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Msmith0052
08-09-17, 17:16
Hello all! So, I've been poking around SA and am thinking about paying for a month. Wanted to know if you can cancel after a month pretty easily and if most profiles on there are real? Any insight for a beginner is welcome. Thanks!!
MilkMan1234
08-09-17, 18:51
Hello all! So, I've been poking around SA and am thinking about paying for a month. Wanted to know if you can cancel after a month pretty easily and if most profiles on there are real? Any insight for a beginner is welcome. Thanks!!Long time lurker who finally registered and need to start sharing info.
To answer your questions.
Yes you can cancel very easy after one month. As a matter fact, I've had to re-pay each month I want to continue.
Yes most of the profiles are real. Some have unreasonable expectations of the website or are unsure what their value is, but they are real.
I recently spent 3 weeks in your city and connected with 5 girls off the site (report coming). Takes a lot of time and effort with some, but worth it.
Unknown strawberry blonde, about 5'5" tall, 110 lbs, B cups, mid 30's, looking for one friend only, she's been in my rotation over a year and I'm just not wanting to visit with her as much anymore.
Unknown strawberry blonde, about 5'5" tall, 110 lbs, B cups, mid 30's, looking for one friend only, she's been in my rotation over a year and I'm just not wanting to visit with her as much anymore.Looking for only one friend, so unless your message jumps out at me showing that you can provide frequent and steady help for her, I'm not responding.
Had a short convo with Brownbabies on SA. Two girls share the profile and are a package deal. My title refers to their "deal". Two girls for 950. Ha ha ha. That was pretty much the only response I could muster.I know of a pair that is a lot better on their " allowance" they start off at 1 K but they'll negotiate. Maybe they will too?
Acemaster3 - Just wants to hang out and go platonic in the beginning. If she wasn't in Terre Haute, I would actually consider it. Very nice sweet girl.
CandyDasiy. Will play for pay (hour). But she is in Sullivan, Indiana. Too far for me.
CharlieDMarie. She went from "talk to my email" to one week later asking to "meet tonight". She must have needed a bill paid. Or bored. Unfortunately, it was a school night for me. I couldn't go out.
BrownieBabies. If the "main pic" girl gives you her #, it leads to her main FB page and you can figure out who she and her friend are. Single mom, broke, living at home with her parents. The friend is also broke. Both look cute. This potential 3 some intrigues me, if the price is right. In current talks. They opened at $350/ each. But a newly 3 some could have potential issues if they start playing games. They are really pushing the 3 some due to "safety in numbers & we have never done this before & we are scared to do it alone. " But I can see one of them having a "pre-planned" emergency and cutting it short. So if anyone TOFTT, I would definitely sugar AFTER you get sugared.
SaraMiller20 - wants 300 just for videos and pics. Scam.
ALSYoursTruly106 - Goes by Ana on BP.
LilSummerBaby. I Pm'ed her on a Tues night. Her reponse was "My friend and I are having dinner, but we will wait and have dinner with you". When I told them that I didn't want to interrupt their dinner and that I would meet them for drinks later, they responded with a "No Thank you".
BrittyBoo0826/ BrittyBoo826 - Anyone gotten anywhere with her? Her pics on SA & FB are nice, but they alternate between fat and thin. I want to know which one she is now, LOL!
That's all I got for now.
Is running a scam operation. Pics aren't real stolen from another user. Attempts to get paypal first. She got zilch from me, just warning you guys!
Is a well known rip off. She favorited me and I assume all of you as well. I've been chatting with her all day. Hoping to take up as much time as I can.
Good luck out there.
Dave.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/f1ff5d15-dabc-4ceb-b7ce-8e12cdf04d45
INTravelingMan
08-24-17, 16:44
But isn't she taking up yours as well?
Is a well known rip off. She favorited me and I assume all of you as well. I've been chatting with her all day. Hoping to take up as much time as I can.
Good luck out there.
Dave.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/f1ff5d15-dabc-4ceb-b7ce-8e12cdf04d45
LingusUs41
08-25-17, 12:17
Is a well known rip off. She favorited me and I assume all of you as well. I've been chatting with her all day. Hoping to take up as much time as I can.
Good luck out there.
Dave.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/f1ff5d15-dabc-4ceb-b7ce-8e12cdf04d45http://indianapolis.backpage.com/TherapeuticMassage/kendall-wants-to-make-u-feel-good-to-leave-satisfied-and-happy-guaranteed-satisfaction/23051518
She is down to play. Does the whole "I am a good girl & only looking for that one special daddy" & "I don't f*ck on the first date", but we have all heard that before.
She used to dance at The Red Garter as "Charlie". Who knows, maybe she still does? But man, she knows how to put on the PSE act. I almost blew my load in her mouth.
She shows you a cell phone bill (that she needs help with. I think everyone is paying the same phone bill.
I *probably* won't repeat just for one reason; She is about a 3-4 pack per day smoker. That's too much for me.
EnddAppless
08-29-17, 17:21
She is down to play. Does the whole "I am a good girl & only looking for that one special daddy" & "I don't f*ck on the first date", but we have all heard that before.
She used to dance at The Red Garter as "Charlie". Who knows, maybe she still does? But man, she knows how to put on the PSE act. I almost blew my load in her mouth.
She shows you a cell phone bill (that she needs help with. I think everyone is paying the same phone bill.
I *probably* won't repeat just for one reason; She is about a 3-4 pack per day smoker. That's too much for me.So, is the only way to find more info on CharlieDMarie is to sign up on SA? I wasn't sure if it's all scams?
Zen Adventurer
08-29-17, 20:19
Been at SA a week now. So far, I've connected with three kinds of girls. First are young college-age girls looking to make a quick buck and be naughty now that they're not living at home. Hooking up with two of these this weekend and will report. Second are the girls that, after no more than a day, come at you with come kind of money crisis and want you to send them money via PayPal. So far, this is about a third of them that I've corresponded with. Todays, a young lady said she bought an RV off of her boss for $1000, could only come up with $500 and if she didn't have another $500 by tomorrow, she was going to be homeless (no RV), her boss was going to fire her AND he was going to keep the $500 she already gave him. I'm still pissing my pants laughing. The third type will lead you on and then tell you she prefers strictly platonic arrangement where she sends you naked pictures and videos (though I found one who also offered Skype). This was about a third as well. Actually, there is a fourth. Foreign bots from Russia and Belarus and Pac Rim, but those are easy to spot and ignore. So let's be careful out there. Will let you know if the girls I actually meet are legit.
Been at SA a week now. So far, I've connected with three kinds of girls. First are young college-age girls looking to make a quick buck and be naughty now that they're not living at home. Hooking up with two of these this weekend and will report. Second are the girls that, after no more than a day, come at you with come kind of money crisis and want you to send them money via PayPal. So far, this is about a third of them that I've corresponded with. Todays, a young lady said she bought an RV off of her boss for $1000, could only come up with $500 and if she didn't have another $500 by tomorrow, she was going to be homeless (no RV), her boss was going to fire her AND he was going to keep the $500 she already gave him. I'm still pissing my pants laughing. The third type will lead you on and then tell you she prefers strictly platonic arrangement where she sends you naked pictures and videos (though I found one who also offered Skype). This was about a third as well. Actually, there is a fourth. Foreign bots from Russia and Belarus and Pac Rim, but those are easy to spot and ignore. So let's be careful out there. Will let you know if the girls I actually meet are legit.Like I said below, you'll get anything from Mary Poppins to the Debbie Does Dallas. And 5000 con artists too. That being said I still consider it a gold mine. When you find 3-4 good ones that aren't clock watchers, down for ANYTHING and are amazing. Its worth it.
From very reliable back channels I have learned the SA is now inhabited by Uncle LEO. At least 2 of Hamilton Co finest are lurking on there. If you know some girls on there you may want to caution them. There are also new bait and switch scams on the site now. Common theme is someone who works in the airline industry using vague pictures. It would appear that the sugar sites have been over run as always happens. It is easy to imagine some of the less informed college girls on there suddenly making the news and ruining their lives.
SO I'm not usually into sharing BUT I have a friend who I've really enjoyed and will continue to do so but she's had a couple of not so great experiences with guys on SA. Close calls with a pervert that dam near did her bodily harm. There's a chance some of you may know her from SA, if so you are a lucky guy. I'm not giving out her SA name here per her request.
I don't think she really wants to be UTR per se' but kind of is without knowing it? I'm not going to try to categorize her. It is what it is. I'm not going to go into detail about how good she is and not many people here know me but I wouldn't be seeing her if she wasn't straight up off the chain. Suffice to say she is a VERY sexual lady. Some nice ink, super GFE.
I can get you an email so you can communicate with her. She's going to ask for pics right off the bat. And she can send hers no problem. I know that might not be what some guys are used to but I'm being straight up about it. She's the type that likes to visually see who she might be meeting with before it goes down. At some point she may join this site, I don't really try to influence her on how she should do things, I'm not a pimp just a friend. . My only dog in this hunt is to help keep her safe. So respect that.
She'll probably lean on me and a couple of seniors on this site for their opinion of you, so if you have a BAD rep here. Don't bother Pming me for the email.
I realize I'm not a senior and if this is an obstacle then. Sorry for your luck. I do understand the concept though and respect that as well.
Cheers!
So, is the only way to find more info on CharlieDMarie is to sign up on SA? I wasn't sure if it's all scams?Like most other things in life, some are real and some are scams.
If they want a contribution BEFORE meeting up (Paypay, Venmo, etc) or JUST FOR meeting up (coffee), than I would suggest moving on.
However, with that being said, if a sugarbaby is smoking hot and is willing to do a meet and greet just for the price of a drink, I am willing to do that. But I am not meeting up over a steak & lobster dinner just so they can text me later that "I don't feel like we connected. ".
You connected pretty well with that steak & lobster & 3 drinks!
Is it worth of spending time and money on SBs? I took the premium membership 2 weeks back in SA, from then I have been trying to meet up with someone. I supposed to meet a girl this afternoon for a drink, in the last minute she said that she is not available. All the girls talk but no one wants to take it forward. I am not sure if anyone else had any luck. I think it is not worth spending my time on SA, instead I better depend on UTRs.
INTravelingMan
09-04-17, 21:34
As with anything else, you often get what you put into it. I have met some wonderful sugar babies. You spend enough time and you will see several categories of sugar babies. But keep with it and you may find a gem or two. I know I have really enjoyed my time with some in the past. I have also wasted some time as well. But I have been catfished with regular providers, been given horrible rushed service, and all the other horror stories. I don't find that to be much of the case with the SB if you do your research right and take some time getting to know them.
Is it worth of spending time and money on SBs? I took the premium membership 2 weeks back in SA, from then I have been trying to meet up with someone. I supposed to meet a girl this afternoon for a drink, in the last minute she said that she is not available. All the girls talk but no one wants to take it forward. I am not sure if anyone else had any luck. I think it is not worth spending my time on SA, instead I better depend on UTRs.
Indplsgent4fu
09-04-17, 22:22
Is it worth of spending time and money on SBs? I took the premium membership 2 weeks back in SA, from then I have been trying to meet up with someone. I supposed to meet a girl this afternoon for a drink, in the last minute she said that she is not available. All the girls talk but no one wants to take it forward. I am not sure if anyone else had any luck. I think it is not worth spending my time on SA, instead I better depend on UTRs.I will give you a different answer depending on what day and time you catch me. There are a some AWESOME diamond in the rough opportunities, but you have to spend a LOT LOT LOT of time to dig and nurture, otherwise the site is full of pain in the ass, GPS, freaking time wasters. Everytime I get ready to cancel or not renew my membership, I get a little win that keeps me going (no different then a casino). Today / tonight I wasted 6+ freaking hours of texting, messaging, calling, coordinating and am now still empty handed for the evening.
Indplsgent4fu
09-04-17, 22:29
From very reliable back channels I have learned the SA is now inhabited by Uncle LEO. At least 2 of Hamilton Co finest are lurking on there. If you know some girls on there you may want to caution them. There are also new bait and switch scams on the site now. Common theme is someone who works in the airline industry using vague pictures. It would appear that the sugar sites have been over run as always happens. It is easy to imagine some of the less informed college girls on there suddenly making the news and ruining their lives.Over run is a mild understatement. A few years ago it seemed like 1/10 the amount of girls on there as there are now. Even back 3 or 4 years ago, there was a young lady who told me she was enlisted as an informant in order to save her ass from the graybar hotel. I use caution all the time and will not message explicit details. Stay safe everyone.
DowninBTown
09-05-17, 15:19
I've been using SA on and off for a year, mostly looking around a popular college town south of Indy. I've met a few, gotten lucky a few times but as others have said, at the cost of a lot of time. I'm starting to get suspicious of the site. I think they might post fake ads to draw people to renew their subscriptions. Anything else believe that? After my subscription expired a few very promising looking girls appeared so I paid up again for another month. Now I'm not so sure about them. No response, or when one did respond she wasn't ready to meet. WTF! I'm good at spotting the fake ads on backpage, but these profiles are plausible.
John HandCock
09-05-17, 15:34
I've been using SA on and off for a year, mostly looking around a popular college town south of Indy. I've met a few, gotten lucky a few times but as others have said, at the cost of a lot of time. I'm starting to get suspicious of the site. I think they might post fake ads to draw people to renew their subscriptions. Anything else believe that? After my subscription expired a few very promising looking girls appeared so I paid up again for another month. Now I'm not so sure about them. No response, or when one did respond she wasn't ready to meet. WTF! I'm good at spotting the fake ads on backpage, but these profiles are plausible.Several new girls appearing is nothing to be suspicious about. New girls join dailey by the numbers.
DirkMcQuickley
09-06-17, 16:19
Several new girls appearing is nothing to be suspicious about. New girls join dailey by the numbers.I definitely agree that fake profiles are most likely not something to worry about on SA. On the other hand, if anybody still bothers with AFF, fake profiles are the norm there.
I will give you a different answer depending on what day and time you catch me. There are a some AWESOME diamond in the rough opportunities, but you have to spend a LOT LOT LOT of time to dig and nurture, otherwise the site is full of pain in the ass, GPS, freaking time wasters. Everytime I get ready to cancel or not renew my membership, I get a little win that keeps me going (no different then a casino). Today / tonight I wasted 6+ freaking hours of texting, messaging, calling, coordinating and am now still empty handed for the evening.Your Inbox is full can't reply.
SO I'm not usually into sharing BUT I have a friend who I've really enjoyed and will continue to do so but she's had a couple of not so great experiences with guys on SA. Close calls with a pervert that dam near did her bodily harm. There's a chance some of you may know her from SA, if so you are a lucky guy. I'm not giving out her SA name here per her request.
I don't think she really wants to be UTR per se' but kind of is without knowing it? I'm not going to try to categorize her. It is what it is. I'm not going to go into detail about how good she is and not many people here know me but I wouldn't be seeing her if she wasn't straight up off the chain. Suffice to say she is a VERY sexual lady. Some nice ink, super GFE.
I can get you an email so you can communicate with her. She's going to ask for pics right off the bat. And she can send hers no problem. I know that might not be what some guys are used to but I'm being straight up about it. She's the type that likes to visually see who she might be meeting with before it goes down. At some point she may join this site, I don't really try to influence her on how she should do things, I'm not a pimp just a friend. . My only dog in this hunt is to help keep her safe. So respect that.
She'll probably lean on me and a couple of seniors on this site for their opinion of you, so if you have a BAD rep here. Don't bother Pming me for the email.
I realize I'm not a senior and if this is an obstacle then. Sorry for your luck. I do understand the concept though and respect that as well.
Cheers!She's got enough guys to choose from now. Sent everyone who replied her email. Good luck Its up to her now.
Ron BurgIndy
09-07-17, 12:16
(from SA) - has anyone seen her lately? If so PM me please.
Ron.
Any info? This is from SA.
LingusUs41
09-08-17, 14:20
Anyone seen her?Her and her husband are drug addicts. He has been pimping her out for a few years. She used to be pretty cute with small tits with puffy nipples. They advertise on Craigslist alot in mw4 m Saw her recently after about a year ago and she is skinny can't sit still and her teeth are rotting out. Offered to take her to VA (she's a vet) to get help bit she swears she doesn't do drugs. Couldn't help her. You should find posts about them in Craigslist section. When I first saw her 3 years ago she looked like the big blue eyed white teeth freckled face girl in her pics. Now it makes me sad to look at her. I would give links to the thread but am on phone and limited to what I can do. I hear they started to do the cash and dash scam now too. Its always the same. 6 for room wink wink. He leaves you duck her. Do not meet outside. If you do that means they have no room and will bail on you when you give them the money. Just avoid.
Indplsgent4fu
09-12-17, 14:27
I have talked and / or met with a lot of ladies in the past few weeks with a lot of mixed results, but haven't had time to post and will will post later. However, I met Prettykitty78 last night after courting her over the past 2 months and I felt the need to share this quickly before anyone else gets duped. She has very sexy profile and pics, and about 6 weeks ago she replied back, texted me a full frontal nude pic that looked good, and agreed to meet for 2$, but she needed uber or to be picked up. I didn't want to give out my address, so I offered to pick her up. Waited, waited and waited for her address. She finally replies that she "usually" gets 5$ I promptly said good bye and no more communication took place. Fast forward to 10 days ago. I started a new SA profile and got a new burner number, started a new conversation with her, she sent me the same nude pic and we agreed to meet for 2$ and to pick her up. Waited and waited for address and then she replied 1 hour before I was supposed to pick her that something came up with her roommate and she has to cancel. For 5 days she did not reply to my texts, then out of the blue she texts me yesterday and asked to meet. Strike while the iron is hot, so I made plans to see her after business dinner. She texted me address, we confirmed donation at 2$, I arrive at her apartment and should have kept on driving. It's dark outside and she is all covered up in black clothes. After she gets in, it's obvious she has had quite a few good meals since her nude pic was taken. We get to my place and she is probably 35 to 50 heavier then her pic, probably 5'5" and 180. While driving back she tells me that I am her first (I almost brought to her attention that under a different identity she tells me she "usually" gets such and such), then she tells me how open minded she is and we are going to have fun. Fast forward to fun time, she tells me she is so good at BBBJ, so while she is doing BBBJ, I asked if she is cim or cimsw, she said "oh yes", unfortunately it was all over the place except cim. I was no longer interested in her anymore and took her to a convenient place and paid for her to get an uber back home.
Acemaster3 -
LilSummerBaby. I Pm'ed her on a Tues night. Her reponse was "My friend and I are having dinner, but we will wait and have dinner with you". When I told them that I didn't want to interrupt their dinner and that I would meet them for drinks later, they responded with a "No Thank you".
That's all I got for now.Figured out her angle, she gets drinks and eats free or every POT SD she can get to buy her a "swank" meal. Always wants to meet at upscale clubs / restaurants. She's done after that.
SnapDragon
09-14-17, 11:10
Saw her last night. Very good at her presentation. Says all the right things.
We ended up in the back of my car like a couple of high school kids. It was exciting I must say.
She is very responsive.
Says she isn't a sugar baby or a prostitute yet it is as it is.
Makes it sound like you have a special connection. That she normally doesn't have sex with guys she meets on there but there is something "special" about you.
I didn't buy it but have to admit it sounds good and she is very convincing. Maybe I am wrong. Maybe she is serious. Maybe this hot looking 28 year old really is turned on by this 50 year old over weight white guy with ED. And maybe pigs can fly.
Like it has been reported though she does smoke like a chimney. Sad too. She cab Suck the chrome of an exhaust pipe too.
I gave her $ for the romp. I will repeat just until the act gets old and repetitive. About three more times I suspect.
Figured out her angle, she gets drinks and eats free or every POT SD she can get to buy her a "swank" meal. Always wants to meet at upscale clubs / restaurants. She's done after that.And she gets food to go.
Beware of this one she is scammer. Just Google her name Heather O_k_s Lexington KY. She only got me for $80 saying needed it for gas money to come see me and spend a couple days with me but she never showed. I saw all of the red flags but I talked to her on the phone and she sent any pic that I requested so I thought what the heck I have wasted $80 on worse things. She wanted ALOT more but I wasn't that big of a sucker. Then I Googled her name after she didn't show. Should have done before I sent the money. Very beautiful and sexy woman but STAY AWAY! PM if you want her last name.
I got a sneaking suspicion is LE. Not certain but she wants to talk money right away. Great pics. Wants to meet right away. Talks sexual acts without knowing much about you. Doesn't even want to view your private pics. Can't be certain and I would hate to mess up her flow of income if she is legit but I would be cautious with this one.
BaileyJ17 - beware of this one, she will try to get you to give out banking info, credit cards, etc. I wasn't dumb enough to fall for it.
3 somes- Morgan. Amber95- they will play on first date but they initially have GPS and it takes some doing to get them down. They want to give BBBJ for the price of FS and promise to fix you up right next time. Whatever. I actually LIKE girls like this as it hones your negotiation skills. BUT dammmmmm I felt like I was at the dentist! Or a car lot. They are a hard sell but if you can get them drinking / smoking 420 they negotiate. Might not be worth the time though. YMMV.
BlondeBabe4 u69 - her hubby is pimpin her out. Business failed. Drug use. Its obvious from her pics from now and facebook.
I drove by their house and decided to pass. If you get her number you can google it for 95% of the info.
Babigurl26 texting her and found out she wants vacations, umbrellas in drinks. Has no clue what a sugar baby is for.
I know an EX SB that's very exotic, Tats, piercings, she models some in fact. . and wants a 3- 4 some. But with guys. Always been a ONE time fantasy of hers. If you aren't scared to tag team a hottie let me know!
The Blonde MILF I found is hooking up with one of the guys that Pmed me. I won't say who, if he wants to that's find but she doesn't want to be reviewed. Just to let all you guys know that sent me a PM, she THANKS you very much and all of you are awesome but she's only looking for uber low volume. Do nOT lament! She has your email and in some of your case phone number also! It could happen!
Indplsgent4fu
09-20-17, 11:09
I don't have a lot of time to post all details, but use caution with Vayda. I discovered before meeting her that she is a minor, and when I confronted her she did confirm, her response "is that ok". Don't know exactly how old she is, no car, can't drive, uses bicycle, friends or uber to go anywhere, confirmed she has no I'd, confirmed she lives with parents, confirmed she is enrolled and attending high school. I never met her in person, I stopped communicating, blocked her profile and reported her to the site admin. No more info to share. I hope I don't hear or see any of you in the evening news.
RWarNmsn69
09-21-17, 00:56
I don't have a lot of time to post all details, but use caution with Vayda. I discovered before meeting her that she is a minor, and when I confronted her she did confirm, her response "is that ok". Don't know exactly how old she is, no car, can't drive, uses bicycle, friends or uber to go anywhere, confirmed she has no I'd, confirmed she lives with parents, confirmed she is enrolled and attending high school. I never met her in person, I stopped communicating, blocked her profile and reported her to the site admin. No more info to share. I hope I don't hear or see any of you in the evening news.Do you have a profile link to go with your warning? Unable to locate the profile using "Vayda" and SA’s awesome search feature.
Safe mongering and sugaring!
Indplsgent4fu
09-21-17, 12:17
Do you have a profile link to go with your warning? Unable to locate the profile using "Vayda" and SAs awesome search feature.
Safe mongering and sugaring!Profile has been taken down.
Has there ever been a Christmas party for SD / SB's to enjoy some holiday grog from this site? Would that be something anyone would be down for?
INTravelingMan
09-24-17, 10:40
But how would you get the SB there? Each SD invites one SB? Or each SD just sets up dates with all their SB? Now that would be fun and funny!
Has there ever been a Christmas party for SD / SB's to enjoy some holiday grog from this site? Would that be something anyone would be down for?
But how would you get the SB there? Each SD invites one SB? Or each SD just sets up dates with all their SB? Now that would be fun and funny!I'm pretty sure that wouldn't be too hard to do. I mean could you not invite 2 former Sb's and also Pm a couple and let them know? I bet if you did one or two would show up. Law of averages.
NastyBoys10
09-25-17, 13:22
Met last night with greyhound317. Little college girl who works for hotel. Was very skeptical. Paypal 1/2 up front. Was cheap so I thought what the hell. Immediacy after I got adresss (messy college apartment). Everything was fantastic. She told me to tell friends because she has to pay for.
Travel coming up. LOL message me for details.
Has there ever been a Christmas party for SD / SB's to enjoy some holiday grog from this site? Would that be something anyone would be down for?I would like to join.
TheCoach26
09-26-17, 09:53
Met last night with greyhound317. Little college girl who works for hotel. Was very skeptical. Paypal 1/2 up front. Was cheap so I thought what the hell. Immediacy after I got adresss (messy college apartment). Everything was fantastic. She told me to tell friends because she has to pay for.
Travel coming up. LOL message me for details.Are her pics real?
http://www.poringa.net/posts/imagenes/2490545/La-colo-a-full-amateur-18.html
Paypal upfront? Smells like a scam. I will pass on this one if that is the requirement.
The svidanya.
Boris.
Met last night with greyhound317. Little college girl who works for hotel. Was very skeptical. Paypal 1/2 up front. Was cheap so I thought what the hell. Immediacy after I got adresss (messy college apartment). Everything was fantastic. She told me to tell friends because she has to pay for.
Travel coming up. LOL message me for details.
Indplsgent4fu
09-26-17, 13:41
Met last night with greyhound317. Little college girl who works for hotel. Was very skeptical. Paypal 1/2 up front. Was cheap so I thought what the hell. Immediacy after I got adresss (messy college apartment). Everything was fantastic. She told me to tell friends because she has to pay for.
Travel coming up. LOL message me for details.My hunch is she is more scam then not. I've been in a dialogue with her twice, once a month ago and it was days in between texts, and didn't go anywhere so I finally gave up. Then again recently, and when we got down to last minute details of 300 to party, then she popped the 1/2 fee in advance. I have NEVER done advance, and I can't recall ever hearing about anyone with good success with that. When I expressed to her that scammers do that and why did she need 1/2 up front, she stopped texting. BTW, I never sensed a skeptical/cautious side of her, actually seemed more confident.
Indplsgent4fu
09-26-17, 14:23
Just thought I would point out a couple things you can look at on a girl's profile that might be a clue it's a scam. Look at the place of recent login / checkin to see if it's overseas or USA. I have seen quite a few from Nigeria, Korea, Germany, Taiwan, etc. Also, about a week or so ago there were a lot of profiles pop up within a 24 hour period that were member since 2011 (possible legit, but not likely). Also, if you're engaged in serious messaging back and forth on the site and you don't see her ever viewing your profile well then perhaps the scammer doesn't have any intention of meeting. Good luck and think with the right head.
John HandCock
09-26-17, 15:42
Just thought I would point out a couple things you can look at on a girl's profile that might be a clue it's a scam. Look at the place of recent login / checkin to see if it's overseas or USA. I have seen quite a few from Nigeria, Korea, Germany, Taiwan, etc. Also, about a week or so ago there were a lot of profiles pop up within a 24 hour period that were member since 2011 (possible legit, but not likely). Also, if you're engaged in serious messaging back and forth on the site and you don't see her ever viewing your profile well then perhaps the scammer doesn't have any intention of meeting. Good luck and think with the right head.I reported this to SA a month or so back. In my area every Friday older profiles pop up with recent locations out of the country. The first time they said it was not a problem. Older profiles being activated was part for the course. The second time they said it would be turned over to the security team. Both times I provided numerous 5 links. My question was if someone out of the country can activate old links is that a hack. They say nothing to worry about. I haven't renewed my membership till I see where this goes.
Indplsgent4fu
09-26-17, 18:33
I reported this to SA a month or so back. In my area every Friday older profiles pop up with recent locations out of the country. The first time they said it was not a problem. Older profiles being activated was part for the course. The second time they said it would be turned over to the security team. Both times I provided numerous 5 links. My question was if someone out of the country can activate old links is that a hack. They say nothing to worry about. I haven't renewed my membership till I see where this goes.I have the same concern, and reported it but never got a reply back. I was surfing the site late one night about 7 to 12 days ago, when the site froze up and got sluggish for a few minutes (I know it wasn't my computer because I was surfing other sites with no issues), then it got back to normal and I noticed almost 10+ profiles show up that were from 2011 and out of country.
John HandCock
09-26-17, 19:58
I have the same concern, and reported it but never got a reply back. I was surfing the site late one night about 7 to 12 days ago, when the site froze up and got sluggish for a few minutes (I know it wasn't my computer because I was surfing other sites with no issues), then it got back to normal and I noticed almost 10+ profiles show up that were from 2011 and out of country.I'm seeing 15-20 profiles every Friday and I've seen them dated back to I think 2007. I do a 100 mile radius search and because of my location I find them pretty easy. As of today there is only 1627 profiles in that 100 mile radius so these profiles are easy to spot. I don't think their security is as good as they think. If someone is able to activate old profiles it's just a matter of time.
Indplsgent4fu
09-27-17, 18:32
Wow, the past few days I've noticed a breakout of GPS, please gents try not to pass it around. Work hard to keep it quarantined and contained. Here are the infected (affected) ladies: LiveFunGirl (stripper) $500 or with her friend (stripper) for $1000, Maskedromancexx $1000/ week includes 2 visits per week, Evita26 (stripper) $500, and last but not least SKY_lar34 (stripper) negotiated down to $400. I hope this doesn't spread.
NastyBoys10
09-27-17, 21:01
My hunch is she is more scam then not. I've been in a dialogue with her twice, once a month ago and it was days in between texts, and didn't go anywhere so I finally gave up. Then again recently, and when we got down to last minute details of 300 to party, then she popped the 1/2 fee in advance. I have NEVER done advance, and I can't recall ever hearing about anyone with good success with that. When I expressed to her that scammers do that and why did she need 1/2 up front, she stopped texting. BTW, I never sensed a skeptical/cautious side of her, actually seemed more confident.I don't mind paying in advance with venmo or google wallet, because in the event she scams you.
You can file a dispute or do a charge back. Venmo always gives money back immediately and google wallet does as well. Both very sender friendly. Paypal is very different though. 2 times I have had price almost cut in 1/2 to pay with these.
That's how These young girls want money. They don't believ cash works. LOL.
I don't mind paying in advance with venmo or google wallet, because in the event she scams you.
You can file a dispute or do a charge back. Venmo always gives money back immediately and google wallet does as well. Both very sender friendly. Paypal is very different though. 2 times I have had price almost cut in 1/2 to pay with these.
That's how These young girls want money. They don't believ cash works. LOL.Just a matter of time Before you get burned. Paying in advance is what they WANT. But that doesn't make it a good idea. Who doesn't want to be paid in advance? Does your employer pay you in advance?
THE ONLY time I'd give a SB something in advance is after I'd known her forever and had established trust. Time AND TRUST. Several I've known for 3 plus years I wouldn't give money to in advance, unless as a gift, cause that's what it is, a gift. Not saying there aren't plenty of honest SB's out there but you are going to hit some speed bumps going about it like you are.
They know cash works. Cash is still King, and I haven't had a single one turn it down yet.
But by all means carry on.
Wow, the past few days I've noticed a breakout of GPS, please gents try not to pass it around. Work hard to keep it quarantined and contained. Here are the infected (affected) ladies: LiveFunGirl (stripper) $500 or with her friend (stripper) for $1000, Maskedromancexx $1000/ week includes 2 visits per week, Evita26 (stripper) $500, and last but not least SKY_lar34 (stripper) negotiated down to $400. I hope this doesn't spread.Is also Sexygirlyum. Not saying she's NOT a stripper but she wasn't in 2015. She could have taken up the pole as a profession. I saw her and her friend last year. I know their names but won't say their real names here. But the pics are the same. Its definitely her.
She texted me last week and Ill just say the price you are quoting isn't anywhere near what she told me. But that doesn't surprise me, often an SB is as high as possible to start with, just to see if you'll bite. Then after they get to know you. They ease up a bit if theirs chemistry. I didn't take her up on her offer last week. But price wasn't the issue. I'm just not seeing anyone at the moment.
As someone who's been enjoying this type of relationships for a long time, I thought I'd add a few things (you can see some of my advice early in this thread).
What I've seen from Evalder, Goodtimes and IndyGuy echoes my thoughts and experiences. The ladies I'm looking for are not pros, and treating them like a pro isn't going to go anywhere. The ones I'm looking for are generally young ladies that want to be wined and dined, get their nails and hair done, maybe a little help here and there with the rent. The relationship I'm interested in is much more a committed, caring, friends-with-benefits style than a "menu-based" type of relationship. I don't use SA, so I'm not really qualified to comment directly on the resources that are available; I tend to meet my SBs through real life interactions or sometimes through Craigslist. I bring the same amount of charm, attention and effort as I would to a normal dating relationship, and that's what I expect in return.
First, I want to echo all the advice about never paying for a M&G. I'll buy dinner, spring for the coffee or drinks, whatever. I usually shoot for a lunch meeting just because it's more casual. I treat it like a flirtatious job interview. I want to know about the person, their thoughts, what their requirements are, and why they think they'd make a good sugar baby. I don't necessarily want to hear their sob story (if there is one). I wouldn't dream of giving someone money through Western Union / Moneygram. They need to put forth the effort if they want me to reciprocate. Ladies with the attitude that the DADDY needs to give them something first are living in a fantasy world (or they're being successful taking advantage of guys who are a bit too desperate and don't understand the dynamics of this type of relationship yet).
Second, I wouldn't EVER give a prospective SB a second chance to stand me up. She misses that first date, or she's more than a few minutes late (and I'd better know she's going to be late), and I'm done. Just like I'd treat it if there was a job interview. I've had strings of dead mothers, dead step-fathers, dead daughters, hospitalized loved ones, ER visit excuses. I've also had overslept, got in the shower late, was cleaning out my closet. I really don't care what the excuse is, obviously meeting wasn't important enough to you, so don't cry to me that your rent is due.
Third, there are a lot of sweet, smart, sexy young ladies that are thrilled to death with a steady, committed $600-$800 per month. They're not having to work 100 hours to get that, they generally get to have a good time, etc. If you do your best to treat them well both in public and in private, they'll respond. The idea of $6000 up front "to prove your wealth" is ludicrous in the extreme. That may be necessary if you're trying to seduce some Hollywood starlet, but a midwestern college cutie? Maybe I'm just not that desperate. I do get the occasional "$1000/ wk" type of woman, and strangely, they generally seem to be the least attractive variety. It's weird.
I know on another thread it was said that all these girls are pros, but I don't see it that way. I don't think there's anything at all wrong with a woman being attracted to a guy because he treats her nicely. As a matter of fact, I think it makes perfect sense for a college student who is focused on her school and doesn't want the drama of a "normal" relationship to seek out this kind of relationship. I think there's plenty of reasons for a young lady to be attracted to a decent looking, well kept, gentleman who takes good care of her without it making her a professional or a sex worker.
TD.
P.S. I saw Britt a couple of times a few years back, but got a real serious "stripper vibe" from here with her wanting to negotiate everything. I got a good chuckle at her, "Never done this before" spiel mentioned here. Honestly, I don't like real "meaty" girl parts, either, so I didn't find her that attractive out of her clothes.This is such a good post I wanted to re post it! Its exactly how I roll. Well. I TRY to anyway.
Also Britt is back. Talked to her last night, just as friends though.
Only thing I disagree with is the last part of his post. Britt meaty?? Haha she's a spinner can't be over 110 lbs. But anyway. GREAT POST 100% TRUE and unfortunately its getting harder to find REAL SB's. Happy hunting!
This is such a good post I wanted to re post it! Its exactly how I roll. Well. I TRY to anyway.
Also Britt is back. Talked to her last night, just as friends though.
Only thing I disagree with is the last part of his post. Britt meaty?? Haha she's a spinner can't be over 110 lbs. But anyway. GREAT POST 100% TRUE and unfortunately its getting harder to find REAL SB's. Happy hunting!I think he was talking about her labia, not her dress size. Haha.
Indplsgent4fu
09-30-17, 15:52
Met her a couple of weeks ago, it was very late night and short notice and she was ok with it. Pretty (not gorgeous, but beauty is in eyes of beholder) middle aged girl lives 10 min east of Marion Co. Nice to talk to, very open minded, reasonable allowance, and a wide open menu. Not top on my favorite list, but would repeat.
Indplsgent4fu
09-30-17, 16:02
Met her last week, a late night, short notice, and short visit. She is tan complexion and Brazilian heritage. She was a smaller girl under 5 ft, with enhanced top, nice butt. She's pretty (not gorgeous, but beauty is in eyes of beholder), very open minded and quick to get playtime started, very bubbly upbeat personality, almost a little hyper, and a wide open menu. Allowance was $$, and then she asked for upcharge for gas (she lives in Camby, 50 min away), but we kept with original agreed allowance. She is slightly alternative with one side of her head shaved, not my preference.
Indplsgent4fu
09-30-17, 16:07
Started messaging and seemed to be going well, then I started to coordinate our first meeting. She said sure, but first can I wire $30 via Western Union because she's broke and needs medication. I didn't even bother to waste my time replying back.
Watch out she is back with new picture and a new name. Dinner Bell. She meets at Harrys orders food for two and take a to go bag. You have been warned.
Indplsgent4fu
10-04-17, 12:27
I noticed her online today and was interested in pursuing. Her profile goes back to February 2017 and states Indianapolis. I messaged her and we agreed to start texting, she asked me first for my number, I prefer knowing their number first. I get a call with caller I'd from St Paul, MN (651-xxx-5945), I answer and no one answers back. Then I get a text from the same number and it's her. We text briefly and I ask why the out of state number and she replies she relocated from Indy a year ago. I asked why does she list her profile under Indy, and I get a non-logical reply. I tell her I'm looking for local lady only and wrap up our text. Moments later, I get a call on my home line from a different number (952-xxx-1977) from Eden Prairie, MN (suburb of St Paul / Minneapolis). I did not answer, I googled the number from Eden Prairie and it's a known scam number for fake tech computer support. Too coincidental for my comfort, and if related, how did they connect my fun phone cell number to my personal home line.
GoodTimes007
10-04-17, 12:32
Curious to know if anyone has been able to crack the hard shell of strawberrybabygirl. Her profile is written to reject 100% of the men on SA, and even a thoughfilled reply is reciprocated with a reprimand of some sort. It's turning me on, the back and forth banter, but am I wasting my time with this hard nose?
Zakk Wylde
10-04-17, 20:53
Not sure if it was a scam or cold feet on her part but at the last minute she asked for advance payment through PayPal to prove I was "trustworthy. " Of course I said no and on the drive back to Indy I actually spoke with her to kill time. She might just be scared, I don't know. I'm done tho. Blocked her before I got her full handle but it starts with bloomingtonbaby.
Curious to know if anyone has been able to crack the hard shell of strawberrybabygirl. Her profile is written to reject 100% of the men on SA, and even a thoughfilled reply is reciprocated with a reprimand of some sort. It's turning me on, the back and forth banter, but am I wasting my time with this hard nose?I went through the same thing with her. I finally blocked her, she's a hater.
Definitely a scammer, and I fell for it as much as I regret reporting.
She said yes to a cam session for 70. Asjed for payment in advance and I said no way. I see you live on cam, then I pay.
Cute girl, so I sent payment. Once she confirmed, she immediately ended the call and blocked me. Poof. Ghosted.
I reported her to SA and here so gentleman beware.
The svidanya.
Boris.
Not sure if it was a scam or cold feet on her part but at the last minute she asked for advance payment through PayPal to prove I was "trustworthy. " Of course I said no and on the drive back to Indy I actually spoke with her to kill time. She might just be scared, I don't know. I'm done tho. Blocked her before I got her full handle but it starts with bloomingtonbaby.
Curvyflirtythriving. Asks you to send her money during phone convo. Says she is " bored" and wants to go shopping. Haha I have her number and address. When they say they want money I always say sure but I need all your info for western union. That way when they get mad I can remind them I have their info.
Blondebaby100 - same deal, she's into " findom" hahaha guys if you are into " findom" please go outside and play in traffic, you've got zero game and self esteem.
Sweetheart11 - working girl, sexy texts, I would say she is the real deal. I passed on it but I got a feeling shed be fun.
Ladydevine69 - pretty much the same as Sweetheart11 I passed on it so someone else might find out more but from her texts she is the real deal. These two seemed like UTR girls, not a negative at all. Someone should give them a try and see what's up. Sweetheart even texted me when she was about to "entertain" and told me what was up. I appreciated her honesty!
AnnaLynnTruly100 - same as the two above, working girl. She seemed legit. Quoted me $$ I passed but it wasn't because of her. I was busy the day she wanted to meet.
Wildrose420 and Lexiallday have GPS wild rose actually sexted with me for a few days but she gets mad quick if you try to negotiate. She started at 5 bills with no relief in sight.
Zakk Wylde
10-06-17, 16:41
Cass426 pros: very sweet, no limits whatsoever, very into it, sent naughty texts, pics, and vids as I was driving up, low allowance. Cons: bigger than the pics and my preference. I won't repeat, but she would be great for dudes that like bigger girls.
Definitely a scammer, and I fell for it as much as I regret reporting.
She said yes to a cam session for 70. Asjed for payment in advance and I said no way. I see you live on cam, then I pay.
Cute girl, so I sent payment. Once she confirmed, she immediately ended the call and blocked me. Poof. Ghosted.
I reported her to SA and here so gentleman beware.
The svidanya.
Boris.At why these girls do this. You gave $70 in advance to a account with 3 pictures of a very average looking girl with a flabby stomach and ass. And then ***** about gps.
IndyGuy123
10-06-17, 23:41
AnnaLynnTruly100 - same as the two above, working girl. She seemed legit. Quoted me $$ I passed but it wasn't because of her. I was busy the day she wanted to meet.Anna is a BP H addict. Her account is brand new. With the change to BP and no more free ads, her and a # of other BP addicts moved to SA. I found about a half dozen in a couple minutes that are all brand new accounts.
Indy Guy.
Anna is a BP H addict. Her account is brand new. With the change to BP and no more free ads, her and a # of other BP addicts moved to SA. I found about a half dozen in a couple minutes that are all brand new accounts.
Indy Guy.And they are?
GoodTimes007
10-07-17, 07:00
I went through the same thing with her. I finally blocked her, she's a hater.Chick is nuts. She wrote paragraphs of reasons why no woman would ever be interested in EXACTLY what her profile said. She was interested in. I wasted no more than half sentence replies on her, and allowed the exchange to go on for awhile. She put so much anger and passion into her book length replied es, she either cuts and pastes them, or is worse than Irish on the bipol scale. She joined my blocked club after I grew bored.
Member #5766
10-08-17, 12:59
Contacted her she immediately asked for a picture, then let me know I wasn't her type. LOL.
Met her last week, a late night, short notice, and short visit. She is tan complexion and Brazilian heritage. She was a smaller girl under 5 ft, with enhanced top, nice butt. She's pretty (not gorgeous, but beauty is in eyes of beholder), very open minded and quick to get playtime started, very bubbly upbeat personality, almost a little hyper, and a wide open menu. Allowance was $$, and then she asked for upcharge for gas (she lives in Camby, 50 min away), but we kept with original agreed allowance. She is slightly alternative with one side of her head shaved, not my preference.
You have to be impressed by her effort:
"I hate to sound rude right up front but believe it or not I have met some fakes on here. Not saying you are, but the 1st thing I ask someone to do is to send me $100 via FB or snapchat to show your real. I am an amazing person and unfortunately I have been taken advantage of in this cold, heartless world we live in. I am the best person to talk to and I have a personality that will keep you on your toes from the start. As you can see. I have this unique personality, forgiving and big heart all while looking as sexy as ever. If your interested in knowing more show me you real by adding me to your snapchat xxxxxxx or fb messaging me, xxxxxxx, and sending the $100. You won't be disappointed in the person I become after I know your real. Hope to hear from you soon ".
FancyTlc88
10-09-17, 09:52
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Indplsgent4fu
10-09-17, 17:24
Contacted her she immediately asked for a picture, then let me know I wasn't her type. LOL.When I approached her the 1st time 2 months ago, it was from a different profile and I texted her a head shot pic of me in a casual polo shirt and she replied back quickly I wasn't her type and then blocked me. Fast forward to 3 weeks ago, I used a different profile, with a different phone number number, and I sent a head shot pic of me in a coat and tie, and she drive an hour over to my place. They're all moody and bipolar.
Indplsgent4fu
10-10-17, 00:29
Cass426 pros: very sweet, no limits whatsoever, very into it, sent naughty texts, pics, and vids as I was driving up, low allowance. Cons: bigger than the pics and my preference. I won't repeat, but she would be great for dudes that like bigger girls.Your review was valuable to me because I was interested in her, but I feared she was a bigger girl, and you confirmed my suspicion.
BTW, my first hand experience with her is only by phone. I've been interested in her for awhile, but she rarely engaged in conversation. Then last week all of a sudden things quickly progressed and she was texting and talking and we made plans for Friday night. Friday came and no response from her, but I saw her profile go on and off line several times during the day. Then at 3:30 AM!! I get a text from her and she says that she was sick, and I ignored it. She reached out a couple more times since then asking if I was still interested, and I finally told her no I wasn't because she wasn't reliable or up front. With hundred / thousands of choices I don't need to give someone that ignores and gives me questionable excuses a 2nd chance. Happy Hunting.
Indplsgent4fu
10-10-17, 00:32
Don't waste your time on this one, she wants $20 up front via paypal.
Indplsgent4fu
10-10-17, 00:42
I met her recently and she is a submissive pleaser. She has a sad story and her share of misfortune, but seems like she is trying hard to get her act together. She is living out of motel close to Plainfield with a male "family" member (whatever), and needs transportation which adds an extra cost for uber or in my case 35+ minutes each way, so I am spending over 2 hours driving to pick her up and take her back. She is very reasonable in allowance, seems book smart, and LOVES to please. She would be one my favs if she didn't have a LOT of baby fat and / or if she was much closer to me.
Indplsgent4fu
10-10-17, 01:11
Over the past couple of months I've had private messages asking me for contact info for sugar babies I've posted about. I do not feel that it is appropriate for me to share PRIVATE contact info without a person's consent, whether it be provider, sugar baby, hobbyist, etc. It would be totally different if the contact info was at one time posted / available publicly. Also, if I've never talked to you over the phone, or met you face to face for lunch, drinks, etc, then it's not likely I will stick my neck out to get a hold of a girl to make a recommendation or introduction. I hope that you can all appreciate that, and understand that I would expect the same consideration in return. Happy hunting fellas.
Indplsgent4fu
10-10-17, 01:32
I finally crossed paths with this vixen, but not without frustrations in the past. First time I tried this past June / July and after a LOT of texting and dialogue by phone for a few days we finally agreed on allowance (reluctant agreement on her part from 500 down to 250), date and time. She confirmed day prior to our first date and several times during the day of our first date, and then less then 1 hour before showtime she went crickets. Second time was a few weeks ago when I changed profiles, she didn't know it was me and she approached me this time. We went through all the bantering and went down through the same song and dance and set up a day and time to meet. Again, she confirmed day before and day of the date, and come showtime she went crickets, but this time she texted me 90 minutes after we were supposed to meet and she tells me her sitter no showed on her. She asked if we could the next day. I rarely would waste time on 2nd or 3rd chances, but she lived only 10 minutes from me, I had nothing going on the next day and she was hot. The next day everything went as scheduled. She is open minded, light skinned, slender with shapely ass and natural c / d cup. She is taking women's studies in school, has a little attitude and is on the feminist side. She has been well spoiled by others as she mentioned St Elmos and Harry and Izzys, etc. She is a little bit of a clock watcher, at 80 minutes she reminded that she needs to get back soon, perhaps the regular allowance would be longer.
Zakk Wylde
10-10-17, 16:05
Does anyone have a handle on how certain sbs make it into your search result list? I rarely see any of the ones you guys review appear in my list when I search, and it's not because of range, age, or other limitations on my searches. I think the site manipulates the results of your searching based on the type of membership you have. I say that because a sb told me her search results for sds were different when she was a regular or premium member. And I see the "attract" option for additional payment. And I think I was getting a lot better results when I first joined compared to what I get now. Anyone know if and how the site manipulates this and how to work around it?
Indplsgent4fu
10-11-17, 12:44
Does anyone have a handle on how certain sbs make it into your search result list? I rarely see any of the ones you guys review appear in my list when I search, and it's not because of range, age, or other limitations on my searches. I think the site manipulates the results of your searching based on the type of membership you have. I say that because a sb told me her search results for sds were different when she was a regular or premium member. And I see the "attract" option for additional payment. And I think I was getting a lot better results when I first joined compared to what I get now. Anyone know if and how the site manipulates this and how to work around it?I sometime experience similar issues, and it could be a variety of reasons. It could be the cache in your computer not pulling up the latest greatest status. Often times I will get a search response showing someone currently online, and then a few minutes later shows them several hours ago online. It could be they have their profile accidentally or deliberately hidden and you have to search for them by name. It could be they have you blocked. It could be they deactivated temporarily.
Indplsgent4fu
10-11-17, 12:49
Sorry for those trying to to get a hold of me and got a full inbox. Please try again.
Indplsgent4fu
10-12-17, 01:47
If you can't find any pics or videos on the net, then step right up to Jos97. She is willing to sell you pics and videos. NEXT.
Indplsgent4fu
10-12-17, 01:48
She doesn't believe I will show up to meet her, BUT for only $20 via paypal, she will believe me. NEXT.
Indplsgent4fu
10-12-17, 02:08
Started chatting with her 2 weeks ago, and met her a few days later. She said she was only looking for one SD, but I was inclined to believe her, and I have to admit I was in the mood to settle down with just one good sugarbaby (really), and thought it could be her. We negotiated from 4 to 2.5 each visit, and felt we could meet once or twice a week. I took her to fine upscale restaurant, and we had a great dinner. She is NOT slender like her profile says, she is curvy, average, a little thick for some, and busty. I was very turned on by her intelligence and social skills, and felt I could take her out in any upscale social setting. I ended the evening enjoying her curves and oral talents and skills. As we talked the next day, I caught her in a couple of discrepancies in some of her tales (typical for girls) but just had me concerned more then usual, and started feeling that she might have more drama. I have not reached back out to her, she is SA site surfing daily and I suspect looking for bigger, better deals.
Indplsgent4fu
10-12-17, 02:31
She just joined a few days ago and we started messaging. Her profile pics looked appealing and we started planning for a short notice, very late night meeting. Our texting took forever almost 60 to 90 minutes, so I was able to do my social media research and she looked good but could not find any full length pics. I wanted to see full length pics before I proceeded, and kept asking her for them. She finally sent 2 pics, one was normal office apparel and seemed ok, the other was summer casual and she looked rough, and was NOT flattering. I asked if she had bikini and she said she doesn't have pics like that, but then she immediately proceeded to send me a VERY sexy pic in lingerie, but she cut off the head and honestly it did not look even close to the physique of everything else she had sent. Also, all 3 pics had 3 different phones in the selfie. I brought up the 3 different cell phone issue and asked when she took the sexy pic and she said recently. She then tells me she is hard on phones and she went through 3 cell phones in the past 3 month. I tried to tactfully ask her to take another full length sexy picture and this time to try and include everything (I. E. her face). After about 15 minutes later she sends me a picture from upper stomach on up, and she is in running top / bra and looked ok, but again you can't see the lower half. I thanked her and made an excuse that it was already 3 am and too late to start anything and good night (I. E. Good-bye).
Talked or been with this sb https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b9926e27-8deb-4a76-be9f-78eba31cb064.
Indplsgent4fu
10-12-17, 02:51
Talked or been with this sb https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b9926e27-8deb-4a76-be9f-78eba31cb064.I had an interest in her 2 months ago, and she led me to believe she could travel to Indy, but it never happened. Then sometime in the past 4 to 6 week she updated her profile to say we have to travel to her. I haven't made the decision to go to Greencastle. YET.
GoodTimes007
10-12-17, 18:03
I had an interest in her 2 months ago, and she led me to believe she could travel to Indy, but it never happened. Then sometime in the past 4 to 6 week she updated her profile to say we have to travel to her. I haven't made the decision to go to Greencastle. YET.I talked to her and as tempting as she is (sexy in a blue hair kinda way.) I passed. Two reasons: She has limited time between two jobs and requires me to drive to greencastle to meet; for what would be no more than an hour of time; and a part of the time was to get to know one another at Starbucks?? I'm sorry but after 2 weeks of texting, 3-4 hours of my time for a cup of coffee? I'm too lazy for that (or my time is too valuable). She never came out directly and stated that intimacy was on the table; her description of what she wanted defined (and specifically used) the word "platonic. " Maybe I'm not up on the urban dictionary version of the word, but it was non commital enough to move along. I left the door open to reconsider, so if anyone has experience, PM me. I have some recent adventures to share too. She does remind me of a 1990's hot punk chick I'd love to date.
Over the past couple of months I've had private messages asking me for contact info for sugar babies I've posted about. I do not feel that it is appropriate for me to share PRIVATE contact info without a person's consent, whether it be provider, sugar baby, hobbyist, etc. It would be totally different if the contact info was at one time posted / available publicly. Also, if I've never talked to you over the phone, or met you face to face for lunch, drinks, etc, then it's not likely I will stick my neck out to get a hold of a girl to make a recommendation or introduction. I hope that you can all appreciate that, and understand that I would expect the same consideration in return. Happy hunting fellas.All stood up and said AMEN!
Started chatting with her 2 weeks ago, and met her a few days later. She said she was only looking for one SD, but I was inclined to believe her, and I have to admit I was in the mood to settle down with just one good sugarbaby (really), and thought it could be her. We negotiated from 4 to 2.5 each visit, and felt we could meet once or twice a week. I took her to fine upscale restaurant, and we had a great dinner. She is NOT slender like her profile says, she is curvy, average, a little thick for some, and busty. I was very turned on by her intelligence and social skills, and felt I could take her out in any upscale social setting. I ended the evening enjoying her curves and oral talents and skills. As we talked the next day, I caught her in a couple of discrepancies in some of her tales (typical for girls) but just had me concerned more then usual, and started feeling that she might have more drama. I have not reached back out to her, she is SA site surfing daily and I suspect looking for bigger, better deals.They are all looking for him. Hahah good luck! They; ll likely find jimmy hoffa first.
Zakk Wylde
10-14-17, 08:41
Seemed legit but I couldn't get her lower than 500 for first meeting. I passed. Let me know if you cut a better deal and I may try again. I honestly didn't try too hard because she isn't that hot and obviously has unrealistic expectations.
GoodTimes007
10-15-17, 06:22
Seemed legit but I couldn't get her lower than 500 for first meeting. I passed. Let me know if you cut a better deal and I may try again. I honestly didn't try too hard because she isn't that hot and obviously has unrealistic expectations.A not so new but resurfacing strategy is to pay the 4-800 asked the first time, then negotiate down for future visits. Frankly it makes even the less desireable unrealistic with their allowances. I wish we could all just agree to not offer more than a fair market value and stick to it; but there will always be a white knight in the room, thinking with the wrong head. I did it ONCE with Plain Jane. Wasn’t worth it.
Try talking to Brunette Bombshell or Jazzy. BB's price goes up quarterly. Last year she wanted $500. Her minimum is now $800 per meet and can not host. Jazzy was $300, which I did not see the value of exploring, now $600. BB's photos have been the same for three years now.
Ladies have a right to set their own self worth, but I would think that if more of us said NO, their expectations would lower from LaLa land to reality. This isn't California for heavens sake.
John HandCock
10-15-17, 07:38
A not so new but resurfacing strategy is to pay the 4-800 asked the first time, then negotiate down for future visits. Frankly it makes even the less desireable unrealistic with their allowances. I wish we could all just agree to not offer more than a fair market value and stick to it; but there will always be a white knight in the room, thinking with the wrong head. I did it ONCE with Plain Jane. Wasnt worth it.
Try talking to Brunette Bombshell or Jazzy. BB's price goes up quarterly. Last year she wanted $500. Her minimum is now $800 per meet and can not host. Jazzy was $300, which I did not see the value of exploring, now $600. BB's photos have been the same for three years now.
Ladies have a right to set their own self worth, but I would think that if more of us said NO, their expectations would lower from LaLa land to reality. This isn't California for heavens sake.Alot of girls have been burned by Arrangements. Guys promising longer term for reduced rates. Good in theory till he ghost after the first time never to be heard from again. So they learn to up their price, get what they want and not really care if a guy shows back up. For alot of these girls its side money so they can hold out till they get what they want The idea of guys controlling the price is pretty funny. First the guys would have to boycott pussy and that will never happen. Guys will push you in front of the bus for it, stab you in the back etc. Plus someone always has more money to spend and doesn't care to share the wealth.
Ladies have a right to set their own self worth, but I would think that if more of us said NO, their expectations would lower from LaLa land to reality. This isn't California for heavens sake.Is there any evidence that anybody gives in to the ridiculous rates?
Zakk Wylde
10-15-17, 08:50
Is there any evidence that anybody gives in to the ridiculous rates?Yes. There are at least 3 dudes working sa in Indy that regularly go 1000. I learned this from a sb with whom I already have an arrangement and she was not trying to use the info to negotiate, so I believed her.
INTravelingMan
10-15-17, 12:08
I either get girls who accept the allowance I recommend, girls who are higher but come down to what I want, or girls who insist they get those crazy allowances regularly. This just happened yesterday. She said she wanted consistency. When I asked what that meant, she said she wanted weekly 'one grand or two grand'. When I told her she is dreaming if she thinks she can get that and gave her an analysis of what that meant, she started a tirade calling me cheap, a loser, and proceeding to give me a 'rundown' of her 'income' last year saying she has 2 sugar daddies that give her that and she makes 150,000 as an 'independent contractor'. I need to find out who this person is and report her to the IRS for failure to report and pay taxes if she is getting that much.
Maybe there are idiots, I mean generous guys who are willing to put out that much money. But I think the true hobbyist knows better. Maybe those guys splurge on their birthday for one night of fun a year and think 'what the heck, it's my birthday'. But the true hobbyist is spending money regularly and how many guys can afford to pay what is the equivalent of a $60,000 a year job to someone who gets 1000 a week?!
The best thing to do is tell her to run along to their fictitious sugar daddy and ask him for his weekly allowance while you give your money to a more deserving sugar baby. And then report her on this forum so we can all make fun of her.
Yes. There are at least 3 dudes working sa in Indy that regularly go 1000. I learned this from a sb with whom I already have an arrangement and she was not trying to use the info to negotiate, so I believed her.
INTravelingMan
10-15-17, 12:22
The problem with boycott is that we forget this forum may, and probably is, only a small segment of the population. I was hobbying for years and had no clue until a friend told me that I would do well to join this forum. So I did earlier this year and have met some really cool men and women. But the problem is that there are tons of other guys who are out there hobbying and not getting the benefit of this forum to know about scammers and clock watchers and GPS. When they meet a sugar baby and she quotes 1000 for a date, what is his reference point to know that's high? If he can afford it, then I guess he will do it. And if he likes it enough and has more money, he will do it again. But if he didn't have as enjoyable time as he hoped, then maybe he stops hobbling after the first try. So the best thing we can do is keep giving what we think is fair and the market will correct itself. Why are you guys worried about one girl who goes high and complains? For each one girl like that there are 5 who will accept a more reasonable number. So go give your money to one of those other 5.
Alot of girls have been burned by Arrangements. Guys promising longer term for reduced rates. Good in theory till he ghost after the first time never to be heard from again. So they learn to up their price, get what they want and not really care if a guy shows back up. For alot of these girls its side money so they can hold out till they get what they want The idea of guys controlling the price is pretty funny. First the guys would have to boycott pussy and that will never happen. Guys will push you in front of the bus for it, stab you in the back etc. Plus someone always has more money to spend and doesn't care to share the wealth.
A not so new but resurfacing strategy is to pay the 4-800 asked the first time, then negotiate down for future visits. Frankly it makes even the less desireable unrealistic with their allowances. I wish we could all just agree to not offer more than a fair market value and stick to it; but there will always be a white knight in the room, thinking with the wrong head. I did it ONCE with Plain Jane. Wasnt worth it.
Try talking to Brunette Bombshell or Jazzy. BB's price goes up quarterly. Last year she wanted $500. Her minimum is now $800 per meet and can not host. Jazzy was $300, which I did not see the value of exploring, now $600. BB's photos have been the same for three years now.
Ladies have a right to set their own self worth, but I would think that if more of us said NO, their expectations would lower from LaLa land to reality. This isn't California for heavens sake.Jazzy will take $250. She always hurting for money.
Member #5766
10-15-17, 17:55
Yes. There are at least 3 dudes working sa in Indy that regularly go 1000. I learned this from a sb with whom I already have an arrangement and she was not trying to use the info to negotiate, so I believed her.I met with a SA in btown last night who said she has made 5000 over the last 3 months, from dudes who haven't even asked to be touched.
"hey come have lunch with me, ill have 500 for you. ".
She even said can you believe I can get away with it.
Um, no. WTF guys.
LingusUs41
10-15-17, 19:56
Is there any evidence that anybody gives in to the ridiculous rates?A young lady I met off FetLife and have a casual relationship with no cash involved tells of guys spending up to $8. To $1 k taking her shoopping, nails, spas, dinners with $100 plus bottles of wine and go back to 5 star hotel suite just to talk and have no sexual contact. And still give her $2. 5 for her time. She has had this happen several times, with she has told me 3 different men. She also has a Amazon wish list that they routinely buy her gifts. Secretly she wished they just give her cash so she can pay off school loans but she enjoys the gifts and wining and dining guys her age can't do. She just turned 21. The mens ages are 45-63 she told me. She thinks it is these guys ego plus a lot of expendable money and the need to be seen with much younger beautiful women that drives them. She can't explain the no sex part (she's a nympho) and she would but that is not these guys endgame and they either don't pursue it or haven't asked for that part of arrangement yet. I don't get it but I also don't have fuck you money either. Okay here is where I find if guys can read DO NOT PM ME FOR HER INFO. She says too many guys from here want to meet her for. 6 car blowjobs. DO NOT PM ME FOR HER INFO.
Yes. There are at least 3 dudes working sa in Indy that regularly go 1000. I learned this from a sb with whom I already have an arrangement and she was not trying to use the info to negotiate, so I believed her.I know of one guy from eastern europe that gives a girl I know $500.00 when he is in town. And of course she takes it. I don't blame her I would too. I'm certain she is being honest, since her deal with me is WAY different.
A not so new but resurfacing strategy is to pay the 4-800 asked the first time, then negotiate down for future visits. Frankly it makes even the less desireable unrealistic with their allowances. I wish we could all just agree to not offer more than a fair market value and stick to it; but there will always be a white knight in the room, thinking with the wrong head. I did it ONCE with Plain Jane. Wasnt worth it.
Try talking to Brunette Bombshell or Jazzy. BB's price goes up quarterly. Last year she wanted $500. Her minimum is now $800 per meet and can not host. Jazzy was $300, which I did not see the value of exploring, now $600. BB's photos have been the same for three years now.
Ladies have a right to set their own self worth, but I would think that if more of us said NO, their expectations would lower from LaLa land to reality. This isn't California for heavens sake.Prices go up and down with how well she knows you / likes your pic, if you've been with her before or what she needs to pay for that week. I finally saw her after a month of just BSing with her, for $$. It was the first of the month when all the babies need rent.
Zakk Wylde
10-15-17, 22:38
Another Bloomington girl that won't go below 500. She is hot, so I put a little time in. For what it's worth, I think she's legit, but I will never confirm for that rate. Would have required a hotel as well.
Zakk Wylde
10-16-17, 09:44
Prices go up and down with how well she knows you / likes your pic, if you've been with her before or what she needs to pay for that week. I finally saw her after a month of just BSing with her, for $$. It was the first of the month when all the babies need rent.In my experience, all real sbs have a sliding rate scale, which makes it hard for this group to share solid info. If you are old and fat, you will pay more or won't be seen. If you are young and attractive, you'll pay less or not at all. I'm not saying I'm in either of those groups, that's just my observation about how real sbs do business. If a girl has a flat rate for everyone, she's a pro.
INTravelingMan
10-16-17, 19:18
Although self-serving statements from a sugar baby trying to get money from a guy, while technically would be considered evidence, is NOT credible evidence. I would like to see a bank statement or PayPal statement (with the private information blacked out for privacy reasons) as more credible evidence of these ridiculous payments. I know for a fact that many of these women aim high and would settle for much lower. It's just like any negotiation: if you don't ask for it, you will never get it. How many times have you had a girl tell you $$ when you would have given $$$ and you tell her "No sweetie, I want to give you $$$ instead of $$.
A young lady I met off FetLife and have a casual relationship with no cash involved tells of guys spending up to $8. To $1 k taking her shoopping, nails, spas, dinners with $100 plus bottles of wine and go back to 5 star hotel suite just to talk and have no sexual contact. And still give her $2. 5 for her time. She has had this happen several times, with she has told me 3 different men. She also has a Amazon wish list that they routinely buy her gifts. Secretly she wished they just give her cash so she can pay off school loans but she enjoys the gifts and wining and dining guys her age can't do. She just turned 21. The mens ages are 45-63 she told me. She thinks it is these guys ego plus a lot of expendable money and the need to be seen with much younger beautiful women that drives them. She can't explain the no sex part (she's a nympho) and she would but that is not these guys endgame and they either don't pursue it or haven't asked for that part of arrangement yet. I don't get it but I also don't have fuck you money either. Okay here is where I find if guys can read DO NOT PM ME FOR HER INFO. She says too many guys from here want to meet her for. 6 car blowjobs. DO NOT PM ME FOR HER INFO.
In my experience, all real sbs have a sliding rate scale, which makes it hard for this group to share solid info. If you are old and fat, you will pay more or won't be seen. If you are young and attractive, you'll pay less or not at all. I'm not saying I'm in either of those groups, that's just my observation about how real sbs do business. If a girl has a flat rate for everyone, she's a pro.Actually that couldn't be further from the truth Its about money and how much GAME you have. I know several girls that will pass up young guys due to their attitude. Never rule out package size either. Whats the first two things a stripper finds out about her mark during a lap dance? How much money he has to spend and how big the tool is. There's size queens all over SA.
Although self-serving statements from a sugar baby trying to get money from a guy, while technically would be considered evidence, is NOT credible evidence. I would like to see a bank statement or PayPal statement (with the private information blacked out for privacy reasons) as more credible evidence of these ridiculous payments. I know for a fact that many of these women aim high and would settle for much lower. It's just like any negotiation: if you don't ask for it, you will never get it. How many times have you had a girl tell you $$ when you would have given $$$ and you tell her "No sweetie, I want to give you $$$ instead of $$.Every SB I ever met has a story about some rich Sd that paid her 5 times what you are paying her. While she's taking her panties off for alot less in front of you. Right Day / right Game.
Every SB I ever met has a story about some rich Sd that paid her 5 times what you are paying her. While she's taking her panties off for alot less in front of you. Right Day / right Game.It was hardly SA quality (though perhaps a similar scenario), but I had a UTR that preferentially would see me because for some odd reason she liked the way my dick felt, not because of the size (I'm probably below average) but because of the shape (mushroom head! And because I liked getting her off orally. We ended up with a twice as much at half her rate arrangement.
It sounds like one of those old motivational things that is completely BS, but a lot of women aren't necessarily turned on by looks. They may want to be with a good looking guy in public, but in the bedroom other factors come into play.
John HandCock
10-17-17, 09:23
A young lady I met off FetLife and have a casual relationship with no cash involved tells of guys spending up to $8. To $1 k taking her shoopping, nails, spas, dinners with $100 plus bottles of wine and go back to 5 star hotel suite just to talk and have no sexual contact. And still give her $2. 5 for her time. She has had this happen several times, with she has told me 3 different men. She also has a Amazon wish list that they routinely buy her gifts. Secretly she wished they just give her cash so she can pay off school loans but she enjoys the gifts and wining and dining guys her age can't do. She just turned 21. The mens ages are 45-63 she told me. She thinks it is these guys ego plus a lot of expendable money and the need to be seen with much younger beautiful women that drives them. She can't explain the no sex part (she's a nympho) and she would but that is not these guys endgame and they either don't pursue it or haven't asked for that part of arrangement yet. I don't get it but I also don't have fuck you money either. Okay here is where I find if guys can read DO NOT PM ME FOR HER INFO. She says too many guys from here want to meet her for. 6 car blowjobs. DO NOT PM ME FOR HER INFO.Fet life is a sm / bd site that after adding a sb / sd sire found what a headache it is. Lots of scammers on both sides with last time I logged in the moderator trying to figure out how to play referee. Most of the girls were looking for online which the guys weren't buying into. I actually suggested that they shut that thread down and true sb's go to actual sb forums where their chances were much better than on a sm site. But apparently because of the popularity of it that wasn't going to happen. Its a joke on that site with mostly online relationships offered IMHO.
Zakk Wylde
10-17-17, 09:26
Actually that couldn't be further from the truth Its about money and how much GAME you have. I know several girls that will pass up young guys due to their attitude. Never rule out package size either. Whats the first two things a stripper finds out about her mark during a lap dance? How much money he has to spend and how big the tool is. There's size queens all over SA.The point of my post was each sb will change her rate for certain guys based on certain factors. I gave examples of factors (age, appearance) and you gave examples of different factors (game and package). Because true sbs vary their rate based on whatever their subjective factors are, it's hard to exchange solid info about rates with this group.
Enough with the "game" shit. You are johns, they are hookers, it's about money and need, the only "game" is your willingness to understand they are hookers and you are johns. It doesn't matter how big or how small the effect of the forum is. The ONLY limiting factor in the fantasy land you guys have created is the number of guys who can afford a steady payment. If you are one of them you are the premium, there is no fucking shortage of these types of hookers.
So it's easy, when one of them gives you a ridiculous number, write "best of luck to you honey" and then cut contact and move on to the next one. They are hookers, you are johns. There will be one who will work for the price you offer.
Who gives a fuck what they tell you some other guy is paying them. Tell them "ok baby, well seems like you have your Hef" and stop talking to them. There are 1,000 behind them.
Seriously, move the fuck on.
A2
Oh, and the size of you dick has nothing to do with the price. Except maybe that you thinking they are worshiping your cock is more likely to raise the price. What is most likely to lower that price is if they laugh while they are with you.
Enough with the "game" shit. You are johns, they are hookers, it's about money and need, the only "game" is your willingness to understand they are hookers and you are johns. It doesn't matter how big or how small the effect of the forum is. The ONLY limiting factor in the fantasy land you guys have created is the number of guys who can afford a steady payment. If you are one of them you are the premium, there is no fucking shortage of these types of hookers.
So it's easy, when one of them gives you a ridiculous number, write "best of luck to you honey" and then cut contact and move on to the next one. They are hookers, you are johns. There will be one who will work for the price you offer.
Who gives a fuck what they tell you some other guy is paying them. Tell them "ok baby, well seems like you have your Hef" and stop talking to them. There are 1,000 behind them.
Seriously, move the fuck on.
A2
Oh, and the size of you dick has nothing to do with the price. Except maybe that you thinking they are worshiping your cock is more likely to raise the price. What is most likely to lower that price is if they laugh while they are with you.So are we not entitled to our own opinions on the forum? Just wondering.
Sure you can have an opinion but that's not what you were doing. You were trolling trying to pick fights just like you are trying to do here with me. This isn't about pussy for you. It never is for you guys that need to share the size of your penis and effectiveness of your "game."
A2
Enough with the "game" shit. You are johns, they are hookers, it's about money and need, the only "game" is your willingness to understand they are hookers and you are johns. It doesn't matter how big or how small the effect of the forum is. The ONLY limiting factor in the fantasy land you guys have created is the number of guys who can afford a steady payment. If you are one of them you are the premium, there is no fucking shortage of these types of hookers.
So it's easy, when one of them gives you a ridiculous number, write "best of luck to you honey" and then cut contact and move on to the next one. They are hookers, you are johns. There will be one who will work for the price you offer.
Who gives a fuck what they tell you some other guy is paying them. Tell them "ok baby, well seems like you have your Hef" and stop talking to them. There are 1,000 behind them.
Seriously, move the fuck on.
A2
Oh, and the size of you dick has nothing to do with the price. Except maybe that you thinking they are worshiping your cock is more likely to raise the price. What is most likely to lower that price is if they laugh while they are with you.I travel to Indy weekly and have been shopping SA for years. Their hookers, Your Johns. Act like it!! Hahaha One 2 hr hunting session on SA and a buck to a buck and a half, if you take the above advise, will garner you more fat girls that aren't getting fucked, single moms down on their luck, smokin broke ass college chicks, those single nymphos (that don't even let their friends know there nymphos) women tirrrred of fuckin (or not getting any) from their old man. And the only thing that doesn't change??
There Hookers and Your Johns! LMAO.
TB.
The point of my post was each sb will change her rate for certain guys based on certain factors. I gave examples of factors (age, appearance) and you gave examples of different factors (game and package). Because true sbs vary their rate based on whatever their subjective factors are, it's hard to exchange solid info about rates with this group.When it comes to SBs (not the UTR's masquerading as SBs), the term "YMMV" is a lot greater here.
In your original post, you also basically stated that if you are down in the looks / age dept, but up in the donation dept. , your chances of being seen are greater.
I also agree with A2 that if you throw all the BS aside, we are johns and they are hookers. I agree 100% and us men see it like that, but these girls like to pretend or actually think they are not.
If you look at my SB reports from Fall 2015, I nailed a hot blonde for $ and a monger here called me out on it just because he couldn't close for that same amount. YMMV.
I just report on my experiences, esp. The bad ones so as to prevent other mongers from getting burned. As for the good ones, just because I got in doesn't mean you will get in. And vice versa.
Happy Fucking!
She (they) was really pushing for a late afternoon meet this week, probably trying to "get it done" before the bf came home at 5 pm.
What the lead blonde doesn't realize is that we chatted early last year, so I already know who she is and what kind of GPS she has.
The second girl has really short hair and almost looks like a boy. I pushed for a one-on-one meet with the main cute blonde, and all of a sudden it turned into a "I don't fuck on the first meet" when before she was "wet from wanting a 3 some with me".
Be careful with this one. I have a funny feeling that the "boy" offers more than the cute blonde and you will be left feeling shorted.
Happy Fucking!
She (they) was really pushing for a late afternoon meet this week, probably trying to "get it done" before the bf came home at 5 pm.
What the lead blonde doesn't realize is that we chatted early last year, so I already know who she is and what kind of GPS she has.
The second girl has really short hair and almost looks like a boy. I pushed for a one-on-one meet with the main cute blonde, and all of a sudden it turned into a "I don't fuck on the first meet" when before she was "wet from wanting a 3 some with me".
Be careful with this one. I have a funny feeling that the "boy" offers more than the cute blonde and you will be left feeling shorted.
Happy Fucking!The blonde is Amber who was discussed last summer. Real, but I wouldn't trust her, believe there is better for the money. Center Grove grad.
I travel to Indy weekly and have been shopping SA for years. Their hookers, Your Johns. Act like it!! Hahaha One 2 hr hunting session on SA and a buck to a buck and a half, if you take the above advise, will garner you more fat girls that aren't getting fucked, single moms down on their luck, smokin broke ass college chicks, those single nymphos (that don't even let their friends know there nymphos) women tirrrred of fuckin (or not getting any) from their old man. And the only thing that doesn't change??
There Hookers and Your Johns! LMAO.
TB.Love it! I don't get up to Indy much, but it's pretty much the same everywhere. It's all about the cash.
Enough with the "game" shit. You are johns, they are hookers, it's about money and need, the only "game" is your willingness to understand they are hookers and you are johns. It doesn't matter how big or how small the effect of the forum is. The ONLY limiting factor in the fantasy land you guys have created is the number of guys who can afford a steady payment. If you are one of them you are the premium, there is no fucking shortage of these types of hookers.
So it's easy, when one of them gives you a ridiculous number, write "best of luck to you honey" and then cut contact and move on to the next one. They are hookers, you are johns. There will be one who will work for the price you offer.
Who gives a fuck what they tell you some other guy is paying them. Tell them "ok baby, well seems like you have your Hef" and stop talking to them. There are 1,000 behind them.
Seriously, move the fuck on.
A2
Oh, and the size of you dick has nothing to do with the price. Except maybe that you thinking they are worshiping your cock is more likely to raise the price. What is most likely to lower that price is if they laugh while they are with you.Don't say that over in the Virginia or LA forum. You'll be responsible for heads exploding!
LingusUs41
10-17-17, 22:15
Fet life is a sm / bd site that after adding a sb / sd sire found what a headache it is. Lots of scammers on both sides with last time I logged in the moderator trying to figure out how to play referee. Most of the girls were looking for online which the guys weren't buying into. I actually suggested that they shut that thread down and true sb's go to actual sb forums where their chances were much better than on a sm site. But apparently because of the popularity of it that wasn't going to happen. Its a joke on that site with mostly online relationships offered IMHO.Just to clarify there are all kinds of fetishes, not just sm / bd. Sure there may be a lot of sm / bd on there if that's what your fetish is, but plenty of others also. That's what is good about FetLife, to each his own. I have no idea what you are talking about but as always YMMV.
John HandCock
10-18-17, 11:49
Just to clarify there are all kinds of fetishes, not just sm / bd. Sure there may be a lot of sm / bd on there if that's what your fetish is, but plenty of others also. That's what is good about FetLife, to each his own. I have no idea what you are talking about but as always YMMV.I was talking about how stupid it was to have a sd / sb thread on fetlife.
GoodTimes007
10-19-17, 16:10
Enough with the "game" shit. You are johns, they are hookers, it's about money and need, the only "game" is your willingness to understand they are hookers and you are johns. It doesn't matter how big or how small the effect of the forum is. The ONLY limiting factor in the fantasy land you guys have created is the number of guys who can afford a steady payment. If you are one of them you are the premium, there is no fucking shortage of these types of hookers.
So it's easy, when one of them gives you a ridiculous number, write "best of luck to you honey" and then cut contact and move on to the next one. They are hookers, you are johns. There will be one who will work for the price you offer.
Who gives a fuck what they tell you some other guy is paying them. Tell them "ok baby, well seems like you have your Hef" and stop talking to them. There are 1,000 behind them.
Seriously, move the fuck on.
A2
Oh, and the size of you dick has nothing to do with the price. Except maybe that you thinking they are worshiping your cock is more likely to raise the price. What is most likely to lower that price is if they laugh while they are with you.Totally agree, we're trying to get laid, and they are trying to get the money to put out. There is a difference that creates the "game," many actually.
1. Hookers tend to be a set price unseen, maybe verified, and high volume. SB's know they are selling themselves but are the opposite: "most" want to see a picture first; base prices on compatibility and comfort; and tend to only have a couple SDs. It "feels" less clinical and much more natural.
So. "the game," is landing one, at the price you want. It's significantly more work and requires "game. ".
But:
1. Guys should not compare "good" notes in public or the true UTRs (or sincere babies) will shy away or deactivate, if not get thoroughly pissed off. And fuck you (in a not so good way).
2. The rates do very based on compatibility; hence my jazzy failures. I'm cute, but did not BS naturally over time, and as a result the price went up. SBs may test the waters for a premium, assuming some don't have as much time as others, and then come down in price of compatibility is there yes, some escorts do this too! Reminiscing of Miss T. My my.
3. Some dudes are not frugal enough with their money and use point 2 as a default; which inevitably raises prices for all.
4. Good Escorts clearly sell a specific product without manipulation l. SBs, you never know.
5. The dude looking for proof? You didn't read my post well. I am the proof, within what I wrote.
This forum should be used to protect the UTRs and expose the scams; while also trading techniques that maximize dreams and values not for jumping on one another's shit for whatever trolling reason you have. Frankly the selection is 1000% better than the ol' Escort.com days. And that was some good shit frankly. Thinking, Abby Amour, as an example, roast beef and speech impediment and all.
Zakk Wylde
10-21-17, 13:47
Clean out your inbox.
Although self-serving statements from a sugar baby trying to get money from a guy, while technically would be considered evidence, is NOT credible evidence. I would like to see a bank statement or PayPal statement (with the private information blacked out for privacy reasons) as more credible evidence of these ridiculous payments. I know for a fact that many of these women aim high and would settle for much lower. It's just like any negotiation: if you don't ask for it, you will never get it. How many times have you had a girl tell you $$ when you would have given $$$ and you tell her "No sweetie, I want to give you $$$ instead of $$.I've had plenty of potential SBs tell me what they wanted, or what some nebulous "last daddy" paid them. I simply say that I'm sure they are worth every penny and wish them well. Fifteen minutes later I have a much lower price on my burner phone messages. It's because it's all bullshit. If they were really getting that, they wouldn't drop their price like a rock because they know they'd get it again.
Personally, I think it's smart for them to ask. You don't get what you don't ask for, and most people don't have the intestinal fortitude to actually say what they want.
The downside is they think we are all suckers led around by our dicks. LOL.
John HandCock
10-26-17, 08:53
I've had plenty of potential SBs tell me what they wanted, or what some nebulous "last daddy" paid them. I simply say that I'm sure they are worth every penny and wish them well. Fifteen minutes later I have a much lower price on my burner phone messages. It's because it's all bullshit. If they were really getting that, they wouldn't drop their price like a rock because they know they'd get it again.
Personally, I think it's smart for them to ask. You don't get what you don't ask for, and most people don't have the intestinal fortitude to actually say what they want.
The downside is they think we are all suckers led around by our dicks. LOL.Most are led around by their dicks. Just look at all the bad or marginally good reviews and at the end they say will probably return or will see again LOL.
If your looking for a discount, SA has a 33 percent off code for the next few days, "33 halloween".
Indplsgent4fu
11-04-17, 10:19
If your looking for a discount, SA has a 33 percent off code for the next few days, "33 halloween".It has expired, where / how did you find the code?
It has expired, where / how did you find the code?Was an email sent to me by SA.
SnapDragon
11-09-17, 16:05
Anyone had any dealings with her from SA?
SnapDragon
11-10-17, 09:29
Anyone had any dealings with her from SA?Well I am meeting her today. Guess I will let you know later.
SnapDragon
11-10-17, 09:44
Anyone had any dealings with her from SA?Well I am meeting her today. Guess I will let you know later.
AlkyInjected
11-20-17, 02:36
Well I am meeting her today. Guess I will let you know later.So how did it goi?
SnapDragon
11-20-17, 16:38
So how did it goi?She stood me up. Already had a room so I called another SB and she gladly came to see me. Was a nice afternoon. So forget that dumb ass.
AlkyInjected
11-22-17, 21:41
She stood me up. Already had a room so I called another SB and she gladly came to see me. Was a nice afternoon. So forget that dumb ass.Not much else to say she's stood me up also.
AlkyInjected
11-30-17, 01:38
With MisyRissy and LiveFunGirl.
It was terrible, over priced, rushed, lame. They showed up and begged for a tip when they left. No Oral, I also found stuff missing after they left. Beware!
AlkyInjected
11-30-17, 01:47
Xoxoashley97 has a guy drop her off / or sits in your driveway. She says its just a friend but He clearly is attached emotionally from the PDA. Jealous BF?
SnapDragon
12-02-17, 00:46
Has been mentioned on here before.
She doesn't s awesome. Love spending time with her.
Always a good conversation as well as a true PSE.
If you want to meet her then spend the $75 for SA and make contact.
She is something else. Everything is in the table.
Tight is all orifices.
Either is a great actress or really enjoys what she does.
Last time we were together (tonight) she got so wet I thought she pissed herself.
But not the case. She kept cumming and cumming over and over again.
All I can say is why look anywhere else.
INTravelingMan
12-02-17, 16:10
This girl is GPS. Wants $3 K a month and says that it's the average for sugar babies.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/48b80402-f9d3-4495-bb99-a51c4d8b4a3b
Has anyone actually paid her for videos? LOL.
AlkyInjected
12-05-17, 00:02
Talks a good game gets you to text her asks for cock pics then says she is going to send them to everyone on your facebook page LOL I told her to go ahead I saved her texts since its illegal to threaten someone with extortion. I have her phone number, not going to post it here, but beware she may change names now. Its a 574 area code.
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12-07-17, 14:56
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AlkyInjected
12-13-17, 09:19
Maybe someone else has had luck with these two but from what I can tell they are scammers.
Savannahlala requires you to send her money up front via pay pal. LOL.
Sexylala87 has a sad story about her car being broke down in ohio and she wants to get to see you but only if you send her money.
AlkyInjected
12-14-17, 01:58
Maybe someone else has had luck with these two but from what I can tell they are scammers.
Savannahlala requires you to send her money up front via pay pal. LOL.
Sexylala87 has a sad story about her car being broke down in ohio and she wants to get to see you but only if you send her money.Kitycan asks for $200.00 just to have coffee, to make sure you are serious.
BabyK35 wants " arrangement money" up front because she needs it now. Then she'll show up. Ok right. LOL.
AlkyInjected
12-15-17, 11:36
Huge GPS for this one wants you to take her to Harry and Izzys first date. Says a date with her is $500 minimum.
AlkyInjected
12-17-17, 15:00
SPlenda baby sells videos, pictures, no physical contact. Likes to waste time. There alot of these on SA ordinarily I wouldn't give her a bad rap but she pretends to be real. Doesn't say what she is in her profile.
GoodTimes007
12-25-17, 08:10
Anyone else get this extortion text from this chic? Unbelievable idiot.
BigGuyUAteMe
12-25-17, 12:41
I didn't get that one but got texts from a dude that was going to contact my wife if I didn't get him some money. He had done some research, had some facts, but had most thing wrong. I had a lot of fun fucking with him, till I told him that I turned his number over to the police for extortion. Scams everywhere.
BG,
Stay safe, have fun, give and get respect, do your research, find some crazy-good and TPHFB!
Anyone else get this extortion text from this chic? Unbelievable idiot.
AlkyInjected
12-31-17, 15:41
Recently I had a Sb contact me and said she was interested in a 3 some or tag team with two guys. Highly submissive (not the same girl as the one I posted in UTR).
If any one is interested PM me for details.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ffd359c3-e6ce-4fae-99b3-8605243142fc?utm_source=sa&utm_medium=email&utm_term=user&utm_content=rollup&utm_campaign=new-members&ref=email-sa-new-members-rollup-user&locale=en_US
Did anyone notice this new member on SA? I've never met Ophelia, although I did send her a PM back in October that vanished like a fart in the wind. If these pics are really USA's OO, I need to retry contacting her.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ffd359c3-e6ce-4fae-99b3-8605243142fc?utm_source=sa&utm_medium=email&utm_term=user&utm_content=rollup&utm_campaign=new-members&ref=email-sa-new-members-rollup-user&locale=en_US
Did anyone notice this new member on SA? I've never met Ophelia, although I did send her a PM back in October that vanished like a fart in the wind. If these pics are really USA's OO, I need to retry contacting her.They are her. She is a lot of fun and a great young lady.
Anyone have any luck with this young redhead? She talks a big game about how she just wants sex, with no financial benefits. However she's rather bratty and has a pretty shitty attitude most of the time. But she does keep messaging and wanting to talk, just can't get her to commit to meeting. Just curious of anyone else's experiences.
VanillaGuy
01-14-18, 12:03
Sugarsag8812, don't do it, trust me. I know her and just don't. No PM's on this.
Anyone have any experience with this gal? Not sure if she's advertised elsewhere before, but she looks very familiar in her pics. She quickly agreed to $. 5, which always makes me wonder when dealing with what appears to be an attractive middle aged woman. We got a time set up, just wanted to check for any bad experiences. If I don't hear anything, I'll post what I find out!
Anyone have any experience with this gal? Not sure if she's advertised elsewhere before, but she looks very familiar in her pics. She quickly agreed to $. 5, which always makes me wonder when dealing with what appears to be an attractive middle aged woman. We got a time set up, just wanted to check for any bad experiences. If I don't hear anything, I'll post what I find out!How did it go?
After 6 months of rigorous efforts my luck is still no good in finding a good SB, if you know any SBs appreciate if you can share any details.
AlkyInjected
01-25-18, 01:03
Once you get her alone she says she has pics and evidence and threatens to post info on face book if you don't give her double. This is ahead of time. And of course I didn't give in.
AlkyInjected
01-25-18, 01:29
After 6 months of rigorous efforts my luck is still no good in finding a good SB, if you know any SBs appreciate if you can share any details.Not trying to be an ass, but man its so easy to find girls on SA its like taking a nap, easy to do. Are you PMing girls? Is your profile hidden? I've noticed as time goes on its getting even easier. I would urge you to buy a month and PM as many girls as you can (that you want), its literally that easy. You won't score with all of them but after a month you'll have more than you can handle hitting you up. I mean assuming you have some $$ and you aren't offering 25 bucks right? Keep trying. If one doesn't answer there's 12 more joining tomorrow!
MisforMaster
01-25-18, 01:46
There's a UTR young Russian SB (21-22-23 ish) named Katherine running around Indianapolis, but, I haven't found her on SA or any of the other sites.
I know she's an SB based on the conversations she had with her friend about the dinner date she had planned later that night -- she was honest with her friend about who she was going out with in the evening and where / when to expect her phone call. And she was hot as hell.
I've been looking for her on SA and the usual p4 p sites for the last two months without much luck.
If you've ran into her, and have contact info or details, message me.
Once you get her alone she says she has pics and evidence and threatens to post info on face book if you don't give her double. This is ahead of time. And of course I didn't give in.Considering her phone number (the one she gave me) is connected to her social media page, that is not very bright.
AlkyInjected
01-25-18, 11:32
Considering her phone number (the one she gave me) is connected to her social media page, that is not very bright.She isn't the sharpest tool in the shed to be honest.
GoodTimes007
01-25-18, 14:05
It "feels like" 90% of reported scams have user names that are not searchable on SA; as the one below. Can you post screen shots? It's easy to change a user name on SA, especially when negatively reviewed on here — lots of white knights.
Considering her phone number (the one she gave me) is connected to her social media page, that is not very bright.
Anyone have any experience with this gal? Not sure if she's advertised elsewhere before, but she looks very familiar in her pics. She quickly agreed to $. 5, which always makes me wonder when dealing with what appears to be an attractive middle aged woman. We got a time set up, just wanted to check for any bad experiences. If I don't hear anything, I'll post what I find out!Maylee27 was a bust. PM if you need details, although many of you already reached out.
Sexyandcutie-offered duos with a friend. Both look good in their pics and say they've done it a few times before. Little high on what they're asking, but I feel I could work it down. Wondering if anyone ever met them and how it went.
AlwaysPassionate-met up for coffee, not as attractive as I had hoped and way too chatty for my taste.
Lenzy_96-been on SA multiple times under different names. Wasn't bad a couple years ago but put on some weight and not as enjoyable. $. 2.
Starlight_tears-been trying my best to get a conversation going, but hit and miss. Anyone have any luck with her?
MsNikkiIndy-pretty good time, she aims to please $$.
Cali_Jade_-asking for $$. 5, haven't met her yet though.
Other than that, been kind of dry for me lately. By SA standards anyways.
I've seen her before, she used to go by a different name. Had lots of conversation in the past few days, considering meeting up again. I would like to share info through PM if anyone has talked with her. Last time she was on SA, her allowance request skyrocketed after our first time cause a couple people opened up their billfold for her. If we all stick together, we could keep many gals reasonable.
Member #5766
02-06-18, 21:59
Wants a 1000 a week.
I couldn't find any reports on her, but has anyone had any luck?
Anyone had conversations with this gal? I had a short back and forth, she asked for my number so I gave her my number. Next day I get a text from a number I don't recognize, and the text simply says my first name followed by a question mark. The number I gave her was my real number, so I am betting some sort of phishing scheme. However I wish it was all coincidence cause the pics on the profile drive me crazy. If anyone has had a legit conversation let me know.
AlkyInjected
02-11-18, 12:35
Anyone had conversations with this gal? I had a short back and forth, she asked for my number so I gave her my number. Next day I get a text from a number I don't recognize, and the text simply says my first name followed by a question mark. The number I gave her was my real number, so I am betting some sort of phishing scheme. However I wish it was all coincidence cause the pics on the profile drive me crazy. If anyone has had a legit conversation let me know.I talked to her but she was vague about what she wanted and since there's so many other options I moved on.
SplendaDaddi
02-15-18, 00:48
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And I have to delete it. If you got something to say about a chick than say it but why did you think this was a site to review what men wrote on it?
A2
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02-15-18, 11:48
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Prince Numenor
02-15-18, 22:28
Well I'm hooked but I'm not sure I will stick with it. I've been checking SA regularly and favoriting and PMing. I've had one meet and greet where I really liked the lady but got told the difference between "arrangement" and "affair". I'm still trying to figure that one out but hope to remain friends with the lady. I've had one girl offering video's and pics and several girls offering meets at 150 (usually need to get motel) or 200. The best quality seems to be 300. You have to be extremely careful on the site. The ladies don't want to be seen as pro's and so be very tactful with your approaches. I actually have not spent any money other than for lunches but I've enjoyed all the contact and will use my remaining 26 days on site fruitfully. Numenor.
Member #5766
02-16-18, 10:50
Well I'm hooked but I'm not sure I will stick with it. I've been checking SA regularly and favoriting and PMing. I've had one meet and greet where I really liked the lady but got told the difference between "arrangement" and "affair". I'm still trying to figure that one out but hope to remain friends with the lady. I've had one girl offering video's and pics and several girls offering meets at 150 (usually need to get motel) or 200. The best quality seems to be 300. You have to be extremely careful on the site. The ladies don't want to be seen as pro's and so be very tactful with your approaches. I actually have not spent any money other than for lunches but I've enjoyed all the contact and will use my remaining 26 days on site fruitfully. Numenor.I enjoy the site too, just too damn expensive for the garbage that's on it. You've got a ton of girls on there looking for a quick meet, which if you want that, that's what backpage. You've got a ton who wants a platonic thing which I guess there is some Daddy's out there that might go for that. And then it seems like a 20% group that want a real arrangement that is on going. I'd prefer it to be someone who isn't doing a bunch of guys on the side, but that's just my cup of tea. Def a good time suck if you have time to give to browsing all day.
Prince Numenor
02-16-18, 20:55
I can spend hours just browsing all the ladies but getting something from it I just don't know- I'm still trying. I like the concept of a connection with someone along with the sex- makes the sex so much better. How many times have we worked into a hotel room and walked out 30 mins later saying yeah that was OK and it felt good at the time but then blah. Probably the real enjoyment is the anticipation of a new fuck rather than the action itself. Who knows. Anyway I'm on it for a month. If anybody has some good ones on there and is willing to clue me in please PM me. Thanks. Numenor.
I enjoy the site too, just too damn expensive for the garbage that's on it. You've got a ton of girls on there looking for a quick meet, which if you want that, that's what backpage. You've got a ton who wants a platonic thing which I guess there is some Daddy's out there that might go for that. And then it seems like a 20% group that want a real arrangement that is on going. I'd prefer it to be someone who isn't doing a bunch of guys on the side, but that's just my cup of tea. Def a good time suck if you have time to give to browsing all day.
Former SA, single mom, smart. Has a BS degree, very good job but divorced. Small bbw, very cute, immaculently clean, her home and herself! NO bad habits, not even smoke! Prefers you don't. Loves sex and is fucking good at it! Looking for a couple guys to help. Gratuity could be very minimal based on her being attracted to you! Her rules! If you are under 50, white, chicks think your good looking (not an overblown opinion of yourself) LOL hit me up for digits. She can freak, GFE-pse.
TB.
Former SA, single mom, smart. Has a BS degree, very good job but divorced. Small bbw, very cute, immaculently clean, her home and herself! NO bad habits, not even smoke! Prefers you don't. Loves sex and is fucking good at it! Looking for a couple guys to help. Gratuity could be very minimal based on her being attracted to you! Her rules! If you are under 50, white, chicks think your good looking (not an overblown opinion of yourself) LOL hit me up for digits. She can freak, GFE-pse.
TB.I advised she put her add back on SA. KatsMeow84.
You can contact her there, that way she can handle the vetting process and I'm out of it!! LOL.
TB.
Indy Jones 317
02-20-18, 10:13
Littleropelover is legit and worth your time. Petit / blond. Requires a 60 minute drive for you from Indy, but is the real deal.
Littleropelover is legit and worth your time. Petit / blond. Requires a 60 minute drive for you from Indy, but is the real deal.Sweet, Petite, Cute and not ashamed of what she loves!! Late 20's early 30's MILF. The rope thing got a little weird for me but if you can tie a "half hitch" your in!! LOL Suspension frame already set up!
Just off of 70 in Richmond, closest exit to Indy.
TB.
Zen Adventurer
02-20-18, 18:44
I can spend hours just browsing all the ladies but getting something from it I just don't know- I'm still trying. I like the concept of a connection with someone along with the sex- makes the sex so much better. How many times have we worked into a hotel room and walked out 30 mins later saying yeah that was OK and it felt good at the time but then blah. Probably the real enjoyment is the anticipation of a new fuck rather than the action itself. Who knows. Anyway I'm on it for a month. If anybody has some good ones on there and is willing to clue me in please PM me. Thanks. Numenor.I really didn't get my money's worth, though I did develop a number of real correspondences that didn't go anywhere. You get a lot of questionable likes and messages from women who probably don't exist. Suspect site bots they use to keep you engaged and guessing. You'll also get swamped from women from the Pacific Rim and South America who are fishing. Also an inordinate number from Miami. Also questionable, IMHO. If any of you have had a bon (er) fide experience, please let me know. I have a message in to the lovely from Richmond and I'll see what happens should she respond. Thanks for the beta.
Prince Numenor
02-20-18, 22:49
EaastIndianSB is a scam. In messaging she quickly goes to her #. You then enter a very sexy messaging with her which I really enjoyed (I'm not begrudging her). You ask to meet and she set 200 which is not unreasonable on here. She then asks to be "spoilt" for half the amount to set up the appointment. She uses paypal here. If you go along with this she will give you her address and a meet time. The address is cleverly fake- could easily be real- and she is gone. A very clever girl. I liked her and would give good money to actually see her but. I've told SA. Numenor.
I really didn't get my money's worth, though I did develop a number of real correspondences that didn't go anywhere. You get a lot of questionable likes and messages from women who probably don't exist. Suspect site bots they use to keep you engaged and guessing. You'll also get swamped from women from the Pacific Rim and South America who are fishing. Also an inordinate number from Miami. Also questionable, IMHO. If any of you have had a bon (er) fide experience, please let me know. I have a message in to the lovely from Richmond and I'll see what happens should she respond. Thanks for the beta.
Member #5631
02-22-18, 10:25
Littleropelover is legit and worth your time. Petit / blond. Requires a 60 minute drive for you from Indy, but is the real deal.Where does she advertise?
IndyGuy123
02-23-18, 01:07
Where does she advertise?Dude, What thread are you in? This whole thread is for one site unless noted otherwise.
Indy Guy.
Anyone seen the below ones.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/1d2c10d4-27c4-4b05-982e-8a39a5f2f618
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/c6cda611-c835-43e3-885b-e5ede80266b5
Any info is much appreciated.
Thanks.
AlkyInjected
02-24-18, 05:07
Tries to pocket the money then make an excuse to go to her car so she can ditch you but keep te money. She talks a big game, tries to meet at upscale restaurant. Multiple profiles no intention of playing what so ever, but again she acts like its on like donkey kong up untill its time to drop trou.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/9cd67eb3-336c-4995-a131-0d385549d596
GoodTimes007
02-25-18, 06:08
Hey guys, I am starting a kik group for seniors only, and only those respectful and helpful. If interested, PM me.
GoodTimes007
02-25-18, 06:15
Anyone seen the below ones.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/1d2c10d4-27c4-4b05-982e-8a39a5f2f618
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/c6cda611-c835-43e3-885b-e5ede80266b5
Any info is much appreciated.
Thanks.Need user names.
Need user names.They work for me. You have to be signed into the website.
AlkyInjected
02-25-18, 11:15
They work for me. You have to be signed into the website.But the scammer girls change their profile or re join alot so links do disappear. Mine did.
HumpyDumpty
02-26-18, 12:52
Sent pm to you. Please add me
Hey guys, I am starting a kik group for seniors only, and only those respectful and helpful. If interested, PM me.
VanillaGuy
02-26-18, 17:00
Parisxo92 very bad news and dangerous, pm for details.
Been texting with the below seems too be nice.
Anyone seen in the past.
Username: Sammiiiiexo's.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/1528d9db-fb49-4dc1-9b45-ee94c208fffd
Any info is much appreciated.
Anyone seen the below ones.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/1d2c10d4-27c4-4b05-982e-8a39a5f2f618
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/c6cda611-c835-43e3-885b-e5ede80266b5
Any info is much appreciated.
Thanks.FYI: indianagirl1985 and floralqueen are using the same pics.
GoodTimes007
03-01-18, 06:19
Parisxo92 very bad news and dangerous, pm for details.She's got issues. Somehow has an ap on her phone that a guy can monitor. He (maybe you) then blasts your phone with all of her drug and std issues. I caught on the second she said "whoops! Wrong ap!" And changed numbers. No need to PM, just steer clear, save the headache.
Member #5766
03-01-18, 13:36
Are some of you really just paying for pics / and vids?
I have been talking to these profiles below.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/33484108-3633-4248-aa2a-6fd09ce4800a
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/434e62c6-c2ee-b804-3fe8-fc48e37cf8b9
Any information about them is appreciated.
You guys are pouring time and emotions down the proverbial toilet, and it's boring as fuck as well.
"anybody got any intell on Charise, She was meeting me at Long John Silvers for two hundred dolllars".
Just hire a worker for fucks sakes.
GoodTimes007
03-02-18, 17:12
Are some of you really just paying for pics / and vids?Dude, I'm baffled too. The site is littered with "platonic" and "online only" lately. Not to mention the influx of ugly ass chicks saying "I'm a princess," or "I'm expensive. ".
Regardless, block them, no matter how hot. There are still needles within the hay stack. I'm seeing a Latino baby that's sexy as fuck. Got lucky quickly, after about 50 emails and feeling frustrated.
EarlyCuyler
03-02-18, 20:47
You guys are pouring time and emotions down the proverbial toilet, and it's boring as fuck as well.
"anybody got any intell on Charise, She was meeting me at Long John Silvers for two hundred dolllars".
Just hire a worker for fucks sakes.There are benefits to finding needles in haystacks for some. There is also that intangible of knowing that the girl who has your cock in your mouth was selling real estate earlier that day, rather than laying on an infested mattress in a shithole motel on Shadeland, being fucked by her 8th John since noon. Needle tracks are far more of a rarity with SA women, as are "managers" who may or may not steal your car while you're in said motel.
For me personally, I like semi pros first and foremost. Many of them tend to be in it for the kicks as well as mortgage payment money. (There's another distinction. The word "mortgage" as opposed to "weekly rates".) If you're an experienced peruser of BP or any other escort listing site, you've probably developed the ability to quickly screen out the BS. Same goes for SD sites. So the meeting at Long John Silver's for 200 bucks may happen, but if you're somewhat savvy, then it won't. I still indulge in full on professionals, but I've developed a bit of an appreciation for the semi-pro or part timer.
There are benefits to finding needles in haystacks for some. There is also that intangible of knowing that the girl who has your cock in your mouth was selling real estate earlier that day, rather than laying on an infested mattress in a shithole motel on Shadeland, being fucked by her 8th John since noon. Needle tracks are far more of a rarity with SA women, as are "managers" who may or may not steal your car while you're in said motel.
For me personally, I like semi pros first and foremost. Many of them tend to be in it for the kicks as well as mortgage payment money. (There's another distinction. The word "mortgage" as opposed to "weekly rates".) If you're an experienced peruser of BP or any other escort listing site, you've probably developed the ability to quickly screen out the BS. Same goes for SD sites. So the meeting at Long John Silver's for 200 bucks may happen, but if you're somewhat savvy, then it won't. I still indulge in full on professionals, but I've developed a bit of an appreciation for the semi-pro or part timer.Just recently discovered this forum, but I've been in the SA game for a few years. My two cents. There is definitely some skill and patience required to successfully find the proverbial needle in a haystack. But they are one there, as I've found many over the past few years. Currently seeing 3, with very little out of pocket investment. Since I hate posts where guys brag about their success without sharing any intel, I'll reveal one needle in the haystack. Malee27. Mid 40's tatted up Asian. I read some discouraging posts about her previously, but for me she fits the bill. Especially since we've been hooking up for the past few weeks quite often with little to nothing out of pocket. She's in it for the experience, connection, and sex. Doubt you can be ass and have any success, you got to treat her right and have a little depth to your conversation. I don't mind sharing this one, so if anyone hooks up with her, return the favor to the board. Or PM me with a good lead on another.
It seems over the past few months, I'm running into more girls that prefer a married guy. I'm single with no kids, and I always say that up front, but once I had a couple tell me they prefer a married guy with a family I started saying I'm married and by gosh I started seeing an uptick in action. Maybe the site has gotten littered with young single punk guys and the girls are gravitating towards the married more stable guys. I don't know, just curious of others experiences. For now, I'm going to keep telling them about my imaginary family, LOL.
Been texting with the below seems too be nice.
Anyone seen in the past.
Username: Sammiiiiexo's.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/1528d9db-fb49-4dc1-9b45-ee94c208fffd
Any info is much appreciated.I've talked to her a little here and there and so far she's quoted 250 to 5 per visit or a monthly which we haven't really discussed.
It seems over the past few months, I'm running into more girls that prefer a married guy. I'm single with no kids, and I always say that up front, but once I had a couple tell me they prefer a married guy with a family I started saying I'm married and by gosh I started seeing an uptick in action. Maybe the site has gotten littered with young single punk guys and the girls are gravitating towards the married more stable guys. I don't know, just curious of others experiences. For now, I'm going to keep telling them about my imaginary family, LOL.Interesting observation! My experience is that, in general, SBs don't really care. But the younger ones in SA seems asking about this more often than older ones.
I've hooked up with her roommate, Pinklea69, till I'm tired of it. But I've been trying to converse with Xoxoashley97, who I know is her roommate, but I never get a response. Maybe they share info and don't share dudes. Just curious if anyone has met up with both of them.
I know I've seen talk of her before, just wondered if anybody has seen her lately and what the lowdown is? https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/8a080875-f36b-4f4e-8844-98a9c00dd0f8.
I've hooked up with her roommate, Pinklea69, till I'm tired of it. But I've been trying to converse with Xoxoashley97, who I know is her roommate, but I never get a response. Maybe they share info and don't share dudes. Just curious if anyone has met up with both of them.Can't find either of them.
Can't find either of them.You're right, I just looked at my message history and they both have deleted their profiles. It's amazing, I pose a question on the forum and the next day their profile is gone.
I know I've seen talk of her before, just wondered if anybody has seen her lately and what the lowdown is? https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/8a080875-f36b-4f4e-8844-98a9c00dd0f8.I talked to her for a bit, but she was so pushy wanting to meet to hook up, hotel or car it didn't matter. She was blowing my phone daily and started getting an attitude when I wasn't ready to meet at the drop of the hat. I lost interest, but maybe she's great who knows.
I talked to her for a bit, but she was so pushy wanting to meet to hook up, hotel or car it didn't matter. She was blowing my phone daily and started getting an attitude when I wasn't ready to meet at the drop of the hat. I lost interest, but maybe she's great who knows.She had caught my radar as well. She asked if I ever came down to Indy and I said I do often and some other stuff. She then comes back with "Too bad you can't come down to Indy to see me?
I had never said I couldn't nor had she asked me to. I'm still trying to see if there is anything there but fear lights are on and no ones home.
CaddyDaddy663
03-12-18, 08:30
She had caught my radar as well. She asked if I ever came down to Indy and I said I do often and some other stuff. She then comes back with "Too bad you can't come down to Indy to see me?
I had never said I couldn't nor had she asked me to. I'm still trying to see if there is anything there but fear lights are on and no ones home.I've chatted with her on and off for over a year now, she has had a few profiles all with the name Olivia. I don't know anyone who has seen her successfully, but those fun bags keep me at least 10% interested.
I've chatted with her on and off for over a year now, she has had a few profiles all with the name Olivia. I don't know anyone who has seen her successfully, but those fun bags keep me at least 10% interested.I have met up with her once and never again. . 2 for an hour and everything was covered and very mechanical and she didn't want to fully undress. Baby damage bad and a real foul odor and I could barely keep interested. One positive she is very pretty but the negatives will keep me away. Plus she doesn't host so you got to get a room. There are definitely better ones out there.
SevenSixfive
03-19-18, 22:16
Is there a way to do a search by username on this site?
Is there a way to do a search by username on this site?Not sure which "site" you meant. Forums? Or SA? So I will answer both.
If you are searching the forums there is the search in upper right and you just type in username.
If you are meaning on SA, at least on the web site there is a box at bottom of search to search profile text where you can add the username and will find them.
SevenSixfive
03-21-18, 16:19
Not sure which "site" you meant. Forums? Or SA? So I will answer both.
If you are searching the forums there is the search in upper right and you just type in username.
If you are meaning on SA, at least on the web site there is a box at bottom of search to search profile text where you can add the username and will find them.Sorry it was a bad question and I thought I deleted it. The first few usernames I searched didn't return anything so I mistakenly thought it didn't work when in fact the users were probably just no longer active.
Has anyone met with her? If not, I'm happy to share my findings, but she's been a little too eager and it's causing me to wonder why.
Since most all of us are extremely active in the SA field and others, you would think this thread would be the most active these days and yet. Wait for it:. That's right just silence.
Since most all of us are extremely active in the SA field and others, you would think this thread would be the most active these days and yet. Wait for it:. That's right just silence.I would be more than happy to share my findings. I have to many at this point! JB.
Member #5766
06-30-18, 11:21
I would be more than happy to share my findings. I have to many at this point! JB.A bunch a crap is what I've found.
Prince Numenor
07-02-18, 09:10
It surprises me too. SA has sort of captured a lot of my attention. Here I am an older man having sex and good conversation with intelligent, cute girls in their 20's. It works for me LOL! Saying that it costs but probably is worth it for the experience and satisfaction you get. I am not going to repeat names because SA is not backpage or an escorting site. Go on there, learn, do the work and be happy.
Numenor.
Since most all of us are extremely active in the SA field and others, you would think this thread would be the most active these days and yet. Wait for it:. That's right just silence.
A bunch a crap is what I've found.I have found some crap, I have found some cute pussy that often isn't worth the trouble tho having it isn't all bad, but I have found some real diamonds and had some incredible times off of sa.
Indy Jones 317
07-03-18, 11:27
Anyone have experience with Indy Lexi?
Rope girl in Richmond is a winner, if you are still looking.
EarlyCuyler
07-05-18, 10:19
I may be way off base with this, but I don't think I am. IMO, there are fewer targets for Uncle LEO to go after these days, what with the downfall of BP. I think we recently have seen evidence of this with the situation on the south side from a week or so ago. Consider that the personnel and resources are the same but with literally hundreds of ads per day fewer than used to the the case, the resources can be refocused on a smaller amount of targets. This isn't just the case here in Indy, it's the case all over the country (not in other parts of the civilized world, since we are virtually the only westernized government that considers themselves to be in a position of morality police, telling two adults what they can and cannot do with their genitals). BP literally had tens of thousands of ads up each and every day in the US. Consider going into your office and finding your inbox filled with only 1/10 of the normal load day after day after day.
Anyway, I say all this to say that I think SA is maybe (maybe) next on the list of targets for the Puritan Police. So please be very discreet in your reports and naming of names. General conversation and reports are fine I think, but I wouldn't name any names in public or with anyone in correspondence that you haven't known for a long time. BP busts were easy, but SA busts would require a lot more time for a couple of reasons. First, pimps and trafficked girls are more difficult to identify on SA. Perhaps there are fewer of those instances. I certainly hope so. On BP, those stuck out like a sort thumb. . . Same number for multiple girls or google searches coming up with a different girl every two or three months. Secondly, if you have experience with SA, you know that it takes more work to actually work yourself into an intimate agreement and setting. It's not as easy as sending a text and showing up at a shithole motel on Shadeland 30 minutes later. I'm not saying that it couldn't happen because again, same resources, fewer targets. However, the guarantee of a payoff is not as guaranteed as it used to be. Let's not open the door any wider than it already is.
I may be way off base with this, but I don't think I am. IMO, there are fewer targets for Uncle LEO to go after these days, what with the downfall of BP. I think we recently have seen evidence of this with the situation on the south side from a week or so ago. Consider that the personnel and resources are the same but with literally hundreds of ads per day fewer than used to the the case, the resources can be refocused on a smaller amount of targets. This isn't just the case here in Indy, it's the case all over the country (not in other parts of the civilized world, since we are virtually the only westernized government that considers themselves to be in a position of morality police, telling two adults what they can and cannot do with their genitals). BP literally had tens of thousands of ads up each and every day in the US. Consider going into your office and finding your inbox filled with only 1/10 of the normal load day after day after day.
Anyway, I say all this to say that I think SA is maybe (maybe) next on the list of targets for the Puritan Police. So please be very discreet in your reports and naming of names. General conversation and reports are fine I think, but I wouldn't name any names in public or with anyone in correspondence that you haven't known for a long time. BP busts were easy, but SA busts would require a lot more time for a couple of reasons. First, pimps and trafficked girls are more difficult to identify on SA. Perhaps there are fewer of those instances. I certainly hope so. On BP, those stuck out like a sort thumb. . . Same number for multiple girls or google searches coming up with a different girl every two or three months. Secondly, if you have experience with SA, you know that it takes more work to actually work yourself into an intimate agreement and setting. It's not as easy as sending a text and showing up at a shithole motel on Shadeland 30 minutes later. I'm not saying that it couldn't happen because again, same resources, fewer targets. However, the guarantee of a payoff is not as guaranteed as it used to be. Let's not open the door any wider than it already is.My highlight for emphasis.
Good post and advice. I absolutely think they are gearing up for the SB sites. It might actually be a good thing, because someone that has standing is going to need to take up the fight against FOSTA.
FarFarAway
07-06-18, 13:20
My highlight for emphasis.
Good post and advice. I absolutely think they are gearing up for the SB sites. It might actually be a good thing, because someone that has standing is going to need to take up the fight against FOSTA.There is no doubt SA itself fears what could happen to it under FOSTA. Look at the video on the site, and all the posts in response. I recommend people reporting escorts, as the site is very clear that they violate its ToS. This won't hurt me at all, I am not interested in escorts but real SBs. It will thin out the ranks and make it easier to find what I am looking for. There may be replacements for BP and CL, but right now, no place offers what SA does. I hope that escorting / mongering doesn't ruin it for those of us who are serious about this post-modern relationship, the arrangement. They have existed for millenia, but SA just facilitated the parties finding each other.
There is no doubt SA itself fears what could happen to it under FOSTA. Look at the video on the site, and all the posts in response. I recommend people reporting escorts, as the site is very clear that they violate its ToS. This won't hurt me at all, I am not interested in escorts but real SBs. It will thin out the ranks and make it easier to find what I am looking for. There may be replacements for BP and CL, but right now, no place offers what SA does. I hope that escorting / mongering doesn't ruin it for those of us who are serious about this post-modern relationship, the arrangement. They have existed for millenia, but SA just facilitated the parties finding each other.Is it just me or have they removed the ability to search by typing in words again? Or was that only when you had paid membership active? Not that the keyword search was very useful unless you were searching for a specific username.
Power Tool
07-08-18, 22:25
There is no doubt SA itself fears what could happen to it under FOSTA. Look at the video on the site, and all the posts in response. I recommend people reporting escorts, as the site is very clear that they violate its ToS. This won't hurt me at all, I am not interested in escorts but real SBs. It will thin out the ranks and make it easier to find what I am looking for. There may be replacements for BP and CL, but right now, no place offers what SA does. I hope that escorting / mongering doesn't ruin it for those of us who are serious about this post-modern relationship, the arrangement. They have existed for millenia, but SA just facilitated the parties finding each other.I'm somewhat new to the SB scene, SA wasn't really around before my hiatus. So please explain what the difference is between a SB and an escort or for that matter a mistress. All of them are what our society would call prostitutes, because all of them except money for sexual favors. To me there is no difference from a streetwalker, escort, SB or mistress it's just how they advertise for clients, the level and type of service they provide. From what I have heard from other friends and read about there are plenty of SB's that see multiple SD's in a week and fuck for $ whenever they are available.
Seems to me your arrangement with a SB is just what I would call spending time with a higher class escort who doesn't watch clock or an escort that I have a developed, over time, a special relationship with.
Silverbikini007.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/257739c0-8a45-42dd-ab07-34509adecfed
And.
Stevieann71.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/89129c41-c159-4c41-8ce4-29ee920bfe4d
As always I have some travel info!
Silverbikini007.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/257739c0-8a45-42dd-ab07-34509adecfed
And.
Stevieann71.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/89129c41-c159-4c41-8ce4-29ee920bfe4d
As always I have some travel info!
EarlyCuyler
07-09-18, 23:19
As always I have some travel info!And I've benefited from that travel info!! For seniors, I have info as well. For the most part, it's limited to Dallas / Fort Worth (there's an amazingly gorgeous, mixed race, ex NFL cheerleader, who is a VERY dirty girl if anyone is traveling there) and Palm Beach and Broward counties in FL. I tend towards older, more mature ladies, but the blonde hair and big fake tits look supersedes about everything else. When I can find the two in one package, I should just walk in the door, throw my wallet at them, and leave. I'm THAT smitten.
EarlyCuyler
07-09-18, 23:31
There is no doubt SA itself fears what could happen to it under FOSTA. Look at the video on the site, and all the posts in response. I recommend people reporting escorts, as the site is very clear that they violate its ToS. This won't hurt me at all, I am not interested in escorts but real SBs. It will thin out the ranks and make it easier to find what I am looking for. There may be replacements for BP and CL, but right now, no place offers what SA does. I hope that escorting / mongering doesn't ruin it for those of us who are serious about this post-modern relationship, the arrangement. They have existed for millenia, but SA just facilitated the parties finding each other.It HAS happened for millenia, mistresses, sugar babies, etc. I love the arrangement actually. It's EXACTLY what I want at this stage in the game of life. I just recently put my first on on regular retainer. We get together about once a week, do something fun like a local dive, concert, dinner, etc, then go back to my place and destroy one another's genitalia until the wee hours of the morning. Neither of us needs to call or text the other the next day, no one is worried about anyone working late, or schtuping other people, or paying bills together, or any of the other entanglements of a full time relationship. If I don't hear from her for a few days or a week, so be it and vice versa. So for me at least, it's all the benefits of a SO with none of the responsibilities (well, there is that monthly paypal transaction). Since we negotiated our relationship on the front end, boundaries and expectations were fully discussed and agreed upon. At some point I'm sure that someone will want more, or someone will want less, and we know that going in. When that happens, there will be no surprises. Until then though, I have an intelligent, well read woman on my arm who can carry the conversation when I need / want that, and a beautiful 6' in heels brunette who begs me to ravish her when I need / want that. If it ain't broke. . . .
I'm somewhat new to the SB scene, SA wasn't really around before my hiatus. So please explain what the difference is between a SB and an escort or for that matter a mistress. All of them are what our society would call prostitutes, because all of them except money for sexual favors. To me there is no difference from a streetwalker, escort, SB or mistress it's just how they advertise for clients, the level and type of service they provide. From what I have heard from other friends and read about there are plenty of SB's that see multiple SD's in a week and fuck for $ whenever they are available.
Seems to me your arrangement with a SB is just what I would call spending time with a higher class escort who doesn't watch clock or an escort that I have a developed, over time, a special relationship with.What you said is true, however True SB will have sex without condom, and others (almost all) will require a condom, that is the big different to me.
WreckItRight
07-16-18, 12:25
I'm somewhat new to the SB scene, SA wasn't really around before my hiatus. So please explain what the difference is between a SB and an escort or for that matter a mistress. All of them are what our society would call prostitutes, because all of them except money for sexual favors. To me there is no difference from a streetwalker, escort, SB or mistress it's just how they advertise for clients, the level and type of service they provide. From what I have heard from other friends and read about there are plenty of SB's that see multiple SD's in a week and fuck for $ whenever they are available.
Seems to me your arrangement with a SB is just what I would call spending time with a higher class escort who doesn't watch clock or an escort that I have a developed, over time, a special relationship with.There's many similarities but also a ton of differences. And everything in between. The menu is vast on there, from addicts / street walkers with a cell phone; Pro's providers and strippers, sugar babies that see a few guys to the ones that are exclusive to Mary Poppins who wants money to grace you with her presence.
I can't stand clock watchers so I tend to stick to the sugar babies.
WreckItRight
07-16-18, 12:27
I know a brunette sugar baby who is interested in doing a back to back with two guys. She's safe and reasonable. If interested PM me.
WreckItRight
07-18-18, 14:34
I know a brunette sugar baby who is interested in doing a back to back with two guys. She's safe and reasonable. If interested PM me.If you Pm me and interest is there include your email or some form of contact and Ill send pics.
Guys. From what I am seeing there is a lot available out there. That agree to my arrangement terms. Don't pay any attention to what they list. Of all the goody two shoes I have messaged, only one has came back with a blunt 'not interested'. And I have messaged a lot. For awhile I avoided the findom girls but I think it doesn't take long for them to realize what they want is going to be different than what they get. Don't ask them what they are after, make your proposal after feeling them out for being up to your taste- and do it tactfully. Some of those girls use the word platonic incredibly loosely. If they aren't interested they won't reply. But many do after a few days or weeks-my guess is because their visions of dollar signs dancing in their head slowly fades away. LOL!
Og.
VanillaGuy
07-23-18, 01:47
https://www.seeking.com/member/9158ceb2-6ef2-4c36-884a-d4c8093ddaf1
'SmokeGoodLoud, her profile says she's 28, turns out she's 18. She traveled here for a fair rate, she was a good time, says she's willing to travel here often.
BigGuyUAteMe
07-23-18, 14:21
It HAS happened for millenia, mistresses, sugar babies, etc. I love the arrangement actually. It's EXACTLY what I want at this stage in the game of life. I just recently put my first on on regular retainer. We get together about once a week, do something fun like a local dive, concert, dinner, etc, then go back to my place and destroy one another's genitalia until the wee hours of the morning. Neither of us needs to call or text the other the next day, no one is worried about anyone working late, or schtuping other people, or paying bills together, or any of the other entanglements of a full time relationship. If I don't hear from her for a few days or a week, so be it and vice versa. So for me at least, it's all the benefits of a SO with none of the responsibilities (well, there is that monthly paypal transaction). Since we negotiated our relationship on the front end, boundaries and expectations were fully discussed and agreed upon. At some point I'm sure that someone will want more, or someone will want less, and we know that going in. When that happens, there will be no surprises. Until then though, I have an intelligent, well read woman on my arm who can carry the conversation when I need / want that, and a beautiful 6' in heels brunette who begs me to ravish her when I need / want that. If it ain't broke. . . .Good post EC, I very much like the SB arrangement. I do love variety but there is something to be said about being comfortable with someone your having sex with. I have had a few SB, the one I have now has been with me for 18 months and I couldn't ask for a better arrangement.
P.S., I don't pay them to stay, I pay them to leave.
BG,
I like what I'm reading in here, but wanted to get a quick idea of what people are usually spending on this side of the hobby. SA is $90 a month, unless you buy a few months at a time, and then can anyone share their average SB maintenance outlay? I'm not really hobbying all that much anymore, but I like the idea of a more casual encounter, which these SBs seem to be open to providing, but it feels like I may end up spending more than I would if I just went straight escort.
Zakk Wylde
08-01-18, 10:34
I like what I'm reading in here, but wanted to get a quick idea of what people are usually spending on this side of the hobby. SA is $90 a month, unless you buy a few months at a time, and then can anyone share their average SB maintenance outlay? I'm not really hobbying all that much anymore, but I like the idea of a more casual encounter, which these SBs seem to be open to providing, but it feels like I may end up spending more than I would if I just went straight escort.You'll be spending a lot more time for sure. It's like a part time job.
Prince Numenor
08-07-18, 23:44
Yep 90 a month. I've been on and off 3 times for premium membership. I've had 5 separate babies. I've met at least 3 others in meets. For me it has been a totally different experience than going to a provider. I've had generally terrific sex and after first time usually bare. I've gone from 20 year olds upto 40 year olds. Different experience each time. I'm older and for a 60 year old to be fucking a 20 year old- yep it's probably worth it. Saying that it isn't cheap. I try and stick at 250 max. I've done 200 to 300 (300 only first time). There is no time limit here. It's much more like a date. Often we've had lunch and usually great conversation. I look for intelligence and broke college girls are a good bet. Several times girls have had me popping twice and have made an effort to do it. I've spent probably 2 grand on the experience so far over several months It's addictive and you get better at it with experience. Looking is part of the fun. Totally your choice. Numenor.
You'll be spending a lot more time for sure. It's like a part time job.
Zakk Wylde
08-08-18, 18:05
Yep 90 a month. I've been on and off 3 times for premium membership. I've had 5 separate babies. I've met at least 3 others in meets. For me it has been a totally different experience than going to a provider. I've had generally terrific sex and after first time usually bare. I've gone from 20 year olds upto 40 year olds. Different experience each time. I'm older and for a 60 year old to be fucking a 20 year old- yep it's probably worth it. Saying that it isn't cheap. I try and stick at 250 max. I've done 200 to 300 (300 only first time). There is no time limit here. It's much more like a date. Often we've had lunch and usually great conversation. I look for intelligence and broke college girls are a good bet. Several times girls have had me popping twice and have made an effort to do it. I've spent probably 2 grand on the experience so far over several months It's addictive and you get better at it with experience. Looking is part of the fun. Totally your choice. Numenor.Every time I pay for a month I add 5-10 to the book. Hard ceiling at 300, and only then for first time. Only repeat if will go much lower (100-150). Target for first time is 200 though. Most want consistency, so once you have a rotation you can handle, you only have to pay to get on every few months to replace those who moved on. Some take a lot of work, some don't if you catch them at the right time.
I've made contact with 3 ladies. In talking with them it feels more like talking to a BP lady rather than an SB. Have any of you had experience with them?
Venus22 yrsyoung-6537.
Thicksugarbaby31-1490.
Jace1412-9102.
Any help is appreciated.
Dave.
I've made contact with 3 ladies. In talking with them it feels more like talking to a BP lady rather than an SB. Have any of you had experience with them?
Venus22 yrsyoung-6537.
Thicksugarbaby31-1490.
Jace1412-9102.
Any help is appreciated.
Dave.Hello!
I had a meet and greet with Jace and then met with her once so far. She is a nice young lady (matches her pics). I don't have any real complaints but unsure if I will see her again. She wasn't very enthusiastic in our meeting. She is very much about the money. I've just had better SA interactions (where it actually seems like a date). She very much seems like a BP girl. She is already getting dressed once you pop. YMMV of course. I. Unfamiliar with the other two. PM me the ages of the other two and I'll look them up.
Good luck!
FrazzleSnazzle
08-13-18, 00:34
Have tried SA a bit with all the turmoil of late in regular hobbying. Met the young lady who posts as 'Nerdyndirty' on the sister site on SA, where she started last month, and ultimately had a great all around time (except for an occasional vague sense of cradle-robbing on my part) with her-did some 'Sugar' type public activity with her that was nice (intelligent girl) and the physical things were most enjoyable as well. A few other meets have had modest success but nothing to be too excited about. Also, a couple that turned sour:
'Kit1734'-this is the lady introduced over on the escort thread by another hobbyist nearly two weeks ago who got some good initial commentary but then a few recent questionable comments. Had an ultimately poor experience and I believe she has (non-substance) issues that have been exacerbated by life circumstances of late. Rather unfortunate as she is cute and seemed to have the raw material to potentially be a good SB type.
'Kandy910'-had just a meet and greet (dining, shopping{and ultimately just purchased for myself}, chatting) a week or so ago. Had a good time, she seemed truly just plain nice, cute in a quiet girl next door sense, has a decent but modest paying job, just wanted a pretty reasonable slice of cash to help with bills (including some student and from a failed marriage) and to experience some decent entertainment semiregularly. We both agreed we had a good time and would like to visit again. So, I text her Thursday evening about meeting on Sunday, she says that would be good and we agree on a general time. Then the nice completely disappears. She goes full ghost, no reply at all to multiple confirm texts Saturday and Sunday am, no SA message (saw she was on site mid Saturday afternoon). So, not so nice but rude and inconsiderate, and it did really surprise me that she would do that (and I do personally put an emphasis on communication and courtesy, if she'd simply communicated that she didn't want to / couldn't meet again that would've been fine) given how she came across in the m&g.
I didn't realize that SA changed the search function. Here are the kinks to the 3 I had in question.
https://www.seeking.com/member/9203dec7-0e38-488a-8206-a8074860a3e8
Venus22 yrsyoung.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b4f4a35d-07bd-485e-97bc-ee54a361e842
Thicksugarbaby31.
https://www.seeking.com/member/a79f343b-fdad-454b-7245-f3b022f4e5bd
Jace1412.
Thanks.
JcMorpheus
08-14-18, 01:54
I've made contact with 3 ladies. In talking with them it feels more like talking to a BP lady rather than an SB. Have any of you had experience with them?
Venus22 yrsyoung-6537.
Thicksugarbaby31-1490.
Jace1412-9102.
Any help is appreciated.
Dave.Thicksugarbaby31, We have been trying to meet twice for the past week. Both times something happened on her end that prevented us from hanging out. She used dumb excuses for both times. She feels like a waste of time. Maybe you'll have better luck.
Videoxxman
08-14-18, 18:15
Interesting that people on this site only talk about SA instead of SecretBenefits which is the one advertising and linked on this site.
I'm using SB and met a very attractive woman, yes not an 18 yr old. Had dinner last night and she suggested next meet we have desert before going to dinner. Sent me some ads for lingerie said she would be interested in my selection. Hell I bought all three on AMAZON so Monday will have a fashion show.
Ill post the results.
Hope to take some pics, I am a real photographer and have done shoots with local providers in the past.
Happy hunting.
Prince Numenor
08-14-18, 23:05
Be interesting to compare. They operate a different way. I have a profile and get responses but have not bought any credits yet. Not sure if worth it.
I have a profile on SB but have not bought any credits yet. Be interesting to compare.
I have a profile on SB but have not bought any credits yet. Be interesting to compare.
Interesting that people on this site only talk about SA instead of SecretBenefits which is the one advertising and linked on this site.
I'm using SB and met a very attractive woman, yes not an 18 yr old. Had dinner last night and she suggested next meet we have desert before going to dinner. Sent me some ads for lingerie said she would be interested in my selection. Hell I bought all three on AMAZON so Monday will have a fashion show.
Ill post the results.
Hope to take some pics, I am a real photographer and have done shoots with local providers in the past.
Happy hunting..
Anyone ever meet this gal? I've had lots of texting, pics, even a couple videos. But very difficult to get her to commit to a meet. The good conversation keeps me intrigued, but I'm wondering if it's worth the continued effort.
Interesting that people on this site only talk about SA instead of SecretBenefits which is the one advertising and linked on this site.
I'm using SB and met a very attractive woman, yes not an 18 yr old. Had dinner last night and she suggested next meet we have desert before going to dinner. Sent me some ads for lingerie said she would be interested in my selection. Hell I bought all three on AMAZON so Monday will have a fashion show.
Ill post the results.
Hope to take some pics, I am a real photographer and have done shoots with local providers in the past.
Happy hunting.With the changes they have made to SA (well its just S now and no A), I think I will give SB a spin again I got some credits a few years ago but no real bites on there. The fact that it was 10 credits ($10) to start corresponding to each person was a bit much for my tastes for responses I got. Wasn't quite sure if most of them were just bait to get you to use up the credits and buy more.
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