How is your luck with girls on seeking?
Post experiences here.
Printable View
How is your luck with girls on seeking?
Post experiences here.
[QUOTE=KnoxDebauchee;5247562]How is your luck with girls on seeking?
Post experiences here.[/QUOTE]Pickings seem to be VERY slim for Tucson. With filters for 50 mile radius and <30 for age, and no other restrictions, only getting 7 profiles and only 2 of them which are active within the last week. Curious what other's experiences are as well.
[QUOTE=Igotfingers;5255271]Pickings seem to be VERY slim for Tucson. With filters for 50 mile radius and <30 for age, and no other restrictions, only getting 7 profiles and only 2 of them which are active within the last week. Curious what other's experiences are as well.[/QUOTE]Try the app.
I picked up 2904.
[QUOTE=Igotfingers;5255271]Pickings seem to be VERY slim for Tucson. With filters for 50 mile radius and <30 for age, and no other restrictions, only getting 7 profiles and only 2 of them which are active within the last week. Curious what other's experiences are as well.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=JDeller;5255445]I picked up 2904.[/QUOTE]I picked up 3,415 on the web application using a search radius of 50 miles and no other filters. Use as few filters as you can for a wider population and do not filter age. I'm meeting a mid-30's woman tomorrow afternoon for a steamy session and she told me up front she's only looking for sex, not money. She is also fairly attractive and considering the slugs I've screwed over the years, she's a great find IMHO. Be safe out there!
Thanks for the info ya'll. I'm CLEARLY doing something really wrong. Will give it another shot!
Just noticed this forum. SA is fantastic. Has anybody else had success with being direct about not wanting to "date" or really spend any non-bedroom time with these girls? I dreamed with a 21 year spinner yesterday and she was a little awkward about going straight to the bed.
OK, now that we've talked about a few Sugar Baby sites, let me throw something out there on pricing. Newbies, please do your research and get a feeling what the going rate is before paying the first $$ figure that comes out of a SB's mouth. You can do that by looking at the various escort sites, such as STG, AS, AL, and Sumo Search. I've been on SB for about a month and have hooked up with about 5 SBs so far. Each time, I have paid no more than $$ for about 2 hrs and they hosted (hosting is a thing of value, as it saves at. 5+ on a hotel room). Earlier in the week a SB baby quoted me $ times five for her "Wild Package" and I replied, No, nothing over $. 75 to $$ (she hosted). She got upset and said she knows her worth and had gotten it before. I replied saying your worth is only what a partner will pay you on a consistent basis, and while you may get a newbie to go $ times five once, you won't get that consistently and will price yourself out of the business. Remember, one of the best courtesans Tucson has ever seen (Nicole L) charged $$$ (and hosted), but she did anything and everything you could ever want and loved it to boot. The worst thing that can happen to a SB scene is for people to acquiesce and pay inflated rates, and as the more people that do, the more and more girls will start charging inflated rates and ruin it for us all. Don't be afraid to walk away from a SB over pricing, as I've done it so many times, and I mean once with a smoking hot 19 yr old willing to do anything (or so she said), but wanted $ times six minimum. Sorry, but that dog don't hunt. Please don't be afraid to ask questions either, but make sure all of your posts aren't of you asking questions and you provide the board something of value as well. As always, be safe out there!
[QUOTE=AnomBox;5259538]Just noticed this forum. SA is fantastic. Has anybody else had success with being direct about not wanting to "date" or really spend any non-bedroom time with these girls? I dreamed with a 21 year spinner yesterday and she was a little awkward about going straight to the bed.[/QUOTE]I have had both experiences with SBs. I have met some (after extensive text chat) where we meet and immediately adjourn to a place and get naked. Then there are those who are sticking their toes in the SB scene for the first and want "to get to know you first. " For the most part, I ask the SB to meet me for an adult beverage to discuss an arrangement. Be careful on their age for alcoholic beverages though and a Starbuck's can also work. That way, you get to see them and them you, and you can go from there to "get comfortable. " This way, you can escape an awkward scene of meeting at her house and deciding "no", or her getting in your car and then you trying to get them to leave once in. The very young SBs are probably very new and heard they can get some bling for a fling, while the older ones (25-35 yrs) know what's going on and are probably more down to play on the first date. The downside you'll see with older ones is they most probable have kids and can't host, but YMMV. Be safe out there!
[QUOTE=GreatExpecta;5260984]OK, now that we've talked about a few Sugar Baby sites, let me throw something out there on pricing. Newbies, please do your research and get a feeling what the going rate is before paying the first $$ figure that comes out of a SB's mouth. You can do that by looking at the various escort sites, such as STG, AS, AL, and Sumo Search. I've been on SB for about a month and have hooked up with about 5 SBs so far. Each time, I have paid no more than $$ for about 2 hrs and they hosted (hosting is a thing of value, as it saves at. 5+ on a hotel room). Earlier in the week a SB baby quoted me $ times five for her "Wild Package" and I replied, No, nothing over $. 75 to $$ (she hosted). She got upset and said she knows her worth and had gotten it before. I replied saying your worth is only what a partner will pay you on a consistent basis, and while you may get a newbie to go $ times five once, you won't get that consistently and will price yourself out of the business. Remember, one of the best courtesans Tucson has ever seen (Nicole L) charged $$$ (and hosted), but she did anything and everything you could ever want and loved it to boot. The worst thing that can happen to a SB scene is for people to acquiesce and pay inflated rates, and as the more people that do, the more and more girls will start charging inflated rates and ruin it for us all. Don't be afraid to walk away from a SB over pricing, as I've done it so many times, and I mean once with a smoking hot 19 yr old willing to do anything (or so she said), but wanted $ times six minimum. Sorry, but that dog don't hunt. Please don't be afraid to ask questions either, but make sure all of your posts aren't of you asking questions and you provide the board something of value as well. As always, be safe out there![/QUOTE]100% on the money here!
I've done between 200 and 250 with mine for an hour+ with them.
Hosting. I'll start getting consistently closer to 200 so we can not get into bidding wars had an mid-30's broad want 300 plus I pay for a hotel for a "basic" dream. I hope nobody is saying yes to that.
There has been some recent touting of SA as a productive alternative to some of the more traditional ways of meeting the fairer sex such as AMPs, clubs, escorts, etc. I want to relate my experience to provide a balanced picture for those who might be considering it.
I joined SA with the hope of finding one or two regulars that I would see up to two times per month each. I have a GF, so discretion and balance are needed. I think most women see me as an overall attractive package in terms of health, physique, personality, looks, job, education, finances, etc. I only point that out because if you are someone who perhaps is not in physical shape or you can't carry a conversation or you don't have a good sense of humor or you're a smoker or you're missing teeth, be ready for an uphill-and-against-the-wind kind of adventure.
SA requires a fee in order to fully utilize the site's capabilities. It can be as short as a month, but the longer you sign up for, the lower per month cost you'll have. Fees are non-refundable. Spoiler alert: I signed up for a month and will NOT be renewing.
My profile on SA does not show my face for reasons I stated above, but I had a couple pics that showed off my physique. I was also truthful about my age, build, who I was and what I was looking for, etc. As I filled out my profile. I took some time to be thoughtful and sound intelligent in my profile narrative, but was clear that I was looking for a one-time or ongoing mostly physical type of relationship. I was not looking for a GF on the side or even someone to "show off" to everyone. I was just looking for some adult GFE fun with someone where there was some chemistry in exchange for some increased purchasing power. Nothing unrealistic or too complex, right?
Problems, problems, and more problems.
SA is rife with what I will call "BS" accounts. I don't know who set these up or who is maintaining them, but these are the accounts from very far-away places like Venezuela, Russia, Columbia, etc. That like or favorite your profile. I'm not sure why they are there because what's the point if the other "person" is thousands of miles away? Maybe scammers? These are easy to see and ignore and at the end of the day, it's not that big of a deal.
SA also has it's share of scammers who appear to be nearby. These are the folks with whom you have a conversation and then after you've worked out some details, they ask you to send them money via CashApp or some other such bullshit as your payment before you meet them or a good-faith deposit. Some use the excuse of Covid as a reason to not meet now, but try to assure you that a meet will be in your future once "she" is more comfortable with the Covid situation. Again, easy to spot and avoid, but now your starting to waste a little time trying to cultivate something only to have it go south.
The next problem is major GPS. I had one girl who wanted $500 on a pay per meet basis! She said that's what she usually gets and would not come down at all. How do you "usually" get $500 per meet and then not come down even a dollar? Shouldn't that be you "always" get $500? She was not alone. I had another one want $400 per meet, and she also would not come down. Admittedly, these girls were beautiful assuming that was them in the pics and they were recent, but really? $400-$500? WTF? You really can't spot these folks until you have a conversation and some level of comfort is established, so you again end up wasting time.
Some folks are using average looking FAKE pics. If someone is going to use fake pics, you'd think they be using pics of model wannabes, but for whatever reason, some of them don't. I'm not sure what the deal is with these folks either. SA has public profile pics, but a girl can unlock her private pics for you if you ask and she likes you. I had one girl who had public pics of her face and body and when she unlocked her one private pic, it was clearly someone else. I thought maybe she was trying to be under the radar, so I didn't pay too much attention to it. My bad because when we were texting back and forth, she sent me a face pic and it was different than any of the profile pics. Her face pic was cute enough that I thought I'd try to set up a first-time meet in a public place just to see what the deal was, but she kept coming up with excuses to not meet. "I've got to pack for a trip", "I've got class", "Life just got away from me and I lost track of time. " OK, next!
Ghosting does not just happen when they disappear during the conversation never to respond to you again. It also happens when you try to meet some of these girls. Out of six meets that were set up over three weeks, four (four! Were no-shows. All of them agreed to meet in a public place for a first meet, said they were on the way and still did not show up. One blew me off one day, apologized the next and tried to set something up for that day and then blew me off again! Yes, that's for real; I can't make this shit up!
Those of you reading carefully and who have a keen eye will note that I only got blown off by four girls, which means I met two. The very first meet I had with someone went according to plan. She was much farther than her profile said she was, but I bit the bullet, went the distance, and was amply rewarded for my efforts. The other meet also went very well. We met in a public place and had a lot of laughs and great conversation. We tentatively planned for a meet at her place at the agreed-upon rate, but now a week later, she has changed her mind citing the age difference and that she's having morality issues with the fact that I have a GF. **sigh** Of course I have to respect her choice, but come on, it's not like there were any big surprises when we met. She knew how old I was and that I have a GF before we met.
And that brings me to the final issue I have experienced, which is the level of immaturity many of these girls show. Many want $ almost for nothing, and many of those I think truly expect that it is owed to them. Only God knows why. Maybe they'll send you a bikini pic in exchange for your hard-earned dollars or they just want to have an "online only and not in person but compensate me anyway" kind of arrangement. Maybe they will talk to you, but that is going to cost you money too. Many also expect to be showered with gifts in addition to the cost of a pay per meet arrangement. I could go on, but hopefully you get the point.
All in all, I cannot recommend SA. I found it to be a huge energy and time suck with results that were simply not worth it, and really no better than using existing channels that I mentioned at the beginning. I really wanted it to work, but it is what it is. Maybe someone on here will come on and talk about how they met Heather Locklear's twin sister on SA and how they had the best fuck session ever. If that truly happened to anyone here, then you will have my utmost respect and admiration. I have busted my hump for the past three weeks and have very little to show for it. Frustrated, I went to AA yesterday and left as happy as a pig in shit! It was significantly easier and just as rewarding as anything I experienced with SA. And honestly, it was much less than the $200 that some of the girls who ghosted me wanted on a pay per meet basis.
If you are an SA member and you want a good laugh, check out SweetCoco47 in Tucson's profile. Most interesting use of the word "deserve" I've seen in a good while. (If anyone does meet her, or even messages her, I'd be amused to hear how it plays out.).
Thanks for the report on your experience. I haven't had the time to really dive into SA, and I hearing a bit of your frustrations with it gives me a more realistic expectation that there might quite a few challenges / obstacles to sort through (fakes, flakes, GPS, etc). General sense I get is that there can be some gems out there on SA, but that there a much heavier time investment to try to seek those out.
[QUOTE=DucatiPilot;5284752]There has been some recent touting of SA as a productive alternative to some of the more traditional ways of meeting the fairer sex such as AMPs, clubs, escorts, etc. I want to relate my experience to provide a balanced picture for those who might be considering it.
I joined SA with the hope of finding one or two regulars that I would see up to two times per month each. I have a GF, so discretion and balance are needed. I think most women see me as an overall attractive package in terms of health, physique, personality, looks, job, education, finances, etc. I only point that out because if you are someone who perhaps is not in physical shape or you can't carry a conversation or you don't have a good sense of humor or you're a smoker or you're missing teeth, be ready for an uphill-and-against-the-wind kind of adventure.
SA requires a fee in order to fully utilize the site's capabilities. It can be as short as a month, but the longer you sign up for, the lower per month cost you'll have. Fees are non-refundable. Spoiler alert: I signed up for a month and will NOT be renewing.
My profile on SA does not show my face for reasons I stated above, but I had a couple pics that showed off my physique. I was also truthful about my age, build, who I was and what I was looking for, etc. As I filled out my profile. I took some time to be thoughtful and sound intelligent in my profile narrative, but was clear that I was looking for a one-time or ongoing mostly physical type of relationship. I was not looking for a GF on the side or even someone to "show off" to everyone. I was just looking for some adult GFE fun with someone where there was some chemistry in exchange for some increased purchasing power. Nothing unrealistic or too complex, right?
Problems, problems, and more problems.
SA is rife with what I will call "BS" accounts. I don't know who set these up or who is maintaining them, but these are the accounts from very far-away places like Venezuela, Russia, Columbia, etc. That like or favorite your profile. I'm not sure why they are there because what's the point if the other "person" is thousands of miles away? Maybe scammers? These are easy to see and ignore and at the end of the day, it's not that big of a deal.
SA also has it's share of scammers who appear to be nearby. These are the folks with whom you have a conversation and then after you've worked out some details, they ask you to send them money via CashApp or some other such bullshit as your payment before you meet them or a good-faith deposit. Some use the excuse of Covid as a reason to not meet now, but try to assure you that a meet will be in your future once "she" is more comfortable with the Covid situation. Again, easy to spot and avoid, but now your starting to waste a little time trying to cultivate something only to have it go south.
The next problem is major GPS. I had one girl who wanted $500 on a pay per meet basis! She said that's what she usually gets and would not come down at all. How do you "usually" get $500 per meet and then not come down even a dollar? Shouldn't that be you "always" get $500? She was not alone. I had another one want $400 per meet, and she also would not come down. Admittedly, these girls were beautiful assuming that was them in the pics and they were recent, but really? $400-$500? WTF? You really can't spot these folks until you have a conversation and some level of comfort is established, so you again end up wasting time.
Some folks are using average looking FAKE pics. If someone is going to use fake pics, you'd think they be using pics of model wannabes, but for whatever reason, some of them don't. I'm not sure what the deal is with these folks either. SA has public profile pics, but a girl can unlock her private pics for you if you ask and she likes you. I had one girl who had public pics of her face and body and when she unlocked her one private pic, it was clearly someone else. I thought maybe she was trying to be under the radar, so I didn't pay too much attention to it. My bad because when we were texting back and forth, she sent me a face pic and it was different than any of the profile pics. Her face pic was cute enough that I thought I'd try to set up a first-time meet in a public place just to see what the deal was, but she kept coming up with excuses to not meet. "I've got to pack for a trip", "I've got class", "Life just got away from me and I lost track of time. " OK, next!
Ghosting does not just happen when they disappear during the conversation never to respond to you again. It also happens when you try to meet some of these girls. Out of six meets that were set up over three weeks, four (four! Were no-shows. All of them agreed to meet in a public place for a first meet, said they were on the way and still did not show up. One blew me off one day, apologized the next and tried to set something up for that day and then blew me off again! Yes, that's for real; I can't make this shit up!
Those of you reading carefully and who have a keen eye will note that I only got blown off by four girls, which means I met two. The very first meet I had with someone went according to plan. She was much farther than her profile said she was, but I bit the bullet, went the distance, and was amply rewarded for my efforts. The other meet also went very well. We met in a public place and had a lot of laughs and great conversation. We tentatively planned for a meet at her place at the agreed-upon rate, but now a week later, she has changed her mind citing the age difference and that she's having morality issues with the fact that I have a GF. **sigh** Of course I have to respect her choice, but come on, it's not like there were any big surprises when we met. She knew how old I was and that I have a GF before we met.
And that brings me to the final issue I have experienced, which is the level of immaturity many of these girls show. Many want $ almost for nothing, and many of those I think truly expect that it is owed to them. Only God knows why. Maybe they'll send you a bikini pic in exchange for your hard-earned dollars or they just want to have an "online only and not in person but compensate me anyway" kind of arrangement. Maybe they will talk to you, but that is going to cost you money too. Many also expect to be showered with gifts in addition to the cost of a pay per meet arrangement. I could go on, but hopefully you get the point.
All in all, I cannot recommend SA. I found it to be a huge energy and time suck with results that were simply not worth it, and really no better than using existing channels that I mentioned at the beginning. I really wanted it to work, but it is what it is. Maybe someone on here will come on and talk about how they met Heather Locklear's twin sister on SA and how they had the best fuck session ever. If that truly happened to anyone here, then you will have my utmost respect and admiration. I have busted my hump for the past three weeks and have very little to show for it. Frustrated, I went to AA yesterday and left as happy as a pig in shit! It was significantly easier and just as rewarding as anything I experienced with SA. And honestly, it was much less than the $200 that some of the girls who ghosted me wanted on a pay per meet basis.[/QUOTE]
As is the norm, I agree with everything DP said. I've had some success, but it requires a HUGE amount of time to sort through all the BS. Over a 3 month period and hundreds of messages I only actually had sex with 10 different women from the SA site. Of those 8 encounters, only 1 was a one-and-done. The price range was from. 8 to $$, with the $$ being only the initial encounter.
For my taste, escorts and / or strippers better meet my needs. However, if you enjoy the chase and can sort through ALL the BS, then SA might be a good source of entertainment.
YMMV.
CL.