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Glad to hear it!
[QUOTE=LocoLobo;3978488]To be honest with you, I don't remember how I got her Instagram page, it just sorta happened? And I actually have never used doublelist, it just reeks of bots. As for a follow up to my predicament, I did in fact get the local authorities involved after a sought legal consultation from a lawyer in phoenix who agreed to help me for a whopping 35 bucks. She was understanding and told me how to communicate to my troubles to Johnny law without getting myself in deep sh*t. We were not able to get the person behind the posts but as far as the detective is more concerned, I'm in a good person with "needs" but I should never do it again. If they ever decide to come for me for solicitation, my lawyer said she would fight tooth and nail because of my situation. Never contacted the person again. If you see a scammy profile under the same name of "csally" RUN. As crazy as this situation has been, I did acquire a new number, a burner number (as TheSunDevil had prescribed), new router (old one was sh*t anyway), a kik without my name attached to it and am looking at cheap ass hotels for avoid any encounters that could potentially harm me. Any other tips from casual encounters veterans I should know about before I embark on my next adventure? It's going to be a while before I do something again though. Looking back on it now, I made a lot of terrible mistakes. I'm just glad I came out practically unscathed, minus 35 smackaroos. I do hope that I can find something to take the edge of my life, a woman tho, not a bot LOL. Thanks to TheSunDevil for giving me that advice to put on Facebook and as it just so happens, the day I was going to tell people about being scammed or "hacked" ABC15 came out with a news story about Facebook profiles being copied for ransom. So it was kinda perfectly timed for my post.[/QUOTE]Glad to hear you got that sorted out. I'd recommend building a relationship at a local No-Tell Motel. Anytime you set foot in the lobby make sure they know that you travel between "here" and California quite a bit for business. Sometimes at strange hours. This way you'll be able to check in at any hour and not raise any suspicions. Since we are on the subject of hobby expenses, you're going to want to get a prepaid debit card, or a separate online bank account. I recommend Chime ([URL]https://bit.ly/2pK2BBs[/URL]) or Simple ([URL]https://bit.ly/2yeMe4v[/URL]). 100% online so no paper trail to hit your home address, and managed 100% through mobile app. You can load them with cash like a green dot.
Last thing: Since I've moved here from the PNW, I've had to start utilizing new resources. ListCrawler is good. Just make sure to sift through comments in each posting for a few co-signs. Check how long the provider has been posting as well. I don't fuck with first time posters. Also, look at all the pictures in the profile. Are they candid photos? Or do they look professional? If it looks too good to be true, it probably is.
Stay frosty LocoLobo. I'm sure you'll have that veteran status in no time.
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Good Advice
I'd add that you can Google Photos as well as phone numbers. Online secret bank account is a must. Help you to sort out scammers. In Chicago, I developed a rapport with several Notels. A few years back during one week, I took three different women on three adjacent days. The front desk lady thought it was pretty funny. But she knew enough to not say anything to the girls. They have no illusions about what's going on. One place even sold Condoms. Bob.
[QUOTE=TheSunDevil;3979022]Glad to hear you got that sorted out. I'd recommend building a relationship at a local No-Tell Motel. Anytime you set foot in the lobby make sure they know that you travel between "here" and California quite a bit for business. Sometimes at strange hours. This way you'll be able to check in at any hour and not raise any suspicions. Since we are on the subject of hobby expenses, you're going to want to get a prepaid debit card, or a separate online bank account. I recommend Chime ([URL]https://bit.ly/2pK2BBs[/URL]) or Simple ([URL]https://bit.ly/2yeMe4v[/URL]). 100% online so no paper trail to hit your home address, and managed 100% through mobile app. You can load them with cash like a green dot.
Last thing: Since I've moved here from the PNW, I've had to start utilizing new resources. ListCrawler is good. Just make sure to sift through comments in each posting for a few co-signs. Check how long the provider has been posting as well. I don't fuck with first time posters. Also, look at all the pictures in the profile. Are they candid photos? Or do they look professional? If it looks too good to be true, it probably is.
Stay frosty LocoLobo. I'm sure you'll have that veteran status in no time.[/QUOTE]
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Earning Stripes
[QUOTE=Bob521;3979902]I'd add that you can Google Photos as well as phone numbers. Online secret bank account is a must. Help you to sort out scammers. In Chicago, I developed a rapport with several Notels. A few years back during one week, I took three different women on three adjacent days. The front desk lady thought it was pretty funny. But she knew enough to not say anything to the girls. They have no illusions about what's going on. One place even sold Condoms. Bob.[/QUOTE]Solid notes bob.
I know that some of our post histories don't show it, but there are some "newbies" on here who have resumes through other venues that precede them. Perhaps a private thread for "Hobbying 101" could be useful, with some sort of vetting or informal application process.
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Texting sucks
I know I am dating myself but when I started in the hobby you called women on the telephone. I could tell in two sentences what kind of lady I was dealing with on the phone. Unfortunately, texting is a whole different ball game and you cannot read anything about the other party including if you are talking to the Escort, Pimp, or a scammer. It takes a lot more work and leads down some dead end alleys.
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[QUOTE=DesertRat;3981958]I know I am dating myself but when I started in the hobby you called women on the telephone. I could tell in two sentences what kind of lady I was dealing with on the phone. Unfortunately, texting is a whole different ball game and you cannot read anything about the other party including if you are talking to the Escort, Pimp, or a scammer. It takes a lot more work and leads down some dead end alleys.[/QUOTE]Probably a rotary phone, eh? I kid, but that's not such a bad idea. What I'm beginning to do is try to set up dates before the dates. I've met 3 providers for coffee last week. Literally bought them coffee. On the way home from work near their incall. I made it as convenient as possible for them. You'd be surprised how quickly $$$/hour * can* turn into $.5 (YMMV) once they realize you aren't LEO or Dexter. Goes double for if they fancy you.
I'm testing the theory that it will build for a more satisfying experience overall by just getting the anxiety of the first time meeting part out of the way. I've been able to discuss more openly EXACTLY what we want to do as well.
Keep in mind not every provider will want to meet for coffee, and some won't do it for "free". But if safety from LEO is a concern of yours, then meet in person prior to discussing any nefarious activity. Squeeze in a "LEO test" as well, and go from there. What's an additional $5 in investment into your hobby?
I try to build an ongoing pipeline of providers that I *could* see at any given time, rather than just seeing who is available right at the very moment that my little guy decides I need to see someone. It helps to keep a rolling balance or allowance for these type of activities. I know that every Wednesday and Friday I will see a provider if I want to. It's budgeted into my finances. LOL.
As always Desert Rat, thank you for your insight. Ironically your nostalgia and experience / wisdom reaffirmed the idea that I had been playing with. I'll let you guys know how it goes!
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[QUOTE=TheSunDevil;3981992] ..... What I'm beginning to do is try to set up dates before the dates. I've met 3 providers for coffee last week. Literally bought them coffee. On the way home from work near their incall. I made it as convenient as possible for them. You'd be surprised how quickly $$$/hour * can* turn into $.5 (YMMV) once they realize you aren't LEO or Dexter. Goes double for if they fancy you....
[/QUOTE]This is GREAT. I'll try it too.
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[QUOTE=TheSunDevil;3981992]Probably a rotary phone, eh? I kid, but that's not such a bad idea. What I'm beginning to do is try to set up dates before the dates. I've met 3 providers for coffee last week. Literally bought them coffee. On the way home from work near their incall. I made it as convenient as possible for them. You'd be surprised how quickly $$$/hour * can* turn into $.5 (YMMV) once they realize you aren't LEO or Dexter. Goes double for if they fancy you.
I'm testing the theory that it will build for a more satisfying experience overall by just getting the anxiety of the first time meeting part out of the way. I've been able to discuss more openly EXACTLY what we want to do as well.
Keep in mind not every provider will want to meet for coffee, and some won't do it for "free". But if safety from LEO is a concern of yours, then meet in person prior to discussing any nefarious activity. Squeeze in a "LEO test" as well, and go from there. What's an additional $5 in investment into your hobby?
I try to build an ongoing pipeline of providers that I *could* see at any given time, rather than just seeing who is available right at the very moment that my little guy decides I need to see someone. It helps to keep a rolling balance or allowance for these type of activities. I know that every Wednesday and Friday I will see a provider if I want to. It's budgeted into my finances. LOL.
As always Desert Rat, thank you for your insight. Ironically your nostalgia and experience / wisdom reaffirmed the idea that I had been playing with. I'll let you guys know how it goes![/QUOTE]Hell of a strategy!
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Operation Coffee Break
[QUOTE=Journaz;3982259]Hell of a strategy![/QUOTE]Hell of a strategy indeed! It's story time now.
As I mentioned previously, I met with 3 providers for coffee. Of the three I parlayed one of them into an "initial consultation" where no donation or gift was required, and I turned an additional provider into a straight up no fee date that ended VERY well. Now, I'm not saying that this is dialed in to the point that I'd call it a science, but I'm throwing up some pretty good numbers this week.
NOT going to share any names at this time but what I will say is that these are providers from Listcrawler local to me in the Mesa area. Nothing special or unique about their postings, they just happened to respond to me and were open to meeting "off the clock" for coffee. As always, YMMV, but I'd love some additional data points so we can build a comprehensive theory or thesis here. This doesn't really belong in ripoff reports anymore, so look out for the dramatic conclusion of provider #3 in escort reports.
Stay frosty fellas.
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[QUOTE=TheSunDevil;3984429]Hell of a strategy indeed! It's story time now.
As I mentioned previously, I met with 3 providers for coffee. Of the three I parlayed one of them into an "initial consultation" where no donation or gift was required, and I turned an additional provider into a straight up no fee date that ended VERY well. Now, I'm not saying that this is dialed in to the point that I'd call it a science, but I'm throwing up some pretty good numbers this week.
NOT going to share any names at this time but what I will say is that these are providers from Listcrawler local to me in the Mesa area. Nothing special or unique about their postings, they just happened to respond to me and were open to meeting "off the clock" for coffee. As always, YMMV, but I'd love some additional data points so we can build a comprehensive theory or thesis here. This doesn't really belong in ripoff reports anymore, so look out for the dramatic conclusion of provider #3 in escort reports.
Stay frosty fellas.[/QUOTE]My man! I look forward to the conclusion of provider #3.
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Stable Genius
[QUOTE=TheSunDevil;3984429]Hell of a strategy indeed! It's story time now.
As I mentioned previously, I met with 3 providers for coffee. Of the three I parlayed one of them into an "initial consultation" where no donation or gift was required, and I turned an additional provider into a straight up no fee date that ended VERY well. Now, I'm not saying that this is dialed in to the point that I'd call it a science, but I'm throwing up some pretty good numbers this week.
NOT going to share any names at this time but what I will say is that these are providers from Listcrawler local to me in the Mesa area. Nothing special or unique about their postings, they just happened to respond to me and were open to meeting "off the clock" for coffee. As always, YMMV, but I'd love some additional data points so we can build a comprehensive theory or thesis here. This doesn't really belong in ripoff reports anymore, so look out for the dramatic conclusion of provider #3 in escort reports.
Stay frosty fellas.[/QUOTE]You sir, are a genius. I find this very smart because LE in Mesa runs a lot of bait and switch tactics. They enjoy arresting people for seeking for sex with adults and claiming the punters are pedophiles. I wish you the best of luck and promise to keep my rotary telephone spinning full time.
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[QUOTE=TheSunDevil;3981992]Probably a rotary phone, eh? I kid, but that's not such a bad idea. What I'm beginning to do is try to set up dates before the dates. I've met 3 providers for coffee last week. Literally bought them coffee. On the way home from work near their incall. I made it as convenient as possible for them. You'd be surprised how quickly $$$/hour * can* turn into $.5 (YMMV) once they realize you aren't LEO or Dexter. Goes double for if they fancy you.
I'm testing the theory that it will build for a more satisfying experience overall by just getting the anxiety of the first time meeting part out of the way. I've been able to discuss more openly EXACTLY what we want to do as well.
Keep in mind not every provider will want to meet for coffee, and some won't do it for "free". But if safety from LEO is a concern of yours, then meet in person prior to discussing any nefarious activity. Squeeze in a "LEO test" as well, and go from there. What's an additional $5 in investment into your hobby?
I try to build an ongoing pipeline of providers that I *could* see at any given time, rather than just seeing who is available right at the very moment that my little guy decides I need to see someone. It helps to keep a rolling balance or allowance for these type of activities. I know that every Wednesday and Friday I will see a provider if I want to. It's budgeted into my finances. LOL.
As always Desert Rat, thank you for your insight. Ironically your nostalgia and experience / wisdom reaffirmed the idea that I had been playing with. I'll let you guys know how it goes![/QUOTE]I'm surprised with had some luck with this. I tried to do this several times but have never had any luck!
Most of them think that you are just wasting their time. Or just get overly suspicious and think you are LE.
On their eyes it's a very awkward / suspicious request to meet just to talk.
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Almost robbed tonight
This is my first posting on this board. Unfortunately I was driven to do this after almost being robbed tonight.
It all began when I was cruising 27th Ave between CB and Northern. I had done a few rounds and was about to call it quits when I spotted a WSW in her mid to late 20's at the QT on Northern and 27th Ave. I picked her up and negotiated a rate of 80 and she told me that she had an incall nearby. She started texting and I should have known then to abandon ship but my little head was doing all of the thinking.
We arrived at what looked to be a not too shabby Homewood Suites on Dunlap near the 17. She had me park and I told her to go up first so I could survey the situation a bit. After a few minutes, I decided to head up to the room.
Once inside, I paid her the 80 at which point she told me she needed to use the restroom. I should have known then and there (after reading of similar rob instances) and left. Instead, I waited a few minutes at which point the door opened and I was facing 2 tall, strongly built Black men. They immediately demanded that I take everything out of my pockets (luckily I had left my wallet in the car). They took my keys and at that point one of them decided to go inspect my BMW (he was very happy to have "scored" a nicer car I guess). The other guy then tried to intimidate me and have me unlock my phone for him.
The girl came out of the bathroom and tried to bar the door. I surmised by now that the remaining guy didn't have a gun on him so I tried to force my way out of the door. He began to choke and restrain me (as well as the girl) and somehow my adrenaline kicked in and I just was able to force my way out of the room and ran as quickly as I could.
I called 911 and within minutes the cops were there. They drove me back to the parking lot of the hotel and luckily my car was still there. At first I lied to them about how I had met the girl but eventually after calling my cousin who is a cop in LA, I decided it was best to tell them the truth.
Once I did explain everything truthfully to them (which I'm sure they already knew since they kept asking me if she was a hooker or not), we were able to open up my car and fortunately my wallet was still inside.
So basically I lost $80 and my car keys but things could have ended much worse for me this evening.
I'm still shaking from the whole incident but I'm grateful the police let me go and I was able to get my spare keys from home.
I still can't believe I fell for their scam, especially since I've read about that same ploy where the girl goes to the bathroom with the money as soon as you give it to her.
Hopefully this will help anyone else in the future avoid the headache I went through this evening.
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Too good to be true.
Man she got me and it's totally my fault. So I had gone to see her last ueadsy for a visit. Great time. Her BBBJ was top notch and I planned to return. So Thursday night and Friday we were texting and Friday morning we were setting up an appt for that night and she texts saying she needs some help as she needs to pay her room. Initially I was hesitant because I didn't feel like getting screeed over. Well we talked more and she told me her story, she's homeless, sick baby etc and that if I could help cover her room she'd do anything to make it up. She eventually offered me 3 sessions if I could cover the room. I chose to believe her and sent her the $$ We continued to talk and had plans for me to come by that night. She sent pics and continued to text. At one point her phone started acting up and she actually texted me from another number and she said she just wanted to make sure we were still able to talk and that she didn't want me to think she ghosted me. The texting continued and closer to our appointment time she asked to push it back a little as she is trying to get medicine for her sick child. I'm cool with it. I text her again and she's waiting for her baby to be picked up by her ex and well that's the last I heard from her. I'm mad at myself for letting the little head overrule the big head. Lesson learned. Crazy part is had she not scammed me she would've made much more with me as a client as I had planned to see her frequently. Live and learn. All I will say is Beware.
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19th Avenue and Dunlap
I have noted several providers in this Motel asking for face pics of hobbyists. This in accordance with this report, seems to indicate that they are trying to compile personal info. Also if the first guy merely followed you home then he can steal your car at any time in the future, since he has the keys.
[QUOTE=AznDiggler321;4038103]This is my first posting on this board. Unfortunately I was driven to do this after almost being robbed tonight.
It all began when I was cruising 27th Ave between CB and Northern. I had done a few rounds and was about to call it quits when I spotted a WSW in her mid to late 20's at the QT on Northern and 27th Ave. I picked her up and negotiated a rate of 80 and she told me that she had an incall nearby. She started texting and I should have known then to abandon ship but my little head was doing all of the thinking.
We arrived at what looked to be a not too shabby Homewood Suites on Dunlap near the 17. She had me park and I told her to go up first so I could survey the situation a bit. After a few minutes, I decided to head up to the room.
Once inside, I paid her the 80 at which point she told me she needed to use the restroom. I should have known then and there (after reading of similar rob instances) and left. Instead, I waited a few minutes at which point the door opened and I was facing 2 tall, strongly built Black men. They immediately demanded that I take everything out of my pockets (luckily I had left my wallet in the car). They took my keys and at that point one of them decided to go inspect my BMW (he was very happy to have "scored" a nicer car I guess). The other guy then tried to intimidate me and have me unlock my phone for him.
The girl came out of the bathroom and tried to bar the door. I surmised by now that the remaining guy didn't have a gun on him so I tried to force my way out of the door. He began to choke and restrain me (as well as the girl) and somehow my adrenaline kicked in and I just was able to force my way out of the room and ran as quickly as I could.
I called 911 and within minutes the cops were there. They drove me back to the parking lot of the hotel and luckily my car was still there. At first I lied to them about how I had met the girl but eventually after calling my cousin who is a cop in LA, I decided it was best to tell them the truth.
Once I did explain everything truthfully to them (which I'm sure they already knew since they kept asking me if she was a hooker or not), we were able to open up my car and fortunately my wallet was still inside.
So basically I lost $80 and my car keys but things could have ended much worse for me this evening.
I'm still shaking from the whole incident but I'm grateful the police let me go and I was able to get my spare keys from home.
I still can't believe I fell for their scam, especially since I've read about that same ploy where the girl goes to the bathroom with the money as soon as you give it to her.
Hopefully this will help anyone else in the future avoid the headache I went through this evening.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Journaz;4188861]Man she got me and it's totally my fault. So I had gone to see her last ueadsy for a visit. Great time. Her BBBJ was top notch and I planned to return. So Thursday night and Friday we were texting and Friday morning we were setting up an appt for that night and she texts saying she needs some help as she needs to pay her room. Initially I was hesitant because I didn't feel like getting screeed over. Well we talked more and she told me her story, she's homeless, sick baby etc and that if I could help cover her room she'd do anything to make it up. She eventually offered me 3 sessions if I could cover the room. I chose to believe her and sent her the $$ We continued to talk and had plans for me to come by that night. She sent pics and continued to text. At one point her phone started acting up and she actually texted me from another number and she said she just wanted to make sure we were still able to talk and that she didn't want me to think she ghosted me. The texting continued and closer to our appointment time she asked to push it back a little as she is trying to get medicine for her sick child. I'm cool with it. I text her again and she's waiting for her baby to be picked up by her ex and well that's the last I heard from her. I'm mad at myself for letting the little head overrule the big head. Lesson learned. Crazy part is had she not scammed me she would've made much more with me as a client as I had planned to see her frequently. Live and learn. All I will say is Beware.
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