Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

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**Captain Sod** · 09-21-22 19:41

Hi guys, first post on here.

Been in the hobby for a while but never really contributed, trying to change that Saw her new profile on SA, she messaged me, wanted to move to Snap / text quickly. Thought, no way, this is bullshit. But, kept comms open anyway just to see. Ended up doing a video call verification. She's cute, a little desperate, open to most things except the butt. Asked 4; countered 3, asked if I could host but agreed I would come to her air bnb in SW Charlotte. Was on the way there when I got a message "hold up, wait". Goddamit. Waited around in a nearby parking lot for a while before bailing. Some family issues or something. Considering the video call and it didn't cost me anything but a little time, I might try again, but like 10 minutes effort max. Also some weird thug pictures on her snap story.

Izzyback.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...9-6708ff1d28e8

Thanks for all you do guys! -Sod.

**FitGuy91** · 09-21-22 12:17

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...b-df1f01f9a1f0

Messaged her and she sent her number but I don't want to pay for premium lmaooo can anyone PM if they have it.

**Ho Hopper** · 09-21-22 12:05

Originally Posted by TheMechanik365 [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...5-2a6616a09246

Saw her last night. Cute, thick, coed in her last year of school. Took about a month or so to hook up. Did a M & G around the time I first contacted her, at a bar which didn't cost a thing. I had a beer and she had a water. She's really busy between work and school, so you have to be patient and keep in contact. If you don't keep in contact, she will block you.

She asked for 5, I countered with 4 and we met in the middle at 450. That was for 2 hours. Her no list: CIM, Anal, COF. She's thick and was tight. Head was decent and she seemed to enjoy herself. I probably won't pay the 450 again but it was a nice ride and she's really cool.

On a site full of fakes, she's real.

I saw her about a year ago, I only paid 300, she did offer BB. She was too thick for me and she has cellulite on her thighs, not a repeater for me.

**Tensandaces** · 09-21-22 10:04

Originally Posted by TheMechanik365 [View Original Post]

I found that 98% move straight to text without hesitation. Agreed, a lot of these girls are looking for PPM right away. Definitely a different ball game.

As far as what to pay. It's all subjective. What one man considers a 10, another considers a 5. Me, myself, I will pay more for a young coed. The term SB is meant for a twenty something, not late thirties and forties. Nothing against the older ladies but the whole point of this SB / SD lifestyle is an older man with disposable income, finding a young lady with whom he can spend time with in exchange for financial benefits.

Now, I'm not saying I won't bed an older lady or that I mind paying for her time, I'm just going to pay a premium.

Yes I agree and am also looking for the young coed. If it costs a bit more that's no problem as long as it's a low mileage younger lady. If other guys prefer to negotiate their way out of the vibe that's their deal. Granted I have to scratch around more to find the right situation.

So they jump right to text now, huh? When I was on before it seemed as if I had to work to get them to chat off the site. That's why it seemed like there might be some kind of scam I didn't know about. Thanks for the info. Burner ready and now maybe I can make some progress.

**TheMechanik365** · 09-21-22 06:13

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...5-2a6616a09246

Saw her last night. Cute, thick, coed in her last year of school. Took about a month or so to hook up. Did a M & G around the time I first contacted her, at a bar which didn't cost a thing. I had a beer and she had a water. She's really busy between work and school, so you have to be patient and keep in contact. If you don't keep in contact, she will block you.

She asked for 5, I countered with 4 and we met in the middle at 450. That was for 2 hours. Her no list: CIM, Anal, COF. She's thick and was tight. Head was decent and she seemed to enjoy herself. I probably won't pay the 450 again but it was a nice ride and she's really cool.

On a site full of fakes, she's real.

**MidnightSteel** · 09-20-22 13:55

Originally Posted by SeriousRod238 [View Original Post]

Speaking of GPS, check this one out in GA. Apparently, it's not a local problem. Anyone even attempting to contact her should have his monger card revoked.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...dWlkZS5ubC8%3D

HAHA she sounds terrible. I bet she calls herself an influencer.

**TheMechanik365** · 09-20-22 07:35

Originally Posted by Crewzin [View Original Post]

You can add a burner app right to your phone, I use burner.com but many others out there. OK, these chicks on SA or simi pros to straight up pros, they don't have time to chat, if you can't make a deal in 10 min or less expect to be ghosted. The college girls call it ATM101, it's not for the faint of heart anymore.

I found that 98% move straight to text without hesitation. Agreed, a lot of these girls are looking for PPM right away. Definitely a different ball game.

As far as what to pay. It's all subjective. What one man considers a 10, another considers a 5. Me, myself, I will pay more for a young coed. The term SB is meant for a twenty something, not late thirties and forties. Nothing against the older ladies but the whole point of this SB / SD lifestyle is an older man with disposable income, finding a young lady with whom he can spend time with in exchange for financial benefits.

Now, I'm not saying I won't bed an older lady or that I mind paying for her time, I'm just going to pay a premium.

**John Marigold** · 09-20-22 07:19

Originally Posted by Tensandaces [View Original Post]

Hey guys,

On a whim I decided to jump back into SA this weekend after a couple of years off. My wife was out of town so I said WTH. Let's give it another go. I definitely go for the 18-25 coed type with all the potential challenges that come with it. I had several successful arrangements in my prior experience. A few years back. Matter of fact it seemed pretty easy then.

So now I am getting some chats but all the girls want to take things offline quickly and get my phone number. I am not set up with a burner yet so I have declined on those. And it seems that most of the girls (about 80%) have ghosted from the point that I decline. My question: Is that some kind of scam that I don't understand or am I missing opportunities? I guess I better get this burner phone thing figured out pretty soon if I am missing opportunities.

It's better to move to texting via phones as soon as possible. If you discuss meeting up for sex and start asking questions about requiring a condom or not, etc. , SA will permanently ban you.

**Crewzin** · 09-19-22 23:32

Originally Posted by Tensandaces [View Original Post]

Hey guys,

On a whim I decided to jump back into SA this weekend after a couple of years off. My wife was out of town so I said WTH. Let's give it another go. I definitely go for the 18-25 coed type with all the potential challenges that come with it. I had several successful arrangements in my prior experience. A few years back. Matter of fact it seemed pretty easy then.

So now I am getting some chats but all the girls want to take things offline quickly and get my phone number. I am not set up with a burner yet so I have declined on those. And it seems that most of the girls (about 80%) have ghosted from the point that I decline. My question: Is that some kind of scam that I don't understand or am I missing opportunities? I guess I better get this burner phone thing figured out pretty soon if I am missing opportunities.

You can add a burner app right to your phone, I use burner.com but many others out there. OK, these chicks on SA or simi pros to straight up pros, they don't have time to chat, if you can't make a deal in 10 min or less expect to be ghosted. The college girls call it ATM101, it's not for the faint of heart anymore.

**TjtjtJall** · 09-19-22 19:47

Thanks for that response. I agree 4 is the general ceiling, but I've had success at the 200 level when I'm the first guy they've been with in the SB lifestyle. I left that amount for such a lady recently and she texted later that I was way short and she was expecting 4 even though we never discussed the money. No chance she was at that level, but I was wondering how she arrived at 4 with no prior experience of her own.

Highest I've paid is 5 but that was a bombshell blonde, blue eyed 19 year old with an insane natural rack and perfect body. She got out of the lifestyle pretty quickly I think. But that was definitely money well spent on my end.

Originally Posted by GutterMind4 [View Original Post]

For starters, your tier 2 is more desirable to some than others. Not all guys want to chase these clueless coeds despite the tight skin and silky hair. So the dole out is not only subjective to each guy's taste but also his budget (and budget can be what he's willing to spend as much as what he's able to spend). I actually prefer the mid thirty somethings because they are easier to talk to, less likely to BS, and don't want to waste time either. That said, I also target fit and attractive ladies over the heavier girls so the pickins are slimmer (no pun intended). These ladies can be as much as, or more, that the coeds because they kinda know their worth where the younger girls guess or assume their value. Either way, it's been widely posted that you won't find anything less than 2 bills and I wouldn't pay more than 4 bills for anything unless the experience is in the top 1% of attractiveness and / or menu offering. I've spent more but that but it was in Vegas or for a local girls that should have been 3 bills. Not to be too general but the payout should be as little as you can get away with but ultimately, the ladies set the market and the guys respond to it. If it's too high, they lady will adjust accordingly as her responses dictate. But it's also widely known that these girls get hundreds of messages a day. So good luck getting the IG models less than 5 to 8 Ben's.

**TjtjtJall** · 09-19-22 19:36

Download a free texting app, link it to a new Gmail or outlook email address that you make just to verify that number. You'll be good to go.

Originally Posted by Tensandaces [View Original Post]

Hey guys,

On a whim I decided to jump back into SA this weekend after a couple of years off. My wife was out of town so I said WTH. Let's give it another go. I definitely go for the 18-25 coed type with all the potential challenges that come with it. I had several successful arrangements in my prior experience. A few years back. Matter of fact it seemed pretty easy then.

So now I am getting some chats but all the girls want to take things offline quickly and get my phone number. I am not set up with a burner yet so I have declined on those. And it seems that most of the girls (about 80%) have ghosted from the point that I decline. My question: Is that some kind of scam that I don't understand or am I missing opportunities? I guess I better get this burner phone thing figured out pretty soon if I am missing opportunities.

**Tensandaces** · 09-19-22 17:25

Hey guys,

On a whim I decided to jump back into SA this weekend after a couple of years off. My wife was out of town so I said WTH. Let's give it another go. I definitely go for the 18-25 coed type with all the potential challenges that come with it. I had several successful arrangements in my prior experience. A few years back. Matter of fact it seemed pretty easy then.

So now I am getting some chats but all the girls want to take things offline quickly and get my phone number. I am not set up with a burner yet so I have declined on those. And it seems that most of the girls (about 80%) have ghosted from the point that I decline. My question: Is that some kind of scam that I don't understand or am I missing opportunities? I guess I better get this burner phone thing figured out pretty soon if I am missing opportunities.

**GutterMind4** · 09-19-22 15:50

For starters, your tier 2 is more desirable to some than others. Not all guys want to chase these clueless coeds despite the tight skin and silky hair. So the dole out is not only subjective to each guy's taste but also his budget (and budget can be what he's willing to spend as much as what he's able to spend). I actually prefer the mid thirty somethings because they are easier to talk to, less likely to BS, and don't want to waste time either. That said, I also target fit and attractive ladies over the heavier girls so the pickins are slimmer (no pun intended). These ladies can be as much as, or more, that the coeds because they kinda know their worth where the younger girls guess or assume their value. Either way, it's been widely posted that you won't find anything less than 2 bills and I wouldn't pay more than 4 bills for anything unless the experience is in the top 1% of attractiveness and / or menu offering. I've spent more but that but it was in Vegas or for a local girls that should have been 3 bills. Not to be too general but the payout should be as little as you can get away with but ultimately, the ladies set the market and the guys respond to it. If it's too high, they lady will adjust accordingly as her responses dictate. But it's also widely known that these girls get hundreds of messages a day. So good luck getting the IG models less than 5 to 8 Ben's.

Originally Posted by TjtjtJall [View Original Post]

I'd be interested in what folks here are willing to dole out for different levels of SB that present themselves on the sites we all meet them on. In my experience there are three tiers that I have spoken with and / or smashed fall into.

The first tier is the unicorn group. Age 18-29, very fit, pretty and seem TGTBT. These are typically the scams, platonic or online only girls, who have no intention of sleeping with anyone. But there are some that fall into this category that do go all the way. So my question is of those that do become active SBs, what do we pay them? I have bedded two that fall into this category in my time. They were the most I have ever paid. One was definitely worth it but I don't think she was in the game for much longer. The other was most definitely not worth it, should have lit those hundreds on fire.

The second tier is late 20's-40, cute but not stand out attractive, perhaps overweight with a cute face. Maybe thin with a butter face. Maybe huge boobs but also fat. There is an obvious physical flaw that keeps them out of the first tier. How much for this tier?

The third tier is older, divorced and often with children, more rural, less attractive perhaps but also much more aware of what they are getting into and therefor much more likely to end up in the sack with. What is the pay per meet of this tier?

I'm just trying to understand the market relate for these women. There are always exceptions. There are always exceptions, and we can all get lucky finding one that will take way less than what they are probably worth. But I'd love to know how as a community we value these different level of women.