"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**NewAnonymousName** · 03-19-23 10:33

Originally Posted by NapataJohn [View Original Post]

This one? https://www.reddit.com/r/SugarBABYonlyforum/.

Reading some threads on this Reddit was eye opening. Those hos have insane expectations. There are even numerous comments about how to get a civilian date to agree to pay all living expenses by the third date and before any sex.

**OliverNP** · 03-19-23 09:13

Originally Posted by PeterJohnson [View Original Post]

I still don't know if there is a forum like that. I googled it and nothing comes up, and also no one here has ever posted a link to an Atlanta forum for SBs, similar to this one, that we use.

I remember seeing some site like this that was based on phone number (not SA profile name) some time back. I think it was geared toward escorts keeping tabs on specific johns, but maybe usage has expanded into the sugar scene. Nothing came up in a search on my number at the time so I didn't make note of it.

Maybe someone else knows what the site is?

**Yay For Me** · 03-19-23 07:11

Originally Posted by PeterJohnson [View Original Post]

I still don't know if there is a forum like that. I googled it and nothing comes up, and also no one here has ever posted a link to an Atlanta forum for SBs, similar to this one, that we use.

http://<br /> <br /> https://saafe...main/index.php

**Peter Johnson** · 03-18-23 21:45

Originally Posted by 2me4Looking2 [View Original Post]

I knew there was a site where women review us and today I was told I've been flagged 3 times as cheap because I want to spend 250 for daytime meets. I can't decide if it's worth changing my number and user name given that I really don't want to spend that much more than that.

I still don't know if there is a forum like that. I googled it and nothing comes up, and also no one here has ever posted a link to an Atlanta forum for SBs, similar to this one, that we use.

**NapataJohn** · 03-18-23 20:13

Originally Posted by 2me4Looking2 [View Original Post]

I knew there was a site where women review us and today I was told I've been flagged 3 times as cheap because I want to spend 250 for daytime meets. I can't decide if it's worth changing my number and user name given that I really don't want to spend that much more than that.

This one? https://www.reddit.com/r/SugarBABYonlyforum/.

**AmpFanatl** · 03-18-23 17:44

Originally Posted by Dawgins [View Original Post]

I'm talking with her now. Searched the forum and couldn't find reviews. Can anyone point me in the right direction?

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...8-ed61fae9160b

**Hits79** · 03-18-23 15:17

Originally Posted by Totalcsllc [View Original Post]

You choose the wrong option. You choose dating instead of the sugar baby option. Same thing happened to me.

Bah fuck LOL no wonder haha.

**Totalcsllc** · 03-18-23 08:53

Originally Posted by Hits79 [View Original Post]

Yeah I don't know, Still the same thing. Any link I click on this forum all say this lol. I don't know what is going on.

Also, BTW, I got premium membership for $44 for 90 days. Did they just lowered their prices? It was more then $100/ month. I don't know what is going.

You choose the wrong option. You choose dating instead of the sugar baby option. Same thing happened to me.

**Dawgins** · 03-18-23 07:49

Originally Posted by NewAnonymousName [View Original Post]

I can't say why the link in my post isn't working for you. It still works for me. Search BellaFantastic for her new profile.

I'm talking with her now. Searched the forum and couldn't find reviews. Can anyone point me in the right direction?

**NewAnonymousName** · 03-18-23 02:32

Originally Posted by Hits79 [View Original Post]

Yeah I don't know, Still the same thing. Any link I click on this forum all say this lol. I don't know what is going on.

Also, BTW, I got premium membership for $44 for 90 days. Did they just lowered their prices? It was more then $100/ month. I don't know what is going.

I can't say why the link in my post isn't working for you. It still works for me. Search BellaFantastic for her new profile.

**Hits79** · 03-18-23 01:18

Originally Posted by NewAnonymousName [View Original Post]

Are we talking about the curvy 21 year old Redhead? If so, she has a new profile:

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...8-ed61fae9160b

Yeah I don't know, Still the same thing. Any link I click on this forum all say this lol. I don't know what is going on.

Also, BTW, I got premium membership for $44 for 90 days. Did they just lowered their prices? It was more then $100/ month. I don't know what is going.

**NewAnonymousName** · 03-18-23 00:48

Originally Posted by Hits79 [View Original Post]

Weird, I am getting "Profile Not Available" message. Maybe because I just created an account dunno.

Are we talking about the curvy 21 year old Redhead? If so, she has a new profile:

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...8-ed61fae9160b

**Hits79** · 03-17-23 22:04

Originally Posted by AmpFanatl [View Original Post]

She is active, I was just talking with her recently. Have a meetup scheduled.

Weird, I am getting "Profile Not Available" message. Maybe because I just created an account dunno.

**TylerDurden07** · 03-17-23 21:52

Originally Posted by GoneForGood97 [View Original Post]

I assume you got a verification pic of her doing an uncommon pose so you know she's at least really the girl your texting and not some Romanian dude pulling scams.

Tell her you understand but that you only deal in cash, and don't even have any digital payment apps on your phone for your peace of mind. If that's not enough, offer to sweeten the pot and tell her you'll pay some extra allowance for the convenience of forgoing the deposit. If she's still hard nosed about it and you still believe she's real, you might could try a bit of a sob story. "I'm sorry babe I'm just not comfortable doing that. I was scammed a few years ago and the thought of it happening again just makes me too uncomfortable. Please respect my boundaries in this. " I. E. Using some of the language girls her age have utilized in order to justify their own limits.

If you're absolutely smitten by her, you could always try Venmo (and only Venmo) and send the amount under the "Pay for goods and services" category instead of "Friends and family". Venmo will charge a small fee, like 5% or something, BUT the transaction is "protected" I. E. You can request a refund. Label the service something mundane like "Dog sitting" or "Babysitting" or something else that sounds like a service you might pay for.

You could try just doing it that way and not telling her, she may not notice she doesn't have immediate access to the funds. If / when she ghosts, just put a refund request in with Venmo. Or you may want to mention it upfront you'll be sending it as a "goods and service" transaction for your peace of mind so she knows she won't have direct access to it immediately.

If you request a refund you'll still be out the money for a few weeks while it goes through their process. This isn't 100% guaranteed you'll get it refunded, but generally they don't put up too much of a fight if you sent it through the "goods and services" transaction type since the entire purpose of that type is to provide peace of mind between buyers and sellers.

Of course don't under any circumstances imply it's for pay2play or sex or anything else illegal.

My suggestion is NOT to waste time with someone who won't budge on that, but if you're hellbent on seeing her and willing to go through the hassle that's the only way I would entertain it, but almost certainly not worth the effort.

I'll try that, & see what happens.

**SeekingHead** · 03-17-23 18:16

Originally Posted by SgtSoros [View Original Post]

Yep, these old hens are going to have to reset their expectations of what being a "middle aged" SB is all about. I would not pay a nickel to see any of 'em.

About 7 beers & a couple of shots before I would start thinking about hitting that.