View Full Version : SeekingArrangement DC area
Same here in the Boston area, for sure. Your history lesson is 100% accurate.
I was fortunate to be in the SA game starting in the early 20-teens. As you wrote, a mix of undergrads, grad students, young professionals, and single moms; all happy for some casual sex and some ca $h. And when traveling for business it was a pretty reliable way to find a hookup; I had some fantastic experiences like that in San Diego, San Antonio, South Florida, NYC, Chicago, Richmond, and of course DC.
Hope springs eternal, and since covid I've been on and off and on and off the site so many times. A few hits but it's just way too much work now. And OMG there are So Many scam profiles; they are so easy to spot, with very recent created dates and "unknown" location data. And the same tired prose in the profiles.
I thought I'd try one more time this fall with the students coming back to Boston. . . But they just are NOT on the site. 'Tis a shame. And I think this time I'm finally "out" for good.
You're not wrong, unfortunately. From what I understand, Seeking was wildly fun from its inception through 2017. Lots of college co-eds, broke moms, strippers, nurses, junior partners, government employees, secretaries, etc decided to test the waters of "sugar dating. " Around 2018, OF began to really surge in popularity, which essentially ended Seeking's heyday. Then COVID came along and fucked with everyone's wallet (except Pfizer's) with the ensuing lock down causing a slight resurgence in Seeking membership. After everything tapered off and returned to normal, the downward slide picked up steam again from 2022 to present. Now, it's basically a wasteland of disappointment with many accounts either being scam artists, bots, or jaded and delusional women looking to maximize the benjamins with little to no effort on their part in actually earning them.
Case in point, this year has been quite the trainwreck for me. Not counting the messages left on read, of course (which is perfectly fine as women have their types just like us), I've encountered more time-wasters in the last six months than in the prior three years combined! To try to offset some of this craziness, I started setting up multiple M&Gs for the same day on a weekend just to see what sticks. Last Saturday was supposed to be a first meet with three different SBs--and take a wild guess what happened? One demanded gas money the hour before we were supposed to meet, another said she had second thoughts about sugaring in general, and the third just ghosted then blocked.
I figured I'd start posting and try to contribute This one is from secret benefits, and unfortunately, she is a time waster in my opinion. She won't say what kind of rules she has. She will not give a definitive amount. All I got from her is that she's a stripper. This one was a bust for me maybe you guys will have better luck.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/0419911879fe1f7c
Gents just debriefing of my findings. First of all I've always said that we can control and hold the power on how we want to guide everything. If we choose to give to much and inflate there head and they tell everyone or keep it controlled. Some of these definitely got GPS. At that their amounts an Agency or Tryst is much better. Better quality looks and experience.
*VB14.
Not even going to link anything cause they talked about here a lot. She's requesting 4 of my good old friends Benjamins, to go out solely to dinner and in that dinner we can discuss a second another meet up. I laughed and said no thanks.
*Elena.
https://members.seeking.com/member/a19804e6-8651-4932-82ad-d33989184a35
She requested to send her Benjamin to help her find a baby sitter. Then requested I send her 5 Franklins she I could host. GPS. Smh.
*Genesis..I've spoken with princess before, might jump the gun this time. Blowing with a cover sucks though.
SugarLifeNow
06-15-25, 01:18
New SLN Girl, Benjii 27.
https://sugarlifenow.com/profile/BenjiiBby
PapiChulo11
07-28-25, 10:47
So meet with this Native American / Mexican girl. She's very "Want it my way type of girl" She was bugged when I was like 3 mins late haha but I just played it off, and then didn't want to see me and refused to see me until later. Luckily I had some work in the area and was able to set something up later in the day, she tried to go up on what we originally agreed to 2. But I never agreed just played off the convo as if we were continuing to meet. Got there and she then asked me to wait a couple minutes 10 mins later she let me in her basement which she is moving out of supposedly sometime soon. Looks great naked. Young firm but soft natural breast, and nice tight kitty. She was up charging for raw at 4. But hell no! Gents you can't be dishing out that much that's why these girls get GPS. Has a small booty, its fit and a bit firm for my liking but it is nice. She doesn't get too into it. But definitely feels it and gets wet quickly. Pretty easy going in person just over the phone is a bit bitchy and demanding. I won't be repeating after hitting 3 visits, I couldn't get her to budge for less then 3. For BB. So I stayed at my comfy 1.5 CC. Happy Hunting Gents and please control these GPS don't be dishing out so much bens like crazy.
https://members.seeking.com/member/338a7b45-27d2-4c67-a1fb-72969ef573c8
So meet with this Native American / Mexican girl. She's very "Want it my way type of girl" She was bugged when I was like 3 mins late haha but I just played it off, and then didn't want to see me and refused to see me until later. Luckily I had some work in the area and was able to set something up later in the day, she tried to go up on what we originally agreed to 2. But I never agreed just played off the convo as if we were continuing to meet. Got there and she then asked me to wait a couple minutes 10 mins later she let me in her basement which she is moving out of supposedly sometime soon. Looks great naked. Young firm but soft natural breast, and nice tight kitty. She was up charging for raw at 4. But hell no! Gents you can't be dishing out that much that's why these girls get GPS. Has a small booty, its fit and a bit firm for my liking but it is nice. She doesn't get too into it. But definitely feels it and gets wet quickly. Pretty easy going in person just over the phone is a bit bitchy and demanding. I won't be repeating after hitting 3 visits, I couldn't get her to budge for less then 3. For BB. So I stayed at my comfy 1.5 CC. Happy Hunting Gents and please control these GPS don't be dishing out so much bens like crazy.
https://members.seeking.com/member/338a7b45-27d2-4c67-a1fb-72969ef573c8I saw her a few months ago and did bare for 400. I guess I spoiled her, I didn't return after the first visit, she was cool, but the basement room, and her appearance wasn't sexy enough for another investment. Her body was good, but geez, put on some sexy underwear or at least a robe and nude under. She wasn't shaved and wore an old t-shirt and sweats.
PapiChulo11
08-04-25, 12:51
I saw her a few months ago and did bare for 400. I guess I spoiled her, I didn't return after the first visit, she was cool, but the basement room, and her appearance wasn't sexy enough for another investment. Her body was good, but geez, put on some sexy underwear or at least a robe and nude under. She wasn't shaved and wore an old t-shirt and sweats.LOL my manz! Definitely spoiled especially if you didn't think she was as good looking, to each their own no issue not your cup of tea. LOL but man don't let your little brain down there control your wallet. Haha but agreed she met me naked only old big tshirt and she had a Bush. I'm not repeating since she's too full of smack. Unless its one of those days I really can't find anyone else. But even then. Eeehh.
SteveStone123
09-19-25, 00:14
Another fake profile located in Columbia. She wants to chat through WhatsApp Or Snapchat.
https://members.seeking.com/member/089b9e2d-b3a2-4d89-a66f-bf4e8b546ae9
SugarLifeNow
10-16-25, 00:10
Hey everyone, Dave here, new SLN chocolate girl in Washington DC, her name is Wynter and she is 21. She is looking for someone to help her get to Los Angeles in a couple of weeks. She describes herself as super submissive and loves having her ass f*ed especially while being choked and slapped. She likes giving head and claims to have no gag reflex but has never been face f*ed. Likes having her ass fingered and tits sucked on when she rides, but her favorite is doggy with a toy in her ass. Not into 3 sums MFF, but she likes girls and will do a MFF 3 sum. She said she wants her toes sucked on while getting f*ed and a girl rides her face. Ok with BBFS. No word on allowance.
https://sugarlifenow.com/profile/Wynnie/
https://members.seeking.com/member/9c90d478-2862-43e2-a044-f3cec807eec8
Wants to use Telegram. I assume that this is a red flag, so I will not pursue. I don't have Telegram anyways.
RegularJoe1985
12-29-25, 11:51
So meet with this Native American / Mexican girl. She's very "Want it my way type of girl" She was bugged when I was like 3 mins late haha ....
https://members.seeking.com/member/338a7b45-27d2-4c67-a1fb-72969ef573c8Seems her profile is gone now, perhaps she has a new one or has gotten tired of not getting what thinks she should based on what she reads on social media LOL.
Rngerbrass
01-04-26, 14:05
You're not wrong, unfortunately. From what I understand, Seeking was wildly fun from its inception through 2017. Lots of college co-eds, broke moms, strippers, nurses, junior partners, government employees, secretaries, etc decided to test the waters of "sugar dating. " Around 2018, OF began to really surge in popularity, which essentially ended Seeking's heyday. Then COVID came along and fucked with everyone's wallet (except Pfizer's) with the ensuing lock down causing a slight resurgence in Seeking membership. After everything tapered off and returned to normal, the downward slide picked up steam again from 2022 to present. Now, it's basically a wasteland of disappointment with many accounts either being scam artists, bots, or jaded and delusional women looking to maximize the benjamins with little to no effort on their part in actually earning them.
Case in point, this year has been quite the trainwreck for me. Not counting the messages left on read, of course (which is perfectly fine as women have their types just like us), I've encountered more time-wasters in the last six months than in the prior three years combined! To try to offset some of this craziness, I started setting up multiple M&Gs for the same day on a weekend just to see what sticks. Last Saturday was supposed to be a first meet with three different SBs--and take a wild guess what happened? One demanded gas money the hour before we were supposed to meet, another said she had second thoughts about sugaring in general, and the third just ghosted then blocked.
In worst-case scenarios like that, I bring a laptop to work on & chill at a coffee shop or grab food at a place I've never visited just so the trip's not a complete bust. As for this weekend, I'm supposed to meet two new ones. If both show up when they say they will, then that will be a fantastic problem to have indeed! However, I'm not holding my breath and have learned to have lower expectations from Seeking these days. Perhaps it'll be different when I travel overseas next month, but I highly doubt I'll be needing Seeking's help finding some strange over there.
All that to say this: it's a huge bummer for sure how far they've fallen. It's a lot tougher to find real, amateur, diamond-in-the-rough, girl-next-door-type SBs--even more tricky to find any among that number who won't ask for prices normally associated with that of a professional escort. And if they look like supermodels who just want to supplement their lavish lifestyle with another Gucci bag or a new BMW, then you can forget about trying to bargain with the overwhelming majority of them! Chances are those types will stick to their guns & quit Seeking if no one takes them up on their demand, or they'll find a well-off john here who doesn't mind making it rain for an average CFS time.
If things continue the way they are, I'll likely just let my subscription expire & go back to Asian agencies. But we'll see how the rest of this shitshow of a year goes down. One can only hope that Seeking's competition picks it up and competes so as to offset the market.Can someone tell me what "OF" means? As in "Around 2018, OF began to really surge in popularity" in the first paragraph. I don't see that one in the abbreviations list.
Only Fans
SugarLifeNow
01-12-26, 00:34
Hey everyone Dave here, new hot fun SLN girl in Maryland City, her name is Bella and she is 19. She definitely has a daddy kink and is very submissive. She loves doggy and missionary, and likes a variation of rough and then gentle. Her favorite thing is being eaten out, but she also likes giving head and will swallow. She loves being choked, praised and degraded. Anal is not her favorite, but she is willing to consider it, and she will also consider a 3 sum MFF.
No word on BBFS or allowance.
https://sugarlifenow.com/profile/Bellareali/
RegularJoe1985
01-22-26, 09:29
I think it is our fault to get these girls get GPS when they least deserve that.
VB14 - who wants to give her 4 for just dinner, LOL. She must be out of her mind.
Jenny. Giving her 4 for being snappy when guy was a few min late, a bit bitchy and demanding, not being shaved, no sexy appearance.
Now why would anyone give her even the time of day.
If these girls could make enough they wouldn't be on SA. And with their attitude I'm not surprised if they don't have a guy in their lives. , no-one can tolerate them LOL.
That's why we pay them to leave.
RegularJoe1985
02-04-26, 16:58
It seems that she is aware of this site and her reviews on here. SMH.
Now has a new profile LOL.
Not sure if one of the simps here gave her that info. She isn't that smart to figure it out LOL.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f8a41cf8-6e4e-4dc1-a847-c113372448c5
Suggest avoiding. I connected with her. She moved to text quickly. Wanted 5, I talked her down to 3 for an outcall to me. I asked for PSE and she agreed. Positive was she didn't ask for upfront and she was on time. Once she arrived, not interested in small talk, ready to get down to business. I gave donation at beginning as I normally do. She pulled condom out and I said we agreed on PSE and she says that's extra. I said we agreed though and she claimed she misunderstood. Get clothes off, she leaves her top on but pulls over breasts which are man made. Nice to look at. She goes to put condom on and I say BBJ first and she says I don't do that. I say, so you're going to do a covered BJ and she says no, that's 300 extra LOL. I say no way. And at that point you could see her demeanor change. She went to let's get this over with. She puts condom on and says what position I say lay back and I put some saliva in my head to lube up and she says ooooh no. So I have to wipe my hand and then I enter her dry and start pounding and she pushes back with knees and I say what's wrong, she says I'm too big. Look, I'm def not big LOL. So I get off her and stand by the bed and pull her over to hit her standing mish and let me tell you, at that point, I pounded for all I had and busted in the bag. Before I had the condom off, she was dressed to leave. Win some, lose some. AVOID.
Senbonzakura
02-28-26, 17:26
https://members.seeking.com/member/f8a41cf8-6e4e-4dc1-a847-c113372448c5
Suggest avoiding. I connected with her. She moved to text quickly. Wanted 5, I talked her down to 3 for an outcall to me. I asked for PSE and she agreed. Positive was she didn't ask for upfront and she was on time. Once she arrived, not interested in small talk, ready to get down to business. I gave donation at beginning as I normally do. She pulled condom out and I said we agreed on PSE and she says that's extra. I said we agreed though and she claimed she misunderstood. Get clothes off, she leaves her top on but pulls over breasts which are man made. Nice to look at. She goes to put condom on and I say BBJ first and she says I don't do that. I say, so you're going to do a covered BJ and she says no, that's 300 extra LOL. I say no way. And at that point you could see her demeanor change. She went to let's get this over with. She puts condom on and says what position I say lay back and I put some saliva in my head to lube up and she says ooooh no. So I have to wipe my hand and then I enter her dry and start pounding and she pushes back with knees and I say what's wrong, she says I'm too big. Look, I'm def not big LOL. So I get off her and stand by the bed and pull her over to hit her standing mish and let me tell you, at that point, I pounded for all I had and busted in the bag. Before I had the condom off, she was dressed to leave. Win some, lose some. AVOID.Yeah, the upselling with this one was crazy. She was nice to talk to, but I couldn't even get a nut. Her pictures are deceiving.
Anyone can provide any insights on Bunny? I'm thinking about hitting her up. Pics look pretty good but I've been wrong before. Thanks in advance.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4fa34cff-5ffe-4e92-bd08-5f3444796417
Starwood1982
05-06-26, 12:43
Anyone can provide any insights on Bunny? I'm thinking about hitting her up. Pics look pretty good but I've been wrong before. Thanks in advance.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4fa34cff-5ffe-4e92-bd08-5f3444796417I have. I'm surprised no one has responded to this yet as she's been around. If you keep the donation to. 5 I'd recommend.
SugarLifeNow
05-09-26, 18:32
Hey everyone, new fun SLN girl in Potomac, her name is Neese and she is 23. She will not do anal, but other than that she aims to please and will do whatever. She can handle rough sex and is ok with spanking and choking. She has never been with a girl but will do a 3 sum MMF. She is ok with BBFS as long as recent testing. Asking for a mid to high PPM allowance.
https://sugarlifenow.com/profile/everywoman/
AltDemonMil
06-20-26, 19:03
Hey everyone, new fun SLN girl in Potomac, her name is Neese and she is 23. She will not do anal, but other than that she aims to please and will do whatever. She can handle rough sex and is ok with spanking and choking. She has never been with a girl but will do a 3 sum MMF. She is ok with BBFS as long as recent testing. Asking for a mid to high PPM allowance.
https://sugarlifenow.com/profile/everywoman/Hey just noticing the username. Do you run / own the site? If so how many profiles are active? I have managed to have comms with Neese and no one else so far.
Rngerbrass
07-11-26, 22:28
Hey just noticing the username. Do you run / own the site? If so how many profiles are active? I have managed to have comms with Neese and no one else so far.I think he probably just got lucky and no one had taken that username.
Wicked Willie
10-31-26, 14:40
Cute little thing - $$$ for non-GFE BBFS.
Good luck.
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