Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

**John Marigold** · 10-15-22 16:04

Originally Posted by TjtjtJall [View Original Post]

Secret benefits is a loser from the start. The model is incentivized to get you to message girls, pay a premium to see their "secret" pics, move your message to the front of the line, or get a read receipt. They target the most vulnerable of the simps. Of course I signed up to try my hand and here is the deal. 1 in 20 girls might be a real person. The rest are photos from girls in other geographies that have submitted their pics and "verification" video at some point in the last few years. One prior I read of a girl in Monroe said she was really looking forward to exploring the Bay Area. Those profiles will be the ones that message you. They will request access to your pics. They will be online every other day for 12 hours straight. Every time you reply to those bots it costs you $12 based on the 50 credits /$60 math. If you are a real cuck you pay $12 to respond, another $12 to get your message "boosted", another $12 for a read receipt and a final $12 to see her naughty private photos. They clear $50 on a bot. The one thing I'll give seeking is every girl I've messaged and moved to text is at least a person. Now many are frauds or girls looking for online only, platonic, etc. BS. But, it's at least human. Secret benefits is the biggest fraud I've ever participated in. Please avoid.

You get a few things right, but you are mostly flat-out wrong. Saying that "1 in 20 girls might be a real person" is nonsense. I have spent considerable time on both SA and SB and I have found SB to have far fewer fakes or scammers. Once you understand that there are far fewer fakes and scammers and have learned how to have success on SB, when you then renew look for the half-price offer they give when you get down to having only 10 tokens left. You can then buy 2000 tokens at less than $0. 15 per token. It does not cost anything to scroll through the profiles. If you decide to send a message to a girl, it costs 10 tokens which is about $1. 50. You need to avoid having to look at everyone's secret photos, get your messages boosted, or get read receipts; just ignore that stuff. Just spend wisely and your 2000 tokens can last for 3 months or longer. Once you hit it off with a girl, move to texting with your cellphone and ask her to send you pics there.

I had another extremely hot date with a regular a few days ago. If you searched through the profiles of 18-22 year-old blondes with average figure in Charlotte, she will appear in your search. I think she is one of the most beautiful young women on the site in the Charlotte area. Her photos appear to be photo-shopped -- and perhaps they are a bit -- but she actually looks just like her photos. Her breasts are natural, 36 C, and perfectly shaped. She does a great BBBJ and allows DFK and BBFSCIP but I suspect YMMV on the latter. She hosts too so I save on the cost of a hotel. Honestly, I would expect to have to pay $800 or so with girl of her caliber, and I would pass because that's too high for me. But she is extremely reasonable (at least to me). It's around $300.

No lie, I have at least 15 girls from SB that I have "dated" this year and have had only one bad experience (and that girl has fortunately left SB). I rarely find girls that chat for a few minutes and then ask for money up-front via cash app. Of course, there are some, but just write in your profile that you will not pay via cash app in advance and that will eliminate most of that stuff.

I hope you can understand and appreciate that I won't reveal any of her details. I won't do that for any of the SB girls I date privately like this. If they wanted that kind of publicity, I guess they would go on STG or something. I do just want to refute what others are writing about SB that I feel is wrong, misleading and unfair. And you can go ahead and discuss sexual things right on SB and they won't ban you like SA will.

**John Marigold** · 10-14-22 17:21

Originally Posted by Grasshopping [View Original Post]

I have been tempted to try Secret Benefits for quite some time but never took the plunge due to its pricing model. Plus, I have always had pretty good success with SB so I didn't feel the need to switch.

Well lately my SBs are dropping like flies so I thought maybe it's now a good time to try the site SB out. If anyone has any tips on how to maximize the use of credits and weed out junks as much as possible, please do share either on the forum or PM. Thanks.

Check out my Post #4080 in this Sugar Baby thread. You might find it helpful.

**TruHobby31** · 10-14-22 14:49

For all the WHITE Knights that think messaging me craziness is a good look I am going to post here and not waste my time replying to each DM.

I met Camila on Seeking we had an arrangement for a little over 2 years. I took this girl to several different countries and cost for my arrangement with her was not traditional and far exceeds what anyone should consider when beginning an initial agreement with someone.

That said I still travel globally I am in Colombia atm. I found out through a few mutual connections we established over the year that she would see others when not traveling with me. NO PROBLEM I never claim to own pussy any pussy.

The problem is that she lied to me way too many times about various things like fucking with a rubber when she was not. FOR ME, that is something I could not overlook. I have been in this lifestyle for going on 15 years and TBH I am open too almost anything but lies. I cannot have anyone around and in my personal space that I cannot trust. That said I stopped seeing her and she played the victim card and thought her starting a new account would make me jealous.

I told her not only did it not make me jealous I would help her with new clientele and arrangements. Hence the post here: READ THIS AND UNDERSTAND. If you are looking to have fun their are few other experiences I have had that compare but KNOW she plays victim and lies constantly. Most of these women are the same. The faster you learn this the safer you will be in cutting things off before investing more than you should.

Never try and turn a hoe into a housewife. You white knights so far have all been regular members. You will soon learn victim is the mentality of the working woman PERIOD. That said if you have problems with me sharing her info keep that to yourself I don't care she asked for the assistance no matter what she says she asked for the assist. I am sure it sounds better to be a damsel in distress LOL.

Her page is up and active and she is still screening so if she responds good luck and have fun just don't lose sight of what reality is!

IG: lacamilachica.

Snap: camila_chic* hint its not an asterisk.

Originally Posted by TruHobby31 [View Original Post]

Her IG is back up. IF and when she accepts your request then message me and I will fill in blanks. Black shirt blue jeans holding a purse standing in front of a pool.

Can't make it any easier.

**MidnightSteel** · 10-14-22 10:36

Originally Posted by Fireball25 [View Original Post]

So I weed msgs out by the ones not in CLT, 18/19 yr olds, and if word description of themselves do not reflect picture. A big one I look for, is when I receive a msg, I check to see if at least they visited my profile before hand. If not, it's a bot or scam msg, in my opinion.

Yes that's a good tip, I do the same. I also don't open their private pics until we have traded a few messages. That will save you 10 credits. I like SB and have had a good amount of success.

**Fireball25** · 10-13-22 17:45

Originally Posted by Grasshopping [View Original Post]

I have been tempted to try Secret Benefits for quite some time but never took the plunge due to its pricing model. Plus, I have always had pretty good success with SB so I didn't feel the need to switch.

Well lately my SBs are dropping like flies so I thought maybe it's now a good time to try the site SB out. If anyone has any tips on how to maximize the use of credits and weed out junks as much as possible, please do share either on the forum or PM. Thanks.

So I weed msgs out by the ones not in CLT, 18/19 yr olds, and if word description of themselves do not reflect picture. A big one I look for, is when I receive a msg, I check to see if at least they visited my profile before hand. If not, it's a bot or scam msg, in my opinion.

**Member #6771** · 10-13-22 05:59

She's freaky. Pm me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...9-574ee61ef4d5

**TruHobby31** · 10-12-22 23:58

Her IG is back up. IF and when she accepts your request then message me and I will fill in blanks. Black shirt blue jeans holding a purse standing in front of a pool.

Can't make it any easier.

**Grasshopping** · 10-11-22 23:11

I have been tempted to try Secret Benefits for quite some time but never took the plunge due to its pricing model. Plus, I have always had pretty good success with SB so I didn't feel the need to switch.

Well lately my SBs are dropping like flies so I thought maybe it's now a good time to try the site SB out. If anyone has any tips on how to maximize the use of credits and weed out junks as much as possible, please do share either on the forum or PM. Thanks.

**Member #6718** · 10-10-22 08:58

Originally Posted by PoopSnicker [View Original Post]

It was really fucking funny! Don't get all bent.

It Was funny. LOL.

With that said her forehead wasn't that bad. Check this one out in Raleigh. This one could easily be an extra in a men in black remake!

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...0-12fd3cd97612

**Member #6771** · 10-10-22 06:11

Originally Posted by Grasshopping [View Original Post]

Her profile is back on. All talks aside, I think she's got a hot body. I'd totally pursue her.

Don't let your little head lead you to do that. There are better options without the drama and threats.

**Grasshopping** · 10-09-22 21:44

Originally Posted by Hal1957 [View Original Post]

Sure wish you guys would post a screen shot of the profile for these girls, then we can follow them as they create new profiles. Of course this one is already disappeared.

Her profile is back on. All talks aside, I think she's got a hot body. I'd totally pursue her.

**Member #6975** · 10-09-22 09:32

Originally Posted by Aafakljgadkg [View Original Post]

Anyone seen her?

She used to be on SA and reach out to me again recently.

DM me if it's better.

She did the same and sent a hot pic of her sitting down with ass looking nice. Like all in a hurry to meet. I couldn't meet that day so I scheduled a day or 2 after and ghosted. I got the pro escort vibe.

**Member #6975** · 10-09-22 09:17

Originally Posted by HoHopper [View Original Post]

She is DTF, gives a great BBBJ with lots of attention to the prostate, I asked for CIM but she stopped in the middle of my nut. I did not repeat because of no CIM. She was average looking with lots of ink, the damage was 300 and she hosted in a safe location in noda.

I paid 250. And she came to me. Nice girl but skin was a bit lax and ass and tits soft and not firm.

**Bono26** · 10-09-22 09:09

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...5-a0e1a03e5c70

**Member #6975** · 10-09-22 09:06

Originally Posted by Banger12 [View Original Post]

If she was real and already had an Airbnb, more than likely she was hosting a few different gentleman callers. You were probably bumped because of a double book or a 4-Bill guy wanted to meet and that trumped your 3-bill offer. This shit happens all the time and I never believe any excuse they give. The thug in the snap pics is weird.

When they say Airbnb that's code for I'm a hooker.