Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

[Organ Grinder]

I have a paid account w / Seeking. Every time I click on a link here in the forum to seeking, I get the error "Profile Not Available" with a "Find a Better Match" button.

Am I doing something wrong?

[MidnightSteel]

Counter offer, bet she takes much less, Christmas time is coming.

I've had luck with the "$300-500 depending on the experience" My experience is you dangle a carrot and they step up the experience to match the dollar amount they desire.

[Crewzin]

Gave SB a shot. Idk how yall make it worth it. I pored through profiles for about 2 weeks. Very selective on messages. I stayed in the 4-7 range on looks hoping to increase my odds. Bought the lowest amount of credits so I think I could send 16 messages total. I'm up to 14 with one response. She replied once and haven't heard from her since. I'll stick to SA. I can send 16 messages in an hour. LOL.

One of yall that have had success mind throwing me a bone with a sure thing to burn my last 2 messages on.

Thanks.

-CCK.

I score on all the sugar baby sites. I think my age is an advantage 50 to 60+ is a plus, couple of good pics, and a straight to the point profile, most of the a real players will hit you up. The way I weed out the gamers is if they say anything about in their ad about wine and dining or taking care of her long term, pass. Most over 30 are ready to play, under 25 takes a little more game. A young chick with chaps is what I look for. IMHO, the biggest gamers, hardest to score, and most expensive are collage students, unless they just fit my mold I pass. I'm still getting plenty action for 3 or less and less than 5 bills if I stay the night, oh and most I see host. I call it the "Senior Advantage".

[Crewzin]

Wanted 500. Not from me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...2-a2adfd29994f

Counter offer, bet she takes much less, Christmas time is coming.

[FrmLurker]

Wanted 500. Not from me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...2-a2adfd29994f

[Eelectri]

I have been mongering for a while in Orlando and have had so so! Success (I have met some very good ladies on SB) but it has cost a pretty penny.

II came up to the Carolinas and have found 0 luck.

Sent several msgs with no responses.

Will keep trying to see if any luck.

Say safe.

Ee.

[ConCityKing]

Gave SB a shot. Idk how yall make it worth it. I pored through profiles for about 2 weeks. Very selective on messages. I stayed in the 4-7 range on looks hoping to increase my odds. Bought the lowest amount of credits so I think I could send 16 messages total. I'm up to 14 with one response. She replied once and haven't heard from her since. I'll stick to SA. I can send 16 messages in an hour. LOL.

One of yall that have had success mind throwing me a bone with a sure thing to burn my last 2 messages on.

Thanks.

-CCK.

[Secret Garden]

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[Member #6771]

She's freaky. Pm me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...9-574ee61ef4d5

Her profile is gone now. She must have freaked out from all the new attention.

[Grasshopping]

You miss my point. Secret Benefits is a very legitimate site and, IN MY OPINION, has fewer fakes, scammers, and BOTs than Seeking. Quoting from one of YOUR previous posts: "SB is a waste of money and time. Never met one woman from that site, and I worked it, even recognized a pro I had seen before. They definitely use bots to generate generic messages to you from women whose profile you have used, in order to get you to use your credits. " The PURPOSE of my posts is to argue that you're dead wrong about SB being a waste of time and full of BOTs. Maybe you and some others here just don't know how to "work it" on SB, so I have been trying to inform readers here about how to work it and also point out how hot some of the girls are there.

Now, get out there, and stop misrepresenting a valuable site that you just didn't know how to work.

Thanks for everyone's passionate feedback. I didn't mean to stir up such heated debates but won't apologize for asking either as I think seeing different perspectives is good for the community. I have heard some raving about SB and some swear by SA. I think everyone's experience could be different just like everything else.

One of my buddies who also sugar dates or at least used to had slightly better luck with SA than SB. With the credit-based scheme, I think I'll have to approach SB very differently than I was with SA. I will have to discipline and limit myself not to open every message whose originator has a hit profile pic. I will have to pick the ones that are verified and / or have been on the site for a while. Even though that means I could miss out on some real babies. I'll experient with it and will send / read messages sparingly to conserve credit. I'm not looking for tons of SBs anyway. Will be happy with 2 good and consistent ones.

Question about the creit discount: can I buy 100 credits now ($59). Then when my credit runs low and get the discount offer, I buy the 500 or 1,000 credits with the discount? Or will I will limited to applying the discount to the purchase of 100 credits only?

[TjtjtJall]

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[Member #6771]

If they immediately ask for your number most of them are escorts. As isn't the same as it was a few years ago. They girls that are real want $500-800. Many are also scammers but if they ask for your number immediately usually escort.

Yep it's 500 and up now. Even the unattractive ones are asking that. I'm sticking with my regulars more often. I'm not gifting 500 unless she's a 10 face, body, and agreed services.

[Member #6975]

Hey guys,

On a whim I decided to jump back into SA this weekend after a couple of years off. My wife was out of town so I said WTH. Let's give it another go. I definitely go for the 18-25 coed type with all the potential challenges that come with it. I had several successful arrangements in my prior experience. A few years back. Matter of fact it seemed pretty easy then.

So now I am getting some chats but all the girls want to take things offline quickly and get my phone number. I am not set up with a burner yet so I have declined on those. And it seems that most of the girls (about 80%) have ghosted from the point that I decline. My question: Is that some kind of scam that I don't understand or am I missing opportunities? I guess I better get this burner phone thing figured out pretty soon if I am missing opportunities.

If they immediately ask for your number most of them are escorts. As isn't the same as it was a few years ago. They girls that are real want $500-800. Many are also scammers but if they ask for your number immediately usually escort.

[John Marigold]

I would far prefer to see reviews of women that help members in their search. And, have no intention to disparage one service or another. I will just point out that on this site, I have seen posts and links about women on Seeking. I don't recall ever seeing a useful review or link for anyone on Secret Benefits. I have used the information found here to help on Seeking. Those who have success on SB should help the members with useful reviews that include links. Let's remember our goals. Now, get out there, and report back!

You miss my point. Secret Benefits is a very legitimate site and, IN MY OPINION, has fewer fakes, scammers, and BOTs than Seeking. Quoting from one of YOUR previous posts: "SB is a waste of money and time. Never met one woman from that site, and I worked it, even recognized a pro I had seen before. They definitely use bots to generate generic messages to you from women whose profile you have used, in order to get you to use your credits. " The PURPOSE of my posts is to argue that you're dead wrong about SB being a waste of time and full of BOTs. Maybe you and some others here just don't know how to "work it" on SB, so I have been trying to inform readers here about how to work it and also point out how hot some of the girls are there.

Now, get out there, and stop misrepresenting a valuable site that you just didn't know how to work.

[CinMiner]

I would far prefer to see reviews of women that help members in their search. And, have no intention to disparage one service or another. I will just point out that on this site, I have seen posts and links about women on Seeking. I don't recall ever seeing a useful review or link for anyone on Secret Benefits. I have used the information found here to help on Seeking. Those who have success on SB should help the members with useful reviews that include links. Let's remember our goals.

Now, get out there, and report back!

You get a few things right, but you are mostly flat-out wrong. Saying that "1 in 20 girls might be a real person" is nonsense. I have spent considerable time on both SA and SB and I have found SB to have far fewer fakes or scammers. Once you understand that there are far fewer fakes and scammers and have learned how to have success on SB, when you then renew look for the half-price offer they give when you get down to having only 10 tokens left. You can then buy 2000 tokens at less than $0. 15 per token. It does not cost anything to scroll through the profiles. If you decide to send a message to a girl, it costs 10 tokens which is about $1. 50. You need to avoid having to look at everyone's secret photos, get your messages boosted, or get read receipts; just ignore that stuff. Just spend wisely and your 2000 tokens can last for 3 months or longer. Once you hit it off with a girl, move to texting with your cellphone and ask her to send you pics there.

I had another extremely hot date with a regular a few days ago. If you searched through the profiles of 18-22 year-old blondes with average figure in Charlotte, she will appear in your search. I think she is one of the most beautiful young women on the site in the Charlotte area. Her photos appear to be photo-shopped -- and perhaps they are a bit -- but she actually looks just like her photos. Her breasts are natural, 36 C, and perfectly shaped. She does a great BBBJ and allows DFK and BBFSCIP but I suspect YMMV on the latter. She hosts too so I save on the cost of a hotel. Honestly, I would expect to have to pay $800 or so with girl of her caliber, and I would pass because that's too high for me. But she is extremely reasonable (at least to me). It's around $300.

No lie, I have at least 15 girls from SB that I have "dated" this year and have had only one bad experience (and that girl has fortunately left SB). I rarely find girls that chat for a few minutes and then ask for money up-front via cash app. Of course, there are some, but just write in your profile that you will not pay via cash app in advance and that will eliminate most of that stuff.

I hope you can understand and appreciate that I won't reveal any of her details. I won't do that for any of the SB girls I date privately like this. If they wanted that kind of publicity, I guess they would go on STG or something. I do just want to refute what others are writing about SB that I feel is wrong, misleading and unfair. And you can go ahead and discuss sexual things right on SB and they won't ban you like SA will.