GPS Rates are NOT the Norm. Suckers pay, so girls will Ask.
[QUOTE=YoshiRed;6032163]You're right but the issue with #1 is that $400/ hr now is the norm everywhere you look. Every girl who posts on Eros, Tryst, TER, TNA, etc asks for that and that's the minimum now. I see plenty of girls asking for $500+ and it just makes me laugh. Guys always say to negotiate but that doesn't work LOL. Maybe it did a couple years ago but now if you try they just move on to the next guy. When I first started doing this I could easily find a good time for $200 or less but now that's impossible unless it's with some junkie off of Skipthegames. I think the only way to find someone under $400 now is to get lucky and find an utr and that's almost impossible. I've tried for a long time so I know how hard that is unfortunately.[/QUOTE]Hmmmm, all I can say is "interesting". Sure doesn't match my experience at all. I think if enough guys turn down these HIGH prices the girls will have to relent and drop them. But too many guys are paying that so girls will ask for it! Sadly, dudes prolly never experienced the true high end girls and are therefore willing to pay high end prices for GND types instead of 9's of 10's.
I think the wave of those paying $400 is because they are ignorant: unknowledgeable of what the rates should be, unknowledgeable that rates can be and should be NEGOTIATED and unknowledgeable on how to or SCARED to actually negotiate price. Many guys fall all over themselves to give up their power and money to a pretty girl. That's why when I was in swinging the Super HotWife was always paired with a Troll husband. But paying a fair price can & should be done!
So how I know these GPS rates are high? My experience! Look, I did repeated dates of 3-hours in a notel with a SB this year for $150! GND type. Did 3-4 hour dates, netflix, meals and play at another SB girl's upscale condo for $200. Shoot just the other day had a KA girl (no worse looking that OPs mentioned girl) ask for $250/ hr and I negotiated her down to 100 where she was thrashing around the hotel bed for a good 40+ minutes. She took 2 showers so prolly was there for 65-70 minutes. She'll host future dates! I've got an 8+ girl who is a true spinner that gives an enthusiastic, passionate date and takes $70 for her efforts. Yeah, she's a druggie but you would never know it from looking as she manages her habit extremely well. Then there is the girl I hooked up with this evening who use to be a real beauty, but time and meds have taken their toll. But she has a connection that leads to off the chart passion and she worked hard for 45 minutes getting me off. Damages - 50.
I know it is easy to get frustrated and especially when Jr is in severe need. But if what one is doing isn't working then what I have had to do periodically is change up my game or sharpen my skills. I see many frustrated types on these threads who will agree with you, but just because a few vocal minority do, doesn't mean that is the experience of the silent majority.
One thing I will suggest is NETWORKING! You want to find that UTR girl then establish some cred and relationship with a few girls and then after the 3rd date ask them if they know anyone else who dates, or ask if they have a girlfriend for a 3-some. Some of the girls on my rotation are 3rd, 4th or 5th generation deep on referrals. Dudes forget that girls are much more social and share stuff, so a girl dating usually has a friend or two that dates also and can be shared. A modest referral fee often helps with the incentive to share for a girl. But if one is always doing one-off dates because they like unwrapping a new package each time then it is gunna be harder to work the system and find UTR girls.
In addition, I think many dudes need to work overtime to be "really nice guys" to the girls. Nothing like being squeaky clean, smelling good, polite, respectful, passionate, kind and generous. Little gifts here & there work wonders. Have had girls discount dates 50% to help me out when funds were tight because they wanted to stay connected and I didn't make them feel like they were a fuck doll or a receptical for sperm. Good treatment has paid dividends over the years.
So yeah, I hear your frustration! Been there and often find myself there when looking for 'strange. ' But I'd encourage you to post in the main threads some "how to" questions and use the collective brain trust here to help you adjust your approach / game! It can be done and from what I have seen of your posts, you can certainly do it!
And above all, JUST SAY NO! To GPS rates!
Happy Hunting!