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Hey guys, as a guy pushing 60, for the past few years I have been having trouble "rising to the occasion".
I have tried the little blue helper and the little yellow helper and back to the blue, and I am finding the modern pharmaceuticals are working less and less, which sucks because now that I have the disposable income to partake in the hobby, it is very frustrating when things don't work.
I was wondering what others are doing to help with this situation, thanks for any insight you can provide!
Hey guys, as a guy pushing 60, for the past few years I have been having trouble "rising to the occasion".
I have tried the little blue helper and the little yellow helper and back to the blue, and I am finding the modern pharmaceuticals are working less and less, which sucks because now that I have the disposable income to partake in the hobby, it is very frustrating when things don't work.
I was wondering what others are doing to help with this situation, thanks for any insight you can provide!After decades of doing the Mongering, I find I don't really get all that aroused anymore. I think it is because I've had so much variety that it takes alot to get me going. If I go to a strip joint, watching the girls dance has zero effect anymore! The viagra used to work great. And the side effects such as headache and stuffy sinus' were very noticable. Now days, even 100 mg of Viagra has zero effect on me. Not even any side effects either so apparently I have developed an immunity to it. My Dr suggested I switch to a DAILY does of 20 mg Tidalifil (Cialis) . As he has heard that it makes you fell the urge easier and, because you can "respond" all the time, your body starts to think along the lines of getting horny again. He also says it helps in keeping the urge to pee at night suppressed so you get a better nights sleep. Results: It helps me greatly with getting horny easier. And I am sleeping better! And it is dirt cheap anymore. I get 30 ea 40 mG doses, which I break in half each day. So it lasts me 2 months.
BigPurpleSnake
07-12-23, 17:46
Get your Testosterone level checked. If is low you may need to get on testosterone replacement therapy (TRT).
Michael1967
07-12-23, 18:55
Get your Testosterone level checked. If is low you may need to get on testosterone replacement therapy (TRT).There are several very vocal people here that claim that testosterone does nothing. I took a testosterone shot every week for two years and was screwing everything that moved. I went to Costa Rica and screwed 3 to 4 women per day. When I was home, I had someone over 3 nights per week at minimum. I stopped taking it in September and my libido is probably "normal" now (once or twice a week). I just wanted to get this out here before the naysayers show up. They claim it was psychosomatic. Basically, I was doing it because I believed the testosterone was making it happen, but in reality it was doing nothing. Recently, I mentioned that I used to take it to my doctor and she basically said that I shouldn't have ever taken it and it doesn't do anything (but my naturopath is a 100% believer and she has resolved more of my underlying health problems that any doctor has).
I quit taking it in September and went through about 3-4 months of extreme depression that I pulled out of around January / February. I probably won't ever do it again.
Luvstophuk
07-12-23, 19:53
I take the yellow helper and when I first started taking it "the show" would be in town all weekend so much so that I had issues finishing. I take it these days and I need to wait a few hours before "the show" is in town. I might look into test as well.
Hey guys, as a guy pushing 60, for the past few years I have been having trouble "rising to the occasion".
I have tried the little blue helper and the little yellow helper and back to the blue, and I am finding the modern pharmaceuticals are working less and less, which sucks because now that I have the disposable income to partake in the hobby, it is very frustrating when things don't work.
I was wondering what others are doing to help with this situation, thanks for any insight you can provide!
FarFarAway
07-12-23, 20:20
There are several very vocal people here that claim that testosterone does nothing. I took a testosterone shot every week for two years and was screwing everything that moved. I went to Costa Rica and screwed 3 to 4 women per day. When I was home, I had someone over 3 nights per week at minimum. I stopped taking it in September and my libido is probably "normal" now (once or twice a week). I just wanted to get this out here before the naysayers show up. They claim it was psychosomatic. Basically, I was doing it because I believed the testosterone was making it happen, but in reality it was doing nothing. Recently, I mentioned that I used to take it to my doctor and she basically said that I shouldn't have ever taken it and it doesn't do anything (but my naturopath is a 100% believer and she has resolved more of my underlying health problems that any doctor has).
I quit taking it in September and went through about 3-4 months of extreme depression that I pulled out of around January / February. I probably won't ever do it again.Many many years ago, I did the skin application of gel. The main thing I noted is that it made my walnuts shrink. I didn't like that.
A new PCP was against it, so I quit, he gave a long list of natural things you can do to maintain T levels. Such as have a lot of sex, hang out, exercise, etc. I don't have any need to supplement and now I am a decade older. I do use PDE5 inhibitors when w / a lady I meet on the sly.
And, BTW, there is no relation of erections to T levels. Eunuchs can still get hard-ons, they just can't impregnate any of the girls in the harem.
Marko Ramius
07-12-23, 21:04
A lot of times it isn't about you, even.
I've probably had a half-dozen times over the years where I was just 100 percent over this hobby and took long breaks (like six months or more -- one time almost three years) where I wasn't taking these rides. If you find it doesn't arouse you anymore, the first thing I'd try is to not hobby for a couple of months.
Never felt the need to take the blue or yellow helpers (I'm over sixty) nor very serious about things like testosterone replacement. On the other hand, I had a pretty serious about of depression last year and an even more serious health scare last fall. The upshot of both of those is that I've exercised a lot more, made some pretty dramatic dietary changes, lost a bunch of weight, and am paying an absurd amount for both a trainer and a dietician. But a lot of days I feel like I'm walking around with a throbbing iron bar in my trousers, if you know what I mean.
So there isn't a right answer, really.
There are several very vocal people here that claim that testosterone does nothing. I took a testosterone shot every week for two years and was screwing everything that moved. I went to Costa Rica and screwed 3 to 4 women per day. When I was home, I had someone over 3 nights per week at minimum. I stopped taking it in September and my libido is probably "normal" now (once or twice a week). I just wanted to get this out here before the naysayers show up. They claim it was psychosomatic. Basically, I was doing it because I believed the testosterone was making it happen, but in reality it was doing nothing. Recently, I mentioned that I used to take it to my doctor and she basically said that I shouldn't have ever taken it and it doesn't do anything (but my naturopath is a 100% believer and she has resolved more of my underlying health problems that any doctor has).
I quit taking it in September and went through about 3-4 months of extreme depression that I pulled out of around January / February. I probably won't ever do it again.Yeah I have heard that from different friends that have tried the therapy. It is not psychosomatic, but different people are different and what works for you may not for someone else. Testosterones does have an impact on libido (it is not imagined) for many who take it.
Hey guys, as a guy pushing 60, for the past few years I have been having trouble "rising to the occasion".
I have tried the little blue helper and the little yellow helper and back to the blue, and I am finding the modern pharmaceuticals are working less and less, which sucks because now that I have the disposable income to partake in the hobby, it is very frustrating when things don't work.
I was wondering what others are doing to help with this situation, thanks for any insight you can provide!Make sure you take big poop. It help.
Make sure you take big poop. It help.Is pretty much the next step.
Also anything like Nyquil, Dayquil or Claritin D will also cause problems as these are vasoconstrictors.
PriceIsRight39
12-03-23, 02:32
Yeah I have heard that from different friends that have tried the therapy. It is not psychosomatic, but different people are different and what works for you may not for someone else. Testosterones does have an impact on libido (it is not imagined) for many who take it.I have morning wood at nearly 60. I have pecks and look good in a wife beater at almost 60 (not that these daft ass ho's have any idea what they are seeing LOL). If you're a sack of poo, it won't make you a stud. But if you take care of yourself, that shit is magic. I've tired with the bule pill and without. The boners are just as good without the pill and no headaches and stuffy nose. But the bule pill can help.
Test is plummeting in men! They tell us we're toxic (fuck that sh. T!) so. Plastics too.
Simping too (sorry if why'all triggered). Simpin is psychosomatic. LOL we were built to be men. F!ck James Cameron! Pencil neck azz!
My insurance covers it for 5 bucks.
Do it!
It worked for me.
Hear me out, I think guys need to know their bodies, biologies, and aging, then approach your "game" differently.
About seven years ago, I discovered the joy of BDSM (mainly D / s) and fetish plays -- it gave me a different perspective on s3 x and added a new / big list of "turn-ons". Especially, when you are in a trusted ("judgment-free") D / s relationship, your mind sets you free and your body gets stimulated in a brand new way!
P.S. Right now I'm trying to make a pair of hames for my sub. Any metal fabricators on here, I'm in need of some help, LOL.
Hey guys, as a guy pushing 60, for the past few years I have been having trouble "rising to the occasion".
I have tried the little blue helper and the little yellow helper and back to the blue, and I am finding the modern pharmaceuticals are working less and less, which sucks because now that I have the disposable income to partake in the hobby, it is very frustrating when things don't work.
I was wondering what others are doing to help with this situation, thanks for any insight you can provide!I haven't been able to get a bone in a week. Blue chew and sildenafil doesn't work. My balls need a release and I can't get a boner. This sucks.
I haven't been able to get a bone in a week. Blue chew and sildenafil doesn't work. My balls need a release and I can't get a boner. This sucks.Is it the aftermath of your encounter with Jessica?
My insurance covers it for 5 bucks.Did you have to score low on a testosterone test to get a prescription? For some reason I'm not testing low, but was able to find a doctor to prescribe it for me as part of a holistic health thing. But his program isn't covered by insurance and costs me $100/ month.
I will say, however, there's a noticeable increase in morning wood, general horniness, and musculature. It's a cream that I rub on my balls after showering, before going to bed. I'm 59. Highly recommend.
Did you have to score low on a testosterone test to get a prescription? For some reason I'm not testing low, but was able to find a doctor to prescribe it for me as part of a holistic health thing. But his program isn't covered by insurance and costs me $100/ month.
I will say, however, there's a noticeable increase in morning wood, general horniness, and musculature. It's a cream that I rub on my balls after showering, before going to bed. I'm 59. Highly recommend.What's the name and percentage of the cream?
What's the name and percentage of the cream?There's no brand name on it. It's 100 MG / ML, and compounded with Versabase cream. I put on 1 ML per day (it comes in a syringe with measurements on the side), so 100 MG of testosterone.
I need a boost downunder. My DM is open.
Best Regards,
BKirk.
Midnightpass
02-09-26, 06:20
There are several very vocal people here that claim that testosterone does nothing. I took a testosterone shot every week for two years and was screwing everything that moved. I went to Costa Rica and screwed 3 to 4 women per day. When I was home, I had someone over 3 nights per week at minimum. I stopped taking it in September and my libido is probably "normal" now (once or twice a week). I just wanted to get this out here before the naysayers show up. They claim it was psychosomatic. Basically, I was doing it because I believed the testosterone was making it happen, but in reality it was doing nothing. Recently, I mentioned that I used to take it to my doctor and she basically said that I shouldn't have ever taken it and it doesn't do anything (but my naturopath is a 100% believer and she has resolved more of my underlying health problems that any doctor has).
I quit taking it in September and went through about 3-4 months of extreme depression that I pulled out of around January / February. I probably won't ever do it again.It is not psychosomatic. My first TRT provider got me a little too high and I was too horny. I see my urologist every 10 weeks for the pellets and everything is normal. I'm 70, and in excellent health. The psychological benefits are worth it alone. I was never super depressed, but got the regular blues now and again. No more after TRT. Coincidence? I doubt it.
It is not psychosomatic. My first TRT provider got me a little too high and I was too horny. I see my urologist every 10 weeks for the pellets and everything is normal. I'm 70, and in excellent health. The psychological benefits are worth it alone. I was never super depressed, but got the regular blues now and again. No more after TRT. Coincidence? I doubt it.Had to google TRT pellets, interesting read.
WalterOne23
02-19-26, 02:00
Somewhat topic related, just felt like sharing. Just got my vasectomy today. So far, 5 hours after the procedure, no pain just a very heavy sensation and generally walking like a penguin. Wish me luck for the next few days of recovery.
PriceIsRight39
02-19-26, 13:57
Somewhat topic related, just felt like sharing. Just got my vasectomy today. So far, 5 hours after the procedure, no pain just a very heavy sensation and generally walking like a penguin. Wish me luck for the next few days of recovery.I just can't pull the trigger on that. LOL I read the complications blog! Haha.
At 57 on mild trt I have had weeks where I dropped my shot and was tested at 325 total. Simply fucking a 21 yo BBY girl has kept my stuff totally hard when needed. The trt helps with a energy and I'm horny looking a ankles at the supermarket. Being around young women is a kings natural state. Hey, get rid of led lights as much as possible. Look it up. That chit is evil. Pushed by the fella that lives over on Mercer Is. In a super super big house. Just sayin'. LOL.
My question to you is, "Have you ever had success in addressing libido issues using Therapy?" My libido has dropped to near zero over the past decade. In the past couple of years I have visted a few AMPs and providers with limited success. It is difficult to pay money knowing the chances of success are slim so I have limited my mongering to near zero, which is very frustrating as I have recently retired and I have pleanty of time to explore the talent in the area. If I know the provider is OK with unprotected sex and will be patient with me, there is a chance I can get aroused because of the anticipation. ED drugs arent effective if you just have zero desire to have sex (I've tried them all). Any attempts using a condom have zero chance of success so that furthers my delema. The confusing part is that my testosterone is nearly 3 times that of a 20 year old (male). My General Practitioner Dr has examined me, refered me to Urologists (2 of them), had various imaging done to rule out tumors on organs that affect libido, and finally, a Endocinologist to look at all hormones. I am slender, excercize regularly, eat smart, and have had both healthy romantic relationships and a fantastic and extremly fullfilling mongering career over my lifetime (I'm over 60). I've always felt very comfortable and fulfilled with my sex life. The last Dr I saw was the endocrinologist, who says my various hormones are perfect. When I asked her what my next step should be to address my lack of libido, she said, "Its all in your head. You should consider therapy. " And then she walked out of the room. She is an asian woman and has zero tact, which I find refreshing. And funny. So my question to you is, "Have you ever had success in addressing libido issues using Therapy?" I do feel therapy can help problems such as communication issues with couples or anger management training, but just curing an issue by "sharing my problems" with a professional and having them say, "So how does that make you feel" is pure bullshit in my opinion. Any input? I would hate to think that we are only capable of XX number of orgasms in our life and then after that level is achieved, the pecker / brain connection just turns off!!
Joseph1955
03-08-26, 16:32
My question to you is, "Have you ever had success in addressing libido issues using Therapy?" My libido has dropped to near zero over the past decade. In the past couple of years I have visted a few AMPs and providers with limited success. It is difficult to pay money knowing the chances of success are slim so I have limited my mongering to near zero, which is very frustrating as I have recently retired and I have pleanty of time to explore the talent in the area. If I know the provider is OK with unprotected sex and will be patient with me, there is a chance I can get aroused because of the anticipation. ED drugs arent effective if you just have zero desire to have sex (I've tried them all). Any attempts using a condom have zero chance of success so that furthers my delema. The confusing part is that my testosterone is nearly 3 times that of a 20 year old (male). My General Practitioner Dr has examined me, refered me to Urologists (2 of them), had various imaging done to rule out tumors on organs that affect libido, and finally, a Endocinologist to look at all hormones. I am slender, excercize regularly, eat smart, and have had both healthy romantic relationships and a fantastic and extremly fullfilling mongering career over my lifetime (I'm over 60). I've always felt very comfortable and fulfilled with my sex life. The last Dr I saw was the endocrinologist, who says my various hormones are perfect. When I asked her what my next step should be to address my lack of libido, she said, "Its all in your head. You should consider therapy. " And then she walked out of the room. She is an asian woman and has zero tact, which I find refreshing. And funny. So my question to you is, "Have you ever had success in addressing libido issues using Therapy?" I do feel therapy can help problems such as communication issues with couples or anger management training, but just curing an issue by "sharing my problems" with a professional and having them say, "So how does that make you feel" is pure bullshit in my opinion. Any input? I would hate to think that we are only capable of XX number of orgasms in our life and then after that level is achieved, the pecker / brain connection just turns off!!Sounds like you've certainly explored the medical path, though the "all in your head" diagnosis doesn't sound like something a good doctor would say in such a dismissive way. You say you lack the desire, but seem to also write about a pretty strong desire. Is it that you like the idea of it but can't bring that idea over the finish line? Your report of having any hope of a good performance be dashed by the introduction of a condom is very familiar to us who's ED stems from nerve damage, like after a prostatectomy or cystectomy, but it doesn't sound like that's the case. So if you have intact anatomy / nerves and the interest to engage, the ED meds should help at least some. I'm assuming you've tried all the various oral ED meds. Did your urologist talk about the injectables, like trimix? It works completely differently than the oral meds as it's being applied directly to the erectile tissue. Basically, if you have functioning anatomy at all, trimix will get it to respond. But it also sounds like some psycho therapy could also be of benefit if you find your big head is really the primary obstacle. Good luck.
Original703
03-09-26, 12:14
My question to you is, "Have you ever had success in addressing libido issues using Therapy?" Yes. 'Twas a lengthy process for me.
Cosplayking2
03-09-26, 21:58
Somewhat topic related, just felt like sharing. Just got my vasectomy today. So far, 5 hours after the procedure, no pain just a very heavy sensation and generally walking like a penguin. Wish me luck for the next few days of recovery.My biggest concern is no nutting for like a month.
WaRubMonger
03-09-26, 23:08
My biggest concern is no nutting for like a month.A month? Bro. A week then clear them pipes!
With the ease of ordering products like fast acting bluechew, one would think providers keep a supply for clients.
Do any providers do this?.
Padrote425
07-13-26, 16:59
But I used home paid like 70 for a week or more.
Started going through insurance 1 month supply for 5 bucks.
If you got it use it.
With the ease of ordering products like fast acting bluechew, one would think providers keep a supply for clients.
Do any providers do this?.
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