"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**WoodstockShane** · 09-29-22 12:01

In the "Settings" area on your profile go to "Your Activity."

Click "Visible" BUT click on "when you view someone" and "when you favorite someone."

Next, in the "Search and Dashboard" section, hit "hidden."

Now, only do this if you're sick of the favorites from bot accounts all over the world, and places like Ohio, Ohio. It works. You will also cut down on contacts from pic sellers, as you are not appearing in search or people online. The only way a lady will see you, is if you look at her profile or favorite her profile.

Stay frosty!

**MariettaJoe** · 09-29-22 09:14

Originally Posted by TylerDurden07 [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...0-4a970790fda4

Exchanged some really positive messages with her. She's friendly &, once I saw her private pics, HOT.

Started texting--at first all good. Agreed to $350 ppm, which was fine with me because I think she is really hot.

Then comes the offer to sell me pics. Nope. Then explains she needs it for her "meds. " I told her I'm cash only. Then, offered to meet her at the pharmacy & pay for these meds (where she claimed she was isn't far from my office).

She then says she has friends over so she couldn't come today (even though she said she needed her meds urgently? Then says she'll find someone else who "appreciates" her enough to send it to her.

It's amazing just how stupid these girls think we are. Unfortunately, though, she may very well find some simp who really is stupid enough to advance money.

"Her" picture fails the google reverse image search BTW. Shows up as an adult actress on a few sites. So yeah, that's a scammer.

**Peter Johnson** · 09-28-22 23:06

Originally Posted by GoneForGood97 [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...f-dad8524be09c

Seems real enough, but needs help "immediately" and unable to meet. Insert not born yesterday reference. Told her to send over some nudes and I'd consider it, but 99% sure she's just hoping to scam guys out of $.

She told me she wanted to start with "online only" for any possible arrangement. I'm not on there to give money to pen pals, so I let her drift away.

**AtlantaGuy70** · 09-28-22 19:36

Originally Posted by TylerDurden07 [View Original Post]

So for the past 3 months or so, I really didn't run into the pic selling scammers. Then today, I've been contacted by 4 separate "girls" demanding I buy pics before meeting.

Was I just lucky for these 3 months, or have why'all noticed an uptick of that nonsense recently?

Likely one scammer opening up multiple accounts. Will be gone soon.

**TylerDurden07** · 09-28-22 17:37

So for the past 3 months or so, I really didn't run into the pic selling scammers. Then today, I've been contacted by 4 separate "girls" demanding I buy pics before meeting.

Was I just lucky for these 3 months, or have why'all noticed an uptick of that nonsense recently?

**TylerDurden07** · 09-28-22 17:34

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...0-4a970790fda4

Exchanged some really positive messages with her. She's friendly &, once I saw her private pics, HOT.

Started texting--at first all good. Agreed to $350 ppm, which was fine with me because I think she is really hot.

Then comes the offer to sell me pics. Nope. Then explains she needs it for her "meds. " I told her I'm cash only. Then, offered to meet her at the pharmacy & pay for these meds (where she claimed she was isn't far from my office).

She then says she has friends over so she couldn't come today (even though she said she needed her meds urgently? Then says she'll find someone else who "appreciates" her enough to send it to her.

It's amazing just how stupid these girls think we are. Unfortunately, though, she may very well find some simp who really is stupid enough to advance money.

Plisknoob1 · 09-28-22 16:29

Originally Posted by GoneForGood97 [View Original Post]

Did you smash then she ghosted, or just ghosted during the chatting up part?

During chat.

**GoneForGood97** · 09-28-22 15:50

Originally Posted by Plisknoob1 [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...d-b7cc03b601b1

She ghosted me last April, but favorited my profile a week ago.

Did you smash then she ghosted, or just ghosted during the chatting up part?

**LovePunnany** · 09-28-22 15:39

Gentleman my offering to vets and mongers with a posting history.

Have been seeing this one for a while and she need funds for something, so if your want to partake, PM me for phone number.

I have had no complaints with her so far. She is in Norcross and cannot host.

Plisknoob1 · 09-28-22 15:15

Originally Posted by Dawgins [View Original Post]

That profile isn't coming up. Can you copy and paste the link?

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...d-b7cc03b601b1

She ghosted me last April, but favorited my profile a week ago.

**Dawgins** · 09-28-22 10:13

That profile isn't coming up. Can you copy and paste the link?

Originally Posted by DukeRaoul [View Original Post]

"Guess who's back, back again.

Shady's back, tell a friend".

I'm kidding. She might be cool. She was with me a couple of years back. There were some stories since though.

Anybody take the plunge? You can dm me.

**Duke Raoul** · 09-28-22 09:54

"Guess who's back, back again.

Shady's back, tell a friend".

I'm kidding. She might be cool. She was with me a couple of years back. There were some stories since though.

Anybody take the plunge? You can dm me.

**GoneForGood97** · 09-28-22 09:39

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...6-2221b258445a

Real, and isn't looking for an allowance. Met her for drinks, and she's as cute as her pics are; however, seems to have a busy schedule and a lot going on and we just couldn't get schedules aligned for a next date. We didn't hook up, but it was only 1 M&G. She could be a rinser though, so just make sure you set sexual expectations before you start taking her to shows and shopping sprees.

**JT4K99** · 09-27-22 19:38

Originally Posted by TylerDurden07 [View Original Post]

The FIRST rule of Fight Club is that you DON'T talk about Fight Club. Ha ha.

I just messaged with her but it was a short convo. Like with you, she said she needed help immediately, yet couldn't meet until Sunday.

True enough, she may not be a scammer but I learned the hard way early on that it's a fool's errand to send money to any of these girls until you've met in person. No meet, no money!

First off, she almost certainly is a scammer. The fact that she asked two different guys the same thing and now is vehemently trying to defend it speaks volumes. I don't care if she does read this. No advance payment ever fellas.

Secondly, Fight club rules apply. If you are a simp trying to get into a girl's good graces by telling her about the forum you are shooting yourself and everyone else in the foot.

JT.

**GoneForGood97** · 09-27-22 17:41

Originally Posted by TylerDurden07 [View Original Post]

The FIRST rule of Fight Club is that you DON'T talk about Fight Club. Ha ha.

I just messaged with her but it was a short convo. Like with you, she said she needed help immediately, yet couldn't meet until Sunday.

True enough, she may not be a scammer but I learned the hard way early on that it's a fool's errand to send money to any of these girls until you've met in person. No meet, no money!

Yep. Even if she truly means every word of it, and if you send the money now she'll see you on Sunday, a lot can change between now and then. And once they no longer need you, but feel obligated to you, it impedes the attraction and actually can cause them to avoid, not because they are necessarily trying to scam you, but simply because people don't like having to make up favors.

The entire credit card industry is built on this. People buying stuff now, and they have good intentions to pay it back, but then stuff happens and they don't and next thing you know they are in way over their head, and they can't pay. If a girl needs money "urgently" it means they've already exhausted other options like credit cards, and if she's unable to get 200-300 on credit, why in the seven hells would an SD think she's going to make it right to him.