Cuddlers

**DS080** · 11-29-25 21:21

I usually just look at Kangles forum, but noticed this today. Most contacts are through cuddlecomfort website, which I can't access even using VPN. How can I look at the site to check its profile pics? Really curious. What is the damage for usual encounter? Where do encounters take place?

**AngryMan420** · 11-29-25 21:04

https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/M3rmaids

Any intel on this one (extras / services / pricing / attitude)? Looks like she's headed to SF in January.

**Lurkyy** · 11-29-25 17:38

She is on cuddle comfort. Saw her for the first time a few weeks ago. Ask for extras in person and she will offer more for an upcharge. Slamdunk for me.

**Kinkaid69** · 11-21-25 17:01

Could any of you share any info about the trans girl z*l*a? PM is fine if your shy about penises Where is her vibe on the feminine to masculine scale? Does she seem more like a girl with a dick, or a boy with boobs?

**BoredTooEasily** · 11-18-25 17:30

Originally Posted by Kinkaid69 [View Original Post]

Either way, she mentioned her boundaries to me too, I listened patiently and respectfully, but eventually she was on top enjoying a camel slide when she slipped it in, it was all her idea.

This is pretty much the play, right here. Not to take away from anyone's experience -- could be that our friend Kinkaid just caught her when she was horny / ovulating / pissed at her GF; could be that she simply liked Kinkaid in particular (hooray for YMMV) -- but he certainly played it correctly to max out his odds. We want sex to be "their idea," and making them as comfortable as possible not only fosters the right climate, it's quite simply the right thing to do in the first place. Cheers, buddy. Glad you got yours before she went block-happy on you.

**Kinkaid69** · 11-18-25 16:28

Not surprised she has a GF, that fills in a lot of the puzzle. Maybe they were "on a break" and my timing was lucky? My amateur psyc impression of her is twofold: She has that idea in her head that if she gets a guy hard, she "needs" to get him off. Sometimes linked to trauma / safety, sometimes she just want's that sense of accomplishment. Second, she wants to be loyal to her girlfriend, but also likes d**ck.

Either way, she mentioned her boundaries to me too, I listened patiently and respectfully, but eventually she was on top enjoying a camel slide when she slipped it in, it was all her idea.

Originally Posted by Loopguystl [View Original Post]

This is super interesting. I saw her a few months ago and was told firmly that a) have to stay platonic, b) she used to do more before she figured out boundaries and c) she has a girlfriend. Net net I chose not to repeat. This was before the rebranding though.

**Woodward** · 11-18-25 01:27

Originally Posted by Kinkaid69 [View Original Post]

She is worth spending some time with, she does really like giving handys, and loves sex once she knows you. TAKE YOUR TIME AND DON"T RUIN IT FOR THE REST OF US. She ended up blocking me, likely because she wanted to meet up 2 or 3 times a week, and that doesn't work for my schedule.

When I saw her absolutely nothing happened. I'm guessing she stopped doing anything, unless seeing her multiple times increases the odds. She didn't interest me enough to keep trying. Weird that she blocked you.

**Loopguystl** · 11-17-25 16:38

This is super interesting. I saw her a few months ago and was told firmly that a) have to stay platonic, b) she used to do more before she figured out boundaries and c) she has a girlfriend. Net net I chose not to repeat. This was before the rebranding though.

Originally Posted by Kinkaid69 [View Original Post]

She is worth spending some time with, she does really like giving handys, and loves sex once she knows you. TAKE YOUR TIME AND DON"T RUIN IT FOR THE REST OF US. She ended up blocking me, likely because she wanted to meet up 2 or 3 times a week, and that doesn't work for my schedule.

**BoredTooEasily** · 11-17-25 14:50

Originally Posted by Kinkaid69 [View Original Post]

She is worth spending some time with, she does really like giving handys, and loves sex once she knows you. TAKE YOUR TIME AND DON"T RUIN IT FOR THE REST OF US. She ended up blocking me, likely because she wanted to meet up 2 or 3 times a week, and that doesn't work for my schedule.

LOL -- anyone want to take a shot at the over / under on the number of days before some guy does indeed ruin it for the rest of us?

Seriously though, good work and solid share, Kinkaid. I reached out to her after her name change; figured maybe she was turning over a new leaf or something. But, she seemed to be pretty firm on her requirement for a photo, and that's a hard stop for me. I'm glad you were able to get in there before she blocked you. Prior intel suggests that maybe you got away lucky, as she seems to have a quick trigger on blocking guys -- and I've had a couple east coast boys DM me to say that she may have a couple loose wires in the ol' noggin. Crazy chicks are fun until they are suddenly not.

**Kinkaid69** · 11-17-25 12:04

She is worth spending some time with, she does really like giving handys, and loves sex once she knows you. TAKE YOUR TIME AND DON"T RUIN IT FOR THE REST OF US. She ended up blocking me, likely because she wanted to meet up 2 or 3 times a week, and that doesn't work for my schedule.

Originally Posted by Donato21 [View Original Post]

Some reports say platonic only but this one post says she gave a topless HJ so YMMV: http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/show...522&viewfull=1#post6650522.

Reports are all from Florida in 2023 fwiw.

**BoredTooEasily** · 11-14-25 23:22

Originally Posted by TallOral69 [View Original Post]

She's cute, nice butt, but absolutely totally platonic.

Which one are you talking about?

**TallOral69** · 11-14-25 19:29

She's cute, nice butt, but absolutely totally platonic.

**BoredTooEasily** · 11-04-25 23:08

Originally Posted by UndercoverBB [View Original Post]

If they ask for cash to do extras. I have said yes. But if they like you and you are a little patient, fun things happen! Recently had a raw no upcharge experience. She asked if I would fuck her again right now. So I did. Awesome experience!!

Good for you! This is the quintessential "Convert The Cuddler" experience. Like you, I've opened the wallet on a case-by-case basis when it was obvious the goods were clearly up for sale. Some of these girls are essentially pros-in-waiting, and that's fine. You strike a deal and do business. Win / win.

But the very best encounters are the ones that "happen organically" (wink-wink). The condom rarely (if ever) makes an appearance -- I mean, she can't exactly have a Costco-sized pallet of rubbers laying around and keep up the "Oh, I *never* do this, but okay!" charade. Similarly, the upcharge doesn't materalize, because the moment she accepts extra money from you, she is no longer a cuddler who had some innocent fun on the side. No, no. She's something else entirely, and *that* she won't abide. Best that she just continues to cruise-control with that cognitive dissonance, and it's our job to assist them in keeping up the fantasy, haha!

**UndercoverBB** · 11-04-25 16:49

If they ask for cash to do extras. I have said yes. But if they like you and you are a little patient, fun things happen! Recently had a raw no upcharge experience. She asked if I would fuck her again right now. So I did. Awesome experience!!

Originally Posted by BoredTooEasily [View Original Post]

Indeed. My response was specific to the question posed to me about rates. We agree that getting very good at reading profiles is also a force multiplier in enhancing one's success.

A bit off-subject, but revisiting the matter of rates: The other side of the coin is that -- in most cases -- you get what you pay for. Yeah, extras are more likely at the lower quartile of prices, but that usually also means the lower quartile of women in the "looks" department. That's certainly one way to play the game: Going for the low-hanging fruit with the foreknowledge that you're more likely to get action. No shade to anyone who approaches it that way.

However, as articulated in my post a few days ago, there is plenty of opportunity available at the higher price points. The beauty of having success there is (a) the women are objectively more attractive, and (b) they typically don't charge for "extras," because *that* would mean they are "selling sex," and good-golly, perish the thought. So, if you get into their pants, it is usually happening with no extra charge. It's a high-risk, high-reward play. This is almost exclusively what I do. I don't always win. I was honest about my hits and misses. But it is fabulous to fuck one of the cute ones for the "cuddle rate." Cognitive dissonance is a hell of a drug!