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Had a weird one yesterday. Started texting a girl and soon was beeing asked what I wanted very quickly. I said email me. I told whoever it was ppm 300 and I want 2 hr date 1 hr of fun. They came back and said you mean sex? I stopped after that. Girls profile had 1 pic and was 3 days old. Today profile has been deactivated. Might that have been LEO? Kinda worried today. TY.Paying for sex is illegal is MI. More than LEO this can be a setup by the girl to blackmail you.
BestDjInOhio
11-22-20, 11:19
Paying for sex is illegal is MI. More than LEO this can be a setup by the girl to blackmail you.Paying for sex I'm pretty sure is illegal in all fifty states. But yeah to respond to this, I don't think LEO is on seeking, I don't think they are even running stings as much any more in general. But I could be wrong.
I think the girl was just dumb, and didn't know any better and wanted you to be very clear of the expectations. What I would do is ask them if they are kinky. That right there sets my intentions in the right direction, and if she answers back that she is (girls will most all the time say yes they are kinky) then that tells me they are expecting sex to happen. And this also keeps everyone safe. I never once said we were going to get sexual, did I? I was merely asking if she was kinky, so I'm protected from the law but yet if she's real, she knows what's up.
Stay safe.
BestDjInOhio
11-22-20, 11:20
I passed after I saw her other pics. I ended up finding a different one that didn't look like a"pro" and that has a grip that's so tight it'll pull the nut out of me LOL.Damn! Now you got me curious. If you want to share her lmk, and I can share back.
This has been my experience too. I find it's the norm and not the exception. I have actually asked a couple of women if there is some website with scripts for these girls to use. You can practically predict the conversation after you've had a few of them. It is some crisis or they have been "burned" before and need to know if you are serious. It's a major annoyance and waste of time but it seems that's the path many women on the site have chosen.
I gave up on her. It seems like it is one sob story after another. Car broken, out of work, phone turned off, and a couple other things that hint at needing money. Then when a date to meet is set. Crickets.
She could be real but I have only seen a hassle to meet.
I've chatted with her a bit as well. But when she thought 90 minutes was a sufficient amount of time for a "date" I started pulling back. Which is too bad, she is very attractive and seems pretty easy to talk to. But she's maybe an hour from me and for $500, I can't justify spending more time in my car then I do playing, etc. Maybe I am just cheap but, to me, $500 means the better part of an afternoon together, something in the range of three hours? Some time to relax and just chill out. I dunno if I will try to resurrect our conversation or not.
She has been mentioned before; has anyone seen her recently? She's early 40's, I think she's $500 PPM, tall, dark hair locsted near downtown.
Anyway, she messaged me the other day and seemed eager to move things along. Down-to-earth and was punctual but no way I would pay $500 if that's true.
Her page said she's 420 friendly and who knows what else. Kind of on the fence.
Could not find her in SA, any one has a link.
And what's with girls asking $500 for 60 min. That's a 70" 4 K TV. LOL.
I've chatted with her a bit as well. But when she thought 90 minutes was a sufficient amount of time for a "date" I started pulling back. Which is too bad, she is very attractive and seems pretty easy to talk to. But she's maybe an hour from me and for $500, I can't justify spending more time in my car then I do playing, etc. Maybe I am just cheap but, to me, $500 means the better part of an afternoon together, something in the range of three hours? Some time to relax and just chill out. I dunno if I will try to resurrect our conversation or not.
She has been mentioned before; has anyone seen her recently? She's early 40's, I think she's $500 PPM, tall, dark hair locsted near downtown.
Anyway, she messaged me the other day and seemed eager to move things along. Down-to-earth and was punctual but no way I would pay $500 if that's true.
Her page said she's 420 friendly and who knows what else. Kind of on the fence.Quoted me 5. Sent me a couple photos. I might hit it for shits and giggles.
This one messaged me and said she used to work at Flight Club but can't do to Covid and wants 2500 - 3500 a month for unlimited meetings. I gave a hard counter of 300 a meet just to see the response, but she kept talking about her prior SD or something, haha. https://www.seeking.com/member/0f2de369-fb7b-43e2-9c39-7c0fdc9267fb.
MichiganMan686
11-23-20, 06:50
Love this guide. Long time hobbiest but new to SA. One last need of help. When you ask for the specifics of the arrangement do you do it in person, cell to cell, email? What is the safest way? I don't want to be foolish to the SB, s. TY agian. I'm looking all the time and once I'm meeting up with them Ill report back. Happy hunting my friends.
MichiganMan686
11-23-20, 06:56
Paying for sex is illegal is MI. More than LEO this can be a setup by the girl to blackmail you.To blackmail me? I'm divorced or is their another intent other than ratting me out to a SO?
Love this guide. Long time hobbiest but new to SA. One last need of help. When you ask for the specifics of the arrangement do you do it in person, cell to cell, email? What is the safest way? I don't want to be foolish to the SB, s. TY agian. I'm looking all the time and once I'm meeting up with them Ill report back. Happy hunting my friends.Person is the safest, but I tend to do it in text beforehand so as to not waste anyone's time.
Person is the safest, but I tend to do it in text beforehand so as to not waste anyone's time.Definitely discuss meeting particulars off-the site. I have heard that you can be kicked for discussing money / payments in the message area.
This one messaged me and said she used to work at Flight Club but can't do to Covid and wants 2500 - 3500 a month for unlimited meetings. I gave a hard counter of 300 a meet just to see the response, but she kept talking about her prior SD or something, haha. https://www.seeking.com/member/0f2de369-fb7b-43e2-9c39-7c0fdc9267fb.If she bites on the 300 let us know. She pops into my searches and she looks pretty tempting! Good Luck!
This one messaged me and said she used to work at Flight Club but can't do to Covid and wants 2500 - 3500 a month for unlimited meetings. I gave a hard counter of 300 a meet just to see the response, but she kept talking about her prior SD or something, haha. https://www.seeking.com/member/0f2de369-fb7b-43e2-9c39-7c0fdc9267fb.She was down to 2 K with me.
This has been my experience too. I find it's the norm and not the exception. I have actually asked a couple of women if there is some website with scripts for these girls to use. There clearly is some place that a lot of these girls get their profiles, as identical language turns up over and over:
"This isn't all about money for me, so please do not insult me by pretending it isn't part of the arrangement. Also if you are looking for intimacy before an arrangement, you are on the wrong website & profile. I do not get intimate with anyone until I am certain comfortable both financially and physically. If you can exceed my expectations I will certainly exceed yours. ".
"I am a force to be reckoned with, but emit only positivity -- something I'd love to see in the world. ".
Or the ones who say that we'll "have dinner by sunset on _ eating (insert fancy dish here) and sipping a 2017 (wine that she's never heard of). ".
I've seen this identical language scores of times, but I never contact any of them, so I have no idea if they're real people who just got a template for a profile somewhere or if they're just bots.
Does anyone know where this stuff comes from?
This one messaged me and said she used to work at Flight Club but can't do to Covid and wants 2500 - 3500 a month for unlimited meetings. I gave a hard counter of 300 a meet just to see the response, but she kept talking about her prior SD or something, haha. https://www.seeking.com/member/0f2de369-fb7b-43e2-9c39-7c0fdc9267fb.I am new to the site but have found it useful over the last couple years. I have had pretty good success with seeking. I have met a lot of very good looking girls, and a handful that I was fooled by filters. I figured it was time to share and help others. I usually get them to add me to their snap chat, if the aren't pros I usually learn their name at that time. Great way to prove they are who they are as well, utilising the snap option. I talked to this one, she agreed on three. Sent me a verification and a full body nude. Great body. She then tried to get me to send money for pics. So I do not know if she agreed to it just to try to up sell me. I can confirm she is legit though.
MichiganMan686
11-23-20, 20:43
She was down to 2 K with me.That one is also after me. I haven't negotiated yet but will report back. MM686.
BestDjInOhio
11-23-20, 20:57
Definitely discuss meeting particulars off-the site. I have heard that you can be kicked for discussing money / payments in the message area.Yes you absolutely can. Don't say anything about amount, or ppm or anything like that. I get their number within the first two messages and then never talk to them on the site ever again.
If a girl even say ppm, I reply with something like " that's against the terms of the site.
But shoot me over your number and we'll work something out".
That lets them know you're down but can't talk about it on site. If they push to only talk on the site before a number, I block them. It's not worth it. Getting harder and harder to create new accounts and get your money back when you're banned.
BestDjInOhio
11-23-20, 20:58
Person is the safest, but I tend to do it in text beforehand so as to not waste anyone's time.Yeah a lot of girls won't even meet up unless they have an amount told to them ahead of time. Smh. These girls feel they are entitled now a days.
HungaryMan
11-23-20, 22:06
This one messaged me and said she used to work at Flight Club but can't do to Covid and wants 2500 - 3500 a month for unlimited meetings. I gave a hard counter of 300 a meet just to see the response, but she kept talking about her prior SD or something, haha. https://www.seeking.com/member/0f2de369-fb7b-43e2-9c39-7c0fdc9267fb.Okay she wants 3 k and I would say then we will meet 30 times per month, depending on the month of course. Each time she would get 100 per meet. Of course I am not likely to get ANY further responses, or at least any kind ones.
Be careful on your messaging, all it takes is a girl to get pissed off and complain about you. My fault was asking "So will you spend the weekends with me for a 2 K I am paying you".
Definitely discuss meeting particulars off-the site. I have heard that you can be kicked for discussing money / payments in the message area.Yes, it is dumb. I got a warning / Temp ban a couple years ago because I talked about a per meet allowance, obviously the girl reported me for it. I argued with customer service about it, because in some of their blogs / official sa message board or something I saw girls talking about PPM. I said "How am I supposed to meet someone and not discuss an allowance, these girls are not meeting for free"(even though that is what the site tries to tell you to do, no girl is going to get together for nothing, most of the time).
At the same time, the girls constantly ask for money up front and try to sell pictures, which is also against the rules, and it seems like a lot of the time they do not get banned, or just keep coming back with new profile after new profile.
Ever since then I am extremely careful what I say in messages, and I move to get the conversation off SA and move to texting asap. Even then I generally make them initiate a payment option and find out what exactly they are interested in before I counter and state what I am interested in.
I haven't been a paid member on the site since Covid, because that just seemed to increase the number of scams and bs. "I won't meet in person because of covid". So, I cancelled about a month in and only now started browsing again, but haven't found anything worth re-activating the account yet.
She has sexted me. Lord all mighty she is beautiful. Has some tatts but no biggie there. Can't wait to trace with my tongue. I can't figure her game though. I've given her some $ but doesn't seem important to her. She's smart, English degree. But seems a bit lost. Likes alcohol it seems. Monday and Tuesday she agreed to go on my medical appointments. How boring for her. Her boobs are pink and pert. No kids, has an ex at 26. Man I would never have let that go. So hard to wait.
Guys. There are ladies of all ages to bid on for a date. It costs a bill or two to search and partake and I am getting hit on. Sure it's a SB / SD site but if I get some interest who knows for you. There are scammers but be selective and careful you might have some fun.I've met this gal a few times. Playing with the tatas and she introduced me to the dog. I think I'm good to go with more. Get a time setup for a couple of hours. She even feels comfortable having me come to her room. We meet, dogs there, his a big Doberman, very friendly to the point of being annoying. Dog settled down finally. Were on the bed chatting, and chatting. I start out with some petting. She is very nervous for some reason. She keeps talking and having a beer, gets a bit mad I'm to handy. I'm not listening she says. Want talk about how her x is in jail for kidnaping her and trying to kill her and his other x and blah, blah, blah. She go to walk the dog, leaving me in her room. I should have left at that point. She comes back to say she only can spent a half hour more with me. Ok, I really need more time than that. I want the GFE not the wambam. She's seems more receptive, and begin kissing, I pull her top down cup the handfuls. She has amazing boobs. She turns around, lowers my pants asks how can I make you hard. I'm 62 it takes a bit. Suck it please. She acts like that would be the last thing she would do at the moment. Moves up my body not even touching my jr. I flip her over on her back, kissing her belly trying to go lower and she stops me telling me she was spotting. I tell her I want to see how beautiful she. She says she doesn't do that. WTF. I managed to get some fingers in her wish she liked, but the odor started to come from below. Girls have a sent but this was a bit stronger than I am used too. I got her off, nothing from her for me. Takes my hand to the sink and washes my hand a basically send me out the door. WTF again, what just happened. I mean really why are you on the site to take $. And not put out after a few dates. I think the alcohol makes her brave but when it come down to play time she not willing. Some much beer in the room. I think she has a problem with more than one thing. Stay safe out there.
P.S. The dog was almost more fun.
Great exchange this morning with a diva out of Flint who calls herself Olahbaddie.
Baddie. Not going to waste no ones time what you looking for.
Me. Hookups.
Baddie. Yeah see glad I didn't waste no ones time. Goodbye.
Me. LOL! What are you looking for. Bootlickers?
Baddie. Goodbye.
I'm 99.9 percent certain this one is fake. She immediately started asking for financial help for little things (diapers, phone bill, etc.). I asked for more pictures, since there was only a head shot with her profile. After several days of delays, she finally sent some. The "dirty ones" she included, without me requesting them, were topless shots that didn't show her face. But I know Emily Ratajkowski's tits when I see them, and a Tineye search confirmed.
https://www.seeking.com/member/0c6303fa-d582-466f-8e8c-d46eab429257
https://www.seeking.com/member/4fc42d82-325b-426f-a04c-04a28ce65506
250. Someone else posted a review. I'll give it a shot at some point.
https://www.seeking.com/member/5a0b2cf8-f9ca-480c-9cc9-5b44fa1fa6b9
500 - I'll pass.
https://www.seeking.com/member/24421ee3-50f5-4a05-ad6d-09627816f42e
300. She's a dancer in one of the clubs. I'm going to check her out.
https://www.seeking.com/member/7902454f-e76e-420a-8494-f29807bf4751
500. The artiste. I've been texting with her and she seems pretty cool. Great body. I might hit it.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b6c06bcc-2852-4d97-92f0-0a479b35bc92
500. Hard to pin her down, but we've discussed a discount price for regular meetups.
https://www.seeking.com/member/7902454f-e76e-420a-8494-f29807bf4751
She is the one who wanted 3 k or 5 k some thing like that.
https://www.seeking.com/member/4fc42d82-325b-426f-a04c-04a28ce65506
250. Someone else posted a review. I'll give it a shot at some point.
https://www.seeking.com/member/5a0b2cf8-f9ca-480c-9cc9-5b44fa1fa6b9
500 - I'll pass.
https://www.seeking.com/member/24421ee3-50f5-4a05-ad6d-09627816f42e
300. She's a dancer in one of the clubs. I'm going to check her out.
https://www.seeking.com/member/7902454f-e76e-420a-8494-f29807bf4751
500. The artiste. I've been texting with her and she seems pretty cool. Great body. I might hit it.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b6c06bcc-2852-4d97-92f0-0a479b35bc92
500. Hard to pin her down, but we've discussed a discount price for regular meetups.
Met this one for dinner.
https://www.seeking.com/member/0398e11f-5ffe-45dd-8dd4-e6c33ef4f342
And been chatting for a few days. She says she wants a regular relationship with a nice guy, blah blah blah and that she never had a SD or she will never do PPM.
Has anyone else talked to her / met her?
Thanks.
J.
Met this one on match.
https://www.seeking.com/member/873683b6-ce8e-46f1-b7ec-aaa860339c5f
She is all about free meals.
Met this one for dinner.
https://www.seeking.com/member/0398e11f-5ffe-45dd-8dd4-e6c33ef4f342
And been chatting for a few days. She says she wants a regular relationship with a nice guy, blah blah blah and that she never had a SD or she will never do PPM.
Has anyone else talked to her / met her?
Thanks.
J.Same with this one https://www.seeking.com/member/46308995-155a-44e4-8cb1-6876bd16706e . Says never had a SD, not looking for a SD etc but I see them on the site like 24*7. LOL.
https://www.seeking.com/member/9df06d07-8a34-48ac-8698-2e5d75569391
She will meet and host but has some menu system. Said it usually ranges from 350 to 650.250 to meet and then it does up from there. I am a flat rate guy.
https://www.seeking.com/member/27c0760d-cfb7-4e40-aa90-8fa7c077173b
She wants 500 a week.
https://www.seeking.com/member/f6f99778-8d91-448b-a1d3-2c80c9f8c096
She is in Detroit but will come to you for 300.
https://www.seeking.com/member/eda3b93b-be15-4d2f-8770-bcf66c70daa9
Met this one a few times. Very fit as you can see. Wanted to meet in public for one drink before. That may be different now. Good experience and wants 300.
https://www.seeking.com/member/a6768d98-3d31-4717-bc86-e9ebc5a164f9
Wants 300 and is confirmed and has a great body. Haven't met yet do to scheduling.
https://www.seeking.com/member/99ff4be2-d8a8-4e1a-b44f-1340a9e4b9df
She asks for 5 but will take 3 and come to you. I have confirmed she is legit.
Holidays and work has made it tough and at this time I have quite a few on the hook so figured I would share some that I have met and no longer seeing or are lower on my list at the moment. I will post more a little later. I have some information on a lot and have snapped and verified a good amount of ladies on there.
https://www.seeking.com/member/eda3b93b-be15-4d2f-8770-bcf66c70daa9
She must be busy, ant get her.
https://www.seeking.com/member/9df06d07-8a34-48ac-8698-2e5d75569391
She will meet and host but has some menu system. Said it usually ranges from 350 to 650.250 to meet and then it does up from there. I am a flat rate guy.
https://www.seeking.com/member/27c0760d-cfb7-4e40-aa90-8fa7c077173b
She wants 500 a week.
https://www.seeking.com/member/f6f99778-8d91-448b-a1d3-2c80c9f8c096
She is in Detroit but will come to you for 300.
https://www.seeking.com/member/eda3b93b-be15-4d2f-8770-bcf66c70daa9
Met this one a few times. Very fit as you can see. Wanted to meet in public for one drink before. That may be different now. Good experience and wants 300.
https://www.seeking.com/member/a6768d98-3d31-4717-bc86-e9ebc5a164f9
Wants 300 and is confirmed and has a great body. Haven't met yet do to scheduling.
https://www.seeking.com/member/99ff4be2-d8a8-4e1a-b44f-1340a9e4b9df
She asks for 5 but will take 3 and come to you. I have confirmed she is legit.
Holidays and work has made it tough and at this time I have quite a few on the hook so figured I would share some that I have met and no longer seeing or are lower on my list at the moment. I will post more a little later. I have some information on a lot and have snapped and verified a good amount of ladies on there.
https://www.seeking.com/member/81be306f-00f6-4102-a45d-1bf004288244
Met up with her a while back. The first tims was drinks and a Room. It was pretty standard. Great rack a little bigger than you may think but not bad at all. If you get to date two, she will bring toys if you want, special outfits. She's a freak. She ask for three a meet.
https://www.seeking.com/member/9df06d07-8a34-48ac-8698-2e5d75569391
She will meet and host but has some menu system. Said it usually ranges from 350 to 650.250 to meet and then it does up from there. I am a flat rate guy.
https://www.seeking.com/member/27c0760d-cfb7-4e40-aa90-8fa7c077173b
She wants 500 a week.
https://www.seeking.com/member/f6f99778-8d91-448b-a1d3-2c80c9f8c096
She is in Detroit but will come to you for 300.
https://www.seeking.com/member/eda3b93b-be15-4d2f-8770-bcf66c70daa9
Met this one a few times. Very fit as you can see. Wanted to meet in public for one drink before. That may be different now. Good experience and wants 300.
https://www.seeking.com/member/a6768d98-3d31-4717-bc86-e9ebc5a164f9
Wants 300 and is confirmed and has a great body. Haven't met yet do to scheduling.
https://www.seeking.com/member/99ff4be2-d8a8-4e1a-b44f-1340a9e4b9df
She asks for 5 but will take 3 and come to you. I have confirmed she is legit.
Holidays and work has made it tough and at this time I have quite a few on the hook so figured I would share some that I have met and no longer seeing or are lower on my list at the moment. I will post more a little later. I have some information on a lot and have snapped and verified a good amount of ladies on there.Met with the last one. Review in the Lansing section. I think she took 250 because she lives in Lansing. Good deep oral action. Really tight downstairs. Took a minute to get the bottom. Of course that meant I didn't last long.
MichiganMan686
11-27-20, 09:20
Anyone check this one out? Seems legit. https://www.seeking.com/member/0f28c9a6-9cb9-4808-b66b-b33c8a4d68ea. Happy hunting. mm686
Anyone check this one out? Seems legit. https://www.seeking.com/member/0f28c9a6-9cb9-4808-b66b-b33c8a4d68ea. Happy hunting. mm686Asked for 350 settled for 3 but I think she would go lower. She has sent me snaps to shows she's at least here. She has two profiles on there which isn't common but I don't know that it's a problem. She will come to you. I saw a review on here where she was sending pics of her with another guy going at it.
Anyone check this one out? Seems legit. https://www.seeking.com/member/0f28c9a6-9cb9-4808-b66b-b33c8a4d68ea. Happy hunting. mm686Chatted with her, want 1 K for a meetup.
https://www.seeking.com/member/9df06d07-8a34-48ac-8698-2e5d75569391
She will meet and host but has some menu system. Said it usually ranges from 350 to 650.250 to meet and then it does up from there. I am a flat rate guy.
https://www.seeking.com/member/27c0760d-cfb7-4e40-aa90-8fa7c077173b
She wants 500 a week.
https://www.seeking.com/member/f6f99778-8d91-448b-a1d3-2c80c9f8c096
She is in Detroit but will come to you for 300.
https://www.seeking.com/member/eda3b93b-be15-4d2f-8770-bcf66c70daa9
Met this one a few times. Very fit as you can see. Wanted to meet in public for one drink before. That may be different now. Good experience and wants 300.
https://www.seeking.com/member/a6768d98-3d31-4717-bc86-e9ebc5a164f9
Wants 300 and is confirmed and has a great body. Haven't met yet do to scheduling.
https://www.seeking.com/member/99ff4be2-d8a8-4e1a-b44f-1340a9e4b9df
She asks for 5 but will take 3 and come to you. I have confirmed she is legit.
Holidays and work has made it tough and at this time I have quite a few on the hook so figured I would share some that I have met and no longer seeing or are lower on my list at the moment. I will post more a little later. I have some information on a lot and have snapped and verified a good amount of ladies on there.Thanks for the great information. Are any of the girls able to host (other than The Artiste, who does but has apparently taken down her profile)?
Thanks for the great information. Are any of the girls able to host (other than The Artiste, who does but has apparently taken down her profile)?I will look through some of my conversations. Finding ones that can host are tough. Almost all either live at home, have roommates, or kids at home. I have only been able to find a few. I would be interested if anyone has found them and are willing to share.
Met this one for dinner.
https://www.seeking.com/member/0398e11f-5ffe-45dd-8dd4-e6c33ef4f342
And been chatting for a few days. She says she wants a regular relationship with a nice guy, blah blah blah and that she never had a SD or she will never do PPM.
Has anyone else talked to her / met her?
Thanks.
J.Met her for lunch and drinks over the summer. Nice girl, great body, good confidence. My problem was she couldn't host and at the time, that's what I was looking for. She certainly was open to grabbing a room and getting down to business. I had a few more text chats with her, but never revisited and ended up finding what I needed.
MichiganMan686
11-28-20, 02:07
Met this one for dinner.
https://www.seeking.com/member/0398e11f-5ffe-45dd-8dd4-e6c33ef4f342
And been chatting for a few days. She says she wants a regular relationship with a nice guy, blah blah blah and that she never had a SD or she will never do PPM.
Has anyone else talked to her / met her?
Thanks.
J.Love the blah blah blah. I laugh my ass off everytime I read this post. Funny shit Jay23.
Saw this as her first request for a first date. Yes first date.
"My idea first date would involve being sent to a spa for beauty treatments in anticipation for a beautiful evening. I would then be sent to pick up a gorgeous dress and shoes. I'd arrive to dinner to meet an exciting gentleman where we have an amazing level of chemistry, laughs, and converse all night until we look up and realize we've been out much past the time we intended. ".
Is this all because of the movie "Pretty Women".
JadooMazar
11-28-20, 18:16
Have you guys noticed some girls on SA are also on Tinder. I am just wondering if anybody used Tinder and got hold of the girls instead of SA?
I am thinking of renewing my SA membership and debating if I just get a Tinder membership instead. Tinder seems to have a lot of good looking girls than SA.
Thoughts please?
Thanks,
JM.
I am seeing the same girls on Hing, Match, SA, Whatsyourprice and Tinder. These girls have a lot of time on their hands.
The only issue with Tinder is you can't message the girl until she also likes you.
Have you guys noticed some girls on SA are also on Tinder. I am just wondering if anybody used Tinder and got hold of the girls instead of SA?
I am thinking of renewing my SA membership and debating if I just get a Tinder membership instead. Tinder seems to have a lot of good looking girls than SA.
Thoughts please?
Thanks,
JM.
JadooMazar
11-28-20, 18:42
I am seeing the same girls on Hing, Match, SA, Whatsyourprice and Tinder. These girls have a lot of time on their hands.
The only issue with Tinder is you can't message the girl until she also likes you.Wow Match also. I thought Match for girls looking for serious relationships, that's interesting. Thanks for the info.
Wow Match also. I thought Match for girls looking for serious relationships, that's interesting. Thanks for the info.I went out on one date with a girl from match, she talked about how she goes to church, doesn't like to have sex until we are serious, etc, then I see her on SA.
Have you guys noticed some girls on SA are also on Tinder. I am just wondering if anybody used Tinder and got hold of the girls instead of SA?
I am thinking of renewing my SA membership and debating if I just get a Tinder membership instead. Tinder seems to have a lot of good looking girls than SA.
Thoughts please?
Thanks,
JM.I've seen lots of double ups and typically will message them on Tinder / Bumble because same thing for free, obviously.
Set up an account on Tinder but can't figure out how it's free? Seems like you have to pay for everything there too.
https://www.seeking.com/member/a4289208-3776-4019-ba0c-0327838fd967
This lemontart wants 500.
https://www.seeking.com/member/a4289208-3776-4019-ba0c-0327838fd967
This lemontart wants 500.I think there is this unwritten rule on SA that every girl needs to ask $500 . But that's better than 3 K one asked me.
Set up an account on Tinder but can't figure out how it's free? Seems like you have to pay for everything there too.Are you sure you're on actual Tinder and didn't get on some scam version? You only pay if you want to see who swiped you right before swiping them right as well, which is kind of pointless unless you're just lazy (which I've been at times, especially when traveling).
I think there is this unwritten rule on SA that every girl needs to ask $500 . But that's better than 3 K one asked me.Here's my take. Some of you are probably not going to like it. Some of these girls look good enough for the 5. They know it and they're getting it. Which is why some of you are complaining that you can't get any dates at a lower pricing point. If I like the look of the girl, I'll agree to pay the 5 up front. With stipulations. 1. I have to do a meet and greet so I can evaluate in person. This will pretty much tell you all you need to know. I usually offer to pay them for the meet and greet, but do not commit to a price. Pay accordingly for the meet and greet. Do you want to see them again or not? 2. If I move forward with the next date and pay the 5, I always negotiate from that point on. Most will come down if you see them on a semi-regular basis. 3. Be upfront with your expectations. No quickies. I like to take my time. Most will spend an hour and 1/2 to two hours with you. So now your hourly rate is reduced. IMO, you're getting a better class of girl than you would get on LC or STG and that to me is worth the extra cost.
https://www.seeking.com/member/a4289208-3776-4019-ba0c-0327838fd967
This lemontart wants 500.I've had some communication with her, with the same price quote. She seemed like at least a semi-pro and not particularly nice.
I've had some communication with her, with the same price quote. She seemed like at least a semi-pro and not particularly nice.Yeah, that's a pretty accurate assessment based on my comms too. I'm supposed to see one of the strippers I mentioned in another post, this evening. Better pricing point and definitely friendlier. I'll report back.
Does anyone have any info on this one?
https://www.seeking.com/member/92f18726-0219-4462-9ccd-4729cb9044c4
The Emmy Goes2
12-02-20, 15:39
https://www.seeking.com/member/a4289208-3776-4019-ba0c-0327838fd967
This lemontart wants 500.Took her out a couple years ago. Way heavier than pics. Totally disinterested during dinner. Texting the whole time. I cut things short. We were downtown, and she asked me to give her a ride to where her friends were. It was actually easier than taking her home, so I did. When we got there she said I should give her $100 for her time. I said, not a chance. We were meeting to discuss an opportunity. It was not an opportunity I wanted. Offered handy for the $100, and I still passed. Save your time and money.
Took her out a couple years ago. Way heavier than pics. Totally disinterested during dinner. Texting the whole time. I cut things short. We were downtown, and she asked me to give her a ride to where her friends were. It was actually easier than taking her home, so I did. When we got there she said I should give her $100 for her time. I said, not a chance. We were meeting to discuss an opportunity. It was not an opportunity I wanted. Offered handy for the $100, and I still passed. Save your time and money.Damn, that sucks. Thanks for the heads up. That's why I always do a meet and greet first.
So I have had good results in the past but lately it seems like you have to act faster. I have been on and of SA for the past 4 years. Been back on for 2 weeks, and meet 2 and they were amazing experiences but have obligations that don't allow me to see them when I want. Each of those I met same day. All others, really seams if you let it sit out there for more than 72 hours after talking. You're waiting your time. There seem to be less women and I assume just as many guys, so act fast.
MichiganMan686
12-03-20, 06:49
Took her out a couple years ago. Way heavier than pics. Totally disinterested during dinner. Texting the whole time. I cut things short. We were downtown, and she asked me to give her a ride to where her friends were. It was actually easier than taking her home, so I did. When we got there she said I should give her $100 for her time. I said, not a chance. We were meeting to discuss an opportunity. It was not an opportunity I wanted. Offered handy for the $100, and I still passed. Save your time and money.Not that I know what I'm doing yet but I've been meeting at like a Meijer and walking around and discussing details Your situation sounded horrible. You did the right thing. Good for you.
Here's my take. Some of you are probably not going to like it. Some of these girls look good enough for the 5. They know it and they're getting it. Which is why some of you are complaining that you can't get any dates at a lower pricing point. If I like the look of the girl, I'll agree to pay the 5 up front. With stipulations. 1. I have to do a meet and greet so I can evaluate in person. This will pretty much tell you all you need to know. I usually offer to pay them for the meet and greet, but do not commit to a price. Pay accordingly for the meet and greet. Do you want to see them again or not? 2. If I move forward with the next date and pay the 5, I always negotiate from that point on. Most will come down if you see them on a semi-regular basis. 3. Be upfront with your expectations. No quickies. I like to take my time. Most will spend an hour and 1/2 to two hours with you. So now your hourly rate is reduced. IMO, you're getting a better class of girl than you would get on LC or STG and that to me is worth the extra cost.I agree with that. I've talked most down to 3 or less in general, but the women that I've been fine with paying 5 for were legitimately hot enough to be pro cheerleaders, ACTUAL models and such. In those cases, it becomes, "why would you expect them to take 200?" Especially, as you state, you aren't just meeting them at a hotel; you're actually hanging out with them all evening.
I agree with that. I've talked most down to 3 or less in general, but the women that I've been fine with paying 5 for were legitimately hot enough to be pro cheerleaders, ACTUAL models and such. In those cases, it becomes, "why would you expect them to take 200?" Especially, as you state, you aren't just meeting them at a hotel; you're actually hanging out with them all evening.Is $500 for an hour or for a night. ?
https://www.seeking.com/member/1c2ec9f2-c9af-47f0-b3d7-c9f25714dc59
This is a little old but I've been a little busy lately and forgot to post. Comms were good online. She asked to move to text which was cool. She everything is going good with us both laying out what we are looking for. She asks if we can meet the same day. I'm like "sure". My schedule was open. She asks if we can meet at Harbor House on Groesbeck and like 14 mile. She says its only a few blocks from her place. If things go well, we can go back there after we meet. Great! Well, an hour or so before we are supposed to meet, she hits me up and says her B-Daddy came to gets the kids but he left the youngest which is like 3 months old. She asks if its ok if she brings him or we can reschedule. Something should have told me then to reschedule but I was thinking with the little head and not the correct one. I tell her its not problem but how are going to have fun back at her place after if things go well. She says it won't be an issue, she'll just put him down to sleep. Cool.
I get to the restaurant and she arrives 20 minutes later. She the same girl. Petite. With some nice breasts and a very pretty face. She co. Es in with this huge stroller. Lmao. I was like WTF? Anyway she sits down and we chat for a sec and then the waitress comes up. Without hesitating she orders an alcoholic beverage. 1st red flag. Then she calls herself being polite and only orders an appetizer. Lmao. Mind you, this place isn't the cheapest.
Then during the meal. She gets up and goes and starts taking food from the salad bar and packing it for home! I mean soup in takeout containers and everything. Its like this girl hasn't eaten in weeks. So its getting to the end of the meal and I ask her is everything going well enough to head back to her place. She says yes. But. We have to hurry because her B-Daddy might be on his way back. What?
I tell her that ok. I'm cool on that. She gets all sad and starts begging me to come back with her because she needs the money. She calls the dude in FaceTime (FYI. I had to turn on my mobile Hotspot because her phone is actually not in service. Smh). She asks him where he is. And tells him the baby needs some more milk or something and he needs to go to the store. We get to her place and she puts the baby in his little walker and we go upstairs. She's kinds rushing me, but also trying not to but I can tell she's nervous. I get partially undressed and she starts with a BJ. Very good actually. Then she straddled me and we finished in missionary. She started off like she was just ready to get it over with. But during the action. She actually started getting into it. Moaning and saying my name and asking me to go harder and faster because she wanted to cum. I wasnt caring about her coming. I finished and got the hell out of there.
So overall. Cool chick but kinda ratchet. Brought he kid to a fuckin date with a stranger. Action was good and I feel if we had time with no worries about the baby dad. She would have been much better. She's a freak. Likes it in all holes. At least that's what she said.
Not sure if I would repeat. Didn't like how she just started ordering shit at the restaurant. Spent 70 bucks on that meal. Damage for fun was $150 even though she was adamant about wanting $200.
What's with all these girls having kids at a young age, I met a 35 year on match.com who has a 20-year-old son. So she had him at 15.
Is it the lack of sex education in this country? We teach kids not to have a STD but having kids at a young age is ok.
https://www.seeking.com/member/1c2ec9f2-c9af-47f0-b3d7-c9f25714dc59
This is a little old but I've been a little busy lately and forgot to post. Comms were good online. She asked to move to text which was cool. She everything is going good with us both laying out what we are looking for. She asks if we can meet the same day. I'm like "sure". My schedule was open. She asks if we can meet at Harbor House on Groesbeck and like 14 mile. She says its only a few blocks from her place. If things go well, we can go back there after we meet. Great! Well, an hour or so before we are supposed to meet, she hits me up and says her B-Daddy came to gets the kids but he left the youngest which is like 3 months old. She asks if its ok if she brings him or we can reschedule. Something should have told me then to reschedule but I was thinking with the little head and not the correct one. I tell her its not problem but how are going to have fun back at her place after if things go well. She says it won't be an issue, she'll just put him down to sleep. Cool.
I get to the restaurant and she arrives 20 minutes later. She the same girl. Petite. With some nice breasts and a very pretty face. She co. Es in with this huge stroller. Lmao. I was like WTF? Anyway she sits down and we chat for a sec and then the waitress comes up. Without hesitating she orders an alcoholic beverage. 1st red flag. Then she calls herself being polite and only orders an appetizer. Lmao. Mind you, this place isn't the cheapest.
Then during the meal. She gets up and goes and starts taking food from the salad bar and packing it for home! I mean soup in takeout containers and everything. Its like this girl hasn't eaten in weeks. So its getting to the end of the meal and I ask her is everything going well enough to head back to her place. She says yes. But. We have to hurry because her B-Daddy might be on his way back. What?
I tell her that ok. I'm cool on that. She gets all sad and starts begging me to come back with her because she needs the money. She calls the dude in FaceTime (FYI. I had to turn on my mobile Hotspot because her phone is actually not in service. Smh). She asks him where he is. And tells him the baby needs some more milk or something and he needs to go to the store. We get to her place and she puts the baby in his little walker and we go upstairs. She's kinds rushing me, but also trying not to but I can tell she's nervous. I get partially undressed and she starts with a BJ. Very good actually. Then she straddled me and we finished in missionary. She started off like she was just ready to get it over with. But during the action. She actually started getting into it. Moaning and saying my name and asking me to go harder and faster because she wanted to cum. I wasnt caring about her coming. I finished and got the hell out of there.
So overall. Cool chick but kinda ratchet. Brought he kid to a fuckin date with a stranger. Action was good and I feel if we had time with no worries about the baby dad. She would have been much better. She's a freak. Likes it in all holes. At least that's what she said.
Not sure if I would repeat. Didn't like how she just started ordering shit at the restaurant. Spent 70 bucks on that meal. Damage for fun was $150 even though she was adamant about wanting $200.
Is $500 for an hour or for a night. ?The whole time she spends with me, whatever that is. I rarely actually sleep with anyone, so typically a long evening. In the past, I have had a couple that have slept over though, but thats either because we both got wasted or trust was established.
This one wanted 5/ hr and got all pissy when I declined. Too fat in the ass for my liking, but to each their own.
https://www.seeking.com/member/1c2ec9f2-c9af-47f0-b3d7-c9f25714dc59
This is a little old but I've been a little busy lately and forgot to post. Comms were good online. She asked to move to text which was cool. She everything is going good with us both laying out what we are looking for. She asks if we can meet the same day. I'm like "sure". My schedule was open. She asks if we can meet at Harbor House on Groesbeck and like 14 mile. She says its only a few blocks from her place. If things go well, we can go back there after we meet. Great! Well, an hour or so before we are supposed to meet, she hits me up and says her B-Daddy came to gets the kids but he left the youngest which is like 3 months old. She asks if its ok if she brings him or we can reschedule. Something should have told me then to reschedule but I was thinking with the little head and not the correct one. I tell her its not problem but how are going to have fun back at her place after if things go well. She says it won't be an issue, she'll just put him down to sleep. Cool.
I get to the restaurant and she arrives 20 minutes later. She the same girl. Petite. With some nice breasts and a very pretty face. She co. Es in with this huge stroller. Lmao. I was like WTF? Anyway she sits down and we chat for a sec and then the waitress comes up. Without hesitating she orders an alcoholic beverage. 1st red flag. Then she calls herself being polite and only orders an appetizer. Lmao. Mind you, this place isn't the cheapest.
Then during the meal. She gets up and goes and starts taking food from the salad bar and packing it for home! I mean soup in takeout containers and everything. Its like this girl hasn't eaten in weeks. So its getting to the end of the meal and I ask her is everything going well enough to head back to her place. She says yes. But. We have to hurry because her B-Daddy might be on his way back. What?I met this one right before the lock down. No kids, seemed nervous. Head was good, she wanted to leave here shirt on, seems like she may have been pregnant by your story. Depending on when you met. Had a messed up tooth which through me off. No furniture, she said she just moved in. She is a heavy smoker. Overall the action was good. Would maybe repeat in a pinch but not make it a regular thing.
https://www.seeking.com/member/1c2ec9f2-c9af-47f0-b3d7-c9f25714dc59
This is a little old but I've been a little busy lately and forgot to post. Comms were good online. She asked to move to text which was cool. She everything is going good with us both laying out what we are looking for. She asks if we can meet the same day. I'm like "sure". My schedule was open. She asks if we can meet at Harbor House on Groesbeck and like 14 mile. She says its only a few blocks from her place. If things go well, we can go back there after we meet. Great! Well, an hour or so before we are supposed to meet, she hits me up and says her B-Daddy came to gets the kids but he left the youngest which is like 3 months old. She asks if its ok if she brings him or we can reschedule. Something should have told me then to reschedule but I was thinking with the little head and not the correct one. I tell her its not problem but how are going to have fun back at her place after if things go well. She says it won't be an issue, she'll just put him down to sleep. Cool.
I get to the restaurant and she arrives 20 minutes later. She the same girl. Petite. With some nice breasts and a very pretty face. She co. Es in with this huge stroller. Lmao. I was like WTF? Anyway she sits down and we chat for a sec and then the waitress comes up. Without hesitating she orders an alcoholic beverage. 1st red flag. Then she calls herself being polite and only orders an appetizer. Lmao. Mind you, this place isn't the cheapest.
Then during the meal. She gets up and goes and starts taking food from the salad bar and packing it for home! I mean soup in takeout containers and everything. Its like this girl hasn't eaten in weeks. So its getting to the end of the meal and I ask her is everything going well enough to head back to her place. She says yes. But. We have to hurry because her B-Daddy might be on his way back. What?.I had a similar experience with her. Same restaurant. Didn't bring her kid with her but was nearly a half hour late. I had a parking spot at the front door so waited until she arrived. Her phone was was out of service also at the time. First thing she does is order a double. Bangs that down and orders another. Same thing with going to the salad bar. Waitress knows her by name during meal she tells me the whole history of the restaurant owners. I'm guessing she brings so many of us there that they don't raise a fuss over her attack of the salad bar. Along with you dinner wasn't cheap. When we left got into my car and I told her I was out of time would have to make it another day and drove her to her condo / apartment. Never called her back. Agree with you that she has a nice face and body.
JadooMazar
12-03-20, 18:56
Has anyone seen this one? I have been texting with her for a few days. Decent comms replies to regular questions. She is willing to meet but apparently she had a bad experience with in the last relationship and wants 100 or so before we first meet. She seems genuine but my spider sense is tingling. Advice?
https://www.seeking.com/member/58370791-cf30-4a4b-b329-7483a7818b92
Thanks in advance.
JM.
Has anyone seen this one? I have been texting with her for a few days. Decent comms replies to regular questions. She is willing to meet but apparently she had a bad experience with in the last relationship and wants 100 or so before we first meet. She seems genuine but my spider sense is tingling. Advice?
https://www.seeking.com/member/58370791-cf30-4a4b-b329-7483a7818b92
Thanks in advance.
JM.She's been reviewed before. Can't remember when. Was not a great review. Search this SA thread and you should find it.
Any one met https://www.seeking.com/member/61a14812-9189-fc12-e218-db5260bd6159.
She sounds nice in emails and texts. Any one met her?
SlightlyHere
12-03-20, 20:24
Any one met https://www.seeking.com/member/61a14812-9189-fc12-e218-db5260bd6159.
She sounds nice in emails and texts. Any one met her?I've wanted to meet her. For sure.
I've wanted to meet her. For sure.I have met here. Awesome conversation. Even more attractive in person. Total GFE. Reasonable as well. Pm for more info.
Has anyone seen this one? I have been texting with her for a few days. Decent comms replies to regular questions. She is willing to meet but apparently she had a bad experience with in the last relationship and wants 100 or so before we first meet. She seems genuine but my spider sense is tingling. Advice?
https://www.seeking.com/member/58370791-cf30-4a4b-b329-7483a7818b92
Thanks in advance.
JM.Don't ever send one of these women money before you meet them in person.
Ever.
MichiganMan686
12-04-20, 01:29
https://www.seeking.com/member/1c2ec9f2-c9af-47f0-b3d7-c9f25714dc59
This is a little old but I've been a little busy lately and forgot to post. Comms were good online. She asked to move to text which was cool. She everything is going good with us both laying out what we are looking for. She asks if we can meet the same day. I'm like "sure". My schedule was open. She asks if we can meet at Harbor House on Groesbeck and like 14 mile. She says its only a few blocks from her place. If things go well, we can go back there after we meet. Great! Well, an hour or so before we are supposed to meet, she hits me up and says her B-Daddy came to gets the kids but he left the youngest which is like 3 months old. She asks if its ok if she brings him or we can reschedule. Something should have told me then to reschedule but I was thinking with the little head and not the correct one. I tell her its not problem but how are going to have fun back at her place after if things go well. She says it won't be an issue, she'll just put him down to sleep. Cool.
I get to the restaurant and she arrives 20 minutes later. She the same girl. Petite. With some nice breasts and a very pretty face. She co. Es in with this huge stroller. Lmao. I was like WTF? Anyway she sits down and we chat for a sec and then the waitress comes up. Without hesitating she orders an alcoholic beverage. 1st red flag. Then she calls herself being polite and only orders an appetizer. Lmao. Mind you, this place isn't the cheapest.
Then during the meal. She gets up and goes and starts taking food from the salad bar and packing it for home! I mean soup in takeout containers and everything. Its like this girl hasn't eaten in weeks. So its getting to the end of the meal and I ask her is everything going well enough to head back to her place. She says yes. But. We have to hurry because her B-Daddy might be on his way back. What?
I tell her that ok. I'm cool on that. She gets all sad and starts begging me to come back with her because she needs the money. She calls the dude in FaceTime (FYI. I had to turn on my mobile Hotspot because her phone is actually not in service. Smh). She asks him where he is. And tells him the baby needs some more milk or something and he needs to go to the store. We get to her place and she puts the baby in his little walker and we go upstairs. She's kinds rushing me, but also trying not to but I can tell she's nervous. I get partially undressed and she starts with a BJ. Very good actually. Then she straddled me and we finished in missionary. She started off like she was just ready to get it over with. But during the action. She actually started getting into it. Moaning and saying my name and asking me to go harder and faster because she wanted to cum. I wasnt caring about her coming. I finished and got the hell out of there.
So overall. Cool chick but kinda ratchet. Brought he kid to a fuckin date with a stranger. Action was good and I feel if we had time with no worries about the baby dad. She would have been much better. She's a freak. Likes it in all holes. At least that's what she said.
Not sure if I would repeat. Didn't like how she just started ordering shit at the restaurant. Spent 70 bucks on that meal. Damage for fun was $150 even though she was adamant about wanting $200.Lmao. This is funny shit. I really can't believe the salad bar part. I would have been like WTF? Too funny. Ty for sharing. Mm686.
GuyDetroit
12-04-20, 08:16
Lolomonamour quoted me 400, see if I can get her down to 300 and it would be a possible go.
Has anyone seen this one? I have been texting with her for a few days. Decent comms replies to regular questions. She is willing to meet but apparently she had a bad experience with in the last relationship and wants 100 or so before we first meet. She seems genuine but my spider sense is tingling. Advice?
https://www.seeking.com/member/58370791-cf30-4a4b-b329-7483a7818b92
Thanks in advance.
JM.I'm not sure I understand "She seems genuine but my spider sense is tingling. " When my spider sense is tingling, I assume they aren't genuine. LOL.
I agree that her profile is appealing, but I passed her by. See posts #1357 and 1358. Neither of us saw her, but both of us had the same sense. English clearly is not her first language (at least not the first language of whoever writes her messages). She sent me a nice nude, but it wasn't enough to overcome my suspicion. We didn't get far enough with setting anything up where the issue of advance payment came up. That would have been the icing on the cake for me. I'm not saying that the probability is zero that you'll end up meeting with someone you sent money to in advance, but it rounds to zero. LOL.
What's with all these girls having kids at a young age, I met a 35 year on match.com who has a 20-year-old son. So she had him at 15.Or she lied about her age. LOL.
Lolomonamour quoted me 400, see if I can get her down to 300 and it would be a possible go.She quoted me 500 awhile ago so it seems she has already gone down. Gave me mad attitude when I asked for pictures, and I didn't ask for nudes or anything, just more photos and access to her private photos. Soon as I got the attitude I stopped talking to her, didn't even attempt to negotiate after that. I'm not going to bend the knee and reward crappy behavior when there are a lot more out there who don't exhibit such a poor attitude, which is always a red flag that more problems are on the horizon.
FunnyBoner
12-05-20, 14:33
Has anyone seen this one? I have been texting with her for a few days. Decent comms replies to regular questions. She is willing to meet but apparently she had a bad experience with in the last relationship and wants 100 or so before we first meet. She seems genuine but my spider sense is tingling. Advice?
https://www.seeking.com/member/58370791-cf30-4a4b-b329-7483a7818b92
Thanks in advance.
JM.Well I saw her post in another state recently (Tennessee I think maybe?). Doesn't mean a whole lot, but it through up a red flag for me and I removed her from my favorites because of it. I see she is again posting in Northville now. Just something I observed FWIW.
Robertin75
12-06-20, 08:28
Well I saw her post in another state recently (Tennessee I think maybe?). Doesn't mean a whole lot, but it through up a red flag for me and I removed her from my favorites because of it. I see she is again posting in Northville now. Just something I observed FWIW.Stay away! Let me repeat it: Stay away! She's a scammer!
King Python
12-06-20, 11:22
Thank you for this post, I almost met up with her last month. You can't make that shit up. Happy hunting.
https://www.seeking.com/member/1c2ec9f2-c9af-47f0-b3d7-c9f25714dc59
This is a little old but I've been a little busy lately and forgot to post. Comms were good online. She asked to move to text which was cool. She everything is going good with us both laying out what we are looking for. She asks if we can meet the same day. I'm like "sure". My schedule was open. She asks if we can meet at Harbor House on Groesbeck and like 14 mile. She says its only a few blocks from her place. If things go well, we can go back there after we meet. Great! Well, an hour or so before we are supposed to meet, she hits me up and says her B-Daddy came to gets the kids but he left the youngest which is like 3 months old. She asks if its ok if she brings him or we can reschedule. Something should have told me then to reschedule but I was thinking with the little head and not the correct one. I tell her its not problem but how are going to have fun back at her place after if things go well. She says it won't be an issue, she'll just put him down to sleep. Cool.
I get to the restaurant and she arrives 20 minutes later. She the same girl. Petite. With some nice breasts and a very pretty face. She co. Es in with this huge stroller. Lmao. I was like WTF? Anyway she sits down and we chat for a sec and then the waitress comes up. Without hesitating she orders an alcoholic beverage. 1st red flag. Then she calls herself being polite and only orders an appetizer. Lmao. Mind you, this place isn't the cheapest.
Then during the meal. She gets up and goes and starts taking food from the salad bar and packing it for home! I mean soup in takeout containers and everything. Its like this girl hasn't eaten in weeks. So its getting to the end of the meal and I ask her is everything going well enough to head back to her place. She says yes. But. We have to hurry because her B-Daddy might be on his way back. What?
I tell her that ok. I'm cool on that. She gets all sad and starts begging me to come back with her because she needs the money. She calls the dude in FaceTime (FYI. I had to turn on my mobile Hotspot because her phone is actually not in service. Smh). She asks him where he is. And tells him the baby needs some more milk or something and he needs to go to the store. We get to her place and she puts the baby in his little walker and we go upstairs. She's kinds rushing me, but also trying not to but I can tell she's nervous. I get partially undressed and she starts with a BJ. Very good actually. Then she straddled me and we finished in missionary. She started off like she was just ready to get it over with. But during the action. She actually started getting into it. Moaning and saying my name and asking me to go harder and faster because she wanted to cum. I wasnt caring about her coming. I finished and got the hell out of there.
So overall. Cool chick but kinda ratchet. Brought he kid to a fuckin date with a stranger. Action was good and I feel if we had time with no worries about the baby dad. She would have been much better. She's a freak. Likes it in all holes. At least that's what she said.
Not sure if I would repeat. Didn't like how she just started ordering shit at the restaurant. Spent 70 bucks on that meal. Damage for fun was $150 even though she was adamant about wanting $200.
JadooMazar
12-06-20, 15:17
I'm not sure I understand "She seems genuine but my spider sense is tingling. " When my spider sense is tingling, I assume they aren't genuine. LOL.
I agree that her profile is appealing, but I passed her by. See posts #1357 and 1358. Neither of us saw her, but both of us had the same sense. English clearly is not her first language (at least not the first language of whoever writes her messages). She sent me a nice nude, but it wasn't enough to overcome my suspicion. We didn't get far enough with setting anything up where the issue of advance payment came up. That would have been the icing on the cake for me. I'm not saying that the probability is zero that you'll end up meeting with someone you sent money to in advance, but it rounds to zero. LOL.LOL, I wanted to say Spidey sense but got autocorrected while typing. Thank you all for the input!
So anyways, I decided to play a little bit and keep texting. I asked for nudes and she sent me a nice pic. She tells me her terms, tells me a story how a guy met her and promised to pay after meeting but kicked her out blah blah and she does not want to get in the same situation. I told her if you just want proof I am real and serious I will send you 10. She is like, you seem genuine but I cannot take anything below 50.
I am going to pass based on the information received from you guys but if she changes her mind and meets me I will let you know. My gut tells me its a scam.
Well I saw her post in another state recently (Tennessee I think maybe?). Doesn't mean a whole lot, but it through up a red flag for me and I removed her from my favorites because of it. I see she is again posting in Northville now. Just something I observed FWIW.I believe she was posting that she was in Nashville.
Messaged with this one, who said she was a student and a Muslim. She said she had been in an arranged marriage with a man in Africa, who died of old age. She added that she was a virgin, and had a previous arrangement where she sent pictures and videos to the guy in return for electronic payments. That's got to be the most obvious scam story I've heard in my time on Seeking.
https://www.seeking.com/member/36e1dc1c-5df8-4105-a95d-dcba094d5c52
SlightlyHere
12-07-20, 12:55
Any one met https://www.seeking.com/member/61a14812-9189-fc12-e218-db5260bd6159.
She sounds nice in emails and texts. Any one met her?Delete some messages from your inbox.
ILuvThisTown29
12-08-20, 15:17
So talked with this girl for About a week but something strange happened I ran into her dating profile on Fb found out she not 21 she 38. That should've been my first red flag so we talked arrangement took a few pics and come to find out she is um not curvey. But a fat little dwarf. Talking to me like she had curves. She wanted to meet at a Starbucks in target. I walked in and walked out and text her that I had something come up.
Delete some messages from your inbox.Hit me up if you've got the scoop. I'll trade you some intel on a lemon tart in Port Huron I met this weekend.
She's a train wreck and won't meet in person.
Messaged with this one, who said she was a student and a Muslim. She said she had been in an arranged marriage with a man in Africa, who died of old age. She added that she was a virgin, and had a previous arrangement where she sent pictures and videos to the guy in return for electronic payments. That's got to be the most obvious scam story I've heard in my time on Seeking.
https://www.seeking.com/member/36e1dc1c-5df8-4105-a95d-dcba094d5c52I am going to hire a college kid who is majoring in journalism to document all these and make it to book.
She's a train wreck and won't meet in person.Who do you mean?
Who do you mean?
Why aren't these links coming through? Either she removed her profile or I blocked her ass - I can't find her now. Blonde from Detroit living near 75 and Livernois.
ILuvThisTown29
12-10-20, 12:56
So this is why I encourage SD to always always talk to more then one SB. So I had been talking to Gemma for 2 weeks. Conversation started really casual and little more intense everyday. We start sharing pretty intimate details about each other. Then she disappear for a few days apologize then we continue to talk. Then again she disappear then come back. It was a pretty constant pattern with her. So after awhile I started looking for someone else. So she comes back for the final time and I asked if she like to talk and radio silences for half a day at the end of the night she started sending me some really explicit text messages. So I I recommended that we meet up at target there a Starbucks inside at the Shelby township location I was passing through anyways. Said around 2. So I get there around 1:55 waited 20 minutes nothing so I leave 15 minutes is my limit unless you text me you'll be late. So I text her on the way out the door got nothing back. Later on that night I get a SC request from a mystery Person I knew it was her because she the only person I made this fake Snapchat account for. They started posting pics of me at target all my explicit Pics I shared with Gemma13 and all of a sudden they told me if I didn't pay them 1500 via cash App they would put it all over Facebook. In which I respond IDGF = I don't GIVE A FUCK and laughed I told this * to get out my face and if anything that Dick pic going to Attracted more SB. So I block her dumb ass and reported her to SA. But again even with evidence SA has allowed her account to stay active.
SlightlyHere
12-10-20, 17:13
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Step 1: Look up their phone number on https://www.whitepages.com/, if nothing shows up or it's showing up as a VoIP run.
Step 2: If it's a valid number, Pay the 15 bucks or whatever on Whitepages and pull a detailed report. Any criminal records. Run.
Step 3: Ask for a FaceTime or Zoom call. If they make some excuse. Run.
So this is why I encourage SD to always always talk to more then one SB. So I had been talking to Gemma for 2 weeks. Conversation started really casual and little more intense everyday. We start sharing pretty intimate details about each other. Then she disappear for a few days apologize then we continue to talk. Then again she disappear then come back. It was a pretty constant pattern with her. So after awhile I started looking for someone else. So she comes back for the final time and I asked if she like to talk and radio silences for half a day at the end of the night she started sending me some really explicit text messages. So I I recommended that we meet up at target there a Starbucks inside at the Shelby township location I was passing through anyways. Said around 2. So I get there around 1:55 waited 20 minutes nothing so I leave 15 minutes is my limit unless you text me you'll be late. So I text her on the way out the door got nothing back. Later on that night I get a SC request from a mystery Person I knew it was her because she the only person I made this fake Snapchat account for. They started posting pics of me at target all my explicit Pics I shared with Gemma13 and all of a sudden they told me if I didn't pay them 1500 via cash App they would put it all over Facebook. In which I respond IDGF = I don't GIVE A FUCK and laughed I told this * to get out my face and if anything that Dick pic going to Attracted more SB. So I block her dumb ass and reported her to SA. But again even with evidence SA has allowed her account to stay active.
ILuvThisTown29
12-10-20, 21:10
Step 1: Look up their phone number on https://www.whitepages.com/, if nothing shows up or it's showing up as a VoIP run.
Step 2: If it's a valid number, Pay the 15 bucks or whatever on Whitepages and pull a detailed report. Any criminal records. Run.
Step 3: Ask for a FaceTime or Zoom call. If they make some excuse. Run.I was actually really thinking about investing into whitespages does it really give you a detailed report?
I was actually really thinking about investing into whitespages does it really give you a detailed report?I pay for spokeo. Works well and even sometimes gives you the link to their social media.
Why are you trading pictures with a provider. They seriously don't care what your dick looks like as they've seen hundreds and only want to see stacks of money. And no need to get pics of them either unless they randomly send them to you. Its a fake profile thing when they constantly send you pics.
So this is why I encourage SD to always always talk to more then one SB. So I had been talking to Gemma for 2 weeks. Conversation started really casual and little more intense everyday. We start sharing pretty intimate details about each other. Then she disappear for a few days apologize then we continue to talk. Then again she disappear then come back. It was a pretty constant pattern with her. So after awhile I started looking for someone else. So she comes back for the final time and I asked if she like to talk and radio silences for half a day at the end of the night she started sending me some really explicit text messages. So I I recommended that we meet up at target there a Starbucks inside at the Shelby township location I was passing through anyways. Said around 2. So I get there around 1:55 waited 20 minutes nothing so I leave 15 minutes is my limit unless you text me you'll be late. So I text her on the way out the door got nothing back. Later on that night I get a SC request from a mystery Person I knew it was her because she the only person I made this fake Snapchat account for. They started posting pics of me at target all my explicit Pics I shared with Gemma13 and all of a sudden they told me if I didn't pay them 1500 via cash App they would put it all over Facebook. In which I respond IDGF = I don't GIVE A FUCK and laughed I told this * to get out my face and if anything that Dick pic going to Attracted more SB. So I block her dumb ass and reported her to SA. But again even with evidence SA has allowed her account to stay active..
I pay for spokeo. Works well and even sometimes gives you the link to their social media.I loved having reverse search engines for a while. Best deal I thought was Intellius. Spokeo was better but more expensive. BeenVerified gave the most information but it was less up to date.
Then look their names up on Mugshots.com, OTIS and county courts like Wayne County Third Circuit.
Its very enlightening. If they have substance charges, remember don't overpay.
MichiganMan686
12-12-20, 06:16
Why are you trading pictures with a provider. They seriously don't care what your dick looks like as they've seen hundreds and only want to see stacks of money. And no need to get pics of them either unless they randomly send them to you. Its a fake profile thing when they constantly send you pics.
.Been on SA for about a month still tryin to land a few cause my work has been crazy busy. I've been asked for a face pic a couple times. Wondering if it was for blackmail too. I never sent cause I'm not the one selling mygoods here. 2 of them kept afte me about it. I moved on from them. Doesn't matter to me cause I'm divorced and single. MM686.
I've been a paying member on Seeking now for the past 2-2.5 months and have yet to find someone who's halfway decent for something ongoing. My type is SB's who are newer to sugaring, more of an UTR. Women around 24-32 appeal to me the most.
When I first joined, I was putting a lot of effort into messaging women; I'm always direct but never pushy or aggressive. I try to get off of the site as quickly as possible to text or many ask if I have SC.
After a few texts I always ask what their schedule is so we can meet for a coffee, etc. At this point, this is where 8/9 out of 10 girls usually do the same thing- some form of they will let me know, or some type of low interest response. After that I usually tell them to reach out when they figure it out. In most cases I never hear back from them and I don't like to reach back out again when I put the ball into their court. If things do make it to the actual day of our M&G, many will flake or something always comes up. I do all the leg work to find a time, place, somewhere that's close to them all they have to do is show up LOL!
So far, though, I have met two POT SB's since I've been on there for a M&G but one ghosted after we had an arrangement made and the other I could tell was going to be more of a headache long term than what it would've been worth.
With that being said, I've received lots of messages on there- the usual scammers, undesirables, awful communicators who don't seem all there in the head.
I'll give it a little longer, but I'm getting close to giving it a break for awhile.
Been on SA for about a month still tryin to land a few cause my work has been crazy busy. I've been asked for a face pic a couple times. Wondering if it was for blackmail too. I never sent cause I'm not the one selling mygoods here. 2 of them kept afte me about it. I moved on from them. Doesn't matter to me cause I'm divorced and single. MM686.My thought process is a little different, but perhaps it's because I am looking for something a little different. I try to avoid the semi-pros, UTRs, etc. I actually prefer something that will be relatively long-term with someone for whom SA is not a career. I've been very fortunate and have had several long-term arrangements (as long as 2 years). All of my best arrangements have been with girls who asked for pictures. In fact, if a girl commits to meeting without having requested a picture, I view that as a substantial negative. I'm not looking for someone who is willing to commit to sex with someone when they haven't even seen a picture. For the same reason, I never offer to send a picture, because I want it to be their idea.
MichiganMan686
12-13-20, 07:06
My thought process is a little different, but perhaps it's because I am looking for something a little different. I try to avoid the semi-pros, UTRs, etc. I actually prefer something that will be relatively long-term with someone for whom SA is not a career. I've been very fortunate and have had several long-term arrangements (as long as 2 years). All of my best arrangements have been with girls who asked for pictures. In fact, if a girl commits to meeting without having requested a picture, I view that as a substantial negative. I'm not looking for someone who is willing to commit to sex with someone when they haven't even seen a picture. For the same reason, I never offer to send a picture, because I want it to be their idea.Thanks. I'm just I guess always cautious not to get into a bad situation. TY for the opinion. I'm a long time hobbiest but been on SA for about 30 days. Definately learning still. I do want what you describe. Long term nsa arrangement too. One of my holdups is finding hotels that will have a room checkin during daytime hours. Like 1 pm or so. Any help on that would be appreciated. Happy hunting my friend. Mm686.
MichiganMan686
12-13-20, 07:14
I've been a paying member on Seeking now for the past 2-2.5 months and have yet to find someone who's halfway decent for something ongoing. My type is SB's who are newer to sugaring, more of an UTR. Women around 24-32 appeal to me the most.
When I first joined, I was putting a lot of effort into messaging women; I'm always direct but never pushy or aggressive. I try to get off of the site as quickly as possible to text or many ask if I have SC.
After a few texts I always ask what their schedule is so we can meet for a coffee, etc. At this point, this is where 8/9 out of 10 girls usually do the same thing- some form of they will let me know, or some type of low interest response. After that I usually tell them to reach out when they figure it out. In most cases I never hear back from them and I don't like to reach back out again when I put the ball into their court. If things do make it to the actual day of our M&G, many will flake or something always comes up. I do all the leg work to find a time, place, somewhere that's close to them all they have to do is show up LOL!
So far, though, I have met two POT SB's since I've been on there for a M&G but one ghosted after we had an arrangement made and the other I could tell was going to be more of a headache long term than what it would've been worth.
With that being said, I've received lots of messages on there- the usual scammers, undesirables, awful communicators who don't seem all there in the head.
I'll give it a little longer, but I'm getting close to giving it a break for awhile.This is spot on my experience too. Almost impossible to have a full conversation with one without them delaying for hours. I'm not small talking for long but have learned to get to the point. Then negoiate over my cell from there. Not a whole lot of interest from the SB's sometimes.
This is interesting, because, when I try, I can typically meet up with a couple of new people a week if I want to. My issue of late and why I'm taking a break, is that almost all come off as providers lately, probably due to Covid scaring off more casual people. Before this, I met a few that ended up just being longterm friends, and they got off the site, which is more of the style I look for as well.
I've been a paying member on Seeking now for the past 2-2.5 months and have yet to find someone who's halfway decent for something ongoing. My type is SB's who are newer to sugaring, more of an UTR. Women around 24-32 appeal to me the most.
When I first joined, I was putting a lot of effort into messaging women; I'm always direct but never pushy or aggressive. I try to get off of the site as quickly as possible to text or many ask if I have SC.
After a few texts I always ask what their schedule is so we can meet for a coffee, etc. At this point, this is where 8/9 out of 10 girls usually do the same thing- some form of they will let me know, or some type of low interest response. After that I usually tell them to reach out when they figure it out. In most cases I never hear back from them and I don't like to reach back out again when I put the ball into their court. If things do make it to the actual day of our M&G, many will flake or something always comes up. I do all the leg work to find a time, place, somewhere that's close to them all they have to do is show up LOL!
So far, though, I have met two POT SB's since I've been on there for a M&G but one ghosted after we had an arrangement made and the other I could tell was going to be more of a headache long term than what it would've been worth.
With that being said, I've received lots of messages on there- the usual scammers, undesirables, awful communicators who don't seem all there in the head.
I'll give it a little longer, but I'm getting close to giving it a break for awhile..
One of my holdups is finding hotels that will have a room checkin during daytime hours. Like 1 pm or so. Any help on that would be appreciated. Happy hunting my friend. Mm686.I am in the same boat -- needing early check-in for daytime meetings. Most hotels will not guarantee early check-in, so what I often do is make reservations at a few places in the appropriate locale and then call them the morning-of to see if they have a room available. Usually, if they do have a room, it's not a problem to check in early. But if they were full the night before, sometimes they won't have a clean room early. (I often like to meet early- to mid-morning, which is harder than early afternoon.).
The important caution here is that you have to find hotels that will allow cancellations the day of arrival. Otherwise, you're on the hook for a room you can't use if they don't have one available for early check-in.
On a couple of occasions, I reserved a room for two nights, so that I would be guaranteed a room. Those were special occasions, though. That only works easily if the meeting site is close to where I live or work, so that it's not a problem checking in the day before. I often meet girls who are an hour away from me (occasionally more), and the logistics of checking in the day before are kind of difficult. And, of course, this doubles the cost of the hotel.
MichiganMan686
12-13-20, 09:00
This one had a long coversation with me but wants to do a meet and greet. 50 cash app 50 face to face. Are they ever legit if you do the prepay or is it always a scam?
https://www.seeking.com/member/4c210062-2713-4181-a740-0e72098f35b8
Ty.
Mm686.
MichiganMan686
12-13-20, 09:05
I am in the same boat -- needing early check-in for daytime meetings. Most hotels will not guarantee early check-in, so what I often do is make reservations at a few places in the appropriate locale and then call them the morning-of to see if they have a room available. Usually, if they do have a room, it's not a problem to check in early. But if they were full the night before, sometimes they won't have a clean room early. (I often like to meet early- to mid-morning, which is harder than early afternoon.).
The important caution here is that you have to find hotels that will allow cancellations the day of arrival. Otherwise, you're on the hook for a room you can't use if they don't have one available for early check-in.
On a couple of occasions, I reserved a room for two nights, so that I would be guaranteed a room. Those were special occasions, though. That only works easily if the meeting site is close to where I live or work, so that it's not a problem checking in the day before. I often meet girls who are an hour away from me (occasionally more), and the logistics of checking in the day before are kind of difficult. And, of course, this doubles the cost of the hotel.TY for the help. Mm686.
This one had a long coversation with me but wants to do a meet and greet. 50 cash app 50 face to face. Are they ever legit if you do the prepay or is it always a scam?
https://www.seeking.com/member/4c210062-2713-4181-a740-0e72098f35b8
Ty.
Mm686.Never give money first.
If you suspect a scammer, just ask them what area they live in. If they're local, they'll give an applicable suburb; scammers tend to avoid the question because they don't even remember what city they put.
Who do you mean?Here she is. She's completely revamped her profile. LOL!
https://www.seeking.com/member/ad15795a-1329-49c1-92bd-97f1b948001a
Here she is. She's completely revamped her profile. LOL!
https://www.seeking.com/member/ad15795a-1329-49c1-92bd-97f1b948001aThanks. She's too punctuation-challenged for me.
What is the best way to break up with an SB without hurting her feelings? I have been seeing this SB, she is very sweet and fun but sex has not been good (Ever heard of Starfish sex). Should I tell her I lost my job?
HungaryMan
12-13-20, 18:32
What is the best way to break up with an SB without hurting her feelings? I have been seeing this SB, she is very sweet and fun but sex has not been good (Ever heard of Starfish sex). Should I tell her I lost my job?Same problem here. With the economy limited and unemployment ending there are at least a few ways to end it. Makes me think of having a backup financial reason in case she tries to keep things going.
First off if you get to a point where you think that it's going to be difficult to stop seeing a baby you have already fucked up. Sugaring is typically NSA, meaning no commitment and minimal feelings. That is how I keep it anyway. I've cut off 100's of short and longer term arrangements. In only a few cases I felt compelled to actually say anything. I typically make something up like I starting seeing someone romantically, my sugar budget got drained or some bs like that. Mostly I just stop asking them to hook up or I don't respond to their messages. Sugaring should be easy peasy.
What is the best way to break up with an SB without hurting her feelings? I have been seeing this SB, she is very sweet and fun but sex has not been good (Ever heard of Starfish sex). Should I tell her I lost my job?
What is the best way to break up with an SB without hurting her feelings? I have been seeing this SB, she is very sweet and fun but sex has not been good (Ever heard of Starfish sex). Should I tell her I lost my job?I'd never say I lost a job or lost income. Instead just say something that breaks things off on good terms. You need to focus on your personal life and unfortunately won't be able to see her anymore. You got Covid. Your mom got Covid and is very sick. Whatever. That way you end it but the bridge isn't severed. Just in case.
I have caught feelings with a SB before. We still talk once a month or so. Both of us have moved on to different things but I miss her, on some level.
Thanks. I'm just I guess always cautious not to get into a bad situation. TY for the opinion. I'm a long time hobbiest but been on SA for about 30 days. Definately learning still. I do want what you describe. Long term nsa arrangement too. One of my holdups is finding hotels that will have a room checkin during daytime hours. Like 1 pm or so. Any help on that would be appreciated. Happy hunting my friend. Mm686.Become a Marriott rewards member and download the app on your phone. You can check in online a day in advance, which will put you in line for them to get your room ready faster. Last time I saw someone at a hotel a couple weeks ago, the app notified me that my room was ready at 10 AM. I finished some errands and got there around noon.
MichiganMan686
12-14-20, 04:48
What is the best way to break up with an SB without hurting her feelings? I have been seeing this SB, she is very sweet and fun but sex has not been good (Ever heard of Starfish sex). Should I tell her I lost my job?I just looked up what Starfish sex is. Lmao. Funny shit Jay23. Don't send her my way. Mm686.
I am in the same boat -- needing early check-in for daytime meetings. Most hotels will not guarantee early check-in, so what I often do is make reservations at a few places in the appropriate locale and then call them the morning-of to see if they have a room available. Usually, if they do have a room, it's not a problem to check in early. But if they were full the night before, sometimes they won't have a clean room early. (I often like to meet early- to mid-morning, which is harder than early afternoon.).
The important caution here is that you have to find hotels that will allow cancellations the day of arrival. Otherwise, you're on the hook for a room you can't use if they don't have one available for early check-in.
On a couple of occasions, I reserved a room for two nights, so that I would be guaranteed a room. Those were special occasions, though. That only works easily if the meeting site is close to where I live or work, so that it's not a problem checking in the day before. I often meet girls who are an hour away from me (occasionally more), and the logistics of checking in the day before are kind of difficult. And, of course, this doubles the cost of the hotel.I've done the same thing. Book for two nights, making sure to check in the day before I need the room to get the room key. Show up whatever time you need to in the morning to use the room. I have ended up cancelling the second night reservation on my way out and only get charged for the one night. This recently didn't work out and I ended up paying for two nights as my meeting went on a little longer than expected, but looking back, it all worked out.
This is interesting, because, when I try, I can typically meet up with a couple of new people a week if I want to. My issue of late and why I'm taking a break, is that almost all come off as providers lately, probably due to Covid scaring off more casual people. Before this, I met a few that ended up just being longterm friends, and they got off the site, which is more of the style I look for as well..I could easily meet a couple new people a week. I'm talking about SB's I would actually want to meet, though is the issue LOL.
GuyDetroit
12-14-20, 16:46
Chesterfield chick wants 100 deposit LOL and 400 overall.
Chesterfield chick wants 100 deposit LOL and 400 overall.I never even got to the ppm quote before she asked me for $100 Cashapp. Told her. Sorry, I only do cash in person but my schedule's wide open and I can meet ASAP! Or is meeting up contingent on a Cashapp deposit. CRICKETS.
I always get asked for Gas Money. I ask them where they live (like tell me the intersection), then go on google maps, find a gas station and tell them "The gas station on the corner of x and why is owned by my cousin, you go their and I will call him and he will let you pump gas for free" and 99% of the women are so stupid, they will say "Well to get to your cousins gas station I need gas money" , my answer is "so you have a gas station at your home? ".
I never even got to the ppm quote before she asked me for $100 Cashapp. Told her. Sorry, I only do cash in person but my schedule's wide open and I can meet ASAP! Or is meeting up contingent on a Cashapp deposit. CRICKETS.
BestDjInOhio
12-15-20, 01:10
Don't ever send one of these women money before you meet them in person.
Ever.Don't even send them money in advance even after you've met them in person I've had girls do me wrong like that as well after I had seen him a few times.
The Emmy Goes2
12-15-20, 01:58
Chesterfield chick wants 100 deposit LOL and 400 overall.Got offline into text asap. Seemed very nice actually. Made some small talk. Told me she had to take care of some things and would get back in 30. Was prompt getting back. Started to attempt negotiation. She hit me with $50 deposit. I told her she wasted a couple hours of my time when she could have just told me that off the jump. Then I said, if she sends me a customized video with a couple minutes of striptease where she actually said my name, I would send the $50 and we'd work out getting together. Silence for about 5 and then a video comes through. Generic 9 second video showing her ass in a thong. She said that should be enough. I said it wasn't and told her she might as well lead with the deposit. If there is someone stupid enough to front money, they are going to do it right away. I am sick of some of these girls on SA with their online friend bullshit, or the send me a deposit so I know you're serious. I just need a girl who will actually meet, and doesn't want me to meet her in a horrible neighborhood. Is that too much to ask?
MichiganMan686
12-15-20, 06:24
Been talking with this one. Seems legit. Probably going to meet up. Anybody have a dream with her before? If not I will report back. Mm686.
https://www.seeking.com/member/eb912282-f9ca-4811-acc4-53aa4524961a
MichiganMan686
12-15-20, 06:26
Got offline into text asap. Seemed very nice actually. Made some small talk. Told me she had to take care of some things and would get back in 30. Was prompt getting back. Started to attempt negotiation. She hit me with $50 deposit. I told her she wasted a couple hours of my time when she could have just told me that off the jump. Then I said, if she sends me a customized video with a couple minutes of striptease where she actually said my name, I would send the $50 and we'd work out getting together. Silence for about 5 and then a video comes through. Generic 9 second video showing her ass in a thong. She said that should be enough. I said it wasn't and told her she might as well lead with the deposit. If there is someone stupid enough to front money, they are going to do it right away. I am sick of some of these girls on SA with their online friend bullshit, or the send me a deposit so I know you're serious. I just need a girl who will actually meet, and doesn't want me to meet her in a horrible neighborhood. Is that too much to ask?Same thing happened with me I was like no way.
MichiganMan686
12-15-20, 06:40
Texted an Sb for a while then did a meet and greet. She said lets meet at Meijer and talk while I pick up a few things. I said ok. We met in the Christmas tree area and her cart was empty. Started walking around and she starts filling up the cart. Food then toys then water then wine now clothes now vodka etc. Till the fukin cart is full to the top. WTF? Walks me over to the checkout looks at me and said can you give me a little help? Ok. Now I see the catch here. Single mom scam. Gave a hundy and made like horseshit and hit the trail. Lmfao. Had to share. Don't hold it against me. Mm686.
Got offline into text asap. Seemed very nice actually. Made some small talk. Told me she had to take care of some things and would get back in 30. Was prompt getting back. Started to attempt negotiation. She hit me with $50 deposit. I told her she wasted a couple hours of my time when she could have just told me that off the jump. Then I said, if she sends me a customized video with a couple minutes of striptease where she actually said my name, I would send the $50 and we'd work out getting together. Silence for about 5 and then a video comes through. Generic 9 second video showing her ass in a thong. She said that should be enough. I said it wasn't and told her she might as well lead with the deposit. If there is someone stupid enough to front money, they are going to do it right away. I am sick of some of these girls on SA with their online friend bullshit, or the send me a deposit so I know you're serious. I just need a girl who will actually meet, and doesn't want me to meet her in a horrible neighborhood. Is that too much to ask?Do you know even its a girl, it can be a guy in Nigeria.
MichiganMan686
12-15-20, 06:58
Do you know even its a girl, it can be a guy in Nigeria.Lmao. Thats some funny shit yet again Jay 23. Killin me. Mm686.
ILuvThisTown29
12-15-20, 09:40
So I had this account for 2 years they literally renewed my account and bannned me the same day. LOL shady fucking company.
https://www.seeking.com/member/e3f363cb-992c-4335-b254-241e072027b1
I have been talking to her for a few days. We planned on meeting and then there was some miscommunication, more my fault. Seems legit but any info is always appreciated.
Some high end lemon if you're up for it. Asking 600/ppm.
https://www.seeking.com/member/750945da-8506-404f-8aae-05f1b2c323c9
Chesterfield chick wants 100 deposit LOL and 400 overall.Yep. Same here. Told her I don't do upfront money unless we have met in person at least once. Haven't heard back from her since.
So I had this account for 2 years they literally renewed my account and bannned me the same day. LOL shady fucking company.Yep, that's their biz model. Girls can create an unlimited number of fake accounts but guys get suspended and they expect you to fork another 90 bucks to sign up.
MichiganMan686
12-16-20, 04:21
Yep, that's their biz model. Girls can create an unlimited number of fake accounts but guys get suspended and they expect you to fork another 90 bucks to sign up.Other than actually making your arrangement what can you get kicked off for? I don't want to get booted. Mm686.
Other than actually making your arrangement what can you get kicked off for? I don't want to get booted. Mm686.Do all you can do limit your chat on Seeking and move to Google voice or some other burner SMS platform (I use 8 x8). I got suspended because I discussed money, of course now I got a new account.
MichiganMan686
12-16-20, 16:42
Do all you can do limit your chat on Seeking and move to Google voice or some other burner SMS platform (I use 8 x8). I got suspended because I discussed money, of course now I got a new account.Ok. I have avoided that but I do text some stupid shit. I know spanish pretty well and these profiles from South America I type funny shit to fuk with them Its fun. Lmao.
MichiganMan686
12-16-20, 16:46
Had this one , a dude, hit me up for a game of Cornhole where I'm the hole. WTF? Thats not going to happen. Wow. I'm definately not gettin broke down like a shotgun. Ouch. Lmao. Mm686.
https://www.seeking.com/member/6e0d345f-37bd-4ae9-9f32-988485e82cf9
If you know Spanish well, let's take a trip to Columbia, an amazing spot for chicks that are x10 hotter then what you will find here in Detroit.
Ok. I have avoided that but I do text some stupid shit. I know spanish pretty well and these profiles from South America I type funny shit to fuk with them Its fun. Lmao.
Had this one , a dude, hit me up for a game of Cornhole where I'm the hole. WTF? Thats not going to happen. Wow. I'm definately not gettin broke down like a shotgun. Ouch. Lmao. Mm686.
https://www.seeking.com/member/6e0d345f-37bd-4ae9-9f32-988485e82cf9I have come across about 5 Trans women on SA in Detroit in, past few months. (They need a SD too).
So this might be a long shot, but did any of you guys ever talk to a woman on Seeking with a screen name of blondiexo_77.
Her location listed was Bloomfield Hills and her age listed was 31. She had just one picture of her face wearing a baseball hat and someone else's which they blacked out. Her bio mentioned how she was a busy with work a lot.
I think her page has since been deactivated, but any of you ever seen or talk to her before?
Thanks.
MichiganMan686
12-16-20, 19:11
If you know Spanish well, let's take a trip to Columbia, an amazing spot for chicks that are x10 hotter then what you will find here in Detroit.Absolutely Ill go. I would love to knock the mustache off some latinas Jay23. We got to hang sometime. Mm686.
So this might be a long shot, but did any of you guys ever talk to a woman on Seeking with a screen name of blondiexo_77.
Her location listed was Bloomfield Hills and her age listed was 31. She had just one picture of her face wearing a baseball hat and someone else's which they blacked out. Her bio mentioned how she was a busy with work a lot.
I think her page has since been deactivated, but any of you ever seen or talk to her before?
Thanks.I have talked with her. We exchanged snaps and started talking there. We were supposed to get together and the she said she had someone pass in her family. So I will reach out but was giving it some time.
Absolutely Ill go. I would love to knock the mustache off some latinas Jay23. We got to hang sometime. Mm686.I'm down for that. I've been to alot of places, but never Columbia.
Anyone talked to aprilsunshine123? She is in grand blanc. Looks pretty good. Just wondering if she is normal and drama free. Appreciate any info. PM me if you would like. Thanks.
This one wanted to text, gave her the burner number. She suggested online "fun. " No thanks. Then wanted a gift card. Bye.
Indiana telephone number.
https://www.seeking.com/member/49ae6668-8f62-4517-a877-4cc81c8c17a7
BestDjInOhio
12-18-20, 22:26
https://www.seeking.com/member/2fee1cb2-b0c1-4b02-8adc-ab3bd0f96b83
BestDjInOhio
12-18-20, 22:30
This girl is kinky and likes to be dominated and likes it rough, no time limit, she likes to smoke out, and chill.
My experience was she came over, we got high and talked for an hour then the fun stuff. She's inexperienced but if you tell her what to do she will do it. She's a squirted if you know how to make it happen, likes video and pics without her face being shown. Lives to be fucked hard and rough and even be tied up.
We took a little break and then we're going to fvck again but I had shit to do and sent her on her way, but she was totally down. She'll ask for 300 but you can talk her down to 200.
https://www.seeking.com/member/315bfe32-a73c-4c38-92e0-2ed52b73a629
BestDjInOhio
12-18-20, 22:35
This girl is about to go pro since she started hanging out with escorts lately. Negotiations started at 300 and I told her 150 she said okay, and then "got an Uber" to my place. When she requested the Uber back it was the same car and there was a cute girl in the passenger seat. She's down for a duo with her if that's your thing. 300 for the duo.
Not really a time limit but we smoked a little then she wanted to play. She seemed to be down for some stuff but against others so YMMV. She was clean no odors and nice body. Stayed for about an hour or two then said she had to get going.
https://www.seeking.com/member/24421ee3-50f5-4a05-ad6d-09627816f42e
BestDjInOhio
12-18-20, 22:37
Looking for cute girls under 35 that are chill with no time limits, Down for anything. I have same kinda girls to trade numbers. Pm me with pics or sa link.
ILuvThisTown29
12-19-20, 02:10
Anyone talked to aprilsunshine123? She is in grand blanc. Looks pretty good. Just wondering if she is normal and drama free. Appreciate any info. PM me if you would like. Thanks.Is she the busty blonde in grand blanc she in her fortys I thinks she 43 or something. She hot but very boring no kinky her performance was Mediocre at best. I feel like I would've gotten better value out of a street walker. She talks sweet but there a lot better out there if I had to rate all the girls I slept with she defiantly in the bottom 10 for sure.
I have been to Bogota few times for fun. Would like to join you guys if you are serious. Most likely I would wait until COViD dies down a little.
Play safe.
Dr. S.
I'm down for that. I've been to alot of places, but never Columbia.
GuyDetroit
12-19-20, 08:49
This girl is about to go pro since she started hanging out with escorts lately. Negotiations started at 300 and I told her 150 she said okay, and then "got an Uber" to my place. When she requested the Uber back it was the same car and there was a cute girl in the passenger seat. She's down for a duo with her if that's your thing. 300 for the duo.
Not really a time limit but we smoked a little then she wanted to play. She seemed to be down for some stuff but against others so YMMV. She was clean no odors and nice body. Stayed for about an hour or two then said she had to get going.
https://www.seeking.com/member/24421ee3-50f5-4a05-ad6d-09627816f42eThe notorious Nicole from hanks can suck peanut butter through a staw.
GuyDetroit
12-19-20, 08:52
https://www.seeking.com/member/36dce4dd-2d4b-4267-b952-02d1db9e52a8
Anyone see this young thang, quote was right.
Late last year 10 of my friends went to Cartagena, rented an AirBnb villa and invited about 20 girls (you find one and she tells her friends) and had a blast. I was kicking my self for not going after seeing the videos.
So once we all get the vaccine let's do it.
I have been to Bogota few times for fun. Would like to join you guys if you are serious. Most likely I would wait until COViD dies down a little.
Play safe.
Dr. S.
I have been to Bogota few times for fun. Would like to join you guys if you are serious. Most likely I would wait until COViD dies down a little.
Play safe.
Dr. S.We can probably make a run down there in the summer or fall of '21. I've got 3 weeks of vacation time next year, so I can easily set a week aside for a mongering adventure. If we plan ahead, we can get a crew to go down and have a good time. Safety in numbers.
Late last year 10 of my friends went to Cartagena, rented an AirBnb villa and invited about 20 girls (you find one and she tells her friends) and had a blast. I was kicking my self for not going after seeing the videos.
So once we all get the vaccine let's do it.I'm in - 100%.
GuyDetroit
12-21-20, 09:55
Anyone meet with aurorababy?
I have fucked about 10 girls so far in few trips to Bogota. All are one on one interaction. But some girls are willing to bring their friends along. I am bit picky and look for mostly hot athletic college girls who speak English. Stay at a reasonable hotel like Marriott or Hilton closer to the airport. They come to the hotel room have a dinner then multiple hours of fun. There girls know how to satisfy a guy. You have to look for the submissive type. I have lengthy chats with girls before I get there and pick the ones that suit me. Most of the time everything is on the table. If they are not living with parents, they would spend the night with you.
Play safe.
Dr. S.
We can probably make a run down there in the summer or fall of '21. I've got 3 weeks of vacation time next year, so I can easily set a week aside for a mongering adventure. If we plan ahead, we can get a crew to go down and have a good time. Safety in numbers.
Why'all better not fall for this bullshit. .
https://www.seeking.com/member/a037d192-3c74-45f4-85eb-8f6cc6dbb514
You can also find this one on listcrawler. Photos look old. She has some more recent stuff on Only Fans. Asking 3.
https://www.seeking.com/member/db3a0ac5-de8e-4a82-af07-c0eb84d36d47
New Guy Not
12-21-20, 13:21
You can also find this one on listcrawler. Photos look old. She has some more recent stuff on Only Fans. Asking 3.
https://www.seeking.com/member/db3a0ac5-de8e-4a82-af07-c0eb84d36d47I wouldn't recommend her to anyone. She is trouble threatened to so call "expose my lifestyle. ".
Very immature and major GPS.
GuyDetroit
12-21-20, 14:11
Chick asked for a whole grand LOL, could get a porn star for less than that.
How do you make arrangements upfront, on seeking.com ? My buddy uses Tinder but he can read and write Spanish.
I have fucked about 10 girls so far in few trips to Bogota. All are one on one interaction. But some girls are willing to bring their friends along. I am bit picky and look for mostly hot athletic college girls who speak English. Stay at a reasonable hotel like Marriott or Hilton closer to the airport. They come to the hotel room have a dinner then multiple hours of fun. There girls know how to satisfy a guy. You have to look for the submissive type. I have lengthy chats with girls before I get there and pick the ones that suit me. Most of the time everything is on the table. If they are not living with parents, they would spend the night with you.
Play safe.
Dr. S.
I message them via Seeking.com, then move to Whatsapp for further chat. I also do a Skype video before we meet. Most girls are very open minded about these things.
How do you make arrangements upfront, on seeking.com ? My buddy uses Tinder but he can read and write Spanish.
I wouldn't recommend her to anyone. She is trouble threatened to so call "expose my lifestyle. ".
Very immature and major GPS.Thanks for the heads up. I'll give it the hard pass.
NightOwl2021
12-21-20, 21:13
New to the board, fist time poster, if there's a Colombia trip next year keep me updated. COVID screwed up my plans for going this year. I even sprang for a private tutor from Bogata via iTalki to bring my Spanish up to speed again. How are you guys contacting girls ahead of time? Using Seeking?
I have fucked about 10 girls so far in few trips to Bogota. All are one on one interaction. But some girls are willing to bring their friends along. I am bit picky and look for mostly hot athletic college girls who speak English. Stay at a reasonable hotel like Marriott or Hilton closer to the airport. They come to the hotel room have a dinner then multiple hours of fun. There girls know how to satisfy a guy. You have to look for the submissive type. I have lengthy chats with girls before I get there and pick the ones that suit me. Most of the time everything is on the table. If they are not living with parents, they would spend the night with you.
Play safe.
Dr. S.
Anyone seen her. Says she is in Ann Arbor which is closer to me. Thinking of taking the plunge this week. Talked on the site a little and she seems normal. Thanks for any help.
I have a membership to iTalki, wonder if the teacher can be a tour guide and do the extras.
New to the board, fist time poster, if there's a Colombia trip next year keep me updated. COVID screwed up my plans for going this year. I even sprang for a private tutor from Bogata via iTalki to bring my Spanish up to speed again. How are you guys contacting girls ahead of time? Using Seeking?
No pricing info yet, but she looks familiar. May be posting on STG or LC?
https://www.seeking.com/member/8bcddbf8-6c36-4c2c-b3ba-e15755ae9647
I have a membership to iTalki, wonder if the teacher can be a tour guide and do the extras.Years ago, when the Peso took a dump in Argentina, I flew down with some mongers that were renting apartments down there and working online. We hired a girl down there to call around the agencies and send girls to one of the apartments. It was like a 5 or 6 bedroom. We ordered out for some lunch and when the girls came by, we each picked out the ones we liked and headed to a bedroom. Spent about 6 hours over there checking out the agency talent while we waiting for the clubs to open in the evening. That was good times.
https://www.seeking.com/member/d59fc152-4f95-4453-a13c-796ec556d372
Anyone?
Until we meet, she needs help with groceries and gas money. Me too!
https://www.seeking.com/member/a70c4980-b8ea-4ed0-8602-55fd1bcf7614
FunnyBoner
12-22-20, 11:45
Anyone seen her. Says she is in Ann Arbor which is closer to me. Thinking of taking the plunge this week. Talked on the site a little and she seems normal. Thanks for any help.Oangel888.
I think this one used to go by Ohiogirl33. I posted on her awhile ago. Total PITA. She was a bytch to me when I asked about her traveling up to the airport from Toledo. Later I saw her posting in AA under a few different names. Serious GPS.
http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?26945-Seeking-Arrangement&p=4074960&viewfull=1#post4074960
AlwaysOnWater
12-23-20, 06:02
https://www.seeking.com/member/d59fc152-4f95-4453-a13c-796ec556d372
Anyone?Yes outcall drove herself and on time 3 damage and stayed for a hour. Very cool have to use a condom last time was a year ago I saw her.
Yes outcall drove herself and on time 3 damage and stayed for a hour. Very cool have to use a condom last time was a year ago I saw her.Nice. I'll update if I see her.
GuyDetroit
12-23-20, 11:41
That lolomonamour girl has had a lot of profiles and they seem to disappear not just the circle with line through it that typically happen, now it might be some of the verbage in her profiles but still I wonder why they just disappear.
That lolomonamour girl has had a lot of profiles and they seem to disappear not just the circle with line through it that typically happen, now it might be some of the verbage in her profiles but still I wonder why they just disappear.Not sure if this is true or not, but I heard that if they block you, you'll see the grey circle with line, but. Their screen name stays the same. If they actually delete or their profile gets deleted, their screen name changes to a generic "Sugar baby" Again. Not sure if it's true. Seems to fall in line with a few that have disappeared on me.
No pricing info yet, but she looks familiar. May be posting on STG or LC?
https://www.seeking.com/member/8bcddbf8-6c36-4c2c-b3ba-e15755ae9647Yep. I never forget a face.
https://detroit.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_e/sexy-and-sassy-blonde/739046487224
When it comes to particulars of an arrangement, I usually am looking for just an evening together, PPM. I keep it in the range of $200-$350. It seems like that's roughly the going rate of what others are paying here on the forums, etc.
Just recently I talked to a POT that was new to sugaring and was very open to what I was offering to pay and what I was looking for. We agreed that if the M&G went well we could go back to her place and hangout for a little bit. I don't pay just to do a M&G and there was no talk of her expecting it either.
We clicked in general and eventually made it back to her place, watched a movie, made out and she let my hands roam a bit. A couple days pass and I get a somewhat lengthy text from her that it wasn't going to work out between us and that she had met with someone who paid her for a M&G and also a few others she talked to were offering way more and expecting way less than I was.
I told her if you can get men who aren't old or awkward to pay you just for being in the same room as you and expect nothing more, more power to you. She was a cutie, but definitely not a 10.
Anyway, who in the hell is paying these girls all kinds of money just for existing?? Sad!
If she is getting paid a lot more, she would not waste time on a long text to you, she would have just gohested or ignored you.
When it comes to particulars of an arrangement, I usually am looking for just an evening together, PPM. I keep it in the range of $200-$350. It seems like that's roughly the going rate of what others are paying here on the forums, etc.
Just recently I talked to a POT that was new to sugaring and was very open to what I was offering to pay and what I was looking for. We agreed that if the M&G went well we could go back to her place and hangout for a little bit. I don't pay just to do a M&G and there was no talk of her expecting it either.
We clicked in general and eventually made it back to her place, watched a movie, made out and she let my hands roam a bit. A couple days pass and I get a somewhat lengthy text from her that it wasn't going to work out between us and that she had met with someone who paid her for a M&G and also a few others she talked to were offering way more and expecting way less than I was.
I told her if you can get men who aren't old or awkward to pay you just for being in the same room as you and expect nothing more, more power to you. She was a cutie, but definitely not a 10.
Anyway, who in the hell is paying these girls all kinds of money just for existing?? Sad!
HungaryMan
12-24-20, 17:03
When it comes to particulars of an arrangement, I usually am looking for just an evening together, PPM. I keep it in the range of $200-$350. It seems like that's roughly the going rate of what others are paying here on the forums, etc.
Just recently I talked to a POT that was new to sugaring and was very open to what I was offering to pay and what I was looking for. We agreed that if the M&G went well we could go back to her place and hangout for a little bit. I don't pay just to do a M&G and there was no talk of her expecting it either.
We clicked in general and eventually made it back to her place, watched a movie, made out and she let my hands roam a bit. A couple days pass and I get a somewhat lengthy text from her that it wasn't going to work out between us and that she had met with someone who paid her for a M&G and also a few others she talked to were offering way more and expecting way less than I was.
I told her if you can get men who aren't old or awkward to pay you just for being in the same room as you and expect nothing more, more power to you. She was a cutie, but definitely not a 10.
Anyway, who in the hell is paying these girls all kinds of money just for existing?? Sad!Bad luck, sucks, been there. If you could ad a link it would be appreciated.
HungaryMan
12-24-20, 19:24
Looks like seeking price is going up 10 bucks for the 1 month membership.
Looks like seeking price is going up 10 bucks for the 1 month membership.GD, how much is it now?
HungaryMan
12-24-20, 22:04
GD, how much is it now?Current price = 90 --- Price in the new year = 100.
When it comes to particulars of an arrangement, I usually am looking for just an evening together, PPM. I keep it in the range of $200-$350. It seems like that's roughly the going rate of what others are paying here on the forums, etc.
Just recently I talked to a POT that was new to sugaring and was very open to what I was offering to pay and what I was looking for. We agreed that if the M&G went well we could go back to her place and hangout for a little bit. I don't pay just to do a M&G and there was no talk of her expecting it either.
We clicked in general and eventually made it back to her place, watched a movie, made out and she let my hands roam a bit. A couple days pass and I get a somewhat lengthy text from her that it wasn't going to work out between us and that she had met with someone who paid her for a M&G and also a few others she talked to were offering way more and expecting way less than I was.
I told her if you can get men who aren't old or awkward to pay you just for being in the same room as you and expect nothing more, more power to you. She was a cutie, but definitely not a 10.
Anyway, who in the hell is paying these girls all kinds of money just for existing?? Sad!When I heavily used SA a couple years ago I used to ask girls about this. The impression I got is that for every one real sugar daddy offering lucrative allowances, there are ten scammers or super cheap guys (less than $200). The next tier are weirdos with money, who scare chicks off. Multiple chicks I saw or talked to literally showed me messages from guys asking them to shit on their chest, or for super violent bdsm stuff. I'm sure there are women willing to do anything for money on the site but most are pretty normal young women or college chicks. They aren't interested in that stuff.
The next tier, which I resided in, was normal guys who offered PPM. That's the tier of guys that does well on SA, especially if you can be consistent. If you're meeting a chick 2-3 times a month at $300-500 per meet, that's as close to an allowance as most chicks will get. In my case, the highest I went was $500 with two chicks who I saw for months. They even stayed over night for that amount. My other arrangements were $300 to $400 and involved multi hour meets.
I've posted SA guides multiple times but basically if you're a normal guy with good hygiene, you're already better than most of the guys these chicks talk to on the site. Getting a nice hotel, having snacks+food etc ensures you'll get what you want every time. Make her comfortable. That's the key.
GuyDetroit
12-26-20, 13:12
This one done lost her mind she was asking for 400 awhile ago and now says 1 k first time LOL. In her wildest dreams.
https://www.seeking.com/member/c35cff10-c820-4101-b346-26a70df40fd4
GuyDetroit
12-26-20, 13:15
This one can be found on eros but I cannot find a review, wants 500 for an hour and half but damn would I like to spike those honey baked hams if only I knew her rules which she will not say.
https://www.seeking.com/member/cb74f03b-ec80-4d35-b107-a6be370c0298
HungaryMan
12-26-20, 13:52
This one done lost her mind she was asking for 400 awhile ago and now says 1 k first time LOL. In her wildest dreams.
https://www.seeking.com/member/c35cff10-c820-4101-b346-26a70df40fd4What caught my attention was this: *THINGS YOU SHOULD KNOW* • NOT ON BIRTH CONTROL.
GuyDetroit
12-26-20, 14:29
What caught my attention was this: *THINGS YOU SHOULD KNOW* NOT ON BIRTH CONTROL.Ya I am not going raw with any of these hoes except in their tonsils but ya she might be trying to set something up especially with a married man.
This one done lost her mind she was asking for 400 awhile ago and now says 1 k first time LOL. In her wildest dreams.
https://www.seeking.com/member/c35cff10-c820-4101-b346-26a70df40fd4I talked with her when she first got on. She was down for 2. She started hanging out with another girls who was asking 4. I thought 4 was steep but 1000. Not a chance.
The next tier, which I resided in, was normal guys who offered PPM. That's the tier of guys that does well on SA, especially if you can be consistent. If you're meeting a chick 2-3 times a month at $300-500 per meet, that's as close to an allowance as most chicks will get. In my case, the highest I went was $500 with two chicks who I saw for months. They even stayed over night for that amount. My other arrangements were $300 to $400 and involved multi hour meets.
I've posted SA guides multiple times but basically if you're a normal guy with good hygiene, you're already better than most of the guys these chicks talk to on the site. Getting a nice hotel, having snacks+food etc ensures you'll get what you want every time. Make her comfortable. That's the key.This is pretty much my MO right here. One thing I'll add. You've got to be a little ruthless to weed out the ones who are a pain in the ass because they are broke all the time. I tell these girls all the time - your problems are not my problems. Don't ask me to make them my problems. Find one or two who have their basic shit together and you'll deal with alot less grief. If they start blowing your phone up with problems, drop 'them and block 'them.
What caught my attention was this: *THINGS YOU SHOULD KNOW* NOT ON BIRTH CONTROL.Two completely different girls in the photos. One has brown eyes and one has green eyes.
I put all my SA expenses on a separate CC. With all the girls it has been an overnight stay usually Sat night. Looking back at this year (I have been only doing this since summer) I am averaging around $550 a night spent on the girl, but If I count other expenses such as hotel, dinner, drinks, first date dinner expenses, etc, I am around 1000 a date. Around 12 K spent for 12 good Sat nights in 2020. Yes, it's an expensive hobby but I am a 50-year-old with a beer belly who likes cute 25-year-olds, plus my ex took all most 500 K in the divorce so this spend is ok.
Not going to do this once I get the vaccine, better value for money can be found in Canada, South America, or Caribian.
The next tier, which I resided in, was normal guys who offered PPM. That's the tier of guys that does well on SA, especially if you can be consistent. If you're meeting a chick 2-3 times a month at $300-500 per meet, that's as close to an allowance as most chicks will get. In my case, the highest I went was $500 with two chicks who I saw for months. They even stayed over night for that amount. My other arrangements were $300 to $400 and involved multi hour meets.
SpartanJoe
12-26-20, 22:16
Two completely different girls in the photos. One has brown eyes and one has green eyes.Hilarious. She said she wasn't meeting folks now because of all the scammers. Wanted to Facetime so I just ignored her and moved on to the next one. Sadly I'm back on there as my current SB (deactivated account a long time ago) is moving down south for school. Said she'd still like to see me when she comes back to visit family. As someone mentioned, don't go for the ones that constantly complain about being broke or look like train wrecks. Of the few long term ones I've had, they're stable for the most part but just want some extra cash. Don't be rude initially or offer $100 for a weekend of fun. Anyone asking to "prove your worth it" is a waste of time as well. Never spent more than a couple hundred per meet and they ranged from hours to overnights. Anyone asking for $2 k+, I wish them well as they're more than likely on the wrong site. Anyone that messages me first, I also ignore. If I was interested, I would have messaged you already.
MichiganMan686
12-27-20, 07:00
I put all my SA expenses on a separate CC. With all the girls it has been an overnight stay usually Sat night. Looking back at this year (I have been only doing this since summer) I am averaging around $550 a night spent on the girl, but If I count other expenses such as hotel, dinner, drinks, first date dinner expenses, etc, I am around 1000 a date. Around 12 K spent for 12 good Sat nights in 2020. Yes, it's an expensive hobby but I am a 50-year-old with a beer belly who likes cute 25-year-olds, plus my ex took all most 500 K in the divorce so this spend is ok.
Not going to do this once I get the vaccine, better value for money can be found in Canada, South America, or Caribian.The old sayin is Marriage is grand and Divorce is 500 grand. Fuck being married. Thats torture. Divorced too lost a ton but worth every penny to be single. MM686.
Lots of good posts recently on these issues. Another thing I'd say is that I looked for different things from short term and long term SBs. For the short term girls, who I'd see casually a few times, I tried finding the hottest young chicks. Whether it was a college girl or a stripper, those were the chicks I would fuck and not really talk to until it was time to meet again. We'd have fun, fuck, cuddle, laugh and then move on until next time. If you're lucky you can find one like this, who isn't asking for money in between meets because her phone bill is late or whatever.
For long term, those were the girls I saw overnight. We would text relatively often and became genuine friends with one of them (we still text today despite her moving out of state). For those I was just looking for someone with their head on straight. Preferably a serious student or young professional, with their background verified on the site. No drama, no begging for money, and appreciative. Also helped that one was studying a field I'm in so we had mutual things to talk about and I was able to help / mentor her. I prioritized stability / intelligence over being hot with these girls. They weren't as hot as the short term girls I saw but were still cute of course.
I was married for 13 years and been single for 5 years. 95% of my friends are married and all of them have been trying to set me up with some nice divorced women in the 50's range. I have 2 points.
1. If you lock up a dog in a cage for 13 years and let him out, he will never be going near that cage again.
2. (And I only tell this to men), Have you played with 25-year-olds boobs.
The old saying is Marriage is grand and Divorce is 500 grand. Fuck being married. That's torture. Divorced too lost a ton but worth every penny to be single. MM686.
JadooMazar
12-27-20, 12:51
I put all my SA expenses on a separate CC. With all the girls it has been an overnight stay usually Sat night. Looking back at this year (I have been only doing this since summer) I am averaging around $550 a night spent on the girl, but If I count other expenses such as hotel, dinner, drinks, first date dinner expenses, etc, I am around 1000 a date. Around 12 K spent for 12 good Sat nights in 2020. Yes, it's an expensive hobby but I am a 50-year-old with a beer belly who likes cute 25-year-olds, plus my ex took all most 500 K in the divorce so this spend is ok.
Not going to do this once I get the vaccine, better value for money can be found in Canada, South America, or Caribian.Don't forget Germany FKKs, damn I miss those slender gazelles walking around naked and me sitting in the pool chairs relaxing and re-energizing for the next round.
I am eyeing Thailand also. Cute tiny spinners, great nightlife, parties, massages, etc.
I have been to a few South American countries but never ventured out for mongering. Is it safe down there? I have heard lot of fun can be had in Costa Rica. Anybody has first hand experience in Costa Rica?
Hope we can start traveling soon. I am getting bored of the heavy effort requirements on SA and getting run arounds LOL.
Me being not white, don't know how FKK clubs will treat you. One spot I want to go to next year is the Dominican Republic, their is a large forum https://takemebacktososua.com/forum/ and on my list http://www.blackbeardsadultresort.com/index.html.
Is Costa Rica a mongering location, its more for Yoga but the country is safe and has very good healthcare but hay I found https://forum.costaricaticas.com/
Don't forget Germany FKKs, damn I miss those slender gazelles walking around naked and me sitting in the pool chairs relaxing and re-energizing for the next round.
I am eyeing Thailand also. Cute tiny spinners, great nightlife, parties, massages, etc.
I have been to a few South American countries but never ventured out for mongering. Is it safe down there? I have heard lot of fun can be had in Costa Rica. Anybody has first hand experience in Costa Rica?
Hope we can start traveling soon. I am getting bored of the heavy effort requirements on SA and getting run arounds LOL.
When I heavily used SA a couple years ago I used to ask girls about this. The impression I got is that for every one real sugar daddy offering lucrative allowances, there are ten scammers or super cheap guys (less than $200). The next tier are weirdos with money, who scare chicks off. Multiple chicks I saw or talked to literally showed me messages from guys asking them to shit on their chest, or for super violent bdsm stuff. I'm sure there are women willing to do anything for money on the site but most are pretty normal young women or college chicks. They aren't interested in that stuff.
The next tier, which I resided in, was normal guys who offered PPM. That's the tier of guys that does well on SA, especially if you can be consistent. If you're meeting a chick 2-3 times a month at $300-500 per meet, that's as close to an allowance as most chicks will get. In my case, the highest I went was $500 with two chicks who I saw for months. They even stayed over night for that amount. My other arrangements were $300 to $400 and involved multi hour meets.
I've posted SA guides multiple times but basically if you're a normal guy with good hygiene, you're already better than most of the guys these chicks talk to on the site. Getting a nice hotel, having snacks+food etc ensures you'll get what you want every time. Make her comfortable. That's the key.I'd say we're pretty similar. I'm a very normal guy and not into anything creepy or gross. Most of the POT that I've talked to are brand new to sugaring and haven't made their rounds like a cat to get their share of experiences by being on the site for a little bit of time. My type is the mid 20 something who has an ok to good job and doesn't need to be on the site, but the extra $ helps.
I can't begin to tell you how many times I've been talking to 3-5 girls at once thinking one of them for sure will be a match and then a few days later I'm talking to 3-5 new people all over again. I always operate in a way that a person feels free. If I never hear from them again, it is what it is.
I'm not upset that she didn't want to continue things, it's just that in her message she almost made it sound like I had conned her since I didn't pay her for meeting the very first time.
Duh. She got me. I know, I know, you don't have to tell me what I did wrong. She met me in the parlor of her apartment building to show me where to park (danger Will Robinson) - then as we're walking up to her apartment door she says she wants the $200 up front as agreed (big head is on idle now), then she's just going to pop over to the neighbors to get some weed. As soon as she was out of my sight I figured I was SOL- and I was. I'm a lot smarter now though. https://www.seeking.com/member/5dcbd7a9-c2b0-49de-89f4-c3196fb511c5.
Stop by from time to time. Trusted Seniors who have provided info to me can PM me.
Stop by from time to time. Trusted Seniors who have provided info to me can PM me.This is Michigan, not Georgia.
MichiganMan686
12-29-20, 08:19
Duh. She got me. I know, I know, you don't have to tell me what I did wrong. She met me in the parlor of her apartment building to show me where to park (danger Will Robinson) - then as we're walking up to her apartment door she says she wants the $200 up front as agreed (big head is on idle now), then she's just going to pop over to the neighbors to get some weed. As soon as she was out of my sight I figured I was SOL- and I was. I'm a lot smarter now though. https://www.seeking.com/member/5dcbd7a9-c2b0-49de-89f4-c3196fb511c5.Pretty funny. I went to that link and looked at her profile. She must have gotten a notification and now she's texting me. You should have someine setup a meet and greet for her. Meet at Meijer. Tell her its paid. When she gets there confront her about it. Probably will end that scam in a hurry. MM686.
Duh. She got me. I know, I know, you don't have to tell me what I did wrong. She met me in the parlor of her apartment building to show me where to park (danger Will Robinson) - then as we're walking up to her apartment door she says she wants the $200 up front as agreed (big head is on idle now), then she's just going to pop over to the neighbors to get some weed. As soon as she was out of my sight I figured I was SOL- and I was. I'm a lot smarter now though. https://www.seeking.com/member/5dcbd7a9-c2b0-49de-89f4-c3196fb511c5.Thanks for the warning. She came on pretty aggressively with the messages. Gave me a weird phone number, we texted a few times and she seemed a bit off, so I just bailed.
Pretty funny. I went to that link and looked at her profile. She must have gotten a notification and now she's texting me. You should have someine setup a meet and greet for her. Meet at Meijer. Tell her its paid. When she gets there confront her about it. Probably will end that scam in a hurry. MM686.I briefly thought about getting her back. I'd bet that I could text her next week from the same google number, send her a photo of someone else, and she'd go for the same deal. But. As Kenny advised, "you've got to know when to to fold them".
GuyDetroit
12-29-20, 14:05
Should have known when I got her down to 250, wants 100 up front. Claims she just wants to get her hair done to look nice for me lol
https://www.seeking.com/member/7854bd41-bed0-49a9-91f5-f95207ef65fd
GuyDetroit
12-29-20, 16:50
Ya I know she is a little more than the usual 250 but I was wondering if anyone had experience with her because I got a little extra money for a couple higher end meets and want some ebony or Latina ass, is she a starfish or alduters the deed? LOL.
https://www.seeking.com/member/edda8e63-185a-4ddf-883d-d88013e92dda
MichiganMan686
12-30-20, 15:05
Why are so many profiles like dead fish? You text them get 1 responce back then ghost ya. Are these girls that bombarded with SD, s? Stay on there have a onversation then nogotiate on cell number. Theres sure some weird shit on here. MM686.
MichiganMan686
12-30-20, 15:10
Should have known when I got her down to 250, wants 100 up front. Claims she just wants to get her hair done to look nice for me lol
https://www.seeking.com/member/7854bd41-bed0-49a9-91f5-f95207ef65fdSame thing with me. I love big tits. Tried to get me the same way. I just play them right back with BS answer like yeah sure can I send 500 right now so I don't have to hand it to you when we meet? They can't possibly think we are that stupid.
MyWagoneer
12-31-20, 11:50
Same thing with me. I love big tits. Tried to get me the same way. I just play them right back with BS answer like yeah sure can I send 500 right now so I don't have to hand it to you when we meet? They can't possibly think we are that stupid.This one wanted 3 per meet but 50 upfront to fix her car. Told her I'd just pay for the whole thing up front. She actually sent me her Venmo. Ha.
https://www.seeking.com/member/dd130838-7c62-43cd-8e34-369ba4ba45c5
Ya I know she is a little more than the usual 250 but I was wondering if anyone had experience with her because I got a little extra money for a couple higher end meets and want some ebony or Latina ass, is she a starfish or alduters the deed? LOL.
https://www.seeking.com/member/edda8e63-185a-4ddf-883d-d88013e92ddaShe had an earlier profile. I communicated back and forth a bit with her about two years ago. I decided not to pursue it, but since messages that old are not preserved, I can't say exactly why. I didn't get the impression that she was particularly high end, though.
HungaryMan
12-31-20, 18:37
This one wanted 3 per meet but 50 upfront to fix her car. Told her I'd just pay for the whole thing up front. She actually sent me her Venmo. Ha.
https://www.seeking.com/member/dd130838-7c62-43cd-8e34-369ba4ba45c5"Her" profile says she was recently in Nigeria. Obviously the computer relayed the location of the user. Stay safe guys and stay smarter than them.
"Her" profile says she was recently in Nigeria. Obviously the computer relayed the location of the user. Stay safe guys and stay smarter than them.That raises a question for me. I assume that if a profile says some country other than US the person is not in the US, because why would they misrepresent that? But if a profile indicates country location as US, does that mean that the person is in the US, or might they just be using a VPN on a US server from outside the country?
We messaged a little bit last month. Her pictures look good, her identity checked out and she seemed like she was open to something straightforward and easy. Then on Christmas Eve, she messaged me asking for money for presents for her kid. She added that she was homeless and didn't have transportation. Not exactly what I'm looking for in a SB. I sent a little money because, hey, it was Christmas. Since then, it's been nothing but more requests for money. Today she sent a picture of her sporting a black eye and asked for money for a hotel room. I asked what happened and she said it was a long, stupid story. I told her that I suspected some kind of substance issue, which she denied. Regardless, I blocked her on SA and other platforms.
https://www.seeking.com/member/043f0007-de5e-4599-98c1-89e0c2c902c0
Coyote7033
01-02-21, 01:22
Does anyone have any info on these ladies on S. A. ?? Will be in town and been talking with these 3, I'm really interested in the first and second one, 3rd is a possible back up. In town next week for work.
Missallaneous https://www.seeking.com/member/f55dd...4-3fabab34dc05..
Sassy E https://www.seeking.com/member/98e0f...1-c242fe99923d..
Golden 1025 https://www.seeking.com/member/f0a85...0-58a05b933141..
Thanks.
All 3 links you messed up in cut and paste so they don't work.
Does anyone have any info on these ladies on S. A. ?? Will be in town and been talking with these 3, I'm really interested in the first and second one, 3rd is a possible back up. In town next week for work.
Missallaneous https://www.seeking.com/member/f55dd...4-3fabab34dc05..
Sassy E https://www.seeking.com/member/98e0f...1-c242fe99923d..
Golden 1025 https://www.seeking.com/member/f0a85...0-58a05b933141..
Thanks.
Coyote7033
01-02-21, 14:26
I think the periods got in the way and that's why they don't work.
https://www.seeking.com/member/f55dd2a1-65e2-49fa-ac14-3fabab34dc05
Sassy E https://www.seeking.com/member/98e0f...1-c242fe99923d
Golden 1025 https://www.seeking.com/member/f0a85...0-58a05b933141
All 3 links you messed up in cut and paste so they don't work.
We messaged a little bit last month. Her pictures look good, her identity checked out and she seemed like she was open to something straightforward and easy. Then on Christmas Eve, she messaged me asking for money for presents for her kid. She added that she was homeless and didn't have transportation. Not exactly what I'm looking for in a SB. I sent a little money because, hey, it was Christmas. Since then, it's been nothing but more requests for money. Today she sent a picture of her sporting a black eye and asked for money for a hotel room. I asked what happened and she said it was a long, stupid story. I told her that I suspected some kind of substance issue, which she denied. Regardless, I blocked her on SA and other platforms.
https://www.seeking.com/member/043f0007-de5e-4599-98c1-89e0c2c902c0You can find her on Facebook. Photos she posted on SA are old as fuck.
HungaryMan
01-03-21, 18:42
I think the periods got in the way and that's why they don't work.
https://www.seeking.com/member/f55dd2a1-65e2-49fa-ac14-3fabab34dc05
Sassy E https://www.seeking.com/member/98e0f...1-c242fe99923d
Golden 1025 https://www.seeking.com/member/f0a85...0-58a05b933141I delete / block their profiles when I find them to be a negative and that is what I have done to number 2 and 3. As for number one, she is in Grand Rapids so I haven't come across her. Good luck to you.
I delete / block their profiles when I find them to be a negative and that is what I have done to number 2 and 3. As for number one, she is in Grand Rapids so I haven't come across her. Good luck to you.Given the uh. Quality of the hag that is number one, I'm guessing Indidnt block the others and they both give me a non available profile.
Reading that story about the girl asking for money on Christmas and looking at her profile, it reminds me of something. I wouldn't meet someone who has kids, and I REALLY would avoid someone who lists their children status as "prefer not to say. " It's such a weird, almost legal sounding way to say "I have kids but I don't want to admit it. " My first SB had a kid, who she didn't hide. And while the kid wasn't the biggest reason we ended things (she was a con woman, basically LOL) it didn't help. I don't want to deal with someone who is multiple hours late because their child care plans fell thru, or the father of the kid is acting like a fool, or whatever else.
Not to mention the financial guilt trips of wanting to help out because she has a kid. I'd rather focus on chicks who have predictable financial issues. A college chick living on campus who only has to pay her car note, food, phone bill, etc.
Reading that story about the girl asking for money on Christmas and looking at her profile, it reminds me of something. I wouldn't meet someone who has kids, and I REALLY would avoid someone who lists their children status as "prefer not to say. " It's such a weird, almost legal sounding way to say "I have kids but I don't want to admit it. " My first SB had a kid, who she didn't hide. And while the kid wasn't the biggest reason we ended things (she was a con woman, basically LOL) it didn't help. I don't want to deal with someone who is multiple hours late because their child care plans fell thru, or the father of the kid is acting like a fool, or whatever else.
Not to mention the financial guilt trips of wanting to help out because she has a kid. I'd rather focus on chicks who have predictable financial issues. A college chick living on campus who only has to pay her car note, food, phone bill, etc.I agree. I tend to view having kids as a negative although not a disqualifying one. I've had a couple of arrangements with girls who had kids, and they worked out because they had their acts together. But a kid is a built-in excuse to cancel. What are you going to do about the "sick kid" excuse? Having a kid often makes them reluctant to meet at their place, as well. I really do not want to get involved in the drama in their lives, and I never do.
The Emmy Goes2
01-07-21, 13:05
Had something happen last night that has happened in the past and I wanted to see if anyone else has run into this.
Got a message from 6 NikkiBaby9 out of Lansing. It was very sexually charged, but it also included some very specific details from my profile. By that, I mean it was pretty apparently written by a person and not a bot. By the time I saw the message today, she had already deactivated her profile, or blocked me. I am not sure which. I have had a few similar things happen the same way before, but the messages had always been very generic. I wish I could figure out what happened to her, and I am sure that her profile disappearing is not a good sign, but her message really resonated with me.
Has anyone else run into this?
MichiganMan686
01-08-21, 06:35
I've been asking for verification photo. Looking for a suggestion on how to ask for it to make sure its really them. Also if you do a meet and greet how mny times will the sugar baby ghost you after that because that is their scam. Meet up for say a 100 and do that over and over again to different daddys. I'm having a real hard time finding a real legit surgar baby. I'm a busy guy and don't want to be scammed. Mm686.
I've been asking for verification photo. Looking for a suggestion on how to ask for it to make sure its really them. Also if you do a meet and greet how mny times will the sugar baby ghost you after that because that is their scam. Meet up for say a 100 and do that over and over again to different daddys. I'm having a real hard time finding a real legit surgar baby. I'm a busy guy and don't want to be scammed. Mm686.I try to be as direct as possible. Meet on the site, take it to the burner chat, discuss particulars (expectations, availability, negotiate price, etc.). Usually after that, I may send an unsolicited face pic and request they do the same. It usually works b / c I think most are used to being inundated w / dick picks immediately. I have been on one meet and greet. Lunch date and afterwards, I ended up ghosting. It only cots me a lunch. I don't go for the pay for company routine. If I am paying, its for contact. And never prepay, cashapp or any of that shit. Good luck.
MichiganMan686
01-08-21, 10:38
I try to be as direct as possible. Meet on the site, take it to the burner chat, discuss particulars (expectations, availability, negotiate price, etc.). Usually after that, I may send an unsolicited face pic and request they do the same. It usually works b / c I think most are used to being inundated w / dick picks immediately. I have been on one meet and greet. Lunch date and afterwards, I ended up ghosting. It only cots me a lunch. I don't go for the pay for company routine. If I am paying, its for contact. And never prepay, cashapp or any of that shit. Good luck.So do you ever say a face pic holding 3 fngers up or something like that? Maybe I'm making the mistake of saying I pay for the meet and greet. This is really hard to land a baby due to having to try t avoid all these scams which I'm going to post for others to help out. TY 4 your input. Mm686.
MichiganMan686
01-08-21, 10:52
The following are scams that have been tried on me.
1. Send me a Venmo downpayment.
2. Lets meet at Meijer and you buy me some stuff meet and greet.
3. PPM is good but before we meet send me some money for me to get my nails and hair done so I look great for our meeting.
4. PPM s good. Ill get the room Venmo me the money routine.
5. Ill do PPM but first meeting is not physical.
6. You want to buy pics and vids to Bop your Bologna while you watch?
7. Ill come to you but I have no gas money.
I'm probably going to hang this up after m membership runs out. Takes way too long to hook up.
Mm686.
SomeDetroitGuy
01-09-21, 15:14
I've been asking for verification photo. Looking for a suggestion on how to ask for it to make sure its really them. Also if you do a meet and greet how mny times will the sugar baby ghost you after that because that is their scam. Meet up for say a 100 and do that over and over again to different daddys. I'm having a real hard time finding a real legit surgar baby. I'm a busy guy and don't want to be scammed. Mm686.I ask for a quick video either via kik or Text of them saying something specific. I prefer to move off SA's chat as quickly as possible. As we are having a conversation, I'll say something like "Hey, hate to ask this but I've been scammed before. I really like you and would love to meet up with you but can you do a quick verification for me? Just a quick video of you giving me a thumbs up saying "it's January 9th, 2021, hi {my name}". Kik is best because you can tell if it is a live video or one they doctor.
SomeDetroitGuy
01-09-21, 15:17
So do you ever say a face pic holding 3 fngers up or something like that? Maybe I'm making the mistake of saying I pay for the meet and greet. This is really hard to land a baby due to having to try t avoid all these scams which I'm going to post for others to help out. TY 4 your input. Mm686.I never pay for a meet and greet. I'll buy a nice dinner, I'll entertain you with sparkling conversation, but I'm not paying for someone to hang out with.
I ask for a quick video either via kik or Text of them saying something specific. I prefer to move off SA's chat as quickly as possible. As we are having a conversation, I'll say something like "Hey, hate to ask this but I've been scammed before. I really like you and would love to meet up with you but can you do a quick verification for me? Just a quick video of you giving me a thumbs up saying "it's January 9th, 2021, hi {my name}". Kik is best because you can tell if it is a live video or one they doctor.I ask for Facetime, most girls don't have an iPhon, I send them a link to zoom.
MichiganMan686
01-10-21, 06:57
Just wanted to say TY for all the responces on this forum. MM686.
SugarDaddyX
01-10-21, 19:25
Anyone talk to this one? I was getting a scammer vibe.
https://www.seeking.com/member/d0e2171d-d902-405e-8b41-6f87d070ce43
Get that sex.
SDX.
Had something happen last night that has happened in the past and I wanted to see if anyone else has run into this.
Got a message from 6 NikkiBaby9 out of Lansing. It was very sexually charged, but it also included some very specific details from my profile. By that, I mean it was pretty apparently written by a person and not a bot. By the time I saw the message today, she had already deactivated her profile, or blocked me. I am not sure which. I have had a few similar things happen the same way before, but the messages had always been very generic. I wish I could figure out what happened to her, and I am sure that her profile disappearing is not a good sign, but her message really resonated with me.
Has anyone else run into this?This might be the same person. She joined on 1/3, and that is the date of her last post.
https://www.seeking.com/member/4f54098e-08aa-4141-978c-fae613f3458e
I try to be as direct as possible. . . . I have been on one meet and greet. Lunch date and afterwards, I ended up ghosting. It only cots me a lunch. You can, of course, do as you choose. I do wish that people would not just ghost people after a meet-and-greet, though. I know that's the easiest way to get out of a situation, but unless they're some kind of scammer, I think I have an obligation to let them know that I don't want to go forward. (Of course, I may not be entirely honest about the reason if the reason is one that would hurt their feelings.) I know that if I interview for a job and they just don't call me back (it's happened), I think that is a chickens* way out by the person who just doesn't want to deliver bad news. I know that I don't like it when I'm ghosted on SA, which has happened far too often, and when it does, I feel myself aggrieved.
The Emmy Goes2
01-11-21, 12:16
This might be the same person. She joined on 1/3, and that is the date of her last post.
https://www.seeking.com/member/4f54098e-08aa-4141-978c-fae613f3458eI am not sure if it's her. I never got to see a profile pic. It had the grey circle with the line. The name has disappeared from my inbox to just say Sugar Baby now. It may be her, but if it is, take what she says with a grain of salt. Although I think that applies to any of them.
DrStrange2
01-13-21, 22:59
Just rejoined SA and it worse than before. The scammers are out in full force. Talk to three so far that wanted "to meet" next thing you know here comes the hey babe can you send me 50 to get ready. I can't believe that some guys fall for that.
Does anyone have a good recommendation? I have meet three in the past and am willing to share info in exchange. PM me with the details and I will share with you.
BestDjInOhio
01-14-21, 01:34
The following are scams that have been tried on me.
1. Send me a Venmo downpayment.
2. Lets meet at Meijer and you buy me some stuff meet and greet.
3. PPM is good but before we meet send me some money for me to get my nails and hair done so I look great for our meeting.
4. PPM s good. Ill get the room Venmo me the money routine.
5. Ill do PPM but first meeting is not physical.
6. You want to buy pics and vids to Bop your Bologna while you watch?
7. Ill come to you but I have no gas money.
I'm probably going to hang this up after m membership runs out. Takes way too long to hook up.
Mm686.Yes, it's a part time job for sure.
Let me share what works for me, do your search for whatever your criteria is, THEN ONLY message the girls online now, or the girls that were online in the past couple hours. Message all of them (I use a tried and true opening message that always guarantees a reply) then wait for them to reply. Sometimes it may be a couple days, girls are busy so don't sweat them (set it and forget it) I then reply back to them with another copy and paste message that works, then the next reply I have a number. Hey the number ASAP!
Ignore any girls that don't have a matching area code, yeah you might get rid of a good one but most all other area codes are the cash app Venmo scams. I've even had girls with out of state area codes go as far as to say a local address even, but then it always happens. Cashapp me for gas, etc.
I don't waste my time with those. By doing this every night I collect a ton of numbers then the weeding out begins. Go for the meetup as soon as possible. If you don't meet within that same week then chances are you never will. The more time that goes by the less likely you are to meet. (This holds true for ANY dating site).
When I meet I never do PPM the first time unless sex is involved then I'll consider it. 9 times out of 10 I get laid on the first time without even paying them anything. Those are the keepers. The ones that enjoy you for your company and the money is just a bonus. Those ones I will take care of occasionally but never on the first meet.
Good luck and don't give up! It works, it just takes some time and you have to find out what works for you but it all starts with weeding out the scammers asap!
MichiganMan686
01-15-21, 06:01
Yes, it's a part time job for sure.
Let me share what works for me, do your search for whatever your criteria is, THEN ONLY message the girls online now, or the girls that were online in the past couple hours. Message all of them (I use a tried and true opening message that always guarantees a reply) then wait for them to reply. Sometimes it may be a couple days, girls are busy so don't sweat them (set it and forget it) I then reply back to them with another copy and paste message that works, then the next reply I have a number. Hey the number ASAP!
Ignore any girls that don't have a matching area code, yeah you might get rid of a good one but most all other area codes are the cash app Venmo scams. I've even had girls with out of state area codes go as far as to say a local address even, but then it always happens. Cashapp me for gas, etc.
I don't waste my time with those. By doing this every night I collect a ton of numbers then the weeding out begins. Go for the meetup as soon as possible. If you don't meet within that same week then chances are you never will. The more time that goes by the less likely you are to meet. (This holds true for ANY dating site).
When I meet I never do PPM the first time unless sex is involved then I'll consider it. 9 times out of 10 I get laid on the first time without even paying them anything. Those are the keepers. The ones that enjoy you for your company and the money is just a bonus. Those ones I will take care of occasionally but never on the first meet.
Good luck and don't give up! It works, it just takes some time and you have to find out what works for you but it all starts with weeding out the scammers asap!TY BestDJinOhio for this info. I'm kinda getting the hang of this and doing a lot of what you have suggested here. It does take a while to get the hang of it for sure. I agree with the opening line too. Just saying hey doesn't separate you from scammers or douchebags on SA. Its starting to be more fun. Going to be gettn some action soon. MM686.
DonnyBrasco
01-20-21, 12:59
https://www.seeking.com/member/f84ec655-cb16-4614-89d1-a4f5c62b817f
We just started texting. Anyone have experience with her?
https://www.seeking.com/member/f84ec655-cb16-4614-89d1-a4f5c62b817f
We just started texting. Anyone have experience with her?I spoke with her before. She wanted 5 I think, it was a while ago. You can find her on tryst. She's a pro. I personally try to stay away from the pros.
MichiganMan686
01-21-21, 07:11
Did the whole arrangment by text. All details covered. Setup a day and time. I confirm that morning. I text good morning. She texts back good morning I text how is our 2 o clock looking. Then nothing. WTF. I text back if its not today no problem just let me know. No response. I know things come up and I understand but no text back at all? I even messaged on her SA account too. Any one else have this happen? Mm686.
DonnyBrasco
01-21-21, 10:58
The notorious Nicole from hanks can suck peanut butter through a staw.Yes she can. She's a pro. Asks for $2 but can be talked down. The act is pretty good, but she's still in the strip club mentality, once the songs over she moves on. There wasn't anything off limits, but I didn't really push any boundaries. Also, she's a bit heavier than her SA pics.
The Emmy Goes2
01-21-21, 15:18
Had a quick exchange with her. I have to at least give her credit for not stringing me along. Told me "I joined because I'm lonely and my 4 year old son is in the hospital recieving treatments for leukemia so I'm looking for donations to his page for an arrangement with me so basically it benefits him but also gives me some fun adult time". I replied with I would be happy to donate in person. Response was "That's not how I do things".
Oh well. Another day, another scammer. What's new?
It has gotten so bad out there lately. I miss the old days.
DonnyBrasco
01-21-21, 20:31
https://www.seeking.com/member/f84ec655-cb16-4614-89d1-a4f5c62b817f
We just started texting. Anyone have experience with her?Avoid this one. She's a pro and not even a good one. She was cool via text and when we FaceTimed but a dead fish with rules in the room. An expensive lesson learned.
HeadsUp313
01-21-21, 22:12
Avoid this one. She's a pro and not even a good one. She was cool via text and when we FaceTimed but a dead fish with rules in the room. An expensive lesson learned.You didn't ask her what her rules were before you paid her and or got the room?
MichiganMan686
01-23-21, 05:03
Avoid this one. She's a pro and not even a good one. She was cool via text and when we FaceTimed but a dead fish with rules in the room. An expensive lesson learned.She's been texting me. TY for the info movin on.
DonnyBrasco
01-23-21, 07:26
Anyone have any insights? https://www.seeking.com/member/62bbe48b-a855-49c6-ac3d-e02ee09696ce.
Anyone have any insights? https://www.seeking.com/member/62bbe48b-a855-49c6-ac3d-e02ee09696ce.Talked with here and see has continued to text me for two month without me responding. She said she only does it with her friend the first time. 4 each. I just got a weird vibe so I didn't pursue.
Talked with here and see has continued to text me for two month without me responding. She said she only does it with her friend the first time. 4 each. I just got a weird vibe so I didn't pursue.I never respond to any of her texts. She's been messaging me for 3 months now. Told me the same thing about her friend as well. The whole situation is weird- avoid.
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