What are you spending on Hobbying?

[ShibaSig12]

Curious what everyone is spending on hobbying per week / month. I know everyone's financial situation varies, maybe someone can only scrape together enough to do a half hr visit in a month (I've been there), or others can go almost every day.

I'm at maybe once a week, twice a week, usually hhr or hour depending on provider.

Cheers!

[Ampking69]

Curious what everyone is spending on hobbying per week / month. I know everyone's financial situation varies, maybe someone can only scrape together enough to do a half hr visit in a month (I've been there), or others can go almost every day.

I'm at maybe once a week, twice a week, usually hhr or hour depending on provider.

Cheers!For me it's about twice a week, and I usually go for the hour each time.

[Unhidden13]

Total expense for anything at least partly hobby-related is usually about $1 k / month. What that's on exactly varies. Some mixture of a club trip or two, picking up a hhr or hr with one of a few companions I've met online. Drop by a bikini coffee stand if there's not a lot of money to throw around because it's cheap. Kind of an appetizer-course version of booking an appointment.

Probably works out to one "significant" visit every other week, on average. This town's too expensive to do more than that on what I make.

[Dink9873]

I was usually once or twice a week like clockwork. Between GPS rates, regular leaving, and this winning economy. Down to just at most once a month. Just doesn't seem as fun anymore. Also when a girl you used to see for full bbfs for 280 one year now is 450 full safety.... wtf is that lol. Sucks the joy out of it.

[JMirage]

I'm visiting two or three times a week, mostly based on extra time I have available. I never really paid attention to the total, but probably 1-2 k per month. I just got a 46% increase in my pay to do less work at a different company, so I'm sure my spend will go up with more free time.

I do seem to default to a couple cheaper providers most of time since they're close, consistent, and might not be young and hot but can BBBJ for an hour straight.

[Morgan Creamin]

A lot more than I tell my wife!

[Beezy777]

This is similar to my experience. I was regularly seeing 1-2 ladies a week. Also, pre-pandemic, there were a lot of good looking women who were at 300/ hr. Now, I'm down significantly. Moreover, I know I'm in the minority, but I just can't stomach paying anything more than that 300/ hr. Pussy just shouldn't be 400/ hr. I'll die on this hill (while realizing it's a completely arbitrary hill based on my own wallet). I'm definitely not paying 400 to smash big girls and "strong in the face" gals. Honestly, it was paying 350 to BBFS Danielle Dubois that put me here. It was great and I still felt like I overpaid. I'm not opposed to smashing bigger, older, or less attractive women, but at an appropriate price point. The culture of hobbying here has a lot of providers believing they deserve money for existing and anything else is extra. Like you said, the joy of hobbying is fading for me and I'm putting less money into the market overall, maybe half of what I was.


I was usually once or twice a week like clockwork. Between GPS rates, regular leaving, and this winning economy. Down to just at most once a month. Just doesn't seem as fun anymore. Also when a girl you used to see for full bbfs for 280 one year now is 450 full safety.... wtf is that lol. Sucks the joy out of it.

[Sully69]

This is similar to my experience. I was regularly seeing 1-2 ladies a week. Also, pre-pandemic, there were a lot of good looking women who were at 300/ hr. Now, I'm down significantly. Moreover, I know I'm in the minority, but I just can't stomach paying anything more than that 300/ hr. Pussy just shouldn't be 400/ hr. I'll die on this hill (while realizing it's a completely arbitrary hill based on my own wallet). I'm definitely not paying 400 to smash big girls and "strong in the face" gals. Honestly, it was paying 350 to BBFS Danielle Dubois that put me here. It was great and I still felt like I overpaid. I'm not opposed to smashing bigger, older, or less attractive women, but at an appropriate price point. The culture of hobbying here has a lot of providers believing they deserve money for existing and anything else is extra. Like you said, the joy of hobbying is fading for me and I'm putting less money into the market overall, maybe half of what I was.I typically spend $600-$1000 on 3-4 visits at most each month as I also have a $300/ hr limit since most of these girls are honestly not even worth that much. It's a rarity that I spend more than that as most are simply not worth it. Girls will need to have some solid amazing reviews for me to even consider paying more than 300/ hr. Also, mongering in other countries will make you even more conservative as you will realize how far your dollar goes and what those foreign hoes will do for that money. As a result, I am saving more of my money from hobbying and investing in flights to other countries where I can literally get more BANG for my buck! I just got back from Japan where they have blowjob parlors where girls will blow you for 4000-5000 JPY which is $25-$30. American capitalism has completely brainwashed these woman to drastically overestimate their worth. The GPS is absolutely fucking ridiculous!!

[JPence]

The really perplexing thing to me is the lack of options. It's forced me to cut my spending in like half or maybe more. Even if were to swallow my pride and jump into the $500 or even a bit more range, there just isn't anything out there. I just want someone who's not a grannie, not fat, not a weird tweaker type, and provides decent BBFS. There is almost no one. Even the K-agency is mostly low-energy grannies now. Even if I drop the BBFS requirement there still aren't many options. I think at this point I need to start sifting through the shitpile that is Seeking.com LOL.

[Beezy777]

Bro, I went through Santorini dick first when I realized how cheap it was. I did the DR like that too. American capitalism is big trash for services like this.


I typically spend $600-$1000 on 3-4 visits at most each month as I also have a $300/ hr limit since most of these girls are honestly not even worth that much. It's a rarity that I spend more than that as most are simply not worth it. Girls will need to have some solid amazing reviews for me to even consider paying more than 300/ hr. Also, mongering in other countries will make you even more conservative as you will realize how far your dollar goes and what those foreign hoes will do for that money. As a result, I am saving more of my money from hobbying and investing in flights to other countries where I can literally get more BANG for my buck! I just got back from Japan where they have blowjob parlors where girls will blow you for 4000-5000 JPY which is $25-$30. American capitalism has completely brainwashed these woman to drastically overestimate their worth. The GPS is absolutely fucking ridiculous!!

[BBPornoGeek]

Europe and Asia definitely have better service and rates.

FKKs in Frankfurt is like $150 a pop for a hot 20 something BBFS.

Roughly the same in Asia. HK used to be abundance but these days the Chinese upping the rates to young girls BBFS in hotels for $290-250 vs the old 100-150 in walk ups. Walk ups are usually old ladies now. Macau still has deals to be had. Vietnam is a bit harder due to language and cops but HCMC has a red light district with great options.

[Brinkcam99]

I have several on speed dial in the $4-500 range. All are hot and fit with exceptional skills and little to no boundaries. Mix of pro and non pro, a couple of the pros have a $250/30 min rate that works nice for a quick fix. I'll hobby about 3-4 x / month on a loose budget of $1500.

[DilzParty]

All in, about 10% of my pre-tax income on my regular SB plus a few who are down for occasional fun for $4-600 as well as 3-4 overseas trips a year for debauchery. Properly tithing like the lord intended.

[ShibaSig12]

I'm visiting two or three times a week, mostly based on extra time I have available. I never really paid attention to the total, but probably 1-2 k per month. I just got a 46% increase in my pay to do less work at a different company, so I'm sure my spend will go up with more free time.

I do seem to default to a couple cheaper providers most of time since they're close, consistent, and might not be young and hot but can BBBJ for an hour straight.Could you PM your providers who can BBBJ an hour straight? Thanks!

[ShibaSig12]

Bro, I went through Santorini dick first when I realized how cheap it was. I did the DR like that too. American capitalism is big trash for services like this.Yep, SE Asia, Korea, Japan, insane value for USD, and the culture is different, no GPS there!

[ShibaSig12]

I have several on speed dial in the $4-500 range. All are hot and fit with exceptional skills and little to no boundaries. Mix of pro and non pro, a couple of the pros have a $250/30 min rate that works nice for a quick fix. I'll hobby about 3-4 x / month on a loose budget of $1500.Would you PM me your 250/30 providers that work well? Thanks!

[ShibaSig12]

This is good info gents, interesting to see the consensus that value has gone down for the quality and expectations.

Forgot to add I'm in the maybe $1. 5-$2 k / month spend now, and it's bonkers for the quality and service compared to just a few years ago. Really questioning the spend vs saving up for a trip to asia and enjoying myself there for a week straight!

[Hawk2020]

I spent 700 a month, that gives me two sessions. Occasionally I will spend 400 for a session, but that's my upper limit. The girls asking 500 or 600 on tna are kidding themselves, no girl is worth that much to me. But obviously some guys are paying that amount. I have tried a session a week but fortunately for my wallet I find I enjoy a session more if I abstain for a couple of weeks.

[Maui Glory]

I know there's a lot of discussion about how rates are climbing to the point of insanity. I hate it too. However, just like local housing prices I think we're going to need to get used to them.

Why? It's because of my coworkers, the software engineers, code monkeys, which includes the ones from India, China, Russia, and other countries.

The entire floor below me at my office is full of them, 4 dozen single men earning more then $500 K salary + year end performance bonuses and stock grants, not to mention the $10 k - $30 K patent awards.

Every one of them is single, working all day, and with their pungent body odor and eggplant body shapes, without any semblance of personality or social norm, not a lady will go within 1,000 feet of them. I mean, it's really bad, like 30 minutes in a conference room with them and the B. O. Sticks to me for the rest of the day and need to change my clothes and take a shower and wash my hair with shampoo to rid the smell. I hate it but I'm paid an obscenely high salary for what I do and I keep this in mind and take it as a part of the job.

In civilian life, wouldn't their salaries attract gold diggers? No, no lady is going near them. Why? Because there are also plenty of Marketing, Finance, and Sales dudes who are normal, in shape, have charming personalities, who also are paid a lot for what they do, and the ladies are with them.

So the guys I manage at work are the guys paying $500 per hour for the pros, and the ladies are asking this because that's what you have to pay them in order for them to put up with the B. O. Stench and their generally shitty toxic treatment of others. Honestly, there are some days that I don't think the ladies are asking enough.

Do I like the situation? No. Do I understand why it's happening? Well, yes I see why.

[Yamaha2000]

Yes you bring up a good point. The title of this thread to should be "What are you spending on hobbying and how much you make?

Lots of tech bro money here and perhaps low supply of providers? How do we stack up with San Fran / Bay Area?


I know there's a lot of discussion about how rates are climbing to the point of insanity. I hate it too. However, just like local housing prices I think we're going to need to get used to them.

Why? It's because of my coworkers, the software engineers, code monkeys, which includes the ones from India, China, Russia, and other countries.

The entire floor below me at my office is full of them, 4 dozen single men earning more then $500 K salary + year end performance bonuses and stock grants, not to mention the $10 k - $30 K patent awards.

Every one of them is single, working all day, and with their pungent body odor and eggplant body shapes, without any semblance of personality or social norm, not a lady will go within 1,000 feet of them. I mean, it's really bad, like 30 minutes in a conference room with them and the B. O. Sticks to me for the rest of the day and need to change my clothes and take a shower and wash my hair with shampoo to rid the smell. I hate it but I'm paid an obscenely high salary for what I do and I keep this in mind and take it as a part of the job.

In civilian life, wouldn't their salaries attract gold diggers? No, no lady is going near them. Why? Because there are also plenty of Marketing, Finance, and Sales dudes who are normal, in shape, have charming personalities, who also are paid a lot for what they do, and the ladies are with them.

So the guys I manage at work are the guys paying $500 per hour for the pros, and the ladies are asking this because that's what you have to pay them in order for them to put up with the B. O. Stench and their generally shitty toxic treatment of others. Honestly, there are some days that I don't think the ladies are asking enough.

Do I like the situation? No. Do I understand why it's happening? Well, yes I see why.

[MeatCannon]

I'm in Virginia and noticed this thread on my homepage. Are there any Asian Massage parlors out there?.

You have to do your own due diligence and know what shops to go to. Some shops have old or rough looking talent and others shops have GPS and want big tips.

The place I go it's $50 for the half hour and $140 FS tip, the broads average mid to late 20's to upper 30's and all have been decent looking but not Super Models.

There are a couple shops in the area where the FS tip is $200 and Guests act like it's a premium experience. I just can't see it, the talent is older than where I go.

To each their own. I guess.