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06-03-24 23:12 #1687
Posts: 21Originally Posted by NashvilleBob [View Original Post]
https://www.cdc.gov/sti/about/about-...-oral-sex.html
https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/art...std-risk-chart
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06-03-24 08:46 #1686
Posts: 26Originally Posted by Nass1000 [View Original Post]
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06-02-24 17:54 #1685
Posts: 44Same Question
Originally Posted by Nass1000 [View Original Post]
No judgment, just curious since that concern has kept me from even trying covered FS (just stick to L1 and CBJ).
How risky is CFS with these women or escorts on Tryst and Eros, e. G. ?
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06-02-24 08:49 #1684
Posts: 2How do you keep safe?
With all the DFK / DATY how do y'all keep safe? I'm always afraid to catch a disease since these girls meet like 5-10 guys a day and perform oral. Anyone really not bothered by it?
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05-27-24 14:58 #1683
Posts: 79Originally Posted by PinWheel97 [View Original Post]
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05-26-24 17:16 #1682
Posts: 294Mistr
I would use mistr. They have assistance programs if you don't have insurance. You pay 99 dollars for labs and virtual consult and then it's free and they just mail you it once a month. It really helps me because I have anxiety about everything in this hobby. So it gets rid of one worry.
I have to think all the K girls who offer BB and live in the US use this.
Originally Posted by Almel89 [View Original Post]
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05-26-24 16:29 #1681
Posts: 79Originally Posted by Alien988 [View Original Post]
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05-25-24 23:27 #1680
Posts: 139Risk management
Originally Posted by SexInSex77 [View Original Post]
If you take prep and don't do anal sex or sex with menstruating women then it is virtually impossible to get HIV.
Hep C is about a 1 in 190000 transmission rate vaginally with a non-menstrating woman.
HPV and Herpes can be spread even if the man wears a condom. They also do not show up on a test easily unless you are having an outbreak. Most people do not show symptoms or if they do it is only once a year. HPV you can get a vaccine from some of the more cancerous strands.
If herpes is something you are worried about then you should quit the hobby and become a celibate priest because it's something all people who have sex are at risk of.
The most common ones you have a worry about are chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis. These ones only sometimes present symptoms infection rate for chlamydia and gonorrhea are like 1/3 for unprotected vaginal sex. Something like 1/10 for the oral. Even with condoms there is a very small chance. These infections can get treated with antibiotics. There is an antibiotic prep for it but I wouldn't recommend it as you could just make the infection antibiotic resistant.
The best way to protect yourself from these infections is to use the sex industry standard and test yourself monthly for stds and get treated when they appear. If you go to an appointment knowing you have a clean test and plan to get tested after the appointment I see no problem in going for BBFS. Just check to make sure she has no sores or discharge or stinky down there first.
Now if you go picking up and barebacking street walkers and then escorts and civies and not getting tested. Then you have a problem with your risk management. Those people can go to hell and need to correct themselves.
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05-25-24 19:36 #1679
Posts: 294Yes
Yes and it's a fair point. I take prep which lowers the rate of hiv infection by 99 percent. And I have hep a and b vaccines. But yes other stds concern me. I don't make a habit of it. And if I do it I go get a free std test with some regularity. I'm pretty meticulous about my health and I know it's a risk, but yes sometimes I am guilty of thinking with little head.
Originally Posted by SexInSex77 [View Original Post]
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05-18-24 14:18 #1678
Posts: 690Originally Posted by FreeWally [View Original Post]
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05-18-24 12:44 #1677
Posts: 730Originally Posted by BBNovice2018 [View Original Post]
Genital herpes is in 1 in 6 adults so while there is a small stigma it is something you'll probably get if you have very many partners. It transmits on genital skin contact, and does not require a sore to transmit though that increases the risk a lot.
Part of the problem is it can be suspicious if you are in a very long relationship and transmit it to your partner years after being "monogamous". If you simply got it earlier in life, didn't know, and transmitted it to a new partner, you can have an adult conversation explaining that and be truthful. It gets tricky if you know you have herpes and now you have a new partner. I suppose many guys play dumb, but some people say it is much better to be upfront and honest if this is a serious relationship you are entering.
Mentally, the worst scenario is actually that you do not already have genital herpes but plan to start fucking 50 women over 10 years (and just don't know it yet). That was me 10 years ago. Then you never know when the day will come that you get it, then your partner whether current or future. There is a stress element to thinking about it happening, but then it happens. I actually stopped worrying about getting herpes, once I already had it! Life is funny in that way.
Again, people panic and suffer when they first get herpes because you don't know how it will turn out. You pray even if you aren't religious. For those who have genital herpes and their partner has not yet gotten it or noticed, it is just another Sword of Damocles in the life of "married and mongering".
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Damocles
It can be stressful to live knowing you could get caught any day. In the most extreme case, the most elegant solution is not have sex with your partner if you bb. Maybe get treated if you finally decide to go back. But not an option for everyone. It is hard but you should ideally be at peace with mongering or have a realistic compromise about the risks you'll take, what your limits are, and how you'll stay safe.
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05-18-24 11:32 #1676
Posts: 200CFS BBFS and herpes
I thought herpes can be transmitted whether it's CFS or BBFS so it makes no difference.
Originally Posted by AsianAssEater [View Original Post]
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05-18-24 11:28 #1675
Posts: 200Yup it's probably already everywhere.
If he caught it then there's probably few others caught it too and they have already spread it around. It's very likely quite a few girls has caught it too. Fortunately with this psa, there's something we can do to reduce the risk. I am going to get tested and going with cfs for a while.
Originally Posted by Vulcan1009 [View Original Post]
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05-12-24 13:16 #1674
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05-12-24 02:19 #1673
Posts: 2841Different levels
There are a wide range of STDs. Some are for a lifetime. Grasp that. Just like, say, getting an amputation is for a lifetime. That is what getting a retroviral infection is. Regardless of whether you have a SO now, this isn't going to make it easy to find partners in the future. You should check out the demographics of viral STDs that you can find on the CDC website. They tell you the girls in the US least likely to have an infection of those things you don't want to have.
IK we aren't supposed to discuss here whether people do or don't, or should or should not, use protection, for various acts. So I won't.
I have a bowl buddy who vets a girl carefully before bedding her. Tests both ways. However, he ends up in committed relationships w / them, monogamous even, and knows what he is doing. Years long relationships. Better yet, he gives them no sugar (but pays for dates like any self-respecting man would). IK of no one else who has his skills however. And a SO who is so lenient, and in the dark.
You never know what you will catch. I FCed two different married women who swore to me they hadn't cheated on their hubs, and hadn't had sex in years. One I didn't even have intercourse with. Both were asian. After our dates, I found myself w / GI distress. Turns out in both cases I had picked up a parasite. Had to go on flagyl. Now thankfully, the parasite isn't considered a STD, so this did not raise alarm bells. Whew! Still wasnt pleasant.