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TheBoobHound
09-05-23, 09:50
This thread is for discussion about hostess bars, buy-me-drink cafes, etc. In LA which has a more Mexican demographic have heard these called "ficheras". I'd like to know if the same name is used in cuban spanish.

There's a few posts on these places scattered around on different threads. MonteCarlos had some good insight here. (http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?3915-Escort-Reports&p=6514402&viewfull=1#post6514402). I've had good experiences at such places in other cities, so after reading his post and a few others I decided to do some recon. I visited two bars mentioned on the board and discovered two more. I'd say there's probably a bunch more in Miami given how I just came across those two by chance and without much exploration.

First, some general observations. Girls don't really come after you like in a strip club. When they are free they stand or sit and it's on you to approach her. The central idea is that you buy her overpriced (like $10 to $15) in exchange for conversation, dancing, etc. Sometimes they buy real drinks, but most often they get tiny cans of bud light. If you feel she is hustling too fast for new drinks, stay in control. Just tell her you'll buy one with your own next drink. Chances are she'll stay with you.

From my limited observations in these Miami cafes, I doubt any activities are happening on site. A lot of cameras everywhere and not enough privacy. Maybe there are back rooms that I don't know about though. The most I tried for was some light touching, hand on her thigh, grinding her ass on you while dancing, etc. It's absolutely on the menu to get a lady's number and meet up outside, though.

Now some specific reports. First was Rainbow. I think this is the biggest one. Pretty cadual atmosphere. It had the most girls, maybe 15 or 20. It was pretty busy too. It seemd to be some birthday event with a table set up with balloons and a cake. The girls were probaly the best looking overall at Rainbow, but I left without introducing to any of them.

Next was La Pantera Negra. Also casual, a bit of a dive. Not as busy as Rainbow on the weeknight Ivisited. I saw about 10 girls and the quality on average was a little below Rainbow. There were still some hot ones though. I shared a few drinks with one of the better looking girls. This place is apparently open 24/7. My girl told me her shift is until 5 am. I did stop by mid morning as well. No girls on duty. During this time they were serving food and coffee and have a walk up window that seemed popular with workers from the nearby scrap metal places.

Villavana is a place I spotted on the way to Rainbow. The silhouettes of women painted on the outside gave me a hunch. I visited early evening a few days later and imy hunch was true. This is probably the best looking interior and atmosphere of the bars I viaited but still casual. There were only 3 or so girls on duty. The best looking was already seated with another guy. I didn't have a lot of time so I just moved on.

MonteCarlos recommended a place called Rinconcito in his earlier post. I couldn't figure out where that is as there are several businesses wih that name. While walking on 7th street I noticed a small br named Rincon Cienfueguera. It had a poster outaide of hot girls with a lot of cleavage showing which gave me a similar hunch to Villavana. I dropped in and my hunch was confirmed again. This place is a small hole in the wall and was not busy even on a weekend. It may have just recently opened. But here I found the most attractive girl out of all my visits, a smoking hot young Cubana. So I gladly stayed a while to talk to her.

OneOfTheMyths
09-06-23, 03:17
So what's the point? Can you do take out?

Hue Johnson
09-06-23, 17:01
So what's the point? Can you do take out?Affirmative. The review does say:

"It's absolutely on the menu to get a lady's number and meet up outside, though."

Hue.

Shamester
10-18-23, 12:58
Any good Hostess Bars in Little Havana?

LetMeTry
11-01-23, 18:49
This thread is for discussion about hostess bars, buy-me-drink cafes, etc. In LA which has a more Mexican demographic have heard these called "ficheras". I'd like to know if the same name is used in cuban spanish.

There's a few posts on these places scattered around on different threads. MonteCarlos had some good insight here. (http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?3915-Escort-Reports&p=6514402&viewfull=1#post6514402). I've had good experiences at such places in other cities, so after reading his post and a few others I decided to do some recon. I visited two bars mentioned on the board and discovered two more. I'd say there's probably a bunch more in Miami given how I just came across those two by chance and without much exploration.

First, some general observations. Girls don't really come after you like in a strip club. When they are free they stand or sit and it's on you to approach her. The central idea is that you buy her overpriced (like $10 to $15) in exchange for conversation, dancing, etc. Sometimes they buy real drinks, but most often they get tiny cans of bud light. If you feel she is hustling too fast for new drinks, stay in control. Just tell her you'll buy one with your own next drink. Chances are she'll stay with you.

From my limited observations in these Miami cafes, I doubt any activities are happening on site. A lot of cameras everywhere and not enough privacy. Maybe there are back rooms that I don't know about though. The most I tried for was some light touching, hand on her thigh, grinding her ass on you while dancing, etc. It's absolutely on the menu to get a lady's number and meet up outside, though.

Now some specific reports. First was Rainbow. I think this is the biggest one. Pretty cadual atmosphere. It had the most girls, maybe 15 or 20. It was pretty busy too. It seemd to be some birthday event with a table set up with balloons and a cake. The girls were probaly the best looking overall at Rainbow, but I left without introducing to any of them.Does anybody want to get together and visit these places?

LetMeTry
11-11-23, 08:20
Taking one for the team, I checked out all these places LOL. So here's the review. These places are sort of a nightclub / bar and strip club feeling mixed up. If you were to go to a regular nightclub, no girls would really approach you. If you were to go to a strip club, the girls would approach you for x amount of songs or ask for tips all the time and then leave. In this places, the girls approach you but it's not like they will ask for a tip or stay for a certain amount of time depending on how much you buy. However, they do stay as long as you keep buying them drinks.

I visited all these places and without calculating the amount that I spent driving, I think my damage was $ to $. 5 coins. All I got was my beers and the drinks that I got them. As always they were very flirty, touching, and you could dance and touch and grab. Nothing too extreme obviously. Think of it as a nightclub where you normally would be standing in a corner but in this case, you have a girl dancing with you. The only down side is that she's there for the money obviously. Your beer costs 3-5 coins and hers will cost 12-15 depending on the place and she will try to get you to buy her more every now and then cause they get some out of that. I can tell you they don't drink all of it and toss it or leave it so it gets picked up. They also put it in a white plastic cup so you don't see how much is left, but if you were to touch it and hold it, trust me that it's at least half way full. They do drink, but I can't tell you how much. I just know they do play games so you keep buying them. You just got to know your limit and how to get the most out of it.

Now I am not sure but the not so good looking girls, I think there was take out because I saw them going out and back in. However, I only stayed with the good looking ones and those didn't want to leave anywhere. If anyone wants to find out, please let us know. Now, some of these places will have more than 1 girl coming to you and they will ask you to buy a drink for them and for their friends. It's hard to say no because you don't want to be a jerk but you have to do it if you want to keep your money in your pocket and go slowly. Just with two or three girls that's already 25-37 coins a round. You will be depleted of bullets soon LOL. At first I fell into that cause they were telling me how the place worked, so I said ok. But then they wouldn't leave me and kept asking me to buy them a beer each, so I used an excuse to leave. Once they know you will buy them drinks, they will try to deplete you so be careful.

As for any action happening, I did get some digits. Let's see what happens after. This is for sure not a place to get action per say but if you are bored and want to drink and meet ladies just to waste time and money, then it's a place to check out. Remember that just like the strip club, this is an act and they will make you feel good just to get you to get them drinks.

Oh one last thing. Maybe it was just my luck but as you know there's always the drunk ass idiot. I was with some girl and I guess this guy was drunk and he wanted to spend time with her, for which I didn't let him cause I was with her. He said something next to me and I was like, "you have a problem?" and the guy started saying some dumb shit but at the end was like no problem. Blah blah blah. I was like. Cool. Went back to the girl I was grinding and basically that was it. I was ready to fight LOL. Anyways, always be careful, as these places are not safe. It's always good to go with a friend or two but even if you go alone, you won't feel awkward because the girls will approach you. You should know some Spanish though.

I wouldn't say that I would go back all the time but from time to time maybe. If anyone is down to chill, send me a DM. I kind of already know the people here. I stood out for some reason LOL.

Hue Johnson
11-11-23, 18:48
Taking one for the team, I checked out all these places LOL. So here's the review. These places are sort of a nightclub / bar and strip club feeling mixed up. If you were to go to a regular nightclub, no girls would really approach you. If you were to go to a strip club, the girls would approach you for x amount of songs or ask for tips all the time and then leave. In this places, the girls approach you but it's not like they will ask for a tip or stay for a certain amount of time depending on how much you buy. However, they do stay as long as you keep buying them drinks.

I visited all these places and without calculating the amount that I spent driving, I think my damage was $ to $. 5 coins. All I got was my beers and the drinks that I got them. As always they were very flirty, touching, and you could dance and touch and grab. Nothing too extreme obviously. Think of it as a nightclub where you normally would be standing in a corner but in this case, you have a girl dancing with you. The only down side is that she's there for the money obviously. Your beer costs 3-5 coins and hers will cost 12-15 depending on the place and she will try to get you to buy her more every now and then cause they get some out of that. I can tell you they don't drink all of it and toss it or leave it so it gets picked up. They also put it in a white plastic cup so you don't see how much is left, but if you were to touch it and hold it, trust me that it's at least half way full. They do drink, but I can't tell you how much. I just know they do play games so you keep buying them. You just got to know your limit and how to get the most out of it.

Now I am not sure but the not so good looking girls, I think there was take out because I saw them going out and back in. However, I only stayed with the good looking ones and those didn't want to leave anywhere. If anyone wants to find out, please let us know. Now, some of these places will have more than 1 girl coming to you and they will ask you to buy a drink for them and for their friends. It's hard to say no because you don't want to be a jerk but you have to do it if you want to keep your money in your pocket and go slowly. Just with two or three girls that's already 25-37 coins a round. You will be depleted of bullets soon LOL. At first I fell into that cause they were telling me how the place worked, so I said ok. But then they wouldn't leave me and kept asking me to buy them a beer each, so I used an excuse to leave. Once they know you will buy them drinks, they will try to deplete you so be careful.

As for any action happening, I did get some digits. Let's see what happens after. This is for sure not a place to get action per say but if you are bored and want to drink and meet ladies just to waste time and money, then it's a place to check out. Remember that just like the strip club, this is an act and they will make you feel good just to get you to get them drinks.

Oh one last thing. Maybe it was just my luck but as you know there's always the drunk ass idiot. I was with some girl and I guess this guy was drunk and he wanted to spend time with her, for which I didn't let him cause I was with her. He said something next to me and I was like, "you have a problem?" and the guy started saying some dumb shit but at the end was like no problem. Blah blah blah. I was like. Cool. Went back to the girl I was grinding and basically that was it. I was ready to fight LOL. Anyways, always be careful, as these places are not safe. It's always good to go with a friend or two but even if you go alone, you won't feel awkward because the girls will approach you. You should know some Spanish though.

I wouldn't say that I would go back all the time but from time to time maybe. If anyone is down to chill, send me a DM. I kind of already know the people here. I stood out for some reason LOL.Thanks for sharing your wisdom. Nice report.

TheBoobHound
11-12-23, 19:02
Taking one for the team...Great report. LetMeTry.

I was back in Miami and made another round of visits. I think for best results, it's best to stay to closing and leave with your girl. Definitely not possible if you have work / other commitments. These places seem to close at 5 am typically. Arranging a meet up can be tough with those hours also, since it has to be mid morning before she sleeps or early afternoon.

One more note is that the bars seem only to serve beer. If you want liquor or mixed drinks or something you'll be out of luck.

Anyway: A forum member PMed me about a couple of other spots and I visited one of them. La Portena in Little Havana. The girls on the low end of the scale were quite fat. They did have three hot ones though, but they were locked down with other dudes.

On 7th street is Cafe Exito. I believe it's this kind of place based on the Google reviews, etc. When I walked in early evening, the music was off, lights on fall and some employees all sitting together. Pretty awkward, I guess it was not actually open yet. Will follow up another time.

Right across 7th street from Exito is a small bar that has girls on duty. Again, all busy so I bailed.

Later, I returned to Pantera and got acquainted with a big boob Colombian. After some time we stood up to dance to a few songs. A slow ballad came on. Well, there's something to be said slow dancing with a girl and holding her close. I had a strong buzz going and started to feel very horny. I tried a kiss and she went with it. When we sat down again we made out a bit, some light french kissing. She was drinking real bottles and also pretty drunk which probably was helping me. I took her to my hotel after closing and banged her. She never asked for money but I gave her 200 and she accepted without discussion.

MarkShoe69
11-12-23, 21:06
I've never gone to any strip clubs or hostess bars in Miami. Are they safe for a middle aged white guy? Do I need to be fluent in Spanish? Any info appreciated. I'll be down that way in early December if anyone is interested in checking it out together.

Tia,

Markshoe69.

LetMeTry
11-13-23, 05:51
What did the big boob Colombian look like? Were you by the bar? Or in the back with the DJ? And how many drinks did you end up buying.


Great report. LetMeTry.

I was back in Miami and made another round of visits. I think for best results, it's best to stay to closing and leave with your girl. Definitely not possible if you have work / other commitments. These places seem to close at 5 am typically. Arranging a meet up can be tough with those hours also, since it has to be mid morning before she sleeps or early afternoon.

One more note is that the bars seem only to serve beer. If you want liquor or mixed drinks or something you'll be out of luck.

Anyway: A forum member PMed me about a couple of other spots and I visited one of them. La Portena in Little Havana. The girls on the low end of the scale were quite fat. They did have three hot ones though, but they were locked down with other dudes.

On 7th street is Cafe Exito. I believe it's this kind of place based on the Google reviews, etc. When I walked in early evening, the music was off, lights on fall and some employees all sitting together. Pretty awkward, I guess it was not actually open yet. Will follow up another time.

Right across 7th street from Exito is a small bar that has girls on duty. Again, all busy so I bailed.

Later, I returned to Pantera and got acquainted with a big boob Colombian. After some time we stood up to dance to a few songs. A slow ballad came on. Well, there's something to be said slow dancing with a girl and holding her close. I had a strong buzz going and started to feel very horny. I tried a kiss and she went with it. When we sat down again we made out a bit, some light french kissing. She was drinking real bottles and also pretty drunk which probably was helping me. I took her to my hotel after closing and banged her. She never asked for money but I gave her 200 and she accepted without discussion.

SearchLightW
11-25-23, 23:47
Not being fluent in Spanish will severely limit your options in Miami strip clubs, and stifle negotiations for action. Fort Lauderdale is going to be better for the English only visitor.

These cafeterias? Impossible.


I've never gone to any strip clubs or hostess bars in Miami. Are they safe for a middle aged white guy? Do I need to be fluent in Spanish? Any info appreciated. I'll be down that way in early December if anyone is interested in checking it out together.

Tia,

Markshoe69.

CoolBreeze99
11-26-23, 09:40
In my 20+ years of mongering in SFL, I've never been to these places. Reading these reports though has sparked some interest.

1) Can you advise on the music played at these places? Salsa, merengue or reggaeton.

2) Is the A / C good in these places? Even when I was young and in shape, after 2 songs I was sweating like a pig.

3) Is there a dress code?

4) Are these smoking or non smoking places?

LetMeTry
11-26-23, 13:23
In my 20+ years of mongering in SFL, I've never been to these places. Reading these reports though has sparked some interest.

1) Can you advise on the music played at these places? Salsa, merengue or reggaeton.

2) Is the A / C good in these places? Even when I was young and in shape, after 2 songs I was sweating like a pig.

3) Is there a dress code?

4) Are these smoking or non smoking places?1. They played everything.

2. It's alright. Some places like rainbow are more of a sit down and chat while the others are more or a tight room clubs style.

3. Just dress normal.

4. I didn't see anyone smoking inside, so I would say no smoking.

Lakater
04-06-24, 18:18
Anybody been to club tentacion? I went and it was kind of packed and wasn't entirely sure if this was the type of place. Statements I've heard about it sorta imply it but could just be a regular bar. Came in, got one beer, walked around, left very shortly after.

LetMeTry
04-07-24, 00:04
Anybody been to club tentacion? I went and it was kind of packed and wasn't entirely sure if this was the type of place. Statements I've heard about it sorta imply it but could just be a regular bar. Came in, got one beer, walked around, left very shortly after.If you went inside and didn't feel like girls were looking or standing around for you, then probably not.

TomCat4871
04-14-24, 00:07
I spend time down here from Jax. This cafeteria pussy hunting looks intriguing. If anybody want to hunt in tandem let me know. Yes, I speak spanish.


If you went inside and didn't feel like girls were looking or standing around for you, then probably not.

Lakater
04-18-24, 18:14
I spend time down here from Jax. This cafeteria pussy hunting looks intriguing. If anybody want to hunt in tandem let me know. Yes, I speak spanish.Clear your PM's.

TomCat4871
04-20-24, 14:08
Cleared some messages. Let me know if you want to hunt some Colombian pussy.


Clear your PM's..

EscortGuru
06-17-24, 16:45
Hi,

I read through this topic and interested in learning more about how this scene works if anyone is willing to share.

I've tried hostess bars in Spain and Mexico where the club makes most of its money off door fee, bottle service (usually required), and then theres a house fee for outcall on top of the ladies gift. The places described here as dive bars so how the house work?

1. Are there any door fees?

2. Are there minimum spend requirements?

3. Do the ladies charge for time spent inside the club?

4. Is there a house fee for meeting up with the lady outside the club?

5. Can the lady leave with me before the club closes (I saw a reference to having to stay till 5 am)?

6. For those that go to these places often, what's the best place for a newbie that's definitely going to not fit into a 'dive bar' scene, think middle age white middle class suburban male that drives a minivan?

7. What can I expect to spend on a lady?

LetMeTry
06-27-24, 02:38
Hi,

I read through this topic and interested in learning more about how this scene works if anyone is willing to share.

I've tried hostess bars in Spain and Mexico where the club makes most of its money off door fee, bottle service (usually required), and then theres a house fee for outcall on top of the ladies gift. The places described here as dive bars so how the house work?

1. Are there any door fees?

2. Are there minimum spend requirements?

3. Do the ladies charge for time spent inside the club?

4. Is there a house fee for meeting up with the lady outside the club?

5. Can the lady leave with me before the club closes (I saw a reference to having to stay till 5 am)?

6. For those that go to these places often, what's the best place for a newbie that's definitely going to not fit into a 'dive bar' scene, think middle age white middle class suburban male that drives a minivan?

7. What can I expect to spend on a lady?1-4. No.

5. She can, but I don't think she will. They make money while you stay there and buy them drinks.

6. You will fit in. Most of the guys are middle aged. Take a few drinks and you will be partying. I suggest you go with a buddy.

7. If you mean inside buying drinks, I'd say 100-200.

Lakater
07-01-24, 15:38
This is a bit different. I've been making my way through some of these bars by myself. Like some users stated, some are more sit down, some are more clubby, and sometimes the girls are incredibly boring, sometimes they are fun talking to or a bit on the wild side, and honestly, talking to the girls for a while affects whether or not I feel up to anything else. Wanted to know what places you guys like the most? I still have to see more places, and it often depends on the girl, but I guess progreseņo, kurva's, and pantera have been the ones I liked the most while being inside.

LetMeTry
07-04-24, 00:31
This is a bit different. I've been making my way through some of these bars by myself. Like some users stated, some are more sit down, some are more clubby, and sometimes the girls are incredibly boring, sometimes they are fun talking to or a bit on the wild side, and honestly, talking to the girls for a while affects whether or not I feel up to anything else. Wanted to know what places you guys like the most? I still have to see more places, and it often depends on the girl, but I guess progreseo, kurva's, and pantera have been the ones I liked the most while being inside.Have you gotten anything out of it? How much have you spent?

Lakater
07-09-24, 20:19
Have you gotten anything out of it? How much have you spent?Have not taken anyone, nor particularly tried, to be honest, since a lot of it was scoping out places. On more than one ocassion, some very forward women did either just straight up say explicit specific things, or implied about doing something. I did sort of overspend drinking at one of these places one day and while I didn't take them out, I had enough fun inside that I'd take it over, say, a strip club, if we're going to compare what you get out of it.

LetMeTry
07-09-24, 22:51
Have not taken anyone, nor particularly tried, to be honest, since a lot of it was scoping out places. On more than one ocassion, some very forward women did either just straight up say explicit specific things, or implied about doing something. I did sort of overspend drinking at one of these places one day and while I didn't take them out, I had enough fun inside that I'd take it over, say, a strip club, if we're going to compare what you get out of it.LOL, I think that's how they get you to spend. So what do you consider overspend drinking?

Lakater
07-17-24, 17:49
LOL, I think that's how they get you to spend. So what do you consider overspend drinking?

In the grand scheme of things, and especially when you consider that previously in the thread it's been stated that you can spend like 150 on a night out, it wasn't catastrophic or anything like that, although i am a careful spender usually. I did go to multiple places that night and I just wasn't expecting to drag out the night that long. I definitely spent more than 150, but most likely less than 300 over the course of the night.

DavidJ2
08-23-24, 08:51
Stopped at rainbow last Monday (19th) surprised it was even open. Good amount on girls around 6's and 7's with a few that I'd call 8's 9's.

Definitely need to know Spanish, got a beer and just started drinking it, tried talking with one of them but she didn't seem interested, finished beer and just left.

LetMeTry
08-31-24, 09:59
Stopped at rainbow last Monday (19th) surprised it was even open. Good amount on girls around 6's and 7's with a few that I'd call 8's 9's.

Definitely need to know Spanish, got a beer and just started drinking it, tried talking with one of them but she didn't seem interested, finished beer and just left.Did you buy one for her?

Lakater
11-09-24, 18:43
So, there's a ton of these little hole-in-the wall places. Have found even more since last time I posted. However, in the case of possible takeout, I'm a bit unfamiliar of cheap places of where one can stop for for a bit for cheap? Anybody want to share some places for different areas. If want to keep it on the low, just DM.

Rzrfl69
01-02-25, 08:54
All these bars are definitely a dive, cantina style. Only beers. Sometimes only luke warm. They range 4-6 $ each depending where you are. The beers for the girls are usually 12 $ and tiny ones. That's how they get you. Yes the girls play games. Talk you into buying a bucket of beers. Before you know theirs are gone. I've seen them opening them and pouring them in the bucket upside down pretending to drink. Go to bathroom and come back and their beer is empty. Etc.

Not all girls are take out. Some really do work it with the beers and getting tips etc.

Supposedly they recently raided some bars as I have seen the number of girls go way down and they aren't as forward.

Rainbow is always busy. Just parking sucks.

Holguin is more a club vibe. Go after like 9 or later. Lots of girls.

8 ball is a dive. Corner of warehouses. Girls usually just average. But always has a few.

La pantera is definitely rough. Girls only average there. And never use your card here.

Kuervas closed as far as I know. After some drunk guy shot at the door I haven't seen anything.

La lunita is a late spot. Like 4 am on. Club vibe. Lots of people.

La Davina is from like 6 am on. Feels like a high end club they try to look like. Lots of security then.

Exito feels like a Central American typical bar. Girls average or below. Cheap beer.

Rinconcito I haven't been to yet.

Havana cafe I haven't been to yet either. But I hear this is more from like 6 am to noon.

All these spots are best Friday and Saturday. Rest of the week very hit or miss.

As far as dreaming about take out. Some do. Some you need to get to know. And it's still the same as most escorts.

Over all, I find them as good places to just have a cheap beer. Flirt some. Talk some shit and go.

Lakater
07-10-25, 21:02
So 8 ball closed and that was I think the only place that I'm aware of that stayed open after 1 AM when a bunch of other ones closed before Lunita or Kurva's got going like 2 hours later. Anybody know if there's another place that closes after 1 AM?

LetMeTry
07-11-25, 01:18
So 8 ball closed and that was I think the only place that I'm aware of that stayed open after 1 AM when a bunch of other ones closed before Lunita or Kurva's got going like 2 hours later. Anybody know if there's another place that closes after 1 AM?Have you gotten anything? Or waste of time?

Lakater
12-30-25, 17:32
Have you gotten anything? Or waste of time?Bumping cthos thread because I forgot. I have been offered, but I have not partaken just cause the times I've been offered I felt like they were overcharging but I'm also picky as well. I've def heard of other guys getting some as well though. If that's your absolute 100% goal then just go see an escort or a parlor. Like someone earlier in the thread said, if someone is thinking of going, let me know, good to look out after the other.

Still curious about new places,. Or if anyone knows noce girls to keep an eye put for.

KChannel
02-06-26, 17:55
Over all, I find them as good places to just have a cheap beer. Flirt some. Talk some shit and go.Do I need Spanish for these places? I'm learning but I just can't hold a convo yet. Moved recently I had no idea how Spanish heavy this county is.

John Goodie
02-06-26, 23:59
Do I need Spanish for these places? I'm learning but I just can't hold a convo yet. Moved recently I had no idea how Spanish heavy this county is.They aren't strippers, the whole thing is to like chat, drink a few beers and if you hit it off you take if offline. If the girls think you're off at all they simply don't deal with you. You cannot flirt or pull in this environment. If you can, you can hunt civilians easier than trying to jump the cultural gap.

Also, they'll probably think your a federal cop / ICE. I would.

KChannel
02-09-26, 21:12
They aren't strippers, the whole thing is to like chat, drink a few beers and if you hit it off you take if offline. If the girls think you're off at all they simply don't deal with you. You cannot flirt or pull in this environment. If you can, you can hunt civilians easier than trying to jump the cultural gap.

Also, they'll probably think your a federal cop / ICE. I would.Thanks. Sounds like similar vibe to the hawaii hostess bar scene which I'm I.

Comfortable with; just a few words of Korean or Vietnamese is more than enough to be with the in-crowd.

I'm a black gringo and that's gotten me plenty of acceptance while I've been out here depending on the place.

Lakater
02-22-26, 11:35
Do I need Spanish for these places? I'm learning but I just can't hold a convo yet. Moved recently I had no idea how Spanish heavy this county is.It's all spanish. If you're suave and endearing and communicate well enough, maybe you could pull it off, but you might get some people thinking you're a cop. I knew an americans that ysed to go to a place near bar Nancy's and nobody cared, but in your case, your best chance is to go with a bilingual friend or a bilignual group and you can have an easier time easing in.

Lakater
02-22-26, 11:39
If you look up news, there were a number of arrests a la lunita and it's been closed down. No idea if there's reopening plans. If anyone knows a place that's open till dawn, especially in that area (although I'm always open to new suggestions, let me know, because if I was in the area, that was my spot LOL. I haven't seen kurva's bearby open at the same time lately either. That's 3 I know that are gone now since bola 8/8 ball also closed.