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Since it comes up repeatedly on other threads let's have a centralized thread for this. If you're hobbying it's a good idea to get checked and if you're BBFSing you owe it to yourself and everyone else to know your status.
STD Check https://www.stdcheck.com/.
Online (private, easy test you pay online then go to a Quest type collection center, costs some money, can pay with HSA card if you have one).
Howard Brown https://howardbrown.org/service/sexual-health-walk-in-clinic/.
(usually free and can walk in but you might have to wait a while).
Many neighborhood walk in urgent care clinics also offer STD testing, not free.
ApplePiePussy
02-11-20, 14:25
Since it comes up repeatedly on other threads let's have a centralized thread for this. If you're hobbying it's a good idea to get checked and if you're BBFSing you owe it to yourself and everyone else to know your status.
STD Check https://www.stdcheck.com/.
Online (private, easy test you pay online then go to a Quest type collection center, costs some money, can pay with HSA card if you have one).
Howard Brown https://howardbrown.org/service/sexual-health-walk-in-clinic/.
(usually free and can walk in but you might have to wait a while).
Many neighborhood walk in urgent care clinics also offer STD testing, not free.I have used STD check and thought it was a pretty good experience. I believe it was less than a week from the lab visit to getting the results. I think there's a couple more sites like it as well. One other thing is that insurance will likely cover STD testing if it is rolled in with an annual checkup which is usually free. So it might be worth it for most people to go that route first through their doctor.
I have used STD check and thought it was a pretty good experience. I believe it was less than a week from the lab visit to getting the results. I think there's a couple more sites like it as well. One other thing is that insurance will likely cover STD testing if it is rolled in with an annual checkup which is usually free. So it might be worth it for most people to go that route first through their doctor.https://www.healthtestingcenters.com
I used this, paid with a prepaid card, used my monger email and phone, made up a name and address, they emailed me results in 2 days, good experience, but yeah, if you don't mind going through insurance it's usually free. Also, if you use fake info, make sure to remember it!
Horny Dog #2
02-14-20, 20:58
https://www.healthtestingcenters.com
I used this, paid with a prepaid card, used my monger email and phone, made up a name and address, they emailed me results in 2 days, good experience, but yeah, if you don't mind going through insurance it's usually free. Also, if you use fake info, make sure to remember it!When you show up at the testing center (Quest, or whichever testing center you use), I would have thought that you would need to show them an I'd when you sign in. If you are using a fake name and address, I assume that you don't need an I'd. So, when you show up, do you just say you have an appointment for "fake name", and they don't ask for any I'd or insurance info?
When you show up at the testing center (Quest, or whichever testing center you use), I would have thought that you would need to show them an I'd when you sign in. If you are using a fake name and address, I assume that you don't need an I'd. So, when you show up, do you just say you have an appointment for "fake name", and they don't ask for any I'd or insurance info?I imagine if you're using insurance you'd need an I'd, but you can just order the test yourself with fake info, pay ahead of time with a prepaid card. They didn't ask for anything except name, dob and address or zip or something when you get there. Have to thank flipper on this board for showing me this service.
With STDCheck you just print out a form and bring it along. There's a kiosk at Quest or the desk where you check in and give them the form. That's it.
ApplePiePussy
02-15-20, 14:30
I just had a test recently through my insurance. Clean across the board. In 2019, I probably did more BBFS than CFS and even did BB anal twice with providers unexpectedly. It's a big relief to get those results and know you're good to go.
MuffPleaser
04-10-20, 01:23
I just used stdcheck.com I filled out the form online and created an account. You can use an alias since they do not ask for I'd at the time you walk in for your lab test. It cost me $195.00 for peace of mind for a ten panel test that checked for Hep A / B / C, HIV, Herpes simplex type 1 and 2, and Chlamydia. I have done some shit at the last minute and listened to my little head at the heat of the moment in the past. I got sick around 1st of January and haven't felt the best. Googling and coming up with shit that scared that shit out of me and starting worrying. It was totally worth it and very discreet testing. I used Labcorp since it was close to me. I went in around 1 pm on Tuesday and Wednesday at 6:30 pm I had the results. Its kinda steep but will worth it. Came back negative on everything which was a relief. You guys be careful out there, only takes one time to fuck up and you got the gift for life.
This is my go to place. Very affordable and usually there is hardly ever a long wait. Last time I went, I was in between jobs and collecting unemployment. They provided their services for free.
Member #6286
03-11-21, 07:53
I read a report yesterday that 1 in 5 Americans have an STD. Seems very high. Have any of you mongers ever got an STD? Was it a reputable agency girl or independent? Was it BBFS or covered? I'm worried now hobbying.
AngelBravo
03-11-21, 16:29
I read a report yesterday that 1 in 5 Americans have an STD. Seems very high. Have any of you mongers ever got an STD? Was it a reputable agency girl or independent? Was it BBFS or covered? I'm worried now hobbying.Mathematically, there is no doubt that one of us has gotten an STD mongering. Simply put this hobby has inherent risks associated with it, and this is the main reason I'm perfectly happy with just HJ and even now L1 I won't partake. If I where you I'd get my own condoms and triple check to ensure they don't splurge any extra saliva outside of the condom area. The fact remains it doesn't feel as good but boy does feeling safer and peace of mind make you more comfortable. The one that is the most common STD is Herpes, it spreads easily and is rampant. This is my biggest worry about this hobby and the reason I've dropped my visit considerably and will only do L1 with mutual massage. Find what is your happy medium compromise and stick with it, because every single time your only rolling the odds on that life dice.
Anybody use this lab for testing? I was wondering how much for full S T D testing?
https://www.arcpointlabs.com/
Just discovered a new place for my testing needs called AHF Wellness off 26th and Michigan. Saw the signs on a billboard and gave them a try. It's free and near me so will be my go to.
I read a report yesterday that 1 in 5 Americans have an STD. Seems very high. Have any of you mongers ever got an STD? Was it a reputable agency girl or independent? Was it BBFS or covered? I'm worried now hobbying.I know this post is super old but I just wanted to point out that HPV is an STD and chances are most of the guys on this board and almost every escort has it or has had it. There's generally no test for it for men, and most of the time is asymptomatic and clears on its own. You might have gotten it a few times in your life and never had any idea.
It's when it doesn't clear that problems start, especially in women. But HPV's prevalence usually skews those STD numbers into scary territory like you noticed.
My friend actually tested positive for chlamydia back in August which was a surprise to him since there were no symptoms. He never got tested for it before so it's hard to say whether he caught it from a SW or girls he hit raw that aren't SW's. 2 pills and it cleared right up in 7 days.
My friend actually tested positive for chlamydia back in August which was a surprise to him since there were no symptoms. He never got tested for it before so it's hard to say whether he caught it from a SW or girls he hit raw that aren't SW's. 2 pills and it cleared right up in 7 days.Chlamydia is one of the most common STDs and probably the best one to get if you're going to catch an STD.
90% of women with Chlamydia have NO symptoms.
70% of men with Chlamydia have NO symptoms.
That's why it's important to get tested regularly if you're going to be playing this game.
Just because you don't have any symptoms doesn't mean you're clean.
You can also catch it by getting a BBBJ if the girl has the STD in her throat. Most doctors don't swab a women's throat for STDs unless there are symptoms. The universal test is a urine sample, but if a woman has Chlamydia or Gonorrhea in her throat it won't show up in a urine test.
Treatment for Chlamydia is simple with 2 pills, but anti-biotic resistance is increasing for Chlamydia and Gonorrhea. That means the meds we have to treat those STDs aren't working as well anymore.
P.S.: 1 out of 5 women have Herpes compared to 1 out of 9 men.
Why would one not want to have insurance involved? Is a a married thing? If someone was single would it matter?
Why would one not want to have insurance involved? Is a a married thing? If someone was single would it matter?I'm single and don't get insurance involved. Mainly I just don't want that sort of information showing up on my health record forever. I doubt anything bad will happen but I also don't want to have every medical professional I see for the rest of my life see it and subtly judge me.
I'm single and don't get insurance involved. Mainly I just don't want that sort of information showing up on my health record forever. I doubt anything bad will happen but I also don't want to have every medical professional I see for the rest of my life see it and subtly judge me.Still shows up if you are treated.
Why would one not want to have insurance involved? Is a a married thing? If someone was single would it matter?It costs me several hundred dollars more if I go to my doc and use my insurance. It's a lot cheaper to pay on my own through a STD testing site.
If you just want to just get a urine test for Chlamydia or Gonorrhea I recommend Lemonaidhealth.com.
It costs around $55 without insurance and they'll test you for both with a simple urine test. Takes less than 5 minutes and they'll email you results in a couple of days.
Their website will show you the nearest testing centers in your area and you can walk in the same day you order the test.
If you test positive for Chlamydia they will even prescribe you the meds. If you test positive for Gonorrhea you'll have to go to a local clinic because it requires a painful shot in the ass along with some pills.
Still shows up if you are treated.There are treatment clinics where you can go and get treated anonymously, or under a pseudonym.
Ready Freddie
12-03-21, 23:31
There are treatment clinics where you can go and get treated anonymously, or under a pseudonym.Can you give some names or locations of these places? Or a what to find them? I've recently moved and would like to find a place I can go anonymously or under a pseudonym. Thanks.
Can you give some names or locations of these places? Or a what to find them? I've recently moved and would like to find a place I can go anonymously or under a pseudonym. Thanks.Try the Howard Brown Clinic. The location I know of is at Sheridan Road and Irving Park Road. About 4 blocks north of Wrigley Field. I've never used this clinic. So I'm not sure about anonymity.
Try the Howard Brown Clinic. The location I know of is at Sheridan Road and Irving Park Road. About 4 blocks north of Wrigley Field. I've never used this clinic. So I'm not sure about anonymity.There's also one in Hyde Park now, on 55th and Lake Park. I think planned parenthood is also an option.
Can you give some names or locations of these places? Or a what to find them? I've recently moved and would like to find a place I can go anonymously or under a pseudonym. Thanks.There's also one in Bridgeport that is free. It is popular with people who are undocumented and don't have insurance and want to do everything under the table. https://bfcuc.mystrikingly.com/.
There's also one in Bridgeport that is free. It is popular with people who are undocumented and don't have insurance and want to do everything under the table. https://bfcuc.mystrikingly.com/.The web site you linked, Jinurso says: We do not offer STI testing (see here for other available locations). That statement links out to this address:
https://www.chicago.gov/city/en/depts/cdph/provdrs/health_services/svcs/get_yourself_evaluatedforstihivaids.html
Member #6519
12-05-21, 11:43
1) Has anyone here ever contracted condyloma acumulatum aka genital warts? Wondering if it is common in chicagoland region.
2) Thank you all for sharing STD testing resources. Are there any free or low cost STD testing resources in the suburbs? I don't want to do it through insurance. Willing to pay out of pocket.
2) Thank you all for sharing STD testing resources. Are there any free or low cost STD testing resources in the suburbs? I don't want to do it through insurance. Willing to pay out of pocket.Go to STDcheck.com.
Enter your zip code and they'll show you the nearest testing facilities.
You can order individual tests or do the 10-panel test for $139, which is the best deal.
Use promo code 15covid to get $15 off. Expires soon.
AngelBravo
12-05-21, 17:59
1) Has anyone here ever contracted condyloma acumulatum aka genital warts? Wondering if it is common in chicagoland region.
2) Thank you all for sharing STD testing resources. Are there any free or low cost STD testing resources in the suburbs? I don't want to do it through insurance. Willing to pay out of pocket.Nobody is going to feel comfortable sharing their sexual health history, but given the odds I can assure you some people have gotten Herpes, Chlamydia, HPV, Gonorrhea and possibly other sexual diseases especially when they go bareback, BBJ and other risky sexual behaviours. This hobby if you want to call it that is not without it's risks, and a condom and your knowledge to use it well are the only lines of protection. It also helps to do a visual check on the girl before anything begins. I've one met a provide that clearly had a herpes sore on her lips and I immediately declined further service. You can tell she was cover it up with makeup but given I don't have it. It wasn't worth the risk to me. I also only engage in L1 for this reason alone; so cautious and be careful.
OnlyDreams
12-06-21, 04:47
Nobody is going to feel comfortable sharing their sexual health history, but given the odds I can assure you some people have gotten Herpes, Chlamydia, HPV, Gonorrhea and possibly other sexual diseases especially when they go bareback, BBJ and other risky sexual behaviours. This hobby if you want to call it that is not without it's risks, and a condom and your knowledge to use it well are the only lines of protection. It also helps to do a visual check on the girl before anything begins. I've one met a provide that clearly had a herpes sore on her lips and I immediately declined further service. You can tell she was cover it up with makeup but given I don't have it. It wasn't worth the risk to me. I also only engage in L1 for this reason alone; so cautious and be careful.A visual test wouldn't tell you if a person has HIV, HPV and other STD's. In regards to oral herpes, I wouldn't even kiss a person with that type of herpes, but unfortunately it's a very common type of herpes and everybody has had it or might have it at one point in his / her life.
I also like to do a visual and even a smell test but it may help in some cases but only a complete STD test (blood, urine, etc) will tell what's going on. And agree with you, a condom and knowledge may be offer more protection. But the best protection is celibacy.
Go to STDcheck.com.
Enter your zip code and they'll show you the nearest testing facilities.
You can order individual tests or do the 10-panel test for $139, which is the best deal.
Use promo code 15covid to get $15 off. Expires soon.I recommend this site too for privacy reasons. (The code obviously doesn't work anymore since it's from 2021).
FarFarAway
05-04-22, 23:56
A visual test wouldn't tell you if a person has HIV, HPV and other STD's. In regards to oral herpes, I wouldn't even kiss a person with that type of herpes, but unfortunately it's a very common type of herpes and everybody has had it or might have it at one point in his / her life.
I also like to do a visual and even a smell test but it may help in some cases but only a complete STD test (blood, urine, etc.) will tell what's going on. And agree with you, a condom and knowledge may be offer more protection. But the best protection is celibacy.Worry about genital warts. Those are from HPV. I always ask girls if they have had the Gardisil vaccine. That prevents cervical cancer, as well as the warts.
About of the population of the US is seropositive for HSV-1 - that is not sexually transmitted, it can be from drinking from an unwashed glass, or whatever. Like all retroviruses, once you have it, you have it forever. The one you don't want to get is genital herpes, HSV-2. That you need to get tested for, her too.
FarFarAway
05-05-22, 13:16
Worry about genital warts. Those are from HPV. I always ask girls if they have had the Gardisil vaccine. That prevents cervical cancer, as well as the warts.
About of the population of the US is seropositive for HSV-1 - that is not sexually transmitted, it can be from drinking from an unwashed glass, or whatever. Like all retroviruses, once you have it, you have it forever. The one you don't want to get is genital herpes, HSV-2. That you need to get tested for, her too.IDK why, something was lost in that post. Around two thirds of the US population has HSV-1.
Most young girls these days get the Gardisil vaccine. Under Obamacare, vaccinations are mandated free in any health plan. If the girl has any insurance and hasn't been vaccinated, she can get it for free. Require her to do this before FC, as well as an STD test. Also vaccinated against COVID, of course.
RationalityLoL
05-09-22, 01:50
Nobody is going to feel comfortable sharing their sexual health history, but given the odds I can assure you some people have gotten Herpes, Chlamydia, HPV, Gonorrhea and possibly other sexual diseases especially when they go bareback, BBJ and other risky sexual behaviours. This hobby if you want to call it that is not without it's risks, and a condom and your knowledge to use it well are the only lines of protection. It also helps to do a visual check on the girl before anything begins. I've one met a provide that clearly had a herpes sore on her lips and I immediately declined further service. You can tell she was cover it up with makeup but given I don't have it. It wasn't worth the risk to me. I also only engage in L1 for this reason alone; so cautious and be careful.I basically only do L1 for the same reasons.
Messed around with a provider uncovered and got chlamydia.
Anyone have any advice on how to tell your spouse?
Messed around with a provider uncovered and got chlamydia.
Anyone have any advice on how to tell your spouse?I've never had (chlamydia or a spouse, hahaha, sorry) though the little head has gotten the better of me on a few occasions and I've gone raw dog. Anyways, a little research shows; "With treatment, chlamydia should go away within a week or two, however, the test may remain positive for 4 weeks after treatment. ".
Do you HAVE to tell her? Can you pull off 2 weeks of no sex with the wife, hide your antibiotics (and the prescription / medical bill) and hope it passes before she notices? I mean, that sounds better than just coming out and saying "I've been cheating on you and have the clap".
Lastly, any clues as to which provider gave you the gift that keeps on giving? Escort, Parlor, stripper?
Good luck, sucks, but if you start that treatment ASAP you'll be over it before you know it.
HappyGardener
06-15-23, 06:29
https://www.stdcheck.com//
A friend used this place last week.
LiquorThnPoker
06-15-23, 07:27
Messed around with a provider uncovered and got chlamydia.
Anyone have any advice on how to tell your spouse?I got it 10 years ago. It goes away after a week of antibiotics and then you have to retest and wait for those results to come back before engaging again. Was in an open relationship at the time and she was pissed because she thought I broke a rule and barebacked someone. I actually wore a condom. I think I got it because I didn't shower afterward and my balls were soaked were her fluids. But who knows.
Obviously if you haven't banged your wife since the provider, then you hold out with excuses until you've had enough antibiotics and are testing negative. If you might have given it to her, then you have two choices: tell a bad lie and hope she believes it, or confess that you cheated because you're unhappy / etc., and deal with the consequences. I personally wouldn't tell her it was a provider, since I wouldn't want her friends / family to ever know that part. And I would claim that I used a condom and it broke, since she'll be even madder about the barebacking.
The best bad lie I can come up with is I had a bad day at work, had a couple of drinks, and stopped in somewhere random for a massage. Had no idea that it was a shady place. Girl kept asking me something with a heavy accent that I didn't understand, and I just answered with "yes" to shut her up. Next thing you know the sheet came off and she is sliding her vag all over my junk. And it took me a while to realize what was happening, since I was half-drunk and in a daze from the massage. I pushed her off of me, but I guess it was too late. Worst part is that she demanded 100 after that.
If you wife would never fall for a story like that, then you're better off apologizing profusely and telling a half-lie (some random from craigslist or something).
GeneralObvious
06-15-23, 08:34
Messed around with a provider uncovered and got chlamydia.
Anyone have any advice on how to tell your spouse?Go to an urgent care that has the penicillin shot on hand. It goes in the rear. HIPPA laws prevent your diagnosis from being printed on your bill. However, it may list the "STD test. ".
Always use a condom if you're involved. Tuition paid in full. Hope your wife doesn't find out.
Messed around with a provider uncovered and got chlamydia.
Anyone have any advice on how to tell your spouse?Do you have reason to believe you've already infected your spouse? If so, then you'll have to come clean and be as contrite as possible. I've heard stories about guys sneaking in medication to their wife through teas and drinks, but I don't know how well that works, especially for something like chlamydia.
On another note, I know that we aren't allowed to publicly name girls who are infected, but can you at least tell us if you found her through one of the reviews, and approximately when you saw her? It'll be important to contain things before an outbreak happens. If you go to the Seattle board you'll see what I'm talking about. Pure chaos for two months because of one woman.
Messed around with a provider uncovered and got chlamydia.
Anyone have any advice on how to tell your spouse?Best case for you is she's been banging your neighbor and now she's trying to figure out how to tell you. Seriously I think you have to know what's the best story for her, would she be more comfortable if it was an ex, co-worker, girl you met at a bar, a stripper, a massage parlor or an escort. Personally my wife would take a random chick at a bar over an ex or co-worker where emotions may be involved. The worst would be a getting it from a sex worker because she's going to correctly conclude that I've been doing this stuff our entire marriage.
Not everyone who gets chlamydia actually has symptoms and I don't think you can give it to someone immediately after catching it so if you caught it early you may have not given it to her. I would never bring it to her first.
JayChitown
06-24-23, 15:46
https://www.stdcheck.com//
A friend used this place last week.I used this it this week. Went it on Thursday morning, urine and blood samples. Had the results by Friday evening.
Daytime Jay
06-25-23, 17:50
Messed around with a provider uncovered and got chlamydia.
Anyone have any advice on how to tell your spouse?Recently happened to me too and I got lucky not passing it around myself since I test for that two weeks after any risky services. That shit is really going around and most don't even know they have it.
I raw dogged a provider. Didn't catch anything. If I did it would suck but I think it would be easy for me to hide it. Don't have sex with the wife hence why I'm in this hobby.
Recently happened to me too and I got lucky not passing it around myself since I test for that two weeks after any risky services. That shit is really going around and most don't even know they have it.
Daytime Jay
06-26-23, 21:25
I raw dogged a provider. Didn't catch anything. If I did it would suck but I think it would be easy for me to hide it. Don't have sex with the wife hence why I'm in this hobby.I definitely used to do it more often, but when a spouse is involved it just ain't worth the risk IMHO. With all this going around I stick to L1 since getting burned. Saves money too even though I miss the excitement of L3 and the possibility of BBFS.
LongDStyle
07-17-23, 13:12
Anyone know any free clinics or places that take same day appointments / walk ins? My primary care won't be able to see me until early August and I'd like to be seem much sooner.
Bill Underwood
07-17-23, 17:05
Anyone know any free clinics or places that take same day appointments / walk ins? My primary care won't be able to see me until early August and I'd like to be seem much sooner.Use https://www.stdcheck.com// and after you pay, you should be able to schedule the same day but obviously not free but not unreasonable either.
Anyone know any free clinics or places that take same day appointments / walk ins? My primary care won't be able to see me until early August and I'd like to be seem much sooner.Some public libraries alternative between STI education classes (free condoms, lube, etc) and free STI testing days. You might check to under the events tab if there is library near you that does that. They tend to partner with Howard Browne.
Hoffman Oliver
07-18-23, 15:28
Anyone know any free clinics or places that take same day appointments / walk ins? My primary care won't be able to see me until early August and I'd like to be seem much sooner.https://www.chicago.gov/city/en/depts/cdph/provdrs/health_services/svcs/get_yourself_evaluatedforstihivaids.html
The city of Chicago and cook county has them for free or sliding scale. They do accept walk ins but I would suggest getting there atleast 30 minutes before they open and / or calling to make they are accepting walk-ins.
I've used STDcheck, ordered it in the morning and found an appt at a lab same day. It was super easy, $140, and no insurance involvement (if that's an issue for you).
Best of luck!
LongDStyle
07-20-23, 18:54
Thanks everyone for the feedback.
Renegade82
08-29-23, 13:14
Hey does anyone where you could get treatment? For any of the common stds and wart. Send me a message.
Hey does anyone where you could get treatment? For any of the common stds and wart. Send me a message.I have usually gone to an immediate care facility. They generally have testing and the ability to apply most cures. If you call them ahead they can tell you if they can take care of warts.
Stuffdamuff
08-30-23, 15:15
Hey does anyone where you could get treatment? For any of the common stds and wart. Send me a message.Here's a link for treatment and testing services.
https://www.freestdcheck.org/
DivingDeep70
09-19-23, 21:03
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DivingDeep70
09-26-23, 08:17
Mod deleted my report but it's not like you can publish records of someone else test results. So let me say this, I am positive through 2 tests for Chlamydia. Given the incubation period it could be 7-21 days or more if asymptomatic. However I am not asymptomatic as I had burning, clear drip and some aches in testicles. So when I trace back my encounter over 2 months, I had 4. All had covered FS and BBBJ. Since covered FS is supposedly very safe though not fool proof, I have to guess it was from the BBBJ. Google shows that odds of that are very low also female to male. So I'm either very very unlucky, or I missed something like maybe when I was touching here and then touching myself or when I removed cover I let it touch my tip or something stupid. As for me I have to think it was the BBBJ which for my whole life I thought was safe. Anyway, that's my truth. So I can't name who or where but you can message me. What I know is in that 2 month period I was with 4 providers. My point to you all is that regardless of what you read online or what we think is safe, I am here to tell you it happens. I have been hobbying for about 30 years now and this is my first. Go figure. And I am married and I did tell my wife and it was a huge mess that I am dealing with now and have to go to counseling etc to save marriage. Also had to admit I'm a sex addict. And she is going to get tested herself today. It's a mess. I wish I was single and I'd hobby with no regrets but I'm not. So now I have to either find a way to quit or I have to be super duper extra careful and maybe even test before I do anything with wife and remember that testing only works if you allow incubation period, otherwise won't show accurate and you can still pass it.
Daytime Jay
09-26-23, 18:32
Mod deleted my report but it's not like you can publish records of someone else test results. So let me say this, I am positive through 2 tests for Chlamydia. Given the incubation period it could be 7-21 days or more if asymptomatic. However I am not asymptomatic as I had burning, clear drip and some aches in testicles. So when I trace back my encounter over 2 months, I had 4. All had covered FS and BBBJ. Since covered FS is supposedly very safe though not fool proof, I have to guess it was from the BBBJ. Google shows that odds of that are very low also female to male. So I'm either very very unlucky, or I missed something like maybe when I was touching here and then touching myself or when I removed cover I let it touch my tip or something stupid. As for me I have to think it was the BBBJ which for my whole life I thought was safe. Anyway, that's my truth. So I can't name who or where but you can message me. What I know is in that 2 month period I was with 4 providers. My point to you all is that regardless of what you read online or what we think is safe, I am here to tell you it happens. I have been hobbying for about 30 years now and this is my first. Go figure. And I am married and I did tell my wife and it was a huge mess that I am dealing with now and have to go to counseling etc to save marriage. Also had to admit I'm a sex addict. And she is going to get tested herself today. It's a mess. I wish I was single and I'd hobby with no regrets but I'm not. So now I have to either find a way to quit or I have to be super duper extra careful and maybe even test before I do anything with wife and remember that testing only works if you allow incubation period, otherwise won't show accurate and you can still pass it.Sorry to hear, it happened to me as well recently. There definitely seems to be an uptick in chlamydia going around. I stick to L1 now, should have from the start.
Sorry to hear, it happened to me as well recently. There definitely seems to be an uptick in chlamydia going around. I stick to L1 now, should have from the start.Heard about couple other cases outside of this forum. Sounds like someone that's probably asymptomatic is going around giving out free gifts before the Holidays. Stay safe.
Darth Cosmos
09-27-23, 08:43
Mod deleted my report but it's not like you can publish records of someone else test results. So let me say this, I am positive through 2 tests for Chlamydia. Given the incubation period it could be 7-21 days or more if asymptomatic. However I am not asymptomatic as I had burning, clear drip and some aches in testicles. So when I trace back my encounter over 2 months, I had 4. All had covered FS and BBBJ. Since covered FS is supposedly very safe though not fool proof, I have to guess it was from the BBBJ. Google shows that odds of that are very low also female to male. So I'm either very very unlucky, or I missed something like maybe when I was touching here and then touching myself or when I removed cover I let it touch my tip or something stupid. As for me I have to think it was the BBBJ which for my whole life I thought was safe. Anyway, that's my truth. So I can't name who or where but you can message me. What I know is in that 2 month period I was with 4 providers. My point to you all is that regardless of what you read online or what we think is safe, I am here to tell you it happens. I have been hobbying for about 30 years now and this is my first. Go figure. And I am married and I did tell my wife and it was a huge mess that I am dealing with now and have to go to counseling etc to save marriage. Also had to admit I'm a sex addict. And she is going to get tested herself today. It's a mess. I wish I was single and I'd hobby with no regrets but I'm not. So now I have to either find a way to quit or I have to be super duper extra careful and maybe even test before I do anything with wife and remember that testing only works if you allow incubation period, otherwise won't show accurate and you can still pass it.I'm so sorry to hear that.
And prayers that it all works out for the best.
Can I ask what agencies to frequent.
Kp?
Ac?
Just curious as I'd hate to find myself in a similar situation?
Thanks.
Darth.
Stuffdamuff
09-27-23, 09:57
Mod deleted my report but it's not like you can publish records of someone else test results. So let me say this, I am positive through 2 tests for Chlamydia. Given the incubation period it could be 7-21 days or more if asymptomatic. However I am not asymptomatic as I had burning, clear drip and some aches in testicles. So when I trace back my encounter over 2 months, I had 4. All had covered FS and BBBJ. Since covered FS is supposedly very safe though not fool proof, I have to guess it was from the BBBJ. Google shows that odds of that are very low also female to male. So I'm either very very unlucky, or I missed something like maybe when I was touching here and then touching myself or when I removed cover I let it touch my tip or something stupid. As for me I have to think it was the BBBJ which for my whole life I thought was safe. Anyway, that's my truth. So I can't name who or where but you can message me. What I know is in that 2 month period I was with 4 providers. My point to you all is that regardless of what you read online or what we think is safe, I am here to tell you it happens. I have been hobbying for about 30 years now and this is my first. Go figure. And I am married and I did tell my wife and it was a huge mess that I am dealing with now and have to go to counseling etc to save marriage. Also had to admit I'm a sex addict. And she is going to get tested herself today. It's a mess. I wish I was single and I'd hobby with no regrets but I'm not. So now I have to either find a way to quit or I have to be super duper extra careful and maybe even test before I do anything with wife and remember that testing only works if you allow incubation period, otherwise won't show accurate and you can still pass it.Did you use the same type of test twice? There are false positves, and using a different test type after the first positve would help determine if you really have chlamydia. Too late now, but why reveal to your spouse your result until after you completed antibiotics and test negative and then abstain from the lifestyle. If it it comes back, then you would know she's infected.
Stuffdamuff
09-27-23, 10:05
Did you use the same type of test twice? There are false positves, and using a different test type after the first positve would help determine if you really have chlamydia. Too late now, but why reveal to your spouse your result until after you completed antibiotics and test negative and then abstain from the lifestyle. If it it comes back, then you would know she's infected.From Medscape.
"It should also be remembered that, when interpreting a positive result, NAATs do not require viable organisms. NAATs have superior analytical sensitivity as they can potentially produce a positive signal from as little as a single copy of the target DNA or RNA in the reaction. However, this high level of sensitivity can create problems because, although a positive NAAT result could reflect clinical infection, the test could also be amplifying dead organisms or be positive as a result of surface contamination (including contamination of the container in the case of self-collected specimens) and hence, produce a false-positive diagnosis. ".
DivingDeep70
09-27-23, 22:30
I'm so sorry to hear that.
And prayers that it all works out for the best.
Can I ask what agencies to frequent.
Kp?
Ac?
Just curious as I'd hate to find myself in a similar situation?
Thanks.
Darth.It was most likely from 2 visits to KP and 1 visit to 262 as those were in the incubation period and were BBBJ was had and where there may have been some exchange from unprotected touching. Although I've had several guys reach out and tell me they got stuff at times they used covers and don't know how either. It happens. And def BBBJ is not safe.
DivingDeep70
09-27-23, 22:34
From Medscape.
"It should also be remembered that, when interpreting a positive result, NAATs do not require viable organisms. NAATs have superior analytical sensitivity as they can potentially produce a positive signal from as little as a single copy of the target DNA or RNA in the reaction. However, this high level of sensitivity can create problems because, although a positive NAAT result could reflect clinical infection, the test could also be amplifying dead organisms or be positive as a result of surface contamination (including contamination of the container in the case of self-collected specimens) and hence, produce a false-positive diagnosis. ".I tested twice 5 days apart and the tests are 99% effective with an almost impossible false positive. So don't believe the write up, these tests are usually very accurate. Very accurate especially after 7 days which is minimum incubation period and 100% accurate after 21 days. If symptoms present, they are 100% accurate. Usually the false negative is what you see due to early testing. You don't see false positives. Once treated you are told not to test again for 21 days to avoid false positive because treatment is 1000 mg of Azithromicin in single dose and can take 7-14 days to cure.
DivingDeep70
09-27-23, 22:45
Did you use the same type of test twice? There are false positves, and using a different test type after the first positve would help determine if you really have chlamydia. Too late now, but why reveal to your spouse your result until after you completed antibiotics and test negative and then abstain from the lifestyle. If it it comes back, then you would know she's infected.To answer, I had symptoms and tested positive. I tried very hard to remember dates and timeline and unfortunately I had sex with wife during that period. Not knowing exactly when, meant she had a 30-50% chance of receiving it. Male to Female infection is very high. Higher than female to male but not by a lot. Anyway, given that statistics said 70% females and 90% males are asymptomatic, made me question saying something or not. However if she gets it and I didn't say anything I would be worse because then I lied. And if she gets it asymptomatic like the statistic, then she reinfects me anyway. And not treating in her can lead to uterus problems, and worse conditions like PID. She's my wife, I'm not trying to make her worse. So the right decision was to come clean and pray for the best. Time to man up and own the decisions I made. Anyway, we both will be in counseling now for a while. It was very very very difficult conversation but she's still here and is working through it. I didn't say I had 4 etc. and all.
The others, I just said 1 and I said it was happy ending blow job with old Asian lady. At least to make her feel like this wasn't cheating affaire but rather a physical release dumb idea. I think that helped and worked. Women can accept a physical need more than an emotional replacement of them. Reality is I'm a sex addict as are pretty much everyone here and now I'm really hoping I can benefit from the therapy to try to get over this disease and lifestyle. Not worth it. I value my family much more just couldn't stop the temptations. Shit, it's hard when you see all these hotties available for a few bucks. Anyway, it sucks but I'm going to do it and she's sticking around. She got tested yesterday and we will find out tomorrow hopefully.
To answer, I had symptoms and tested positive. I tried very hard to remember dates and timeline and unfortunately I had sex with wife during that period. Not knowing exactly when, meant she had a 30-50% chance of receiving it. Male to Female infection is very high. Higher than female to male but not by a lot. Anyway, given that statistics said 70% females and 90% males are asymptomatic, made me question saying something or not. However if she gets it and I didn't say anything I would be worse because then I lied. And if she gets it asymptomatic like the statistic, then she reinfects me anyway. And not treating in her can lead to uterus problems, and worse conditions like PID. She's my wife, I'm not trying to make her worse. So the right decision was to come clean and pray for the best. Time to man up and own the decisions I made. Anyway, we both will be in counseling now for a while. It was very very very difficult conversation but she's still here and is working through it. I didn't say I had 4 etc. and all.
The others, I just said 1 and I said it was happy ending blow job with old Asian lady. At least to make her feel like this wasn't cheating affaire but rather a physical release dumb idea. I think that helped and worked. Women can accept a physical need more than an emotional replacement of them. Reality is I'm a sex addict as are pretty much everyone here and now I'm really hoping I can benefit from the therapy to try to get over this disease and lifestyle. Not worth it. I value my family much more just couldn't stop the temptations. Shit, it's hard when you see all these hotties available for a few bucks. Anyway, it sucks but I'm going to do it and she's sticking around. She got tested yesterday and we will find out tomorrow hopefully.I'm sorry you're going through that. I'm glad you're putting your family first. I would clear your history on your phone and delete numbers. Make it just a little bit harder to find everything. The little bit of extra effort it takes to find that stuff definitely can help deter from looking at the temptation. I stopped for a while because it was consuming my life and I needed to stop. It's how. I got away from some social media. Some I had to put right delete. (Damn thirst traps in insta) but I know you can do it. And I'm pulling for you and yours to work through this and maybe find a way to satisfy each other so stepping out won't be needed.
OldSchoolGuy73
09-28-23, 23:12
I tested twice 5 days apart and the tests are 99% effective with an almost impossible false positive. So don't believe the write up, these tests are usually very accurate. Very accurate especially after 7 days which is minimum incubation period and 100% accurate after 21 days. If symptoms present, they are 100% accurate. Usually the false negative is what you see due to early testing. You don't see false positives. Once treated you are told not to test again for 21 days to avoid false positive because treatment is 1000 mg of Azithromicin in single dose and can take 7-14 days to cure.So recently tested and results were negative and last BBBJ I had was probably 10 days ago. I even had 1 more covered. You think I can still have it? Made up a hell of an excuse for the wife about tearing my frenulum which gave me some time.
DivingDeep70
09-29-23, 07:45
So recently tested and results were negative and last BBBJ I had was probably 10 days ago. I even had 1 more covered. You think I can still have it? Made up a hell of an excuse for the wife about tearing my frenulum which gave me some time.Prob not if you waited 10 days. Test is accurate usually in 5 and def in 7 days. Just remember that BBBJ is a risk. And not every girl is std loaded and not every encounter will pass it orally. Orally is lower odds, fairly low, but can happen obviously. And that's just for one STD. Others like Herpes simplex are much easier to pass orally both ways.
Daytime Jay
09-29-23, 10:49
Heard about couple other cases outside of this forum. Sounds like someone that's probably asymptomatic is going around giving out free gifts before the Holidays. Stay safe.Dumb fool I am, I took a trip to a local AMP and think I got it again. I rubbed my member on her pussy a bit before covering up, but seems that might have been enough. Back to the clinic again for testing. Ffs.
LiquorThnPoker
11-01-23, 07:30
It was most likely from 2 visits to KP and 1 visit to 262 as those were in the incubation period and were BBBJ was had and where there may have been some exchange from unprotected touching. Although I've had several guys reach out and tell me they got stuff at times they used covers and don't know how either. It happens. And def BBBJ is not safe.Question for anyone who caught chlamydia or ghonorrhea via BBBJ + CFS. Did you shower after taking the condom off? I got it 10 years ago from cfs and no BJ, when I didn't shower until the next morning. I can imagine its easy to catch something if a provider cums all over you during cfs, then pulls the condom off for a sloppy BBBJ finish. Or it could spread from her pussy to your cock via DATY, DFK, then BBBJ. I've read conflicting reports about if STD bacteria can infect and stay in her mouth from a BBBJ with a previous client. Probably yes for a guy from earlier that day, but not sure about one from previous days. I've also read that mouthwash kills it. But who knows if that is BS. I try to stay safe by asking the girl if she used mouthwash beforehand, and making sure I shower as soon as the condom comes off (which is awkward if I want to go back for CIM). Also read that urinating immediately after exposure can lower chances of infection (but wouldn't count on only doing that) I get tested all the time via stdcheck, and been clean for 10 years. But who knows if I'm just getting lucky.
I just want to start a conversation about the safest way to get a BBBJ, since cbjs do nothing for me.
Question for anyone who caught chlamydia or ghonorrhea via BBBJ + CFS. Did you shower after taking the condom off? I got it 10 years ago from cfs and no BJ, when I didn't shower until the next morning. I can imagine its easy to catch something if a provider cums all over you during cfs, then pulls the condom off for a sloppy BBBJ finish. Or it could spread from her pussy to your cock via DATY, DFK, then BBBJ. I've read conflicting reports about if STD bacteria can infect and stay in her mouth from a BBBJ with a previous client. Probably yes for a guy from earlier that day, but not sure about one from previous days. I've also read that mouthwash kills it. But who knows if that is BS. I try to stay safe by asking the girl if she used mouthwash beforehand, and making sure I shower as soon as the condom comes off (which is awkward if I want to go back for CIM). Also read that urinating immediately after exposure can lower chances of infection (but wouldn't count on only doing that) I get tested all the time via stdcheck, and been clean for 10 years. But who knows if I'm just getting lucky.
I just want to start a conversation about the safest way to get a BBBJ, since cbjs do nothing for me.I recommend Clorox Disinfecting Wipes. They come in convenient travel packs at Target, Walmart, etc. " Kills 99.9% of viruses and bacteria ". Don't forget to clean the Urethra opening.
Stuffdamuff
11-01-23, 14:14
I recommend Clorox Disinfecting Wipes. They come in convenient travel packs at Target, Walmart, etc. " Kills 99.9% of viruses and bacteria ". Don't forget to clean the Urethra opening.Put a little tabasco sauce down the urerthra too while your at it. How about plain old soap and water!
Put a little tabasco sauce down the urerthra too while your at it. How about plain old soap and water!How about just shower at the incall?
Most providers are open to using the shower. Especially at a hotel.
When I've had outcalls I offer the shower to the girl and they are happy to take me up on the offer.
I feel like for anybody getting into this hobby condoms are practically required. Yes I know that if you sleep with a lot of people or sleep with someone who has slept with a lot of people, then you're going to get something somewhere down the road. But you can at the very least minimize the damage, no reason to get herpes if you can avoid it. Also I agree with the use of alcohol as far as disinfectant goes, soap only cleans surface level it doesn't go on the deep cleansing alcoholic substances do.
WallStreetBull
12-01-23, 23:20
Good evening Gents.
Have to give thanks to the community I found myself in a pickle where have been sleeping around too much with some lovely regular ladies and the gf was starting to get suspicious due to the lack of intimacy in our life. I just went today to get checked out hopefully comes back with clean bill of health so can enjoy some adventures with the SO. Thanks again to everyone here for the recommendations https://www.stdcheck.com/ it was easy and private so no worrying about her finding out I went to get tested.
Thanks gents.
WSB.
Good evening Gents.
Have to give thanks to the community I found myself in a pickle where have been sleeping around too much with some lovely regular ladies and the gf was starting to get suspicious due to the lack of intimacy in our life. I just went today to get checked out hopefully comes back with clean bill of health so can enjoy some adventures with the SO. Thanks again to everyone here for the recommendations https://www.stdcheck.com/ it was easy and private so no worrying about her finding out I went to get tested.
Thanks gents.
WSB.This is a good service, anonymous, quick and accurate testing. In my case, however, it showed up on my credit card statement as something like "std test" not the ubiquitous name they claimed. So, I'd use a prepaid vanilla visa card from the grocery store, plus of course made up name and hobby email account.
Is there a local anonymous clinic I can go to? I'm in the west burbs.
I def got something on my peepee.
MwmChicago
12-12-23, 18:42
Is there a local anonymous clinic I can go to? I'm in the west burbs.
I def got something on my peepee.DuPage County does testing and I believe it's free or cheap. As I recall, there is one on Cass just north of Ogden in Westmont. I think they have several locations, probably in Wheaton too. Google DuPage County Health Dept.
TwoCentsSteve
12-12-23, 20:22
Been trying to some research and also so others can be aware. STD isn't accurate Until after 2 weeks of encounter. Other STD could take 3-6 months to show up.
Be safe everyone.
I feel like for anybody getting into this hobby condoms are practically required. Yes I know that if you sleep with a lot of people or sleep with someone who has slept with a lot of people, then you're going to get something somewhere down the road. But you can at the very least minimize the damage, no reason to get herpes if you can avoid it. Also I agree with the use of alcohol as far as disinfectant goes, soap only cleans surface level it doesn't go on the deep cleansing alcoholic substances do.Another thing is people think a BBBJ is safe. It's not. If the girl has an STD in her throat she can easily pass it on to you from a BBBJ.
A girl can say she's been tested and clean, but a standard STD test is a urine and blood sample. If she has something in her throat it's not going to show up on a urine or blood test. She would have to specifically ask the doctor to swab the back of her throat and have it tested, which girls rarely do.
AngelBravo
12-13-23, 20:44
This needs to be said more, sure BBBJ feels amazing. Nobody is going to deny that it's better than CBJ anytime of the day; however it does come with it's risks and those risks are pretty high if she's giving any guy that comes in a BBBJ. It only takes 1 to infect the girl and after that she's a carrier passing it on to all the other men that she services.
I equate this addiction to riding a motorcycle without gear. Sure it's more fun and you feel the wind and danger at your doorstep giving you an additional thrill; but it only takes 1 fucken mistake and boom you got caught and your life will be changed for possible ever.
It's up to you as always whether you want to go in covered or unprotected but please know what your wagering every-time you do it. IMO it really isn't worth it. The best sex is mental, it's not all physical.
Another thing is people think a BBBJ is safe. It's not. If the girl has an STD in her throat she can easily pass it on to you from a BBBJ.
A girl can say she's been tested and clean, but a standard STD test is a urine and blood sample. If she has something in her throat it's not going to show up on a urine or blood test. She would have to specifically ask the doctor to swab the back of her throat and have it tested, which girls rarely do.
MwmChicago
12-14-23, 14:48
This needs to be said more, sure BBBJ feels amazing. Nobody is going to deny that it's better than CBJ anytime of the day; however it does come with it's risks and those risks are pretty high if she's giving any guy that comes in a BBBJ. It only takes 1 to infect the girl and after that she's a carrier passing it on to all the other men that she services.
I equate this addiction to riding a motorcycle without gear. Sure it's more fun and you feel the wind and danger at your doorstep giving you an additional thrill; but it only takes 1 fucken mistake and boom you got caught and your life will be changed for possible ever.
It's up to you as always whether you want to go in covered or unprotected but please know what your wagering every-time you do it. IMO it really isn't worth it. The best sex is mental, it's not all physical.Well, I'm old now and my days of cruising are long over but over a 30 year period of regular SW BBBJ's I've had about 2,500-3,000. Not something I'm proud of, nor am I ashamed. Age brings a certain wisdom and willingness to tell people to go fuck themselves that I lacked when I was younger and actually cared about peoples impressions about me.
Anyway, in all those BBBJ's I never received anything at all except a few common colds. I'm not saying it's not possible, but it's a very low risk. The clap (G or C) can live in the throat and that is a risk. Herpes is also a risk although the vast majority of us actually have it and are asymptomatic. I imagine HPV is also a possible and guys generally never know if they have it. In fact, there are no tests for men with HPV.
AngelBravo
12-15-23, 01:06
Well, I'm old now and my days of cruising are long over but over a 30 year period of regular SW BBBJ's I've had about 2,500-3,000. Not something I'm proud of, nor am I ashamed. Age brings a certain wisdom and willingness to tell people to go fuck themselves that I lacked when I was younger and actually cared about peoples impressions about me.
Anyway, in all those BBBJ's I never received anything at all except a few common colds. I'm not saying it's not possible, but it's a very low risk. The clap (G or C) can live in the throat and that is a risk. Herpes is also a risk although the vast majority of us actually have it and are asymptomatic. I imagine HPV is also a possible and guys generally never know if they have it. In fact, there are no tests for men with HPV.3,000 BBBJ's, you definitely have HPV. I'm happy to hear you've lucked out. I'm sure you are taking some precautions if your that deep in; in either case be careful. It only takes 1.
Does anyone know of any effective holistic / natural treatment of gonorrhea and chlymadia or is antibiotics really the only option?
AngelBravo
12-27-23, 00:36
Does anyone know of any effective holistic / natural treatment of gonorrhea and chlymadia or is antibiotics really the only option?Are you actually serious? You got an STD and you're asking if there is an alternative medicine when it's pretty clear and obvious what you should be taking. This isn't a cold, this is a sexually transmitted disease. If you don't want to believe in medicine that works, then why go to the hospital at all? You should be glad we found a cure for these STD's many before you have died of these diseases. If you don't treat it quickly it will only make things worse for you. So stop being stupid and get yourself properly treated before you spread it to someone else which is how you got it.
JangoFouts
12-27-23, 10:05
Well, I'm old now and my days of cruising are long over but over a 30 year period of regular SW BBBJ's I've had about 2,500-3,000. Not something I'm proud of, nor am I ashamed. Age brings a certain wisdom and willingness to tell people to go fuck themselves that I lacked when I was younger and actually cared about peoples impressions about me.
Anyway, in all those BBBJ's I never received anything at all except a few common colds. I'm not saying it's not possible, but it's a very low risk. The clap (G or C) can live in the throat and that is a risk. Herpes is also a risk although the vast majority of us actually have it and are asymptomatic. I imagine HPV is also a possible and guys generally never know if they have it. In fact, there are no tests for men with HPV.HPV can cause genital warts. The only test required then is a visual examination of your cock. LOL.
DuPage County does testing and I believe it's free or cheap. As I recall, there is one on Cass just north of Ogden in Westmont. I think they have several locations, probably in Wheaton too. Google DuPage County Health Dept.I've been google searching and no luck.
Is there any other info you have?
Daytime Jay
12-27-23, 14:10
Are you actually serious? You got an STD and you're asking if there is an alternative medicine when it's pretty clear and obvious what you should be taking. This isn't a cold, this is a sexually transmitted disease. If you don't want to believe in medicine that works, then why go to the hospital at all? You should be glad we found a cure for these STD's many before you have died of these diseases. If you don't treat it quickly it will only make things worse for you. So stop being stupid and get yourself properly treated before you spread it to someone else which is how you got it.That post could not be serious, but it underscores the need for frequent testing in this hobby. Tbh, not a bad idea to use prep and doxy pep as needed if you can find a doctor that offers the doxy pep. I asked about this and docs had no idea, but if you look it up, pretty great idea actually for anyone in this hobby. Too bad they make it so difficult to get.
I've been google searching and no luck.
Is there any other info you have?Google DuPage county health department.
DivingDeep70
07-18-24, 20:34
Is there a local anonymous clinic I can go to? I'm in the west burbs.
I def got something on my peepee.How'd you get it? Update.
How'd you get it? Update.What did you get.
I raw dogged a provider. Didn't catch anything. If I did it would suck but I think it would be easy for me to hide it. Don't have sex with the wife hence why I'm in this hobby.That definitely qualifies as safe sex.
Marcusman24
07-29-24, 15:56
I met with our favorite 3 hole MILF and 2 days later it burned when I peed and was pussing. So I googled clap treatment and low and behold I was able to get a prescription sent to my CVS by completing an online questionnaire and paying $70.
What gets me is we were covered up except for BBBJ and a lot of camel slide.
Harbinger147
07-29-24, 16:08
I met with our favorite 3 hole MILF and 2 days later it burned when I peed and was pussing. So I googled clap treatment and low and behold I was able to get a prescription sent to my CVS by completing an online questionnaire and paying $70.
What gets me is we were covered up except for BBBJ and a lot of camel slide.Welp then that's how you got it LOL.
Some of the testing requirements are getting to be ridiculous from the house scorts offering BBFS. Lately I've been seeing this trend of demanding not the standard round of blood and piss tests that health departments and respected testing companies use, but also getting your asshole swabbed. WTF is that? I'm not getting anything shoved up my ass, especially some other guys cock. Anyone else seeing this shit? Mouth swabs I could see.
I met with our favorite 3 hole MILF and 2 days later it burned when I peed and was pussing. So I googled clap treatment and low and behold I was able to get a prescription sent to my CVS by completing an online questionnaire and paying $70.
What gets me is we were covered up except for BBBJ and a lot of camel slide.Can you send me the site you used?
Just in case.
Thanks.
Uncut Diamond
08-27-24, 18:10
I finally got caught, I let my dick lead me into places I shouldn't have been. I usually would have just hit up one of my regulars but none of them were answering and this was a particular itch Pam and her five sisters wouldn't be able to scratch. I rode to a spot that is near to me (couldn't make it to 5th as it was late and I had work), saw this skinny BSW wearing a trench coat like jacket. I pulled over and was trying to look her over but then she open the jacket and I saw she was wearing nothing at, my brain threw logic out the window and I told her to get in. Parked and received an above average BBBJ, she took a few good throat pounding before she pulled away for air. Blew my load in her mouth, paid and went home. 3 days later something feels off when peeing, not really burning but it tingly, I thought the worst but after looking at the symptoms I realized it was the clap. Found a good looking site and paid 49.99 for chlamydia and gonorrhea meds just to be safe (39.99 for just chlamydia meds) plus the fee at the pharmacy. Got my subscription the same day plus if the pharmacy doesn't have it in stock you can request it be sent to another one. First time with the clap, looking to make it my last I do not like the feeling of having to pee but nothing is coming out.
I finally got caught, I let my dick lead me into places I shouldn't have been. I usually would have just hit up one of my regulars but none of them were answering and this was a particular itch Pam and her five sisters wouldn't be able to scratch. I rode to a spot that is near to me (couldn't make it to 5th as it was late and I had work), saw this skinny BSW wearing a trench coat like jacket. I pulled over and was trying to look her over but then she open the jacket and I saw she was wearing nothing at, my brain threw logic out the window and I told her to get in. Parked and received an above average BBBJ, she took a few good throat pounding before she pulled away for air. Blew my load in her mouth, paid and went home. 3 days later something feels off when peeing, not really burning but it tingly, I thought the worst but after looking at the symptoms I realized it was the clap. Found a good looking site and paid 49.99 for chlamydia and gonorrhea meds just to be safe (39.99 for just chlamydia meds) plus the fee at the pharmacy. Got my subscription the same day plus if the pharmacy doesn't have it in stock you can request it be sent to another one. First time with the clap, looking to make it my last I do not like the feeling of having to pee but nothing is coming out.Sucks to hear this. Hopefully you will get it sorted out. Good luck!
Can you send me the site you used?
Just in case.
Thanks.You can catch it from head.
DivingDeep70
08-27-24, 23:24
I finally got caught, I let my dick lead me into places I shouldn't have been. I usually would have just hit up one of my regulars but none of them were answering and this was a particular itch Pam and her five sisters wouldn't be able to scratch. I rode to a spot that is near to me (couldn't make it to 5th as it was late and I had work), saw this skinny BSW wearing a trench coat like jacket. I pulled over and was trying to look her over but then she open the jacket and I saw she was wearing nothing at, my brain threw logic out the window and I told her to get in. Parked and received an above average BBBJ, she took a few good throat pounding before she pulled away for air. Blew my load in her mouth, paid and went home. 3 days later something feels off when peeing, not really burning but it tingly, I thought the worst but after looking at the symptoms I realized it was the clap. Found a good looking site and paid 49.99 for chlamydia and gonorrhea meds just to be safe (39.99 for just chlamydia meds) plus the fee at the pharmacy. Got my subscription the same day plus if the pharmacy doesn't have it in stock you can request it be sent to another one. First time with the clap, looking to make it my last I do not like the feeling of having to pee but nothing is coming out.You say you got meds but you don't say that you confirmed with a positive test what you had? Just clarifying because many times the stress of psychology can manifest in what you think is symptoms but it's not and tests can eliminate that doubt. C&G from oral is very low risk, like 5-15% depending what you read. So let us know if test was positive and let us know of last encounter before that girl because C&G can take 5-19 days to show symptoms. Best of luck.
DivingDeep70
08-27-24, 23:29
I met with our favorite 3 hole MILF and 2 days later it burned when I peed and was pussing. So I googled clap treatment and low and behold I was able to get a prescription sent to my CVS by completing an online questionnaire and paying $70.
What gets me is we were covered up except for BBBJ and a lot of camel slide.BBBJ 5-15% odds. Raw camel slide, probably more likely yes. Both of those activities are risky since no cover and all it takes is 1 little friend to enter your tip and make a home. Her wet pussy sliding on you counts. I bet it was that more than BBBJ but honestly recently there seems to be reports BBBJ listed as culprit. My own experience I think was either BBBJ, touching myself after fingering her or a washcloth that touched her and then me to wipe. Any of those may have been possible. So you can see doesn't take much.
I finally got caught, I let my dick lead me into places I shouldn't have been. I usually would have just hit up one of my regulars but none of them were answering and this was a particular itch Pam and her five sisters wouldn't be able to scratch. I rode to a spot that is near to me (couldn't make it to 5th as it was late and I had work), saw this skinny BSW wearing a trench coat like jacket. I pulled over and was trying to look her over but then she open the jacket and I saw she was wearing nothing at, my brain threw logic out the window and I told her to get in. Parked and received an above average BBBJ, she took a few good throat pounding before she pulled away for air. Blew my load in her mouth, paid and went home. 3 days later something feels off when peeing, not really burning but it tingly, I thought the worst but after looking at the symptoms I realized it was the clap. Found a good looking site and paid 49.99 for chlamydia and gonorrhea meds just to be safe (39.99 for just chlamydia meds) plus the fee at the pharmacy. Got my subscription the same day plus if the pharmacy doesn't have it in stock you can request it be sent to another one. First time with the clap, looking to make it my last I do not like the feeling of having to pee but nothing is coming out.Can you share the website? TIA.
MarcSandwhich
08-28-24, 10:46
Couple weeks ago I BBFS two providers and BBJ twice with another one because my girl was on her period. Well she got of her cycle early and wanted to have sex. I couldn't come up with an excuse since it had been two weeks since we had sex. Well a few days later she got a UTI and it had me panic something fierce. We with urgent care and she came back positive for the UTI and the clinic sent her urine off for culture because they found blood in her urine. The whole week I was stressed, but deserved what was coming if something came back. Then I started feeling like I had symptoms of an STD or UTI. Those went away but then I started to see "discharge" from my penis. Mind you all I hadn't had sex for a week and half at this point.
I went to the clinic and got tested. Results came back negative on my culture but I still took the shot and antibiotics just in case. My only guess about the discharge, must have been semen. It wasn't creamy but watery. I've had an STD in the past about 5 to 7 years ago. However I wasn't in a relationship at the time so it wasn't as stressful as this scare. Gentleman I don't have to tell you how stressed it is doing the hobby in the first place, but when your secret activities enter your personal life and the life of another it's damning. I got lucky on this one and I'm going to take my luck and hopefully get some help with this addiction. I've been in the hobby since 2009 when Craigslist started things off and enjoyed the prime days of Backpage.
I want to say I'm having it up, but I've said that before time and time again. I think with the little head and I love pussy. Best of luck to all of you and stay safe out there.
Some of the testing requirements are getting to be ridiculous from the house scorts offering BBFS. Lately I've been seeing this trend of demanding not the standard round of blood and piss tests that health departments and respected testing companies use, but also getting your asshole swabbed. WTF is that? I'm not getting anything shoved up my ass, especially some other guys cock. Anyone else seeing this shit? Mouth swabs I could see.I haven't had the swab, but it is the porn industry standard these days. Whoever you are considering seeing is looking out for themselves and you. I agree that it makes the appointment to get tested somehow more embarrassing. But, for the right girl, I would probably go through with it.
Glad you came up clean Thats probably quite a scare with the SO.
If y'all read up on STD's they've been on a meteoric rise for the last 8-10 years. Exponential type growth not just upticks. I get it, hittin it raw is a million times better and I was guilty as a lot of guys for taking advantage of the raw dog explosion but I think the population is about to reap what is has been sowing. Reading about girls like SXL who are now raw dawging the general paying public is mind boggling. Guys willing to take those risks is like Russian roulette with your dick.
Genital Herpes (hsv2) is / was running rampant on SA I know 2 guys that got it from SA girls. Both those guys raw dawged a number of the regularly discussed girls from this board.
I'm not chastising anyone do with your dick what you will just advising guys to educate themselves. Be aware of the current landscape out there with STD's it's pretty alarming tbh.
Couple weeks ago I BBFS two providers and BBJ twice with another one because my girl was on her period. Well she got of her cycle early and wanted to have sex. I couldn't come up with an excuse since it had been two weeks since we had sex. Well a few days later she got a UTI and it had me panic something fierce. We with urgent care and she came back positive for the UTI and the clinic sent her urine off for culture because they found blood in her urine. The whole week I was stressed, but deserved what was coming if something came back. Then I started feeling like I had symptoms of an STD or UTI. Those went away but then I started to see "discharge" from my penis. Mind you all I hadn't had sex for a week and half at this point.
I went to the clinic and got tested. Results came back negative on my culture but I still took the shot and antibiotics just in case. My only guess about the discharge, must have been semen. It wasn't creamy but watery. I've had an STD in the past about 5 to 7 years ago. However I wasn't in a relationship at the time so it wasn't as stressful as this scare. Gentleman I don't have to tell you how stressed it is doing the hobby in the first place, but when your secret activities enter your personal life and the life of another it's damning. I got lucky on this one and I'm going to take my luck and hopefully get some help with this addiction. I've been in the hobby since 2009 when Craigslist started things off and enjoyed the prime days of Backpage.
I want to say I'm having it up, but I've said that before time and time again. I think with the little head and I love pussy. Best of luck to all of you and stay safe out there.
Couple weeks ago I BBFS two providers and BBJ twice with another one because my girl was on her period. Well she got of her cycle early and wanted to have sex. I couldn't come up with an excuse since it had been two weeks since we had sex. Well a few days later she got a UTI and it had me panic something fierce. We with urgent care and she came back positive for the UTI and the clinic sent her urine off for culture because they found blood in her urine. The whole week I was stressed, but deserved what was coming if something came back. Then I started feeling like I had symptoms of an STD or UTI. Those went away but then I started to see "discharge" from my penis. Mind you all I hadn't had sex for a week and half at this point.How did her results turn out? Or did they not test her for an STD because she hadn't been with another partner?
I'm trying not to judge you too harshly. If we are both posting on this page we obviously aren't angels. I've been doing this for awhile, like yourself. Probably seen well over 100 girls, probably closer to 200. A few BBFS, but not too many. But whenever I have been in any sort of relationship, I've stopped and gotten tested before any interaction with my new partner. And if I wanted to partake again, I just viewed it as not being completely satisfied in the relationship, and have made sure to end things before any overlap. Again, I'm not an angel, but you are correct in your observation about how you would feel if you gave her something. How would you react if she gave you something from a partner you didn't know she had? Probably some combination of anger, jealousy, a blow to your confidence, while dealing with having a disease that will potentially make it difficult to feel as confident with any partner in the future.
It sounds like you are having regular sex at home, so your need to get BBFS elsewhere does feel like an addiction, as you suggest. Remember that an addiction is not necessarily just having a compulsion to doing something, that compulsion also has to have a negative impact on your life. I have the same compulsion you do. To see a lot of different people, and the sense of adventure that comes with that. I just don't have a situation at home that I am screwing up. I hope you take this close call as a chance to sort through things a bit, and at the very least, be much much safer in the future.
DivingDeep70
08-28-24, 23:15
Couple weeks ago I BBFS two providers and BBJ twice with another one because my girl was on her period. Well she got of her cycle early and wanted to have sex. I couldn't come up with an excuse since it had been two weeks since we had sex. Well a few days later she got a UTI and it had me panic something fierce. We with urgent care and she came back positive for the UTI and the clinic sent her urine off for culture because they found blood in her urine. The whole week I was stressed, but deserved what was coming if something came back. Then I started feeling like I had symptoms of an STD or UTI. Those went away but then I started to see "discharge" from my penis. Mind you all I hadn't had sex for a week and half at this point.
I went to the clinic and got tested. Results came back negative on my culture but I still took the shot and antibiotics just in case. My only guess about the discharge, must have been semen. It wasn't creamy but watery. I've had an STD in the past about 5 to 7 years ago. However I wasn't in a relationship at the time so it wasn't as stressful as this scare. Gentleman I don't have to tell you how stressed it is doing the hobby in the first place, but when your secret activities enter your personal life and the life of another it's damning. I got lucky on this one and I'm going to take my luck and hopefully get some help with this addiction. I've been in the hobby since 2009 when Craigslist started things off and enjoyed the prime days of Backpage.
I want to say I'm having it up, but I've said that before time and time again. I think with the little head and I love pussy. Best of luck to all of you and stay safe out there.Ok, but seriously we don't judge here, however you have girl at home who wants sex and you still BBFS? I'll give you pass on BBBJ, low risk but possible, however raw dog is Russian roulette or pretty much asking for it. So are you asking for it? Are you trying to find a way out of the relationship subconsciously? Imagine if you BBFS how many other guys BBFS that girl too. And if she's a provider, then she's doing this all day every day. It's a miracle you were negative. That discharge is actually prostate juice. Her UTI could be still from you, especially if your prostate picked up any bacteria but not STD. But girls get UTI easily with sex so could be anything really. I completely understand your stress because I've lived it several times in several reasons. I'm addicted too and married and have been doing this since like I was 22 and I'm 53. Been doing it through the marriage and had several scares and yes, eventually I caught something for real but luckily never passed it amazingly. Although I did have to come clean and go through lots of therapy but I'm still addicted I think. I just try to be very very careful now. Almost OCD. The stress never goes away because you know you have someone. If I was single I'd probably never stop. It's your greatest sin that will do you in. Be careful out there. Have fun but be smart.
Ok, but seriously we don't judge here, however you have girl at home who wants sex and you still BBFS? I'll give you pass on BBBJ, low risk but possible, however raw dog is Russian roulette or pretty much asking for it. So are you asking for it? Are you trying to find a way out of the relationship subconsciously? Imagine if you BBFS how many other guys BBFS that girl too. And if she's a provider, then she's doing this all day every day. It's a miracle you were negative. That discharge is actually prostate juice. Her UTI could be still from you, especially if your prostate picked up any bacteria but not STD. But girls get UTI easily with sex so could be anything really. I completely understand your stress because I've lived it several times in several reasons. I'm addicted too and married and have been doing this since like I was 22 and I'm 53. Been doing it through the marriage and had several scares and yes, eventually I caught something for real but luckily never passed it amazingly. Although I did have to come clean and go through lots of therapy but I'm still addicted I think. I just try to be very very careful now. Almost OCD. The stress never goes away because you know you have someone. If I was single I'd probably never stop. It's your greatest sin that will do you in. Be careful out there. Have fun but be smart.You're completely right and a reminder for myself as well. BBFS feels better, but comes with a ton of risk. I've only done it with girls from Seeking and exchanging tests before you do as they tend to be lower volume.
TwoCentsSteve
09-12-24, 13:08
Couple weeks ago I BBFS two providers and BBJ twice with another one because my girl was on her period. Well she got of her cycle early and wanted to have sex. I couldn't come up with an excuse since it had been two weeks since we had sex. Well a few days later she got a UTI and it had me panic something fierce. We with urgent care and she came back positive for the UTI and the clinic sent her urine off for culture because they found blood in her urine. The whole week I was stressed, but deserved what was coming if something came back. Then I started feeling like I had symptoms of an STD or UTI. Those went away but then I started to see "discharge" from my penis. Mind you all I hadn't had sex for a week and half at this point.
I went to the clinic and got tested. Results came back negative on my culture but I still took the shot and antibiotics just in case. My only guess about the discharge, must have been semen. It wasn't creamy but watery. I've had an STD in the past about 5 to 7 years ago. However I wasn't in a relationship at the time so it wasn't as stressful as this scare. Gentleman I don't have to tell you how stressed it is doing the hobby in the first place, but when your secret activities enter your personal life and the life of another it's damning. I got lucky on this one and I'm going to take my luck and hopefully get some help with this addiction..I was in very similar situation. It's biggest scares of my life. Cfs and BBBJ couple kgirls recently. Week later my girl wanted to fuck it's been awhile since we last fuck she was basically begging. Back of my mind I haven't got tested yet see to if I was ok but I thought since I was cfs and BBBJ It will be ok. Couple days later my so told me she had discharge and some irritation. My life flash before my eyes and all fucking I been doing. I really felt like piece of shit too. We went to doctor she got tested the doctor chalk it up as yeast infection give her medicine. I was thinking of the worst, I also got tested the next day without her knowing. Those couple days of waiting results felt like eternity. I was constantly researching google and reddit (probably the worst thing you can do) I thought I was fucked but My culture turn out all clean hallelujah. Felt like I dodged bullet and definitely wake up call.
I think time for me to retire, I love new pussy like another guy. I also love my so she's Wonder Woman and she doesn't deserve this. I want to be better man for her, it will be hard since I still travel for work. That when I get to play but I will figure it out maybe fuck her before I leave or jerk off.
Be safe everyone.
AngelBravo
09-13-24, 02:01
The mental anguish you go through worrying if you caught something, like you did in waiting for your test result is never worth the risk. The fact is, you got lucky this time; but you need to accept that if you keep with this addiction, it will eventually catch up with you and you need to answer for the consequences.
This means, your woman will most likely leave you; worst case you get her infected as well as yourself and you will have an immense amount of regret. A very common STD you can get, that is easily transmissible is HPV. Men can't get tested for it and many not even show symptoms but you are a carrier. If your girl gets a papsmear and it comes back irregular, know that you are most likely responsible for that. You can even get an HPV from a simple hand-job; so in this hobby it's rampant.
Stay safe and know your risks.
I was in very similar situation. It's biggest scares of my life. Cfs and BBBJ couple kgirls recently. Week later my girl wanted to fuck it's been awhile since we last fuck she was basically begging. Back of my mind I haven't got tested yet see to if I was ok but I thought since I was cfs and BBBJ It will be ok. Couple days later my so told me she had discharge and some irritation. My life flash before my eyes and all fucking I been doing. I really felt like piece of shit too. We went to doctor she got tested the doctor chalk it up as yeast infection give her medicine. I was thinking of the worst, I also got tested the next day without her knowing. Those couple days of waiting results felt like eternity. I was constantly researching google and reddit (probably the worst thing you can do) I thought I was fucked but My culture turn out all clean hallelujah. Felt like I dodged bullet and definitely wake up call.
I think time for me to retire, I love new pussy like another guy. I also love my so she's Wonder Woman and she doesn't deserve this. I want to be better man for her, it will be hard since I still travel for work. That when I get to play but I will figure it out maybe fuck her before I leave or jerk off.
Be safe everyone.
Bambinos1987
09-16-24, 13:28
Recently saw a very well rated very well know escort. Week later went at it with wife. The day after I started having what il describe as a light rash. Went to clinic awaiting results got antibiotics meanwhile. However yesterday she mentioned having a yeast infections. I am shitting my pants. Is it her yeast infection? Was it the provider. ? Only did BBBJ everything else covered. I wash down at the end of every session too. I am will probably be retiring now. Well am planning on it. Ther eis some BEAUTIFUL wild escorts I still want to fuck. But when this happens it's not worth it.
I was in very similar situation. It's biggest scares of my life. Cfs and BBBJ couple kgirls recently. Week later my girl wanted to fuck it's been awhile since we last fuck she was basically begging. Back of my mind I haven't got tested yet see to if I was ok but I thought since I was cfs and BBBJ It will be ok. Couple days later my so told me she had discharge and some irritation. My life flash before my eyes and all fucking I been doing. I really felt like piece of shit too. We went to doctor she got tested the doctor chalk it up as yeast infection give her medicine. I was thinking of the worst, I also got tested the next day without her knowing. Those couple days of waiting results felt like eternity. I was constantly researching google and reddit (probably the worst thing you can do) I thought I was fucked but My culture turn out all clean hallelujah. Felt like I dodged bullet and definitely wake up call.
I think time for me to retire, I love new pussy like another guy. I also love my so she's Wonder Woman and she doesn't deserve this. I want to be better man for her, it will be hard since I still travel for work. That when I get to play but I will figure it out maybe fuck her before I leave or jerk off.
Be safe everyone.
Uncut Diamond
09-16-24, 15:42
Can you share the website? TIA.
BBBJ 5-15% odds. Raw camel slide, probably more likely yes. Both of those activities are risky since no cover and all it takes is 1 little friend to enter your tip and make a home. Her wet pussy sliding on you counts. I bet it was that more than BBBJ but honestly recently there seems to be reports BBBJ listed as culprit. My own experience I think was either BBBJ, touching myself after fingering her or a washcloth that touched her and then me to wipe. Any of those may have been possible. So you can see doesn't take much.I know that symptoms do take awhile to appear. I had a test scheduled to confirm but when I went to the bathroom at work one day my dick was leaking whitest fluid. It had a funny smell to it and I got scared so instead of waiting to take the test I bought both treatments for Chlamydia and gonorrhea just to be safe. I'm fine now, no burning or leakage.
Here is the website: https://www.callondoc.com/en/consultation.
DivingDeep70
09-16-24, 17:15
Recently saw a very well rated very well know escort. Week later went at it with wife. The day after I started having what il describe as a light rash. Went to clinic awaiting results got antibiotics meanwhile. However yesterday she mentioned having a yeast infections. I am shitting my pants. Is it her yeast infection? Was it the provider. ? Only did BBBJ everything else covered. I wash down at the end of every session too. I am will probably be retiring now. Well am planning on it. Ther eis some BEAUTIFUL wild escorts I still want to fuck. But when this happens it's not worth it.Guys, we pretty much all had the anxiety attacks if we are in relationships. We all say we are going to quit at the time. When it passes, we all go back. Why? It's an addiction. Simple as that. It's harder to quit than drugs or alcohol. You are addicted because of some other underlying issue not resolved. It manifests as we like hot pussy or fanstasy or whatever but the end is the same, addiction. So unless you're willing to face that and go to therapy for a long time in hopes of stopping, it will not stop.
So what now? Well, first of all, ALWAYS do everything with cover. Cover comes on when your pants drop. At least you will have a good chance of not catching the bacteria related stuff. Yes oral, anal, vaginal and secondary handling of infected fluid like hands, toys and towels can transmit if it hits your open urethra. Like finger her pussy juice and touch your tip, you can get infected. So cover at least helps. Yes grinding will get you infected if bare.
Now that said, nothing you cover with cover is going to stop the viral stuff like HSV and HPV. So there you are still taking risk because it's skin to skin. Any skin. If she touches herself or you touch her sores and touch yourself it's coming your way. Nothing you can do. AND there is a 10-20% chance she can spread virus without ANY signs of infection.
So if you are mongering while in relationship, first at least use cover always and for everything. Second if you do or don't, try to avoid sex with her at least 10 days so you can test if worried. The bacterial stuff will show up within 10 days, the viral not so much, so you are at least reducing your odds. Finally, if you do it or don't, prepare yourself and your affairs for divorce and the impact of divorce be it family, friends or kids etc. Girlfiends highly likely to dump your ass. Wife about 80% likely to dump your ass, and if she doesn't, prepare for enrolling in sex addiction therapy for several years and about a year or more of anger with her that will make you wish you got divorced instead. Relationship can recover with lots of work, commitment and time.
Test, test, test. Make up excuses for no sex and give yourself a chance to get tested, most places now can take online order and get you in same day with results in 2 days. Better to piss her off than to infect her. And remember that some infections have no cure.
So, as I said, likely no one quitting not for long anyway. Maybe a month or two or year, but you will be back.
AngelBravo
09-17-24, 01:24
Couldn't have said it better myself.
The key is to first accept it's an addiction, and the next step is figuring out why you developed this addiction. It sadly won't stop until like any addiction, something pretty detrimental happens. You get an STD, Wife / GF finds out and your life changes. As Diving Deep said, you need to accept you are rolling the dice and need to prepare for the consequences of your actions. Even now, just because you haven't gotten caught, doesn't mean it hasn't already affected you. I'm sure most of us have HPV / HSV; it's almost impossible to avoid. Careful.
Guys, we pretty much all had the anxiety attacks if we are in relationships. We all say we are going to quit at the time. When it passes, we all go back. Why? It's an addiction. Simple as that. It's harder to quit than drugs or alcohol. You are addicted because of some other underlying issue not resolved. It manifests as we like hot pussy or fanstasy or whatever but the end is the same, addiction. So unless you're willing to face that and go to therapy for a long time in hopes of stopping, it will not stop.
So what now? Well, first of all, ALWAYS do everything with cover. Cover comes on when your pants drop. At least you will have a good chance of not catching the bacteria related stuff. Yes oral, anal, vaginal and secondary handling of infected fluid like hands, toys and towels can transmit if it hits your open urethra. Like finger her pussy juice and touch your tip, you can get infected. So cover at least helps. Yes grinding will get you infected if bare.
Now that said, nothing you cover with cover is going to stop the viral stuff like HSV and HPV. So there you are still taking risk because it's skin to skin. Any skin. If she touches herself or you touch her sores and touch yourself it's coming your way. Nothing you can do. AND there is a 10-20% chance she can spread virus without ANY signs of infection.
So if you are mongering while in relationship, first at least use cover always and for everything. Second if you do or don't, try to avoid sex with her at least 10 days so you can test if worried. The bacterial stuff will show up within 10 days, the viral not so much, so you are at least reducing your odds. Finally, if you do it or don't, prepare yourself and your affairs for divorce and the impact of divorce be it family, friends or kids etc. Girlfiends highly likely to dump your ass. Wife about 80% likely to dump your ass, and if she doesn't, prepare for enrolling in sex addiction therapy for several years and about a year or more of anger with her that will make you wish you got divorced instead. Relationship can recover with lots of work, commitment and time.
Test, test, test. Make up excuses for no sex and give yourself a chance to get tested, most places now can take online order and get you in same day with results in 2 days. Better to piss her off than to infect her. And remember that some infections have no cure.
So, as I said, likely no one quitting not for long anyway. Maybe a month or two or year, but you will be back.
Bambinos1987
09-17-24, 10:38
This is was a very detailed and spot on analysis.
In my case this is the fucking rock bottom. I can't sleep, I can't eat. Wife already noticing my attitude chnage. I called of work yesterday. She doesn't even know that. I am spending this AM checking my email for results knowing they told me 3 days plus. My symptons are getting better. But still waiting on tests. Thing is we had sex 1 week after I saw provider. And two days after I had sex with wife I noticed my "rash". So God help me. Help us. I truly feel like a piece of shit. I am out the game though. This was the eye opening experience I needed.
Guys, we pretty much all had the anxiety attacks if we are in relationships. We all say we are going to quit at the time. When it passes, we all go back. Why? It's an addiction. Simple as that. It's harder to quit than drugs or alcohol. You are addicted because of some other underlying issue not resolved. It manifests as we like hot pussy or fanstasy or whatever but the end is the same, addiction. So unless you're willing to face that and go to therapy for a long time in hopes of stopping, it will not stop.
So what now? Well, first of all, ALWAYS do everything with cover. Cover comes on when your pants drop. At least you will have a good chance of not catching the bacteria related stuff. Yes oral, anal, vaginal and secondary handling of infected fluid like hands, toys and towels can transmit if it hits your open urethra. Like finger her pussy juice and touch your tip, you can get infected. So cover at least helps. Yes grinding will get you infected if bare.
Now that said, nothing you cover with cover is going to stop the viral stuff like HSV and HPV. So there you are still taking risk because it's skin to skin. Any skin. If she touches herself or you touch her sores and touch yourself it's coming your way. Nothing you can do. AND there is a 10-20% chance she can spread virus without ANY signs of infection.
So if you are mongering while in relationship, first at least use cover always and for everything. Second if you do or don't, try to avoid sex with her at least 10 days so you can test if worried. The bacterial stuff will show up within 10 days, the viral not so much, so you are at least reducing your odds. Finally, if you do it or don't, prepare yourself and your affairs for divorce and the impact of divorce be it family, friends or kids etc. Girlfiends highly likely to dump your ass. Wife about 80% likely to dump your ass, and if she doesn't, prepare for enrolling in sex addiction therapy for several years and about a year or more of anger with her that will make you wish you got divorced instead. Relationship can recover with lots of work, commitment and time.
Test, test, test. Make up excuses for no sex and give yourself a chance to get tested, most places now can take online order and get you in same day with results in 2 days. Better to piss her off than to infect her. And remember that some infections have no cure.
So, as I said, likely no one quitting not for long anyway. Maybe a month or two or year, but you will be back..
Member #6972
09-17-24, 11:51
This is was a very detailed and spot on analysis.
In my case this is the fucking rock bottom. I can't sleep, I can't eat. Wife already noticing my attitude chnage. I called of work yesterday. She doesn't even know that. I am spending this AM checking my email for results knowing they told me 3 days plus. My symptons are getting better. But still waiting on tests. Thing is we had sex 1 week after I saw provider. And two days after I had sex with wife I noticed my "rash". So God help me. Help us. I truly feel like a piece of shit. I am out the game though. This was the eye opening experience I needed..Hey man,
If this is your rock bottom I'd suggest checking out SAA or SA meetings ASAP.
https://smeetingschicago.com/meetings/
Good people here who can help. I've tried and failed a few times but that's my personal failings. But I've also seen some of the most degenerate people get clean and turn their lives around. If you want to get clean and get right these people can help. They'll also help with the fallout if you do come out positive. And if you are clean, and I hope you are. They can help you go through the process of eventually breaking to your wife that you're an addict in the way that will cause the least amount of pain.
Recovery is rough brother, but you can do it only if you want to.
TwoCentsSteve
09-19-24, 15:05
Guys, we pretty much all had the anxiety attacks if we are in relationships. We all say we are going to quit at the time. When it passes, we all go back. Why? It's an addiction. Simple as that. It's harder to quit than drugs or alcohol. You are addicted because of some other underlying issue not resolved. It manifests as we like hot pussy or fanstasy or whatever but the end is the same, addiction. So unless you're willing to face that and go to therapy for a long time in hopes of stopping, it will not stop.
So what now? Well, first of all, ALWAYS do everything with cover. Cover comes on when your pants drop. At least you will have a good chance of not catching the bacteria related stuff. Yes oral, anal, vaginal and secondary handling of infected fluid like hands, toys and towels can transmit if it hits your open urethra. Like finger her pussy juice and touch your tip, you can get infected. So cover at least helps. Yes grinding will get you infected if bare.
Now that said, nothing you cover with cover is going to stop the viral stuff like HSV and HPV. So there you are still taking risk because it's skin to skin. Any skin. If she touches herself or you touch her sores and touch yourself it's coming your way. Nothing you can do. AND there is a 10-20% chance she can spread virus without ANY signs of infection.
So if you are mongering while in relationship, first at least use cover always and for everything. Second if you do or don't, try to avoid sex with her at least 10 days so you can test if worried. The bacterial stuff will show up within 10 days, the viral not so much, so you are at least reducing your odds. Finally, if you do it or don't, prepare yourself and your affairs for divorce and the impact of divorce be it family, friends or kids etc. Girlfiends highly likely to dump your ass. Wife about 80% likely to dump your ass, and if she doesn't, prepare for enrolling in sex addiction therapy for several years and about a year or more of anger with her that will make you wish you got divorced instead. Relationship can recover with lots of work, commitment and time.
Test, test, test. Make up excuses for no sex and give yourself a chance to get tested, most places now can take online order and get you in same day with results in 2 days. Better to piss her off than to infect her. And remember that some infections have no cure.
So, as I said, likely no one quitting not for long anyway. Maybe a month or two or year, but you will be back.Went Thur. Testing scared, waited another 2 weeks to be sure. All clean I said I was going quit but I'm already itching. How can I stop this! You think I'll learn from the last time. If I go back it's Only cover everything for now on. Better safe than sorry good luck. Everyone.
MarcSandwhich
09-19-24, 17:11
The addiction takes control on some many levels. I'm still fighting it even after my scare. I don't want to monger anymore but I find myself fantasizing about it. Looking for it and thinking about BBFS and BBBJ. I'm a shit person I know.
Bambinos1987
09-19-24, 18:44
Well I literally cried when I got the email. I don't have herpes. But still wondering where rash came from. It's about 90% gone.
Recently saw a very well rated very well know escort. Week later went at it with wife. The day after I started having what il describe as a light rash. Went to clinic awaiting results got antibiotics meanwhile. However yesterday she mentioned having a yeast infections. I am shitting my pants. Is it her yeast infection? Was it the provider. ? Only did BBBJ everything else covered. I wash down at the end of every session too. I am will probably be retiring now. Well am planning on it. Ther eis some BEAUTIFUL wild escorts I still want to fuck. But when this happens it's not worth it.
TwoCentsSteve
09-19-24, 19:34
Well I literally cried when I got the email. I don't have herpes. But still wondering where rash came from. It's about 90% gone.I know this feeling. We say we going quit but we keep coming back! It's probably psoriasis eczema or just skin irration. If you're still worried go dermatologists.
MarcSandwhich
09-19-24, 21:12
I saw two providers. Fuck me.
Well I literally cried when I got the email. I don't have herpes. But still wondering where rash came from. It's about 90% gone.If wifey had yeast infection then you probably got it too.
George Stark
09-20-24, 00:22
However yesterday she mentioned having a yeast infections. My understanding is that yeast infections aren't really "given". It's always there, just something disturbs the delicate balance of yeast vs bacteria vs immune system vs who the fukk knows what, and the yeast overgrows. I've read where some women get them (or even UTIs) from guys going down on them.
Hey man,
If this is your rock bottom I'd suggest checking out SAA or SA meetings ASAP.
https://smeetingschicago.com/meetings/
Good people here who can help. I've tried and failed a few times but that's my personal failings. But I've also seen some of the most degenerate people get clean and turn their lives around. If you want to get clean and get right these people can help. They'll also help with the fallout if you do come out positive. And if you are clean, and I hope you are. They can help you go through the process of eventually breaking to your wife that you're an addict in the way that will cause the least amount of pain.
Recovery is rough brother, but you can do it only if you want to.It can absolutely be beaten. SA works. Church groups like celebrate recovery work. Therapy works. Strong support. You have friends. The shame only controls you in the dark. Once you share with someone face to face and can be held accountable, the recovery begins.
It can absolutely be beaten. SA works. Church groups like celebrate recovery work. Therapy works. Strong support. You have friends. The shame only controls you in the dark. Once you share with someone face to face and can be held accountable, the recovery begins.If nothing else it's a good way to find people to fuck LOL.
If nothing else it's a good way to find people to fuck LOL.I was thinking the same thing!! I often thought about attending a SA meeting just to scope it out. LOL.
B.
A week after seeing a provider for BBBJ and cfs, I got a bad hurtful pump on my buttocks. It feels much larger than a pimple. Probably thumb size. Any reason for worry / concern for herpes / syphy? I'm going to get tested but wondering if anyone had a similar experience before.
DivingDeep70
10-03-24, 19:36
A week after seeing a provider for BBBJ and cfs, I got a bad hurtful pump on my buttocks. It feels much larger than a pimple. Probably thumb size. Any reason for worry / concern for herpes / syphy? I'm going to get tested but wondering if anyone had a similar experience before.Nothing to worry about very likely.
Harbinger147
10-03-24, 21:46
I was thinking the same thing!! I often thought about attending a SA meeting just to scope it out. LOL.
B.Honestly, don't do that, don't mess with people in their recovery. Its also a good way to get you kicked out from all of those groups.
So the guys running blue phoenix and green Buddha, they wouldn't knowingly let a provider with an STD work under them. Right?Knowingly is doing a lot of work in this sentence. But let's say they do know; they could take the attitude of 'buyer beware'.
Knowingly is doing a lot of work in this sentence. But let's say they do know; they could take the attitude of 'buyer beware'.Well everything is pointing to that they don't, but I'm still new to this the anxiety whispers ya know?
Nothing to worry about very likely.Man, going to get tested today. My body was feeling a bit week, but then had yellow slimy mucus like poop excretions. That's a sign of a bacterial infection.
FYI for any other folks LOL.
DivingDeep70
10-08-24, 08:01
Man, going to get tested today. My body was feeling a bit week, but then had yellow slimy mucus like poop excretions. That's a sign of a bacterial infection.
FYI for any other folks LOL.Come back and post update. Not sure what you mean if the stuff was from the pimple or cyst or poop?? Anyway, let us know what happens.
Come back and post update. Not sure what you mean if the stuff was from the pimple or cyst or poop?? Anyway, let us know what happens.The test was only for syp, chy, hiv, gon, and all negative. But not a full panel.
SideTalker
10-09-24, 21:40
Gents,
Anyone been to the dupage county health dept facility? They do STD tests for $80. Was wondering if results come back quickly and if you have to wait around.
Have had some burning sensation when peeing and slight pussing.
Any other locations recommend around lombard? Quest is quite expensive and you need to go to your doc with results for a script.
Thank you.
BojHunter85
10-09-24, 21:42
A week after seeing a provider for BBBJ and cfs, I got a bad hurtful pump on my buttocks. It feels much larger than a pimple. Probably thumb size. Any reason for worry / concern for herpes / syphy? I'm going to get tested but wondering if anyone had a similar experience before.Its probably a cyst or folliculitis (inflammed / infected hair follicle). Its not an STD. You don't get a bump on your ass from getting a BBBJ with cfs. People would do well to be a little bit more well informed.
If anything you need to see a dermatologist not an infectious disease specialist. Hygiene goes a long way but even those who have great hygiene still gets ingrown inflamed hairs on their ass from time to time.
If you're that paranoid about STDs then my recommendation is that you get tested regularly and often, maybe even after every exposure if you want to get real crazy with it. Talk to your doc about getting on PrEp and / or doxyPEP. Otherwise, you're already pretty well protected with condoms.
Update** I looked at your post history and even though I don't think you have an STI, it would probably be prudent to get tested after seeing the Skeletor looking lady you think you got this from. If she looks 70 smells like cigarettes and doesnt wear sunscreen she's probably had a long life of hard substance use which definitely puts her into the more high risk category of providers you can see. Now I get why you're paranoid LOL
BojHunter85
10-09-24, 21:57
Gents,
Anyone been to the dupage county health dept facility? They do STD tests for $80. Was wondering if results come back quickly and if you have to wait around.
Have had some burning sensation when peeing and slight pussing.
Any other locations recommend around lombard? Quest is quite expensive and you need to go to your doc with results for a script.
Thank you.This one merits investigation. STDcheck.com is the one I use. You can buy a 10 panel test and get tested at a lab that same day. Costs $120 I think. Results come back in 2 business days for the bacterial stuff, which is likely what this is. Probably chlamydia. If you pop positive you can get a script from their doctors. I get tested quite often. As I prefer bareback I get tested pretty much between encounters. This may sound extreme to some, but it also helps grease the pussy lips open when you can login and scroll through months / years of frequent verified negative tests. That helps the raw pussy open up nicely.
Additionally, you can go to any telehealth service like doctoralexa.com and tell them you're having symptoms and theyll write you a script for antibiotics even without a positive test result. They will recommend you get a test of cure after. The telehealth visit with them is like $60 bucks plus the cost of the meds at the pharmacy. Hell even amazon has a telehealth service for prime members and they'll ship the drugs cheap and fast too.
Bottom line: get tested often and get treated promptly. Don't be a cheapskate or an idiot when it comes to this shit. Get it done and fast too.
SideTalker
10-10-24, 09:08
This one merits investigation. STDcheck.com is the one I use. You can buy a 10 panel test and get tested at a lab that same day. Costs $120 I think. Results come back in 2 business days for the bacterial stuff, which is likely what this is. Probably chlamydia. If you pop positive you can get a script from their doctors. I get tested quite often. As I prefer bareback I get tested pretty much between encounters. This may sound extreme to some, but it also helps grease the pussy lips open when you can login and scroll through months / years of frequent verified negative tests. That helps the raw pussy open up nicely.
Additionally, you can go to any telehealth service like doctoralexa.com and tell them you're having symptoms and theyll write you a script for antibiotics even without a positive test result. They will recommend you get a test of cure after. The telehealth visit with them is like $60 bucks plus the cost of the meds at the pharmacy. Hell even amazon has a telehealth service for prime members and they'll ship the drugs cheap and fast too.
Bottom line: get tested often and get treated promptly. Don't be a cheapskate or an idiot when it comes to this shit. Get it done and fast too.Thank you, will get tested today.
Its probably a cyst or folliculitis (inflammed / infected hair follicle). Its not an STD. You don't get a bump on your ass from getting a BBBJ with cfs. People would do well to be a little bit more well informed.
If anything you need to see a dermatologist not an infectious disease specialist. Hygiene goes a long way but even those who have great hygiene still gets ingrown inflamed hairs on their ass from time to time.
If you're that paranoid about STDs then my recommendation is that you get tested regularly and often, maybe even after every exposure if you want to get real crazy with it. Talk to your doc about getting on PrEp and / or doxyPEP. Otherwise, you're already pretty well protected with condoms.
Update** I looked at your post history and even though I don't think you have an STI, it would probably be prudent to get tested after seeing the Skeletor looking lady you think you got this from. If she looks 70 smells like cigarettes and doesnt wear sunscreen she's probably had a long life of hard substance use which definitely puts her into the more high risk category of providers you can see. Now I get why you're paranoid LOLI laughed out loud. And yeah, I think it was an in grown as it's died down since. The only thing the panel didn't test for was herpes and that's the one I was worried about. Aside, I'm currently on my partner's medical insurance as a dependent. I do get tested quite often after every one but with a lack of health insurance before, or having my own before, I'm not trying to cough up $120 every time at STDCheck which is what I used last time for discretion.
She actually didn't smell like cigs, but she definitely smokes them. Does getting on PrEp or DoxyPEP become a regular thing? STDCheck seems to offer PrEP for free? Or even at a local clinic I found. I have taken Doxy in the past for the clam. Went perfect.
I laughed out loud. And yeah, I think it was an in grown as it's died down since. The only thing the panel didn't test for was herpes and that's the one I was worried about. Aside, I'm currently on my partner's medical insurance as a dependent. I do get tested quite often after every one but with a lack of health insurance before, or having my own before, I'm not trying to cough up $120 every time at STDCheck which is what I used last time for discretion.
She actually didn't smell like cigs, but she definitely smokes them. Does getting on PrEp or DoxyPEP become a regular thing? STDCheck seems to offer PrEP for free? Or even at a local clinic I found. I have taken Doxy in the past for the clam. Went perfect.AHF in the city has free STD testing at their clinics. It's almost anonymous and you get HIV results right there and the others come back in a couple of days. You can check your results through their online patient portal. They do the testing outside of their normal clinic hours so you have to make sure you go on the right day at the right time and it's first come first served. I'm sure there are other places if the city isn't convenient for you. I get DoxyPEP through callondoc. It's 15 bucks for a visit if you buy a subscription and I think 40 without it. They prescribe two doses. You take one dose after sex and keep the second one for after your next encounter.
This one merits investigation. STDcheck.com (https://www.jdoqocy.com/click-7901271-15733880) is the one I use. You can buy a 10 panel test and get tested at a lab that same day. Costs $120 I think. Results come back in 2 business days for the bacterial stuff, which is likely what this is. Probably chlamydia. If you pop positive you can get a script from their doctors. I get tested quite often. As I prefer bareback I get tested pretty much between encounters. This may sound extreme to some, but it also helps grease the pussy lips open when you can login and scroll through months / years of frequent verified negative tests. That helps the raw pussy open up nicely.
Additionally, you can go to any telehealth service like doctoralexa.com and tell them you're having symptoms and theyll write you a script for antibiotics even without a positive test result. They will recommend you get a test of cure after. The telehealth visit with them is like $60 bucks plus the cost of the meds at the pharmacy. Hell even amazon has a telehealth service for prime members and they'll ship the drugs cheap and fast too.
Bottom line: get tested often and get treated promptly. Don't be a cheapskate or an idiot when it comes to this shit. Get it done and fast too.Second what BojHunter said, stdcheck is good. I've used them before.
You can find a lab right near you at https://www.stdcheck.com/std-test-center.php..
AngelBravo
10-11-24, 01:07
I laughed out loud. And yeah, I think it was an in grown as it's died down since. The only thing the panel didn't test for was herpes and that's the one I was worried about. Aside, I'm currently on my partner's medical insurance as a dependent. I do get tested quite often after every one but with a lack of health insurance before, or having my own before, I'm not trying to cough up $120 every time at STDCheck which is what I used last time for discretion.
She actually didn't smell like cigs, but she definitely smokes them. Does getting on PrEp or DoxyPEP become a regular thing? STDCheck seems to offer PrEP for free? Or even at a local clinic I found. I have taken Doxy in the past for the clam. Went perfect.I'm glad everything seems like it was nothing but you should use this opportunity to remind you what could have been if it was something. How did you feel, what did you regret. Considering yourself lucky as you where able to go through the experience, realize how you felt about it and re-winded with no repercussions. This might not always be the case and so you really need to think to yourself. How many times are you willing to roll the dice and take in risky behavior until you land on a bad number. If you go through this experience and learn nothing at all, you are doomed to repeat it.
FirstTimer7
10-11-24, 01:56
I laughed out loud. And yeah, I think it was an in grown as it's died down since. The only thing the panel didn't test for was herpes and that's the one I was worried about. Aside, I'm currently on my partner's medical insurance as a dependent. I do get tested quite often after every one but with a lack of health insurance before, or having my own before, I'm not trying to cough up $120 every time at STDCheck which is what I used last time for discretion.
She actually didn't smell like cigs, but she definitely smokes them. Does getting on PrEp or DoxyPEP become a regular thing? STDCheck seems to offer PrEP for free? Or even at a local clinic I found. I have taken Doxy in the past for the clam. Went perfect.Did you use STDcheck recently? I did a few months ago and they only had one full panel option that included herpes tests for $139.
BojHunter85
10-11-24, 10:31
Did you use STDcheck recently? I did a few months ago and they only had one full panel option that included herpes tests for $139.I think you're right its $140 I may have mistyped. But unless you're having symptoms or some kind of outbreak its not recommended that primary care providers actually routinely test for HSV1 or 2. This is twofold, there is no cure and about 80% of adults have HSV1 already and are asymptomatic. Second, there is no cure so the mental and emotional anguish and stigma that comes with knowing you have is tough. If it comes with the package get it, otherwise you'll probably notice that whenever your primary tests you for STD's they don't routinely test for HSV 1 or 2.
BojHunter85
10-11-24, 17:03
I'm glad everything seems like it was nothing but you should use this opportunity to remind you what could have been if it was something. How did you feel, what did you regret. Considering yourself lucky as you where able to go through the experience, realize how you felt about it and re-winded with no repercussions. This might not always be the case and so you really need to think to yourself. How many times are you willing to roll the dice and take in risky behavior until you land on a bad number. If you go through this experience and learn nothing at all, you are doomed to repeat it.Yea and if you look at the original post of the girl. Err lady, you'll see why. Looks like grandma found her dentures and dressed up as a **** for halloween! Definitely worth getting checked.
Did you use STDcheck (https://www.jdoqocy.com/click-7901271-15733880) recently? I did a few months ago and they only had one full panel option that included herpes tests for $139.Yes, they recommend the full 10-pack, but on their pricing page, you can order the Herpes 1 (oral) and 2 (sexually transmissible) tests separately.
https://www.stdcheck.com/std-test-pricing.php
My last escapade kinda scared me a touch, so the next time I do this I don't want to take any chances. I was just wondering if providers would consider it an insult if I pulled out a dental dam any time they invite me for oral.
My last escapade kinda scared me a touch, so the next time I do this I don't want to take any chances. I was just wondering if providers would consider it an insult if I pulled out a dental dam any time they invite me for oral.All they care about is getting paid.
All they care about is getting paid.How pragmatic.
How pragmatic.It's the truth. 90 percent of them don't give a shit about much as long as you're not a pushy asshole and they get paid. If you're worried stick with girls who only do CBJ.
SideTalker
10-16-24, 15:47
Thanks to Bojhunter who recommended STDcheck. Did get tested at a quest location and got the all clear. Still sometimes burns. Might have overdone it recently with the visits and beating the meat.
Anyone ever had that? Will give it a weeks rest.
Thanks to Bojhunter who recommended STDcheck. Did get tested at a quest location and got the all clear. Still sometimes burns. Might have overdone it recently with the visits and beating the meat.
Anyone ever had that? Will give it a weeks rest.I've had mine burn and checked for STI's and nothing.
I do recall, long ago with a girlfriend used The Sponge with her. It was great! That is until afterwards. Forgot how long it took after having sex, but at some point it burned so fucking bad. Like pissing broken glass. That lasted for a couple days. Pretty sure, it was the chemicals in the spermicide that irritated me.
Fast forward to recent years, sometimes it will burn after using a condom. Again, think its the spermacide. Thankfully, it lasts only for a short while, like a few hours or maybe until next morning.
DivingDeep70
10-18-24, 07:42
Thanks to Bojhunter who recommended STDcheck. Did get tested at a quest location and got the all clear. Still sometimes burns. Might have overdone it recently with the visits and beating the meat.
Anyone ever had that? Will give it a weeks rest.I've been in panic and tested more times than I care to remember for burning that turned out unrelated. Tests always negative. I've concluded that it's some chemical in condom, or it's related to my prostate and urethra. If it's the condom, it goes away after a day or so. If it's prostate, it can last many days. If it's prostate acute infection at times I've had to get pills. The prostate issue does manifest as urethra pain, or itch, or burn. It is weird. Freaks me out of course especially since I'm already nervous about the hobby so I go test and all negative. So weird. Doctors seem to shrug it off and tell me yeah the prostate is weird sometimes and it's could be over reactive especially if you blow a load every day and sometimes it can get mild bacteria and react but those typically need pills. I may have an old prostate, LOL.
Anyway, regardless, my advice is not to stress and panic. Get tested. I've been using stdcheck in recent years and it helps. Even though I pay for it, it is less embarrassing that to keep showing up at my docs office.
AHF in the city has free STD testing at their clinics. It's almost anonymous and you get HIV results right there and the others come back in a couple of days. You can check your results through their online patient portal. They do the testing outside of their normal clinic hours so you have to make sure you go on the right day at the right time and it's first come first served. I'm sure there are other places if the city isn't convenient for you. I get DoxyPEP through callondoc. It's 15 bucks for a visit if you buy a subscription and I think 40 without it. They prescribe two doses. You take one dose after sex and keep the second one for after your next encounter.Yes, in the city and did AHF myself. Agreed, super quick. It seems to be free only every 3 months is what I was told.
Super helpful info on DoxyPEP and Callondoc. Thanks for contributing good info!
P.S. Good news! I tested at AHF, and another full panel at a standard immediate care clinic and all negative. The only test that I did not get was the Herpes test which I was surprised was not included? Are these not standard even for a hospital immediate care clinic?
Yes, in the city and did AHF myself. Agreed, super quick. It seems to be free only every 3 months is what I was told.It's great for southsiders that they have a location at 26th and Michigan. The city used to have a clinic at 13th and Michigan, but that's long gone.
Chandler89
12-11-24, 15:35
Thanks everyone for posting all of this. One of the agency ladies gave me a going away present, and STD check and callondoc resolved quickly. Very convenient and fast. Stay safe!
Roy Munson
12-12-24, 11:11
Yes, in the city and did AHF myself. Agreed, super quick. It seems to be free only every 3 months is what I was told.
Super helpful info on DoxyPEP and Callondoc. Thanks for contributing good info!
P.S. Good news! I tested at AHF, and another full panel at a standard immediate care clinic and all negative. The only test that I did not get was the Herpes test which I was surprised was not included? Are these not standard even for a hospital immediate care clinic?CDC no longer recommends testing for herpes unless the patient is showing symptoms. Why? Because there's no point. There's no cure for it and most people are asymptomatic. They figure that if someone has herpes but no symptoms then there's no reason to traumatize them with a positive test result. They also found that it doesn't prevent the spread or change people's sexual behavior once they have herpes.
Member #7022
12-15-24, 14:34
I work with a lot of underserved people some of whom are on MEDICAID. Are there any free clinics I can send these people to for STD checkups? Like around Naperville, Aurora, Schaumburg region?
There's a planned parenthood in Aurora but I heard that you can’t book appointments with them for STD check ups?
Appreciate any input, dms are open too.
What's everyone's thoughts on this. Something to worry about?
What's everyone's thoughts on this. Something to worry about?I never use them, I always bring my own.
JonJon5456
04-02-25, 13:48
A lot of the girls buy in bulk. Some of these places sell them unwrapped or can be wrapped. I think it's just cheaper for the girls for unwrapped since they have to buy them. Most AMPs and apartments don't supply what the girls use which includes wipes, gel, sanitizer and of course the covers.
What's everyone's thoughts on this. Something to worry about?WTF is an unwrapped condom? Used???
WTF is an unwrapped condom? Used???AMPs often bring it out without showing you a sealed foil wrapper first. Someone said they come like this in bulk.
HappyGardener
04-02-25, 19:18
Ever try opening a condom package with oil, lotion or lube on your hands? Damn near impossible. You really want to see her ripping a package open with her teeth?
CDC no longer recommends testing for herpes unless the patient is showing symptoms. Why? Because there's no point. There's no cure for it and most people are asymptomatic. They figure that if someone has herpes but no symptoms then there's no reason to traumatize them with a positive test result. They also found that it doesn't prevent the spread or change people's sexual behavior once they have herpes.Would that be the same for HPV?
How do you guys get prep + doxypep?
I tried getting them in call on doc but they say I need to test first.
Is there a way to get those without getting tested?
I wouldn't know how to explain needle bruises to my SO.
ScrumpyJack
04-18-25, 12:26
How do you guys get prep + doxypep?
I tried getting them in call on doc but they say I need to test first.
Is there a way to get those without getting tested?
I wouldn't know how to explain needle bruises to my SO.Wisp has doxy and Valtrex (for stopping herpes outbreaks but also useful for prophylaxis). Url for the doxy is https://www.hellowisp.com/products/doxy-pep. I got Valtrex from them and didn't need an exam or blood work. Dunno about the doxy but I'm guessing same thing. They just want to sell you the Rx.
For HIV PEP, all the providers I checked out need blood work in advance because if you are HIV+ taking the PEP will trash your chance of good treatment and survival later on. I used Plushcare to get my PEP meds and they did require blood work. No other STD tests though. My insurance made a fuss about covering it but Plushcare eventually sorted it with them. I kept the Rx open for 6 months to collect enough pills that I can do 2-1-1 whenever I'm playing for the next couple years.
If I needed to hide the needle mark from the blood draw, I'd schedule a regular physical with my doc. They'll need blood tests for regular stuff like kidney and liver function anyway. If you don't get the PEP and the STD bloodwork from your primary doc, just schedule the blood draw for the STD tests for the same day. If they stick the other arm and your partner questions that, tell them the tech stuck you on one side and missed so they switched sides.
Good luck! It's definitely worth the piece of mind.
Thanks to Bojhunter who recommended STDcheck (https://www.jdoqocy.com/click-7901271-15733880). Did get tested at a quest location and got the all clear. Still sometimes burns. Might have overdone it recently with the visits and beating the meat.
Anyone ever had that? Will give it a weeks rest.I've had the burning sometimes that lasts for a few days, no other symptoms (discharge), the first time it happened, I went and got tested a few days after, and it was already clearing up. The doc told me it was probably a urinary tract infection (UTI). I think I got some antibiotics, but said it wasn't really necessary. Usually get tested for most common STDs every 3-4 months now, nothing has come up in awhile.
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If I needed to hide the needle mark from the blood draw, I'd schedule a regular physical with my doc. They'll need blood tests for regular stuff like kidney and liver function anyway. If you don't get the PEP and the STD bloodwork from your primary doc, just schedule the blood draw for the STD tests for the same day. If they stick the other arm and your partner questions that, tell them the tech stuck you on one side and missed so they switched sides.
Good luck! It's definitely worth the piece of mind.Hahaha, that's a great tip! - I don't live with my SO so usually needle marks are gone by the time we see each other.
DivingDeep70
04-21-25, 08:11
Wisp has doxy and Valtrex (for stopping herpes outbreaks but also useful for prophylaxis). Url for the doxy is https://www.hellowisp.com/products/doxy-pep. I got Valtrex from them and didn't need an exam or blood work. Dunno about the doxy but I'm guessing same thing. They just want to sell you the Rx.
For HIV PEP, all the providers I checked out need blood work in advance because if you are HIV+ taking the PEP will trash your chance of good treatment and survival later on. I used Plushcare to get my PEP meds and they did require blood work. No other STD tests though. My insurance made a fuss about covering it but Plushcare eventually sorted it with them. I kept the Rx open for 6 months to collect enough pills that I can do 2-1-1 whenever I'm playing for the next couple years.
If I needed to hide the needle mark from the blood draw, I'd schedule a regular physical with my doc. They'll need blood tests for regular stuff like kidney and liver function anyway. If you don't get the PEP and the STD bloodwork from your primary doc, just schedule the blood draw for the STD tests for the same day. If they stick the other arm and your partner questions that, tell them the tech stuck you on one side and missed so they switched sides.
Good luck! It's definitely worth the piece of mind.Doxy Pep will be ineffective if taken a lot because body will build immunity. Honestly don't take it unless you seriously think you got exposed and even then know it's not fool proof. It's just a theory to sell more drugs online. A real doc would not prescribe it if he actually met you. The idea is that you build up a wall to fight the bacteria befor the bacteria multiplies. Well guess what, Doxy isn't that effective and usually would need a 10 day load and now the world is full of resistant bacteria for C&G so it would not work. Just my 2 cents as someone who knows this stuff.
Doxy Pep will be ineffective if taken a lot because body will build immunity. Honestly don't take it unless you seriously think you got exposed and even then know it's not fool proof. It's just a theory to sell more drugs online. A real doc would not prescribe it if he actually met you. The idea is that you build up a wall to fight the bacteria befor the bacteria multiplies. Well guess what, Doxy isn't that effective and usually would need a 10 day load and now the world is full of resistant bacteria for C&G so it would not work. Just my 2 cents as someone who knows this stuff.Agree with you on this one, if something sounds too good to be true.
Agree with you on this one, if something sounds too good to be true.Disagree. This study is rather powerful in supporting Doxy Prep. It was in men who have sex with men but the results can be extrapolated men who have sex with women.
https://www.nejm.org/doi/full/10.1056/NEJMoa2211934
DivingDeep70
05-06-25, 00:07
Disagree. This study is rather powerful in supporting Doxy Prep. It was in men who have sex with men but the results can be extrapolated men who have sex with women.
https://www.nejm.org/doi/full/10.1056/NEJMoa2211934You'll find "a" study to support whatever you want to believe. Trust me on this one, or go ask your doc. Did you know Latin America C&G strain is resistant to most of our antibiotics? So if you are hitting the event immigrating visitors then you basically are eating candy, no effect on cure. This is why doctors are now prescribing stronger antibiotics and asking for re-test. 20 years ago maybe Doxy was standard, but not now. Not anymore. The strains are very resistant. You do what you want but most real doctors if you go for visit will not prescribe this "preventative" bull crap. It's snake oil. There are so many variables that come into play. Is it total waste? Maybe not. But it's slim chance and not worth the constant popping to become resistant when you really need it. The strains are mutating so much there are only handful of new antibiotics we can use to treat the resistant stuff. Pretty soon nothing will work and Goodluck to all with that.
Everyone can make their own decisions, but some of the things you're saying just aren't true, like "20 years ago maybe Doxy was standard, but not now. Not anymore. " Cities are just starting to rollout programs giving people doxypep, and they're seeing great results. Taking doxypep, which is just one or two pills, within 48 hours of a risky encounter has absolutely been shown to cut the risk of STIs like chlamydia and syphilis. It's not snake oil. The NEJM study that was linked below is real data showing its effectiveness. You do you, but for my money it's a lot better than waiting two weeks before finding out you've got syphilis, maybe spreading it to your wife or girlfriend, then being on antibiotics for two weeks.
It's true that bacteria is becoming resistant to our antibiotics, and someday, maybe even soon, doxycycline won't work on these STIs, but it works now.
You'll find "a" study to support whatever you want to believe. Trust me on this one, or go ask your doc. Did you know Latin America C&G strain is resistant to most of our antibiotics? So if you are hitting the event immigrating visitors then you basically are eating candy, no effect on cure. This is why doctors are now prescribing stronger antibiotics and asking for re-test. 20 years ago maybe Doxy was standard, but not now. Not anymore. The strains are very resistant. You do what you want but most real doctors if you go for visit will not prescribe this "preventative" bull crap. It's snake oil. There are so many variables that come into play. Is it total waste? Maybe not. But it's slim chance and not worth the constant popping to become resistant when you really need it. The strains are mutating so much there are only handful of new antibiotics we can use to treat the resistant stuff. Pretty soon nothing will work and Goodluck to all with that.
BearsFan25
06-22-25, 16:23
I mostly do my STD testing at CVS but the locations aren't the best for me. Ya got any recs for quick and good testing in the city?
Recently did it at a Midwest Express walk in care place since they were able to process it under insurance. They use Quest Diagnostics to do the actual lab testing if you don't want to use insurance you can pay cash. Or just go directly to Quest they have tons of locations in the city (cash prices at Midwest and Quest were $250 for the expanded panel +$100 for HSV1/2 which you should def get herpes is running rampant these days).
I mostly do my STD testing at CVS but the locations aren't the best for me. Ya got any recs for quick and good testing in the city?
BojHunter85
06-23-25, 12:36
I mostly do my STD testing at CVS but the locations aren't the best for me. Ya got any recs for quick and good testing in the city?Look back a bit and you'll see that this has been discussed at length. Probably STDCheck.com is the best quickest and easiest anonymous resource. If you're sexually active and having unprotected sex with multiple partners especially in exchange for money, then its everyone's responsibility (including my own) to know their status. Get tested and test often and regularly. Results show up in a couple days and it costs less than $150 for a 10 panel test.
I mostly do my STD testing at CVS but the locations aren't the best for me. Ya got any recs for quick and good testing in the city?
Look back a bit and you'll see that this has been discussed at length. Probably STDCheck.com (https://www.jdoqocy.com/click-7901271-15733880) is the best quickest and easiest anonymous resource. If you're sexually active and having unprotected sex with multiple partners especially in exchange for money, then its everyone's responsibility (including my own) to know their status. Get tested and test often and regularly. Results show up in a couple days and it costs less than $150 for a 10 panel test.Yes, second what BojHunter85 said, STDCheck is pretty reliable. Not the cheapest, but the testing is fast (and anonymous) so the peace of mind is worth it, IMHO.
George Stark
07-01-25, 22:22
Yes, second what BojHunter85 said, STDCheck is pretty reliable. Not the cheapest, but the testing is fast (and anonymous) so the peace of mind is worth it, IMHO.I found it fast and easy, but my name was on the paperwork that went to the lab.
I found it fast and easy, but my name was on the paperwork that went to the lab.Thumbs up for starches. $139 for 10 panel test. We went to a Quest Lab to get it done. Fast and easy. Results the next day.
Call Me Slappy
08-14-25, 12:37
I, like others here, have used STDCheck in the past. I liked using them because I could pay with a gift card and not use my legal name.
Unfortunately I've been having issues with using a prepaid Vanilla gift card. I've worked both Vanilla and STD Check customer service, and can't fix the issue.
I don't want to tie any of my credit cards to a testing service. Anyone here have experience with other testing services?
Thanks,
Slappy.
I, like others here, have used STDCheck in the past. I liked using them because I could pay with a gift card and not use my legal name.
Unfortunately I've been having issues with using a prepaid Vanilla gift card. I've worked both Vanilla and STD Check customer service, and can't fix the issue.
I don't want to tie any of my credit cards to a testing service. Anyone here have experience with other testing services?
Thanks,
Slappy.Sending you a pm.
TokyoNights
12-19-25, 09:27
Anyone know how much an abortion cost? My SB claims that she's pregnant and has only been with me. Not sure I believe her but I have no way of verifying. She did send the name of the place and date and time. I offered to go take her but she is said her sister will take her and she is going to send me the bill. Looking for some advice here. She doesn't has my burner number but she does know where I live.
Anyone know how much an abortion cost? My SB claims that she's pregnant and has only been with me. Not sure I believe her but I have no way of verifying. She did send the name of the place and date and time. I offered to go take her but she is said her sister will take her and she is going to send me the bill. Looking for some advice here. She doesn't has my burner number but she does know where I live.All I can say, pay more attention.
With my SB, I do normal always covered and I take her in greek and cum inside her that way. Just pay attention. Even if I know that my SB goes only with me, I play it safe always.
Just pay the bill, since you have no other choice.
But start being smart and do it covered.
Anyone know how much an abortion cost? My SB claims that she's pregnant and has only been with me. Not sure I believe her but I have no way of verifying. She did send the name of the place and date and time. I offered to go take her but she is said her sister will take her and she is going to send me the bill. Looking for some advice here. She doesn't has my burner number but she does know where I live.Your sb is a damn liar. LOL. I would go there anyway despite what she says. If I'm paying I def want to be there.
Courtesyflush
12-20-25, 01:09
No sugar baby is monogamous; you get a fraction of her time. The rest of time is all her other dudes or bf.
Plan B is $12 - Did you see the ultrasound?
Tell her you believe in adoption not abortion and tell her to look at the bright side you can nut in her 9 months without worrying. Tell her you have been thinking about baby names and looking forward to her lactating breast milk.
Your sb is a damn liar. LOL. I would go there anyway despite what she says. If I'm paying I def want to be there.
Anyone know how much an abortion cost? My SB claims that she's pregnant and has only been with me. Not sure I believe her but I have no way of verifying. She did send the name of the place and date and time. I offered to go take her but she is said her sister will take her and she is going to send me the bill. Looking for some advice here. She doesn't has my burner number but she does know where I live.Forget the other advice here. Calm down and smarten up.
Ask to see a pregnancy test and if it's positive, get an at-home paternity test from Walgreens and tell her to take that. If you're a match then man up and pay for the abortion, if not then you're clear.
You're lucky she isn't saying she wants to keep it and make you pay child support. Think about it. You have a lot more to lose here than a few hundred bucks for an abortion.
Johnny Depth
12-21-25, 01:11
Forget the other advice here. Calm down and smarten up.
Ask to see a pregnancy test and if it's positive, get an at-home paternity test from Walgreens and tell her to take that. If you're a match then man up and pay for the abortion, if not then you're clear.
You're lucky she isn't saying she wants to keep it and make you pay child support. Think about it. You have a lot more to lose here than a few hundred bucks for an abortion.I think you're confused. Walgreens doesn't sell at-home prenatal paternity tests. Those are usually $500-1000, and usually require a blood draw from the mother and cheek swab from the suspected father.
TokyoNights
12-21-25, 10:10
Forget the other advice here. Calm down and smarten up.
Ask to see a pregnancy test and if it's positive, get an at-home paternity test from Walgreens and tell her to take that. If you're a match then man up and pay for the abortion, if not then you're clear.
You're lucky she isn't saying she wants to keep it and make you pay child support. Think about it. You have a lot more to lose here than a few hundred bucks for an abortion.How do you do a paternity test if the child isn't even born yet?
I think you're confused. Walgreens doesn't sell at-home prenatal paternity tests. Those are usually $500-1000, and usually require a blood draw from the mother and cheek swab from the suspected father.Yes, my mistake.
My advice to insist on a paternity test stands.
TokyoNights
12-22-25, 09:30
No sugar baby is monogamous; you get a fraction of her time. The rest of time is all her other dudes or bf.
Plan B is $12 - Did you see the ultrasound?
Tell her you believe in adoption not abortion and tell her to look at the bright side you can nut in her 9 months without worrying. Tell her you have been thinking about baby names and looking forward to her lactating breast milk.No ultra sound. Just the pregnancy test.
Anyone know how much an abortion cost? My SB claims that she's pregnant and has only been with me. Not sure I believe her but I have no way of verifying. She did send the name of the place and date and time. I offered to go take her but she is said her sister will take her and she is going to send me the bill. Looking for some advice here. She doesn't has my burner number but she does know where I live.I would really doubt that you were the only one she has been with. She could be sending the bill to 10 dudes for all you know.
Have her take a preg test in front of you first. I don't think the procedure is expensive through planned parenthood, but don't get scammed.
Good Luck.
Johnny Depth
12-23-25, 13:50
Yes, my mistake.
My advice to insist on a paternity test stands.Hmm. Insisting on her taking a pregnancy test in front of you seems like the less expensive option and a great start before a) her potentially having a kid and you requesting a paternity test, or b) shelling out close to a grand for a prenatal paternity test.
How do you do a paternity test if the child isn't even born yet?Prenatal paternity tests exist.
Hmm. Insisting on her taking a pregnancy test in front of you seems like the less expensive option and a great start before a) her potentially having a kid and you requesting a paternity test, or b) shelling out close to a grand for a prenatal paternity test.I literally say to do a pregnancy test first in my post.
Yeetsville
01-24-26, 10:22
Anyone know how much an abortion cost? My SB claims that she's pregnant and has only been with me. Not sure I believe her but I have no way of verifying. She did send the name of the place and date and time. I offered to go take her but she is said her sister will take her and she is going to send me the bill. Looking for some advice here. She doesn't has my burner number but she does know where I live.Last year I hooked up with a woman from seeking. Exactly one time. Wore protection but unfortunately it kinda slipped. A month later she told me she's pregnant. She also told me she didn't want me at the abortion place, she wanted to go with her sister, she wanted me to just give her the money directly and she'd send me a receipt afterwards (I swear all these scammers use the same playbook). I offered to pay for the entire thing but politely insisted that I pay the clinic directly. She ended up throwing a fit and "suddenly" found a way to get a shady abortion done, then switched to demanding money from me to "compensate for her time, pain, and inability to make money off other men from seeking" while she gets her "abortion".
My recommendation would be to insist on paying the clinic directly. Unfortunately a lot of SBs pull this shit where they pretend to be pregnant to extort men for abortion money. Insisting on paying the clinic directly is IMO the best way to protect yourself. The cost should be well under $1000 if it's early enough.
If she’s pregnant and there’s even the smallest chance you’re the father, just paying for the abortion is the safest path. I wouldn’t go out of my way to try to establish paternity before paying for an abortion. $500ish dollars vs the chance she changes her mind, decides to keep the baby (if there is a baby), and you’re on the hook for 18 years of child support. Not worth the risk IMO. But definitely pay the clinic directly. That’s my 2 cents.
Hey fellow hobbyists.
I had a question, where in Chicago suburbs can I get prep and doxypep fast and discretely?
And are they even worth getting on for a straight guy who often engages in risky behavior?
Any input is appreciated.
DivingDeep70
05-05-26, 14:03
With Asian apartments girls offering BBFS without tests, how is the disease not rampant? I can't post this topic on their thread because I get flagged but I am very curious how BBFS with a prostitute seeing so many guys is not a disease spreading machine. No one wants to post they got anything ever but yet the stats are facts. Even I think my one time catching a solvable bug was due to my 2 visits at Asian places and for BBBJ even not BBFS. Really curious because I like to visit them but now I'm hearing so many do BBFS for extra and I don't want any part of that lifelong friend.
Darth Cosmos
05-05-26, 21:00
With Asian apartments girls offering BBFS without tests, how is the disease not rampant? I can't post this topic on their thread because I get flagged but I am very curious how BBFS with a prostitute seeing so many guys is not a disease spreading machine. No one wants to post they got anything ever but yet the stats are facts. Even I think my one time catching a solvable bug was due to my 2 visits at Asian places and for BBBJ even not BBFS. Really curious because I like to visit them but now I'm hearing so many do BBFS for extra and I don't want any part of that lifelong friend.Me too.
I've only done it three times.
The last time especially with vivian at KP it felt so good to explode in that asian box.
Did like three in a row and was super nervous afterwards.
Got checked and thankfully all good.
Google said it's just as risky as BBBJ and have had hundreds of those in the past few years.
Maybe they do test the girls once in a while and then once they catch something they no longer offer bare or go to a spa?
Either way, the consequences out way the pleasure even though it is very pleasurable.
My default answer is no Way but every now and then the other head wins if you know what I mean.
Happy hobbies.
Darth.
Visconti5683
05-05-26, 21:29
I can also attest to getting a curable from a BBBJ at an AMP years ago. Stressful. I have quite a few years of absolute reckless behavior in the hobby and out. Is shit going around or it is much harder to catch things than we are led to believe? I see valid points from both sides of the argument but regardless I have been a safer guy lately. I might slip up but easing the internal stress playing it safe on most situations is worth it IMO.
With Asian apartments girls offering BBFS without tests, how is the disease not rampant? I can't post this topic on their thread because I get flagged but I am very curious how BBFS with a prostitute seeing so many guys is not a disease spreading machine. No one wants to post they got anything ever but yet the stats are facts. Even I think my one time catching a solvable bug was due to my 2 visits at Asian places and for BBBJ even not BBFS. Really curious because I like to visit them but now I'm hearing so many do BBFS for extra and I don't want any part of that lifelong friend.
OneRoadToWest
05-05-26, 22:06
Hey fellow hobbyists.
I had a question, where in Chicago suburbs can I get prep and doxypep fast and discretely?
And are they even worth getting on for a straight guy who often engages in risky behavior?
Any input is appreciated.Pretty sure you just order them online. Google something like "doxypep order online" and you should see it. I've not ordered but did search before. It doesn't require prescription.
TheRedStar
05-06-26, 02:43
Hey fellow hobbyists.
I had a question, where in Chicago suburbs can I get prep and doxypep fast and discretely?
And are they even worth getting on for a straight guy who often engages in risky behavior?
Any input is appreciated.Good question idk where you could find outside of a perception. But Doxy-pep is your best chance after you think you been exposed and Prep is before exposure. With Doxy-Pep, you have 48 hours and that gives you a significant defense against most STIs (bacterial). Prep is your defense against HIV, you take in advance to help fight against the viral load. I recommend you take a trip out the country pick up some doxy for standard bacteria, STDs I haven't found a country that you can get a regiment of prep but it's totally up to you in your lifestyle. If you got a trip to Brazil coming up get on prep when you land get some Doxy from the pharmacy that's pretty good practice. "I am not a your doctor in this is not medical advice. ".
HappyGardener
05-06-26, 08:22
Hey fellow hobbyists.
I had a question, where in Chicago suburbs can I get prep and doxypep fast and discretely?
And are they even worth getting on for a straight guy who often engages in risky behavior?
Any input is appreciated.You will need a prescription for Prep. There are on line resources for it. On line consults and then mail delivery. And if you are on it, you are supposed to be tested every three months for liver function snd HIV.
JangoFouts
05-06-26, 08:31
Hey fellow hobbyists.
I had a question, where in Chicago suburbs can I get prep and doxypep fast and discretely?
And are they even worth getting on for a straight guy who often engages in risky behavior?
Any input is appreciated.Genetic testing is available to see if you have the CCR5-delta32 deletion. I'm not sure of the cost, but piece of mind knowing if you are naturally resistant to HIV, or not, might be worth the cost.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/CCR5-%CE%9432
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