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04-29-24 21:48 #65
Posts: 328You Have to Enter The Lifestyle
All this is great advice from NBP, and the last line is true. You must do your OWN due diligence.
Entering the "lifestyle" is like finding out how to locate and buy things that are illegal. You have to get to know the people. This means you will need to meet couples and women who swing swap and do sex play. The swinger lifestyle is supported on trust and discretion. Many couples are closet swingers. Pillars of the community who really don't want everyone to know of there secret hobby.
You would be very surprised to learn who is very sexually active beyond the pale.
So you have to find out how to meet those who play, impress them, form a friendship, and gain their trust. If you're a single guy, the best advice I can share is to find a kinky fuck buddy who is willing to swing and swap with you. Once you have a woman with you, it will be much easier to enter the couples dominated sex party world.
Like everything, it's networking to forming connections.
Originally Posted by NudeBeachPerv [View Original Post]
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04-29-24 16:05 #64
Posts: 420Sex Parties What to look for and what to watch out for
Okay, some had asked my advice on what is a good party. I probably have different tastes than others here so I might presumably say things different than another poster. I will state that one will have a much easier time if they find a woman who would like to attend parties with them.
With that being said, what I look for. Some degree of consistency. Many parties happen one time and then never again. It could be a husband and wife renting a hotel and once they get it out of their system they are done (at least for awhile.) I like to see a party happen a few times before I go just to eliminate the scummiest of the scammiest. Also, I avoid those that ask for I'd or real names. While constitutional protections such as Freedom of Speech and Freedom of Assembly give some legal protection to your attending a party, I would not want to wind up on some federal database after a place is raided. If they have that data, they have it but if you make it a little harder to track it doesn't guarantee that you can't be tracked but it makes it tougher. The next thing is cash only. It might be one thing to Venmo someone once you know they are legit but for the first party do not send money to someone you have never met. After that, I would look for a party with multiple women attending and a party that is welcoming to single guys if attending as a single guy. Some parties most of the action goes on in a couples area and many / most single guys will not get an invite. After attending a few parties, you will get a read on which parties are better for single guys and some of the women who have a reputation for playing with single guys and showing up when / where they say they are showing. (I know some of these ladies and if they say they are going to be at X, Y, Z event it makes my interest in X, Y, Z that much higher, and, no I can't give that info out.) Parties that don't necessarily follow these patterns could be boom or they could be bust. And even after going to many events, I can't predict which will be great, but being a "known entity" and having a few women that have treated me well and I treat well in return, general makes the events better.
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04-29-24 15:46 #63
Posts: 420Websites
Here are the websites for a few regular parties in San Diego:
https://www.thads.com
https://www.clubsafeword.com/sessions/new
https://luxxevents.club
As with anything do your due diligence.
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04-19-24 15:21 #62
Posts: 420Interesting Blog Post
This is a story of a man who attended an event hosted by a porn star:
https://nightrollergame.wordpress.co...irthday-party/
A couple of points, he brings up that it is much easier to be relaxed when sex is virtually guaranteed. I think this sums up why I don't enjoy parties like Thads. Some of the guys are really pushy and the scarcity / competition vibe promotes this. He also breaks down the expenses. So whether dating, "mongering" or attending events, guys are "paying for it."
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01-31-24 16:49 #61
Posts: 420Originally Posted by MaximusKahn [View Original Post]
As you mentioned Blacks Beach, I just have to mention that it took a few visits to get accustomed to nudity in a public situation and I understand a new guys reservations.
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01-29-24 12:25 #60
Posts: 328Thads is unique and not for everyone
The rule of all guys being naked, regardless of the original reason, seems to be a good rule.
Guys can't hide. If you let guys be dressed you'll get more creeps and gawkers, and lurkers. More would go just to look. Like the creeps on the bluffs over Blacks beach who peep at the nudists with binoculars and telescopes.
If you got to be naked, you're like everyone else, a participant, and can't hide.
The women get to see what "physical" traits you have. So it gives the women the power of choice, and may even be erotic for some who like to look. And believe me, many lucky guys are chosen because she can see all he has.
Guys naked seems to humble guys, and possibly makes them less aggressive. I mean who wants to get into a fight in your birthday suit with your cock flopping around and your nuts in the wind?
It also lets the women see who's confident. There are lurkers who hide behind their towels, or now hide in their robes, but you'll also see the confident guys who proudly display all.
It's surprising how many guys are shy, or perhaps insecure yet participate because they have to. So even those who come to look, have to show too.
If having to be naked is holding you back, I'm not sure how you expect to enjoy a sex party clothed, but I say Thads is not for you.
Originally Posted by NudeBeachPerv [View Original Post]
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01-24-24 18:13 #59
Posts: 420Originally Posted by MaximusKahn [View Original Post]
https://www.sandiegoreader.com/news/...e-hubba-hubba/
They own a unique license which my understanding is the cops can't raid them for throwing sex parties. Now, my opinion on this is that they had operated for many years as a monopoly and let things go such as the maintenance of the place and ensuring that guests had a good experience. They could take the attitude of "take it or leave it" and many took it. In my opinion, it is better that there are now other options.
As far as the nudity, I have heard two different stories. IDK which one is true or if neither are true. One was that Mr. Thad was gay and he enjoyed seeing nude men. The other was that heavy drinking Marines were less likely to throw fists if they were full nude.
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01-22-24 11:17 #58
Posts: 328Thads Check it Out
The ages range from 20's to 70 over any given time. But in general it's 30's and 40's with some younger an some older. If you're hoping for 20 something horny female spinners to be there, there are times they are there, but you shouldn't expect too many.
I'm more about attractiveness than age as a number, because I've found that any age female can be attractive to me, just depends on the female. I've been fortunate to play with women in their 20's and women in their 60's. And enjoyed them all.
You are right about the all men are naked rule. During the winter they now allow guys to wear a robe, you can even rent one, so go check it out and see what it is all about.
Originally Posted by KMatthews521 [View Original Post]
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01-20-24 21:05 #57
Posts: 350Originally Posted by MaximusKahn [View Original Post]
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01-04-24 11:44 #56
Posts: 328Sexual Environment At Thads
Not sure what is everyone's definition of a sex party, but Thads is a adult social club that I think qualifies.
It is rare that an adult club allows single guys in, but Thads does.
These are people who are outside the normal boundaries of sexuality in a social environment.
Guys are naked, but can a wear robe in cold weather. Women wear what they want from sexy down to nothing.
Couples show up, some single women come, and a whole lot of single guys.
Some couples only seek couples, some come to only fuck each other, some come to find guys for her. Many combinations.
Some have sex in the open, some have gang bangs, some single women show up to suck and fuck. All this sounds like a sex party to me.
For you single guys. You cannot expect to get blown or laid. Nothing is guaranteed, you have to charm the pants off the women to get to play. If you got the skills and qualities, you can have a great time. Check it out at least once, Good Luck.
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08-22-23 19:11 #55
Posts: 75She's a scammer
Originally Posted by KMatthews521 [View Original Post]Last edited by Member #6585; 08-22-23 at 19:12. Reason: Responded to wrong post
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08-14-23 01:36 #54
Posts: 14Fake photos
Originally Posted by NudeBeachPerv [View Original Post]
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07-10-23 13:19 #53
Posts: 420Funny post on Reddit
Thad's doesn't have the reputation of being the cleanest or classiest place.
https://www.reddit.com/r/Thads/comme...ples_playroom/
Got to admit, I laughed when I read that.
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07-10-23 02:13 #52
Posts: 420Originally Posted by KMatthews521 [View Original Post]
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07-05-23 23:26 #51
Posts: 28She fat not phat
Too much high fructose corn syrup in her diet for daddy.
Originally Posted by KMatthews521 [View Original Post]