=Je2010;5520206][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9c48502a-c16d-4dcb-b752-652b09fe97a5[/URL]
Wants 1 k a meet.[/QUOTE]
I am starting to realize my age may be working against me. I get a lot of no reply's to my intro message that says nothing about my allowance amount. Supposed to have another M&G today. First one went well but the girl is a little flakey. I wouldn't normally mind but today is my last day in vegas for a couple of weeks. Considering dropping 10 years off my birthday. I thought the older the better. But maybe not.
I just recently came across a woman's second profile. The more recent one, and the one she logs into, says she's 32. Her older account says she's 37. Her second profile is also a bit more careful with her angles in her photos.
If women can lie about their age and it's acceptable, considering that we're not even supposed to ask, you can fudge a little too.
Plus, I feel like just getting these women in front of you is the key. If you have a pleasant time, I bet she wouldn't give a second thought to your age.
Fudge away, man!
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;5521674]I am starting to realize my age may be working against me. I get a lot of no reply's to my intro message that says nothing about my allowance amount. Supposed to have another M&G today. First one went well but the girl is a little flakey. I wouldn't normally mind but today is my last day in vegas for a couple of weeks. Considering dropping 10 years off my birthday. I thought the older the better. But maybe not.[/QUOTE]
For all of you stalwarts who have PMed me concerning the great road SB I had when I was there, IDK who / what you think I am. A farm animal? No, I am not going to pimp her out to you. If anything, I want to keep her for myself, she was that good. And, she's the sort of person who would be appalled at that behavior. Why would you think otherwise?
About the other gal who I posted about, and someone found her profile. Do you think I should report her to SA? I looked at the report tab, one choice is criminal activity, one choice within those being 'theft'. I'd sort of characterize what she did as that. Amazingly, I got a text from her after, saying it was all a misunderstanding and she'd come back to me (for more $). I was super cool about it, no need for confrontation. But just said I was busy w / other things.
If she's 25, then I'm 25 too LOL.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/78b7ad3a-acb5-46a1-a4c1-cb11fb4f076d[/URL]
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;5522127]
About the other gal who I posted about, and someone found her profile. Do you think I should report her to SA? I looked at the report tab, one choice is criminal activity, one choice within those being 'theft'. I'd sort of characterize what she did as that. Amazingly, I got a text from her after, saying it was all a misunderstanding and she'd come back to me (for more $). I was super cool about it, no need for confrontation. But just said I was busy w / other things.[/QUOTE]Okay, so in my early days of being in the sugar bowl, I was taken advantage of and lost money a few times. One time, I actually felt like my life was in danger, but I got out of it by staring down her bf / pimp / handler. Whatever you want to call him and making my escape.
After that, I started being very discerning with who I saw, Googled them before agreeing to meet, AND asking them point blank if they had a criminal record. Of course, all of them said no. However, in my searches, I found two women who had recently been released from prison for breaking and entering, one for armed robbery, and another with a felony count of kidnapping with the intent to extort. I forget the exact wording.
I always told them about my findings and they always came back with 'It was a misunderstanding' or 'I was with a dangerous guy and he made me'. I don't care. I'm not giving you another chance. It's not worth the risk to me.
The last time I came across someone's profile and it had odd verbiage of 'only being able to host', I asked her straight up, 'Are you on house arrest and wearing an ankle bracelet?' And she goes, 'Yes, how'd you know? I'm trying to repair my life. ' I wished her good luck, but that was something that was a dealbreaker for me. I wasn't mean to her, but I made it clear that I wasn't going to see her.
I have mixed feelings about posting the screenshot of her profile, because I have heard about women being harassed based on forum posts, however, in this hobby people have every right to keep themselves safe. Women and men. It's common decency. All I ask is that people don't bother her, just avoid her. No one needs to 'teach her a lesson', people refusing to see her will be the lesson.
BOTTOMLINE: I wouldn't report her. You made it out of there safely and unscathed. More often than not, guys in the bowl have a little more leisure time and expendable cash, we should be grateful for that. Thank your lucky stars that's all that happened, and be slower to choose in the future. That's my advice, but do what you feel is best.
[QUOTE=VivaMattyVegas;5523043]If she's 25, then I'm 25 too LOL.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/78b7ad3a-acb5-46a1-a4c1-cb11fb4f076d[/URL][/QUOTE]In her "about me" she states she's 57.
Yeah, a lot of people are doing that in order to get around the sites various filters.
[QUOTE=MNeiman;5523222]In her "about me" she states she's 57.[/QUOTE]