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Hey Guys, I just re-joined SA and was wondering if you ignore the ones that have expectations in their profile higher than what you're willing to do. For instance, I'm only able to do Negotiable or Minimal. Does it make sense to look at the others like Moderate and Practical, etc? Or is it a waste of both my and the young lady's time?
I'm also curious as to how closely the ideals they espouse in their profiles correlate with what they'd actually be willing to accept.
I'm considering giving SA another try and wanted to see if there are any specific recommendations?
I tried it in the past and had WAY more flakes than actual connections and it was VERY time consuming. I lost track of how many girls would setup a meet and then go complete radio silence and generally block me before I even got back home from the attempted meet. I also found it really hard to find someone that could host since paying for a meet and a room puts the expense higher than the price of a lot of well reviewed pros.
So my questions are:
What are you finding is your price range for a successful meet? Meaning, what is your low and high number for getting what you want?
Are you paying for a room or have you been able to find girls that can host?
How much time are you having to spend to actually find someone willing to meet?
How open are you in your profile that you are looking for Pay 2 play?
Thanks for the insight.
[QUOTE=OnyxRain;3509081]Hey Guys, I just re-joined SA and was wondering if you ignore the ones that have expectations in their profile higher than what you're willing to do. For instance, I'm only able to do Negotiable or Minimal. Does it make sense to look at the others like Moderate and Practical, etc? Or is it a waste of both my and the young lady's time?
I'm also curious as to how closely the ideals they espouse in their profiles correlate with what they'd actually be willing to accept.[/QUOTE]I ignore 99% of the "lifestyle expectation" crap. Those chicks have no clue what that means and just select something.
Some of them are pretty blunt and will basically say pay for play, obviously they can't use those exact words.
[QUOTE=2me4Looking2;3509177]I'm considering giving SA another try and wanted to see if there are any specific recommendations?
I tried it in the past and had WAY more flakes than actual connections and it was VERY time consuming. I lost track of how many girls would setup a meet and then go complete radio silence and generally block me before I even got back home from the attempted meet. I also found it really hard to find someone that could host since paying for a meet and a room puts the expense higher than the price of a lot of well reviewed pros.
So my questions are:
What are you finding is your price range for a successful meet? Meaning, what is your low and high number for getting what you want?
Are you paying for a room or have you been able to find girls that can host?
How much time are you having to spend to actually find someone willing to meet?
How open are you in your profile that you are looking for Pay 2 play?
Thanks for the insight.[/QUOTE]Price ranges from a low of $150 up to a high of $400 per meet no clock, and generally no rules. You can't discuss specific acts via the chat feature, move them to text as quick as possible and try and coax a menu out of them without asking if they do greek or BBBJ, these girls usually have no idea what that means any way. Being discreet and respectful goes a long ways.
I have my own place and I'm single, however I have found several that can host, just ask after you chat with them or when you meet them in public.
This game is time consuming, to find that diamond you have to move a lot of dirt. I have had 1 or 2 that were willing to meet immediately, but it usually takes a day of time management to arrange everything.
Never put Pay for Play in your profile, use "friends with benefits" or "no strings attached" maybe mention "quality time" or intimate encounters. Never mention a specific amount of time EVER. Be vague. Several hours, a few times a month as schedules allow, something along those lines.
Airman your post was spot on. Great advice!
I would add a couple of things to those just getting into SA:
First, you need to upgrade. You'll never get anywhere with these girls if they think you are too cheap to pay the price of admission there first. Plus, you can't read or respond to messages without a premium account.
It's a bit of a game so you need to be on the hunt. Don't fall for the 20 something bimbos contacting you. They are all full of crap and have GPS (Golden Pussy Syndrome). Shoot in the late 20's and up.
You need to coax them out. You are both essentially looking for the same thing but these aren't BP hoes so they don't know the lingo and don't want to come right out and say they want $$ for sex. I've even gotten some for free on here with the right attitude but don't expect it. Most of these girls are BB types cause they are used to BF's or significant others in their lives so don't make a big deal out of it and it won't even come up. Some are real, sexually pent up wildcats! They've been in vanilla sex but want to come out of their shells. I've even had you tell me that she needed me to help her come out of her shell and experience the wilder stuff she craves but has never had anyone to get there with her. Many are internally submissive and want a strong hand, these you need to identify and play to that with strength but don't overplay your hand too early or it will backfire.
This is like CHESS, a game of skill! Have fun and hone your skills well for this one!
[QUOTE=SkyHighBuilder;3509268]Airman your post was spot on. Great advice!
[/QUOTE]Sky High: sent you another PM, but your box is full. Good info!
Thanks Bud. Appreciate the insight. I have a couple in play right now. One is very young and asked me outright "how much I'm trying to spend". I tried to avoid the question as I wasn't sure of the site rules but eventually wrote 1 0 0 roses. She obviously had no idea what I was talking about because she asked me again. A part of me felt relieved that she didn't know what I was talking about because it meant she might not be a pro. But, I found that to be a little too direct, as we exchanged all of 2-3 messages by that point.
I'll keep you guys posted.
[QUOTE=Airmantroy;3509201]I ignore 99% of the "lifestyle expectation" crap. Those chicks have no clue what that means and just select something.
Some of them are pretty blunt and will basically say pay for play, obviously they can't use those exact words.
Price ranges from a low of $150 up to a high of $400 per meet no clock, and generally no rules. You can't discuss specific acts via the chat feature, move them to text as quick as possible and try and coax a menu out of them without asking if they do greek or BBBJ, these girls usually have no idea what that means any way. Being discreet and respectful goes a long ways.
I have my own place and I'm single, however I have found several that can host, just ask after you chat with them or when you meet them in public.
This game is time consuming, to find that diamond you have to move a lot of dirt. I have had 1 or 2 that were willing to meet immediately, but it usually takes a day of time management to arrange everything.
Never put Pay for Play in your profile, use "friends with benefits" or "no strings attached" maybe mention "quality time" or intimate encounters. Never mention a specific amount of time EVER. Be vague. Several hours, a few times a month as schedules allow, something along those lines.[/QUOTE]
SkyHigh, I'm not implying at all that you work for them, so take this in jest. You deserve a commission from SA, as I'm sure your exploits have encouraged a lot of mongers to test or re-test the waters there.
[QUOTE=SkyHighBuilder;3509268]Airman your post was spot on. Great advice!
I would add a couple of things to those just getting into SA:
First, you need to upgrade. You'll never get anywhere with these girls if they think you are too cheap to pay the price of admission there first. Plus, you can't read or respond to messages without a premium account.
It's a bit of a game so you need to be on the hunt. Don't fall for the 20 something bimbos contacting you. They are all full of crap and have GPS (Golden Pussy Syndrome). Shoot in the late 20's and up.
You need to coax them out. You are both essentially looking for the same thing but these aren't BP hoes so they don't know the lingo and don't want to come right out and say they want $$ for sex. I've even gotten some for free on here with the right attitude but don't expect it. Most of these girls are BB types cause they are used to BF's or significant others in their lives so don't make a big deal out of it and it won't even come up. Some are real, sexually pent up wildcats! They've been in vanilla sex but want to come out of their shells. I've even had you tell me that she needed me to help her come out of her shell and experience the wilder stuff she craves but has never had anyone to get there with her. Many are internally submissive and want a strong hand, these you need to identify and play to that with strength but don't overplay your hand too early or it will backfire.
This is like CHESS, a game of skill! Have fun and hone your skills well for this one![/QUOTE].
[QUOTE=OnyxRain;3509837]SkyHigh, I'm not implying at all that you work for them, so take this in jest. You deserve a commission from SA, as I'm sure your exploits have encouraged a lot of mongers to test or re-test the waters there.
.[/QUOTE]HAHAHA, Thanks for the acknowledgment Onyx, I'm having a blast with SA and the quality of the experience is way above any BP / CL chick. I love the thrill of the hunt and the perfection of the time spent with the ones I ultimately do go see. Many get weeded out during the "Courtship" period and that's the way I want it. I have a perfect scenario in mind for each experience and I have full control over that through this medium.
It's like the old days, me in my WING style haircut, polyester slacks, 3 button cuff puffy sleeve Rayon shirts, dancing to the BeeGee's and Steely Dan at the Mad Hatter on Wednesday nights for penny beer and 25 cent mixes drinks, talking shit to all the chicks and dragging some drunk hottie out of there to debauch her in her own place, wide my dick on her sheets and go home in the morning, LOL.
Ok. Took Sky's advice recently and joined up. Damn. Just damn.
I've found myself having to cull opportunities I would have otherwise been dreaming about.
I wrote a good profile and it's been the attention getter. I've been patient and chatty and respectful which is appealing.
So far, a nursery school teacher who sidelines as a limitless nympho and a McDonald's manager / slash student who calls herself my Queen.
Those are just the two I'VE selected.
I have 10 more on the stringer for later.
I wholeheartedly recommend.
Thank you SHB.
[QUOTE=MoonshineXXX;3510484]Ok. Took Sky's advice recently and joined up. Damn. Just damn.
I've found myself having to cull opportunities I would have otherwise been dreaming about.
I wrote a good profile and it's been the attention getter. I've been patient and chatty and respectful which is appealing.
So far, a nursery school teacher who sidelines as a limitless nympho and a McDonald's manager / slash student who calls herself my Queen.
Those are just the two I'VE selected.
I have 10 more on the stringer for later.
I wholeheartedly recommend.
Thank you SHB.[/QUOTE]LOL, I may have to take the plunge. Everyone keeps racing about SA, I hope it is not overrated. I have to also consider my age and the fact that I'm a monger of color. Not sure I'll have the same success as you older gents.
[QUOTE=TheParrot;3510543]LOL, I may have to take the plunge. Everyone keeps racing about SA, I hope it is not overrated. I have to also consider my age and the fact that I'm a monger of color. Not sure I'll have the same success as you older gents.[/QUOTE]Why sell yourself short? Most of these SA ladies are no different "mentally" from the hood rats you have already encountered. Regardless of your age, if you have the right attitude, treat the ladies with respect, fork out the money they request, you should encounter zero problems picking up women on SA.
[QUOTE=TheParrot;3510543]LOL, I may have to take the plunge. Everyone keeps racing about SA, I hope it is not overrated. I have to also consider my age and the fact that I'm a monger of color. Not sure I'll have the same success as you older gents.[/QUOTE]Sp far, a veterinary assistant, and 2 girls, together, who thought it'd be fun and needed some money. Both, A+.
Takes time, lots of messaging, and you'll have more women, real women, contacting you than you can handle.
[QUOTE=MoonshineXXX;3510484]Ok. Took Sky's advice recently and joined up. Damn. Just damn.
I've found myself having to cull opportunities I would have otherwise been dreaming about.
I wrote a good profile and it's been the attention getter. I've been patient and chatty and respectful which is appealing.
So far, a nursery school teacher who sidelines as a limitless nympho and a McDonald's manager / slash student who calls herself my Queen.
Those are just the two I'VE selected.
I have 10 more on the stringer for later.
I wholeheartedly recommend.
Thank you SHB.[/QUOTE]HAHAHA, It has been a feast!
I've had an elementary school teacher (that is a total freak) a couple of times (Then she hooked up a 3 some for me with her and an IT manager {a full on BBJ contest between them and nothing more for 2 hrs, they snowballed the finish twice}), a couple of girls in retail, an UBER driver, a waitress / college student (another freak that only wants to suck d**k and gets off doing it) and several more.
You really do have to cull them out and refine it down to the ones that respond best to your likes and style but they are everywhere. We are even crossing over each other and these girls (when asked if they would like some help finding clients) actually say yes. They are all looking for an outlet for their sexual frustrations. And a little financial assistance along the way. I've never given more than 200 and always got way more than my monies worth. Most are 100 for an hour of so.
They call me daddy, sir, boss. Most of them have deep seated submissive needs and if you handle them right they are yours to do with what you will. They are GFE, BBFS BBBJCIMWS, Greek lovers and everything else.
BUT, you need to handle them easily in the begging and move the conversation along and out of the mundane as quickly as possible, get a text app that is secure and move them to texting quickly. You CANNOT have this level of conversation on the site or you will get rejected and loose your account.
Now that some of you are starting to see results you know that what I've been saying since January is true. And why I'm off the BP / CL robbery, being cheated out of time, scams of all types BS!
This is my playground now.
Has anyone had sensualkitty97 ?
They want a crazy allowance but they look TGTBT. Claiming to be 20 year old models. Some of these girls don't look enough like their pics when you meet them. This one seems legit enough.
Anyone have a review?
What kind of rates are y'all pulling with your SBs?