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SlummiesChap
03-25-26, 07:39
Seeing all these ladies on tryst and eros saying "deposit" is there anyone who has actually paid a deposit and has not been scammed. Why not let us mongers know the "good ones" becuase it is getting out of hand. I see the dposit requirement and move on so many times. Also these ladies who post a low price and when you scroll down you see the catch. A DEPOSIT.

Zman511
03-25-26, 08:04
Seeing all these ladies on tryst and eros saying "deposit" is there anyone who has actually paid a deposit and has not been scammed. Why not let us mongers know the "good ones" becuase it is getting out of hand. I see the dposit requirement and move on so many times. Also these ladies who post a low price and when you scroll down you see the catch. A DEPOSIT.Agree 100%. In 20 years, I have never once sent a deposit, but have been tempted on more than one occasion. It would be nice if Tryst added a category for deposit as they do for rates, ethnicity, and body type, so you could screen out all those asking for them. It would save a lot of time scrolling through ads.

Bigg2003
03-25-26, 08:52
I can't think of any local ladies I've done it with, but I've done it several times while traveling as it seems almost mandatory in other cities. That said, I generally share the same opinion as the rest of you; however, I do my homework beforehand. If they have overwhelmingly positive reviews on multiple sites and been in the game for a bit, I don't see much risk.

Anyway, this is a good idea for a thread!

Joex077
03-25-26, 13:53
This shouldn't be normalized, and it is actually a liability legally speaking.

MlDawgs16
03-25-26, 14:18
I can't think of any local ladies I've done it with, but I've done it several times while traveling as it seems almost mandatory in other cities. That said, I generally share the same opinion as the rest of you; however, I do my homework beforehand. If they have overwhelmingly positive reviews on multiple sites and been in the game for a bit, I don't see much risk.

Anyway, this is a good idea for a thread!There's a huge stigma against deposits but frankly that's because so many guys look for the cheap lay instead of spending up for a higher class well reviewed woman.

That said, I typically don't dabble in the game here in Indy because frankly I know too many people in town and I don't want to be seen so I can't provide any local information. However, I've paid plenty of deposits and have never been ripped off. In fact, on two occasions over the last five years I've paid a deposit only for the girl to cancel and they immediately sent my deposit back, actually one girl gave me MORE then my deposit back because she cancelled a few hours before our scheduled time.

If you do your homework you can confidently pay deposits and not get scammed.

SlummiesChap
03-26-26, 08:48
There's a huge stigma against deposits but frankly that's because so many guys look for the cheap lay instead of spending up for a higher class well reviewed woman.

That said, I typically don't dabble in the game here in Indy because frankly I know too many people in town and I don't want to be seen so I can't provide any local information. However, I've paid plenty of deposits and have never been ripped off. In fact, on two occasions over the last five years I've paid a deposit only for the girl to cancel and they immediately sent my deposit back, actually one girl gave me MORE then my deposit back because she cancelled a few hours before our scheduled time.

If you do your homework you can confidently pay deposits and not get scammed.Hi Dawgs. Arent we all trying to fid a cheap lay? Insert laughing emoji here. Your story is interesting about deposits and I was just curious what you meant by "homewrok"? I do my "due diligence" in a field that doent have much reaasrance all the way to the actual deed. Is there on thing after you see the deposit rule that you then do with your research. Thanks.

MlDawgs16
03-26-26, 13:55
Hi Dawgs. Arent we all trying to fid a cheap lay? Insert laughing emoji here. Your story is interesting about deposits and I was just curious what you meant by "homewrok"? I do my "due diligence" in a field that doent have much reaasrance all the way to the actual deed. Is there on thing after you see the deposit rule that you then do with your research. Thanks.Sure, I can give you some insight into my process.

First, I look for well-reviewed girls, primarily on TER. I don't usually write reviews anymore, so I occasionally pay to get VIP access. You can use a gift card from many major retailers that TER will convert into payment. Usually, I get a $50 Lowes gift card that converts to 45 days of membership which gives you plenty of time to do your research. Sure, it's money spent, but you have to consider it an investment.

As many people know, there are plenty of fake reviews on sites like TER and Private Delights. The key, on these sites is to review the reviewer. I look for reviewers who have reviewed multiple different providers at various intervals of time. Example, if someone has 5 different reviews of 5 different girls, all posted in the same week, those are probably fake and I can't trust that reviewer. Or, if the same group of reviewers have reviewed the same group of girls, those are probably fake reviews. For example, let's say there is a girl who has reviews from 5 different guys, but then you check the review history of those 5 different guys, and they all have reviewed the exact same 5 girls. Chances are they're all fake.

On the other hand, if a reviewer (let's say "Stevie Big Balls") has reviewed a girl I have not met, and I see that Stevie Big Balls has also reviewed a girl that I have actually met, and Stevie Big Balls' review of this girl is in line with my experience with the same girl, then I have confidence that Stevie Big Balls is writing legit reviews and I can trust what he is saying about the multiple girls he has reviewed.

There are a lot of different ways you can spot fake reviews vs. Good reviews, these are just some examples, but the more you "review the reviewer" the easier it becomes to identify the reviewers you can't trust.

I also look for girls who have a good internet presence, primarily focusing on girls who maintain their own websites and have invested in things like professional level pictures. If the girl is investing time and money into maintaining a website as well as listing on a site like Tryst Link which charges a monthly fee to post their ad, spending money to have professional photos taken, then they're making an investment into their business that they don't want to ruin because they stole someone's deposit. A girl with an active twitter account also allows you to get a glimpse into who they might be. Generally speaking, if a girl only has a phone number I stay away. Granted, that also usually means that I am paying $500+ an hour but I see the higher cost as somewhat of a guarantee as well as an investment into my safety and security.

Also, and some might not like what I'm about to say, but if a girl looks like White Trash or a Hood Rat. I stay away. I mean, it's not that hard to figure out. If she looks like someone who might rob you. There's a chance she might rob you. I'm not saying that every girl with a face tattoo is going to rob you, but in my humble opinion, a girl with a face tattoo is more likely to rob you then a girl who looks higher class with her own website, professional photos, etc.

On the same token, if it looks too good to be true, then it probably is too good to be true.

There was a period of time over the last two years where these unbelievably hot looking girls were advertising on Tryst Link and Twitter. Just drop dead gorgeous to the point where they could have easily been one of these high end Insta girls with tens of thousands of followers. You looked at their ads and they were "touring" every day of the month in multiple different cities. They had travel schedules that just didn't make sense (red flag). They all had personal websites but they were on the same "milkshake" platform. And it was all fake. If you looked hard enough (reverse image search etc.) you could see that it was a scam where whoever was running it, was pulling public social media pics from crazy hot girls. Someone like Sky Bri (look her up) who is a super hot Onlyfans girl with hundreds of thousands of followers. Well, guess what, Sky Bri will fuck you for money, but she's not fucking you for $600 an hour, so don't send a deposit to fake Sky Bri's email address. If it looks too good to be true, it probably is.

Again, all in all, I realize I'm lucky that I have the funds to spend on the higher end girls in this game. I don't partake often, probably 5-6 times a year when I'm traveling, which also makes it easier to spend up. Not everyone is as lucky as I am in that regard so they have to take more chances than I am willing to take. In general, trust your gut, not the little guy between your legs and you'll be alright.

SlummiesChap
03-28-26, 07:58
Hi Dawgs. Thanks for taking the time to reply and write this. I have not invested in sites like TER bf but you're right its time I did as the food chain is becomng less appetising if you know what I mean. Take care.

Bigg2003
03-28-26, 08:34
Brilliant dissertation!This is exactly what I was trying to say, but was too lazy to type. Everything said is pretty much identical to what I do.

NiceGuysLast66
03-31-26, 11:22
Deposits. And NOT a scam.

Should be a short list.

TigerKing
03-31-26, 17:05
Kimberly asks for a small deposit. This was the 2nd time ever I've done a deposit. First time was when I was new to the hobby years ago. She burnt me for a full session as she was needing some money. I'd seen her 3 times before that happened too. I felt like an idiot but shit happens and you learn. She's been long retired now. I gave Kimberly a small deposit and felt comfortable doing it after speaking with her. She's not a super model but she's fun. She's been on the mend right now after getting a new boob job. Haven't seen her since the surgery.

https://tryst.link/massage/kymbeli

JohnGuest
06-14-26, 15:35
I messaged "her" some info and asked about a session. Within one minute "she" replied $600 one hour and needed $300 deposit, payable by venmo and zelle only.

ROTFLMAO. Here is a photo.

Bubbler99
06-15-26, 12:43
How would one go about paying a deposit anonymously?

StillNotMe
06-15-26, 13:28
How would one go about paying a deposit anonymously?So my cashapp is set up with dummy info with the exception of my bank info and telephone number. The only think they see is the cashapp handle (fake and not close to my name) and then my fake name. Nothing they could get to trace back to me.