[QUOTE=JamesD2004;6971767]BTW, she's lianiyalife on IG. Just an illustration.[/QUOTE]IMHO, I feel ericaclapton looks like molly little just without the weird mushroom tattoo.
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[QUOTE=JamesD2004;6971767]BTW, she's lianiyalife on IG. Just an illustration.[/QUOTE]IMHO, I feel ericaclapton looks like molly little just without the weird mushroom tattoo.
[QUOTE=IslaVista;6930755]Pretty rare to catch anything if you got covered everything (CBJ, CFS, no camel sliding). Only thing is HPV and it's so pervasive that they only test the strains that can lead to cervical cancer. Herpes are pretty common too but doesn't really impact the body. For your SO wellness, something might show on her pap smear (HPV) and they'll do an std check if she has discharge. Someone posted earlier on adult HPV vaccine and I'm seriously considering taking it.
Some kgirl trying to tell me they are actually safer than civvie girls because she gets tested regularly, regularly cleans her cooch, she only does cfs and only lets her bf fuck her raw. She's more of an exception. Most kgirls now do BBFS and the ones that don't likely do at an unspecified price. Most kgirls also blow their money on name brand junk and parties, so they don't have the money to pay for proper testing or medication (there is no insurance in this profession). Then again, I know guys that's been doing BBFS civ for the last 10 years and nothing shows up on their std tests.[/QUOTE]I highly recommend Gardasil 9 (given up to age 45). It covers cancers and warts, given in 3 shots for older people. There is also the Hep B vaccine. All the more important for those with partners or who plan no this hobby for a long time.
With full protection you are protected against almost everything other than HPV. The main other exception is gential herpes, which can be just a matter of time.
With bbfs bacterial infections are common and easily treatable, however the problem is a pee test is not completely reliable. A deep swab and culture is, but it is painful to perform so it is not part of normal screening. I would be careful and assume some bacterial infection if you are doing BBFS regularly. I have tested negative on pee tests but still had it (this was 20 years ago).
[QUOTE=JasonVee;6975951]IMHO, I feel ericaclapton looks like molly little just without the weird mushroom tattoo.[/QUOTE]Oh yes! Similar small feet too. But the tiny, teens are easy to find replacement with. Rob made sure of that. I'm obsessed with finding a decent black girl. So far there's only one and I would like to think she's a bit like the younger Ana Foxxx. She's a little bit fuller in the chest and butt without feeling chunky. Looking at her holes makes me want desperately to finger and fuck both again.
I returned to the dining table. 3-course dinners. Deserts. Even have my wine back. Sleeping in the same bed. You may get the wrong idea. If we split, she probably has to keep paying me.
So my dream of selling off and relocating to Thailand, the Philippines, and Africa is an option, didn't come true. When I first changed diapers, the thought came to me that I had to wait at least 18 years for my dream. The time had long passed but I still have hope.
I sorted out the hosting thing that is in the back of my people mover. It's only the money. The only thing I can think of to hide money is cashback. Unfortunately, I don't usually buy things using a debit card. She took it back but I still have it in my google wallet. I don't want to get it back unnecessarily to avoid suspicion and examination. Homedepot doesn't accept phone payments. Lowes doesn't use humans at the checkout anymore. There's no automatic cashback.
I ventured into my neighborhood gas station store where I always use the pump only. I brought a $3 coke as an excuse and asked for $40 gas. When I paid with the debit card via google, the familiar "do you want cashback?" popped up. I wasted no time opting for $40, thank god. Also, I never knew that if the tank was full before $40, I only pay the actual amount of gas pumped. Silly me for all those years. When I printed the receipt at the pump, I have the correct amount. What I tried was to give them the card saying full tank. Then I go to turn on the pump. Then go back to get the card. So I always pay at the pump. If I need to go inside I buy something separately.
$40 maybe a week is not much compared to my spending well over $1000 a month last year and the beginning of this year. But that's enough to see the skinny girl at her Garden Grove beauty shop who had reviews here. She looks young and fresh for her age (that I don't know). It was a bit rush testing the water. I didn't see the word massage because I bet she doesn't have a license. I ended up with half hr bad massage and a handjob. I didn't ask her to pop out her small tits because I was admiring her full office lady attire. I gave her $100 and she was very happy. I didn't know that I might not have the chance to go back again. Garden Grove is too far away. I only have time to simulate running errands.
The Chinese are amazing. You can have BBFS or anal for cheap in a respected motel near you. I always think that the nearest Chinese house is 30 min away from me. But once out of curiosity I tried the "hotel" operations and it was only 15 min away. But that is not what I wanted to spend my money on, and not the MPs near my home.
Now can you recommend some money laundering schemes? Even for cash back I will be spending too much on gas which draws suspicion.
I find horse race betting pretty good. Get an account, link it to your bank and a credit card. You put $ in, after it has been in there for a while, it can come out. They can send you a check. You can go to Santa Anita and do a cash withdrawal. If you are any good at betting, winnings are paid in cash.
I also have RMDs from my retirement accounts (which of course are limited to individuals, therefore my SO doesn't have access to the records) sent in paper checks I can walk into a bank and cash.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6993060]I find horse race betting pretty good.
I also have RMDs from my retirement accounts.[/QUOTE]She won't allow me to start gambling, no charity donations for that matter. For any accounts she knows of, she demand online access or statements. To keep accounts from her, I have to have a way to find it without her knowing.
[QUOTE=JamesD2004;6993751]She won't allow me to start gambling, no charity donations for that matter. For any accounts she knows of, she demand online access or statements. To keep accounts from her, I have to have a way to >find< it without her knowing.[/QUOTE]Fund not find.
[QUOTE=JamesD2004;6990027]
Now can you recommend some money laundering schemes? Even for cash back I will be spending too much on gas which draws suspicion.[/QUOTE]What I've been doing for decades, a 2nd direct deposit from my paycheck. When I started, there was no online access to ones ADP or what ever the payroll company was.
I opened a checking / savings account at a bank that I knew would not have anything to do with any of my current credit card accounts or anything at all. Unfortunately, since I started the account in the 90's, Washington Mutual got acquired by Chase. That acquisition triggered all kinds of changes, but finally got it sorted out, while keeping it from the wife.
I changed jobs in recent years. New job only allows one direct deposit. Crap! Turns out, the company has an affiliated credit union. That isn't direct deposit. So, got that all figured out and back to embezzling from myself.
There is a paper trail, so got to take that into consideration. Starting it without detection? I forget how I started it, but I have changed the amounts over the years. I just waited until pay raise time, and siphoned off a little of the raise.
[QUOTE=JamesD2004;6993987]Fund not find.[/QUOTE]Hi James.
I am an 81-year-old man. Like you, I am a polyamorous, hooker-loving mother fucker. I have been this way all my life. When I was single, I picked up women in the bars, streets, museums, wherever. After marrying (a second time), I went to pros in massage parlors, escort hotel rooms, and on the streets (remember Harbor Blvd in the early 90's). I have been doing this, on and off, for 40 years.
I have some advice for you, and I hope you take it. You (and your wife) have suffered too much with this double life. It would help if you put an end to it.
If you have not already done so, square with your wife. "Honey, I am polyamorous; I am not a pervert or a sex addict. There are many people like me. We love sex with multiple partners and we will not change. I will not change. You have to accept that, or we have to split. "
Prepare yourself financially and legally for this, and get ready to lose half of what you own and have to pay her alimony and child support. Get ready to see your kids less often. But please do it.
Also, prepare for that life in Thailand or Mexico. Follow your dreams and your dreams are about pussy. Live life.
Bobby.
[QUOTE=OcAmper;6994250]What I've been doing for decades, a 2nd direct deposit from my paycheck. When I started, there was no online access to ones ADP or what ever the payroll company was.
I opened a checking / savings account at a bank that I knew would not have anything to do with any of my current credit card accounts or anything at all. Unfortunately, since I started the account in the 90's, Washington Mutual got acquired by Chase. That acquisition triggered all kinds of changes, but finally got it sorted out, while keeping it from the wife.
I changed jobs in recent years. New job only allows one direct deposit. Crap! Turns out, the company has an affiliated credit union. That isn't direct deposit. So, got that all figured out and back to embezzling from myself.
There is a paper trail, so got to take that into consideration. Starting it without detection? I forget how I started it, but I have changed the amounts over the years. I just waited until pay raise time, and siphoned off a little of the raise.[/QUOTE]That works if she doesn't know how much you earns. If she has a reason to ask how can you refuse? She can also ask for the pay slip.
I used to have stock options and enrolled in employee stock discount plans buying a little every paycheck. They all go into my brokerage account where I have a credit card. I also engineered a few thousand tax refund every year. Now I don't have any source that she doesn't know.
[QUOTE=JamesD2004;6994857]That works if she doesn't know how much you earns. If she has a reason to ask how can you refuse? She can also ask for the pay slip.
I used to have stock options and enrolled in employee stock discount plans buying a little every paycheck. They all go into my brokerage account where I have a credit card. I also engineered a few thousand tax refund every year. Now I don't have any source that she doesn't know.[/QUOTE]I went through this shit of hiding my spending on hookers with my second wife. In the end, we split due to her not being able to accept my polyamory and other reasons.
You guys have to be careful when planning. But you must work toward a moment when you can have a frank discussion with her about your mutual sexual needs. That cannot include any bullshit about you being addicted to sex or her being a prude. Give her a chance to accept you for what you are, and you must accept her if she also has polyamorous tendencies that you do not know about.
But be careful. I waited until I was retirement age. I stated that I wanted to retire and even had a retirement party. If you retire, you don't pay alimony, and your obligations for child support, if any, decrease. Then I had that discussion with her. I even suggested she and I go to a polyamorous supportive therapist and that she try out bars for older singles and married people. I suggested that we try swinging. She did not want any of it. Our kids were grown and out of the picture. We split. The divorce was terrible, but now she and I have a friendly relationship. I am remarried to a woman who accepts my polyamory. My ex is single and lives with our daughter. It is much, much better. It would have been hell if I had continued living the false life.
You can do it. It may work out even better for you.
[QUOTE=BSouthgate;6995300]You can do it. It may work out even better for you.[/QUOTE]Good advice. But it's even better advice to just stay single. In my experience, many women will initially agree to having a polyamorous relationship. Until they don't. They change their minds. They fall in love. And their brains switch into jealous, possessive gear. I even had one tell to me: "You brainwashed me into thinking I would like an open relationship!
Women are wonderful, but they are not logical creatures. So appealing to them logically doesn't work very often. They change their minds almost daily. They make horrible decisions, often against their own best interests. They screw themselves over all the time. They are their own worst enemies.
Who wants to marry that? Rent, yes. But don't buy.
[QUOTE=Taliesin92;6995768]Good advice. But it's even better advice to just stay single. In my experience, many women will initially agree to having a polyamorous relationship. Until they don't. They change their minds. They fall in love. And their brains switch into jealous, possessive gear. I even had one tell to me: "You brainwashed me into thinking I would like an open relationship!
Women are wonderful, but they are not logical creatures. So appealing to them logically doesn't work very often. They change their minds almost daily. They make horrible decisions, often against their own best interests. They screw themselves over all the time. They are their own worst enemies.
Who wants to marry that? Rent, yes. But don't buy.[/QUOTE]It depends on your situation. I have an angel for a wife. She does not care what I do when I disappear for a few hours once or twice per month. She makes sure I take my medicine. She loves to travel with me, and I love traveling with her. We explore new places, see our relatives, and eat at new restaurants. As long as I don't blow too much money with hookers, she is totally ok with my having some fun with them.
But for other guys, it will be different.
The main thing is that if you are polyamorous, do not commit to fucking only one person. It is similar to the advice I give to gay friends. Don't deny your own sexuality, and don't think you will ever change. Don't even try. Polyamorous pride forever!
[QUOTE=BSouthgate;6995874]The main thing is that if you are polyamorous, do not commit to fucking only one person. It is similar to the advice I give to gay friends. Don't deny your own sexuality, and don't think you will ever change. Don't even try. Polyamorous pride forever![/QUOTE]True that.
[QUOTE=BSouthgate;6995300]I went through this shit of hiding my spending on hookers with my second wife. In the end, we split due to her not being able to accept my polyamory and other reasons.
You guys have to be careful when planning. But you must work toward a moment when you can have a frank discussion with her about your mutual sexual needs. That cannot include any bullshit about you being addicted to sex or her being a prude. Give her a chance to accept you for what you are, and you must accept her if she also has polyamorous tendencies that you do not know about.
But be careful. I waited until I was retirement age. I stated that I wanted to retire and even had a retirement party. If you retire, you don't pay alimony, and your obligations for child support, if any, decrease. Then I had that discussion with her. I even suggested she and I go to a polyamorous supportive therapist and that she try out bars for older singles and married people..[/QUOTE]Guys are looking for simple solutions all over the world based on their own circumstances that don't apply to all. In SVG along I10, all the hostess clubs are full of married guys with a full parking lot of MBZs. They go out when their kids go to bed. It's sort of tradition that communism didn't erase. The California twist is that the wives could have half any time but they choose not to. There's no need to act fast when half of the pot keeps growing.
In my current situation, I don't want to sell out and split. If I'm forced to sell out, I have to find some places to make it last long, until my 70's if I'm lucky. Or make some fireworks with it and suffer the consequence whatever it may be.
If I don't need to sell out, I won't. If the pot keeps growing, I have more to leave for my kids. My dad is the legend of the family. His kids are doing quite well having like a house each when he retired. My kids get less of what I inherited plus growth and interest. I also squandered a lot on hookers. I feel guilty for my kids but my excuse is to keep my mental health. I never need that much sex. I need a boost when I'm down, a cheerleader, better in uniform. I can manage a few times a week perhaps. When I went to Argentina for a week, it was not fun anymore after the 1st two days. But I soldiered on to feel better about my flight ticket.
I started in Soho with my wingman. We saw a woman wrapped up beautifully in like a few bandages. We were shy and went with her up her apartment. She was old and had a bad figure. But it was fun because she didn't take off her bandages like a corset and we did doggie (GFE not common). We did some because I always got to go first! It wasn't gangbang. We paid full price and he waited outside the room for his turn. Most ladies stand outside their apartments and go up when they get a client. Most were local British girls at the time before being taken over by Eastern Europeans and other nationalities. We met some unbelievable girls compared to the price and standard later in the US.
Other than that I always do it alone. Never with friends. I don't want the stigma when words get out or people judge you by your associates. That will affect my ability to get a good free fuck. I didn't have the crush to do it. I only do it when the circumstances arise. I was shocked in Paris with raw meat covering the walls of the street completely, seemingly two layers deep. In Barcelona, I picked up a girl in a flamingo-dancer dress outside a bar. Actually, she was a flamingo dancer in the bar. Silly me I brought a condom with me that was not the norm. She signed to me like she wasn't going to blow me with the condom on.
I did a lay over in BK when I graduated. It was mind-altering. Before the Internet and WSG, every experience was a tourist trap, good or bad, unless you lived there for a while. BK is different when you have an allnighter waking up still having a crush and erection on the girl you picked yesterday. I was really sad for her and the world. But I was very happy for myself. I sold my family gifts to me for a few more days in BK. I knew I had to find some explanations later. I booked a cheap hotel but decided to fly back on the original schedule. I didn't want to lose my mind and get stuck there asking for rescue.
When you were young you were looking for a beautiful wife and fuck every day for free. That was accomplished other than the fuck part, LOL. Our estate agent started talking about sex offender registration when she saw my wife. I had no clue at the time but she suspected that I could be one and the neighborhood would have banned her.
Somebody like to fuck the same hookers, others a different one each time. I'm the former and don't understand the latter. It's all good. My first ATF was Kelvin's girl alongside two Asian Penthouse girls that he brought to the US charging insane prices on CityV like $700. My ATF didn't go all the way like showing her faces because she had family here and she is ABC, although only 1/4 in C. Her mom is half Viet half French. Her dad is Chinese and her stepdad is from Hong Kong or something, or the other way around. Anyway, she is fluent in 3 languages. If she goes into sales it's 6 figures in South Coast Plaza. Maybe 19 is too young but you have plenty of time to wait. But she is such a loser. Maybe she was picked by a high roller and dumped leaving her broken. I only know she was high on gambling debt at 19. I listened to my mentor not to pay the CV price. Soon I met her in the C houses paying $120. She didn't even want to see me. I got her number but she ghosted me, afraid of being banned by the c-houses. And I didn't want to see her there, GPS, dead fish, you name it, she did it. But she is beautiful with killer eyes at 19. I think she has the same eye surgeon as a young Viet massage girl. She didn't do handjobs but I can stare at her beautiful face all the time. But I didn't give up on her offering more to see her privately. Once she gave me some mint and the rest is history. Every month when I saw her I would DFK her nonstop like I just returned from a one-year army deployment. I could afford it and I was happy.
She quit at 23, the last chance to marry her rich boyfriend. I couldn't find anything like her in SVG since. Sure there are plenty of she in Vietnam and Thailand. But I made my money here and I pay the price here. If I can make the same money in Thailand I will move.
After I spent all my stocks, it turned out that I left some that were split. It went up 1000% at the highest point. I almost donated $30,000 to the state because I registered my brokerage account with a PO box. Never again. That lasted me some good times on HX and another ATF. What I couldn't find on SVG I found it on Macey Lin. I auditioned a lot of girls on HX but none had the potential of her, at 19. I ran out of money at the time so that's the end of it. I patroned her again years later but it just wasn't the same. Her buddy Daisy was my type. But she never kissed. She didn't give it all on HX. When she found sugar daddies she would stay away until ran out of sugar money. When I had money again I picked Holly based on faceless pictures typical of the Enclave crew, who is actually Daisy. (She changed her name to erase her underage history on HX due to new laws and she wasn't the only one.) But I didn't recognize her. While riding on the horse she would bend down and tongue kiss me. That was unthinkable for Daisy. I only asked when I recognized her makeup palette when she freshened up after sex. She became my ATF of course. If she turns up in a lineup I will always pick her again. I think I may be the only one who book her when she put up her classified. That's the reason most girls don't last a year or two. But I was happy and she tried hard to keep me. Once she asked me to excuse her state. She went to church with Grandma and came straight to me. I ended up seeing her at her beautiful one-bed apartment when she talked about cooking for me. Later it dawned on me that she was recruiting me for a sugar daddy. Instinctively I didn't agree to see her when she called me up. I was already stretching myself economically. I was happy as it were.
But she had other plans. Soon she quit the game and then moved out later. Unlike the quarter French ATF I was upset for days because it came so suddenly.
Came COVID my wife got plenty of money. I got college refunds. Imagine why colleges are so expensive and suddenly they become tuition-only. And I have two kids in college! Once it's over I fucked many HX girls regularly. Not that I like to but not one of them gave me all my needs. The looker that is my type lives in Ohio. Since she had been on HX long enough her booking rate dropped a lot and she couldn't afford to come. I bet she couldn't afford to relocate either. One is total GFE that I could kiss forever. But we didn't progress when she didn't seem to remember me sometimes. Maybe she's on something to stay alert. I found out that she is indeed very busy when she's not on HX. Another one probably started as a cuddler who always slept on top of me after sex. Another level of GFE. And also the black girl from the Hottery Gallery of Figueroa who can be as elegant as I wanted offering all holes as long as they are covered for a reasonable compensation. If any of them offers some more I will have another ATF. Otherwise, I'll hang on to them to see who will up their games. And it's all too easy to lose one all of a sudden or all of them.
I know someone who kept a gay husband. She got a husband and he got a cover. If you know some gay people the gayness is obvious but not to the public. I would say why bother? At my stage I have no stigma, don't need to pretend whatever. A 19-year-old girl is fine. Older is fine too but not too much baby damage. If a hooker wants a husband that's fine by me if I can afford it. But she has to stop. If not, sharing a hooker isn't a problem with me. I don't want to enter some complicated relationships when my wife fucks other people. If I have enough good sex I don't have the urge to fuck other people.
Life has its ups and downs. I was doing fine until my wife audited everything. I can wait for my chance again. Tomorrow is another day. But do you know any laundry schemes, say, to buy something with a receipt online or off then you get back the money without delivery?