Philly Sugar

[KCesar68]

I had the same experience with her.

Stopped pretending she was interested with her "my phone is off" story so I called her out and called her a flake. And of course, the sour grapes of "I was having doubts but now I know I made the right decision" reply. Sure honey.

[EpicSD]

My long term experiences have been quite difference from those expressed here. Almost every baby I've met has reached back out to me numerous times to hookup again regardless of whether or not I have had the same interest. PPM is never $300.

I have had about 80%-90% interest from SBs to meet up again. Being committed to actual communication is key and also staying attractive to the SB on multiple levels. I don't treat a SB like a sex worker- I manage to keep things non transactional and I come from a place of helping them as they need.

Communication involves listening and meeting these young ladies where their at. Being honest about who I am is important too. I've learned to communicate in the language they use with the sensibilities they generally have. I am big on consent throughout the entirety of our time together,. Even if we're naked and doing other stuff I still ask if it's OK to fuq her before I do, giving her that last opportunity to choose is HUGE for them. And it also almost always improves the time I have. Also being respectful about their boundaries goes a long way. Simply put, if a hot 22-27 year old girl feels safe and heard she is more likely to unleash her slutty side and give me more. And if she has second thoughts, even during the act, it's ok for her to stop.

Also I stick to 3 x $ to 4 x $ for them and check back in if they're satisfied with it, I don't try to get the lowest p p m possible. But that's just me, you do you. If a girl tells me they require 5-7 I'll tell them I only go to 4 and I don't hate on them unless they become demeaning. Often, based on what else I bring, they will be cool with 4. I'm pretty normal, single and stay in shape. I'm not asking to come to their place, which is a huge risk for a woman with a strange man. I'm also blunt about the sex, in a non creepy way. We're adults and know that sex is a big part of SD / SB (but not everything). And being up front, obviously weeds out the rinsers.

My biggest issue is "NEXT" With so many to choose from, even with the crazy amount of AI fakes on there (I stay away from almost all "Asian" profiles these days, unless I've seen them for a long time). For now I've settled on an amazing hot younger girl that sweet as pie and fucking hot.

[UninhibitedFla]

It is tough, long term is very hard to get. Very very hard.

Communication is there on day 1, but that's all you get, just that day.

The next day, communication falls off a cliff. Terrible response times, girl is basically 20% there mentally, you can be texting her, but she is not actually "there". And this will be obvious due to the response times you get. Very delayed.

This is about 95% of cases, in my experience.

Very very tough game to get long term.

Short term is a bit easier, meeting them the same night to fuck is ideal. However, if you do this, you will never see the girl again. She's going to ghost.

So pick which path you want to go down.

My long term experiences have been quite difference from those expressed here. Almost every baby I've met has reached back out to me numerous times to hookup again regardless of whether or not I have had the same interest. PPM is never $300.

[UsaBlinkGuy11]

Man you're lucky if they even do -that. - This one always acts like she wants something special and no matter how nice you are she just makes up reasons why she can't meet.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...c-0d301d52197e

It is tough, long term is very hard to get. Very very hard.

Communication is there on day 1, but that's all you get, just that day.

The next day, communication falls off a cliff. Terrible response times, girl is basically 20% there mentally, you can be texting her, but she is not actually "there". And this will be obvious due to the response times you get. Very delayed.

This is about 95% of cases, in my experience.

Very very tough game to get long term.

Short term is a bit easier, meeting them the same night to fuck is ideal. However, if you do this, you will never see the girl again. She's going to ghost.

So pick which path you want to go down.

[Joadt]

Man you're lucky if they even do -that. - This one always acts like she wants something special and no matter how nice you are she just makes up reasons why she can't meet.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...c-0d301d52197e

I had the same experience with her.

[WaltoDerri267]

Many girls on SA looking for short term only.

Usually they will be excited to meet you for about 1 week starting from first messaging with you.

It goes like this:

You message them, they respond, they are excited to continue, and they plan a meet with you.

You meet them, obviously they want PPM. That's fine, you two meet and hook up.

A majority of them will then ghost / flake at this point.

Very few girls on the site will stay with a consistent thing that continues each week or every 2 weeks, at least this has been my observation. Very few long term thinkers on the site.

For those that are looking for one off hook ups, this is great. You can run your lay count up, doing these 1 time deals. The girls are okay with this too. They have no problems fucking you and never seeing you again after that. They are just in a certain mood and you happen to be messaging them at the right time.

So if you want to fuck them, you can. You just have a limited amount of time to do it before that window closes and they've moved on from the mood that they are in.

Just something to keep in mind, there are a lot of girls on seeking right now that operate this way.

I prefer long term encounters so that's what I aim for. I'm aware a lot of these girls are just in a moment though and are only interested for a maximum of 1 week. These 1 week type of relationships though are not too appealing to me.

It's sad to see. I met tons of girls like this who I actually wanted to continue seeing. One day they just stop responding. Others who wanted to keep seeing me, were unfortunately not what I was looking for. Too many demands, mental health problems, drama, etc. I appreciate the ones who just get to the point and get right to fucking for those nights you just want to scratch the itch.

[WaltoDerri267]

Anyone seen this girl and can vouch for her? Or is she talking to you currently? Seems too good to be true.

[KCesar68]

You message them, they respond, they are excited to continue, and they plan a meet with you.

Man you're lucky if they even do -that. - This one always acts like she wants something special and no matter how nice you are she just makes up reasons why she can't meet.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...c-0d301d52197e

[UsaBlinkGuy11]

Many girls on SA looking for short term only.

Usually they will be excited to meet you for about 1 week starting from first messaging with you.

It goes like this:

You message them, they respond, they are excited to continue, and they plan a meet with you.

You meet them, obviously they want PPM. That's fine, you two meet and hook up.

A majority of them will then ghost / flake at this point.

Very few girls on the site will stay with a consistent thing that continues each week or every 2 weeks, at least this has been my observation. Very few long term thinkers on the site.

For those that are looking for one off hook ups, this is great. You can run your lay count up, doing these 1 time deals. The girls are okay with this too. They have no problems fucking you and never seeing you again after that. They are just in a certain mood and you happen to be messaging them at the right time.

So if you want to fuck them, you can. You just have a limited amount of time to do it before that window closes and they've moved on from the mood that they are in.

Just something to keep in mind, there are a lot of girls on seeking right now that operate this way.

I prefer long term encounters so that's what I aim for. I'm aware a lot of these girls are just in a moment though and are only interested for a maximum of 1 week. These 1 week type of relationships though are not too appealing to me.

[Joadt]

Spoke to her once about a year ago, she said she was interested but then never followed up with me. Time waster.

Yup. She kept pushing the time back. From what was going to be 12 to 1 then 4:00. I took a pass at that point.

[KCesar68]

Man I don't know where the fuck these bozo ass bitches are getting these ridiculous numbers from. Wants 800, rubbers, even with proof of clean tests. Why the fuck are clean tests not enough anymore? Are they that scientifically ignorant? Rhetorical. I know theyre fucking stupid. Avoid fellas.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...5-015572579bed

Kinda like this one. Wants 700 but was probably cool with 600. Wasn't sure if she was going to do with condoms or not. Either way, I got the feeling she had a bit of GPS but at least she wasn't acting rude or conceited. Ultimately I passed on her, have some more comfortable prospects. Pictures below are just of her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...a-4d29a077002e

This one is surprisingly cool and personable. With all the tats and the looks I figured she'd act like another egotistical ho but she is cool to negotiate, (started semi-high but not at an unreasonable amount). I'm clean as well but she didn't want to budge on condoms. But for those who are ok with protection, she definitely is kinder and more likeable than most of the bimbo wh0 res asking for your arm and leg and she also doesn't text or talk like a tiktoker /5 year old.

[Shampoo55]

Man I don't know where the fuck these bozo ass bitches are getting these ridiculous numbers from. Wants 800, rubbers, even with proof of clean tests. Why the fuck are clean tests not enough anymore? Are they that scientifically ignorant? Rhetorical. I know theyre fucking stupid. Avoid fellas.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...5-015572579bed

Actually seems like what we are seeing is an influx of women that took the bait of TicTok influencers. There's girls on TT telling these young women that they can get 5-figure allowances, apartments, cars, etc from Sugar Daddiies and don't have to sleep with them. Others tell the girls to "know your worth" and encourage girls to ask for rates that would top most Tryst / Eros girls.

Or maybe its Instagram or other SM that pump unrealistic expectations into these girls heads. Sadly, after a few weeks or months "in the Bowl" many of these girls give up. Unfortunately there isn't a SD for every want to be SB. It's competitive and only the Model quality girls find the few 1% dudes willing to pay the exorbitant levels.

But I get where these girls are coming from with the STD stuff. Since their "culture" is likely hook-up culture they see sex through the lens of easy hook-ups, whereas SDs might have a family or a job that keeps them busy enough they don't have time or the inclination to hook up all the time. So girls think dudes are as promiscuous as the likely are, and that means for them, condom usage is protective.

I had a SB once that had STIs a couple of times, even though I tested clean, so she was hooking up with a FB and likely others. She actually said to me, oh well, getting an STI is just a risk of dating.

It's an interesting world out there!

[WaltoDerri267]

Man I don't know where the fuck these bozo ass bitches are getting these ridiculous numbers from. Wants 800, rubbers, even with proof of clean tests. Why the fuck are clean tests not enough anymore? Are they that scientifically ignorant? Rhetorical. I know theyre fucking stupid. Avoid fellas.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...5-015572579bed

[WaltoDerri267]

It appears this lady made a new profile but still uses the same business model.

Her response:

Hi Jenny nice to meet you, I do charge 300 for the meet and greet hope that's okst.

NEXT.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...6-5398e015fd6e

Absolute time waster, I posted about her before. She refuses to get intimate except for another 500 on top of the meet and greet lmao.

[WaltoDerri267]

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...6-597ce54b3a14

Anyone ever meet or talk to Blossom?

Spoke to her once about a year ago, she said she was interested but then never followed up with me. Time waster.