DrWho
06-07-25, 12:23
I have received a few PMs asking for details about my recent encounter with Scarlett. In the past I have received similar PMs on other encounters. Some of those requesting details have become way too persistent and even seemed pissed off that I would not share some details. When I see a provider I always ask what they would and would not like included in a review and will always respect her wishes, so I am sorry if someone cannot understand this.
I have been in this hobby for well over 30 years and one lesson that I have learned is that providers are not machines, and neither are hobbyists. We are all humans and thus all have different personalities and connections, these connections can vary greatly. I have seen providers where a guy has posted a wonderous time but we did not click and my encounter was nowhere close, such is life. For me, I prefer a mutual connection and "click" with any partner, I work at this and more often than not it pays off, some times not. All of us are different in our needs, this is just me. Along with this "click" comes a mutual respect and slowly developed limited trust which I will not violate. Sharing details due to a "click" can also lead to problems. I have also lived my civilian life the same way, a code of honor if you will. This trust can lead to details which are not available to just anyone, I am sure the same has happened with many in the hobby. Sharing details which are exclusive can lead to a poor experience as well an animosity by creating unrealistic expectations which doesn't help anyone. I guess the old adages apply, "you can get more bees with honey that vinegar" and "honor among thieves".
Now if something is a safety concern I will surely share public, but please respect my choice, it is nothing personal. I will always share as much detail as I can, I just ask that you understand when I cannot. I expect the same in reverse.
I have been in this hobby for well over 30 years and one lesson that I have learned is that providers are not machines, and neither are hobbyists. We are all humans and thus all have different personalities and connections, these connections can vary greatly. I have seen providers where a guy has posted a wonderous time but we did not click and my encounter was nowhere close, such is life. For me, I prefer a mutual connection and "click" with any partner, I work at this and more often than not it pays off, some times not. All of us are different in our needs, this is just me. Along with this "click" comes a mutual respect and slowly developed limited trust which I will not violate. Sharing details due to a "click" can also lead to problems. I have also lived my civilian life the same way, a code of honor if you will. This trust can lead to details which are not available to just anyone, I am sure the same has happened with many in the hobby. Sharing details which are exclusive can lead to a poor experience as well an animosity by creating unrealistic expectations which doesn't help anyone. I guess the old adages apply, "you can get more bees with honey that vinegar" and "honor among thieves".
Now if something is a safety concern I will surely share public, but please respect my choice, it is nothing personal. I will always share as much detail as I can, I just ask that you understand when I cannot. I expect the same in reverse.