Sugar Baby

[Je2010]

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...3-d967eefa1b07

Wants $6 per meet. Great tits, not worth it though.

[Bertil]

These are all good tips for sure.

This is a cross post I've shared in the Los Angeles sugar thread, seeing so many scammer related posts here. These are some basic guidelines for newer SDs to save time and money, remain safe, and increase your chances of success:

1. Never send any money before meeting. Not. One. Cent. Only scammers will ever ask for money before meeting. Never accept "online arrangements until we can meet," or send money "to show that you're serious," or fall for sob stories about overdue bills or emergency car repairs, etc.

2. Never pay for a meet and greet: no play, no pay. Anyone who demands this is a scammer and a hustler, no ordinary girl or experienced sugar baby will request this. Your time is far more valuable than that of any entitled bottom feeder.

3. Should the profile not have any full body pictures, or use all sorts of wacky filters, request unedited full body photos or a video call before meeting. Fatties and fuglies will zoom in on their face and use deceptive angles and filters to conceal how gross they truly are. Don't let an overfed catfish waste your time.

4. Set expectations ahead of time, be clear and confident about what you are looking for. Never settle for less, or allow her to move the goal posts. Girls appreciate clarity and your direction.

5. Don't get stuck on any one chick, expecting her to be "the one. " Many girls can be fickle, and may disappear without notice. Always keep more in the pipeline.

6. Make sure to tell your potential SB that "you are looking for a regular connection with someone that appreciates you and wants to make you happy, someone who will do whatever it takes to please you. " This is to ensure she gives it her all. Whether you actually intend to continue seeing her is up to you, but this keeps away time wasters and discourages bad lays.

7. Meet & greets should be in a setting with an easy out, preferably a casual public setting. Meet for coffee / tea, ice cream, or drinks. A sit down lunch or dinner can be awkward if a fat and / or ugly chick shows up, or if the girl turns out to be a rude pig with a nasty attitude. You select the place to meet: don't have a gold digger or rinser drag you to a high end restaurant, or a rob direct you to a place where your defenses are neutralized.

8. Never accept a date where a "gay friend" or "sister" shows up with her "for her safety. " This is a hustler, a dinner who're who wants to treat her buddy or her pimp to a restaurant meal at your expense, or shake you down in some other way. If a normal girl were really concerned about her safety, she would not agree to meet you under any circumstance.

9. Do not engage in altercations or arguments with scammers, hustlers, rinsers, dinner WGs or any other bottom feeders when messaging or texting. They may retaliate by reporting you to the site under false pretenses, and try to get you suspended or banned. Simply stop engaging them, report them if inclined to do so, and move on to the next POT.

10. Don't be afraid to discuss expectations beforehand, but move the conversation off site as soon as you can. Use neutral terms on the site, and at the beginning of texting to avoid bans and suspensions. Once the girl demonstrates she's DTF, be as transparent as you like.

11. Never pay any cash at the beginning of the date. Always after visiting the FC to avoid cash and dash, or bait and switch situations.

12. Keep talking and texting to an efficient minimum, moving the conversation to an in-person date as soon as you can. Otherwise momentum will be lost, and time wasted. Your POT is getting countless offers, and will accept someone else's proposal if you don't retain her interest.

13. You call the shots, you set the terms, this is your arrangement. You are a sugar daddy, not a trick. There are more prostitutes on the site since FOSTA made it harder for them to operate elsewhere, but never let them set the tone. Never accept a prostitute's rules, or more specifically, her pimp's rules. If she drops escort terminology or rules, don't engage her, or risk being banned. Keep her in the streets of Skid Row for the chumps.

14. Remain tenacious and alert: online dating can be a minefield, but there are still gems to be found. Trust your instincts: if something feels off, it probably is. If things feel great, keep a guarded optimism until reaching the FC.

15. Last but definitely not least: Have fun and stay positive!! Approach each interaction on its own terms. Have a friendly and approachable profile: use well lit photos of you in a number of interesting environments or engaging in entertaining activities. Have fully filled out sections in coherent sentences that convey your personality and what you're looking for in very general, easy to understand terms. Any negativity or complaints in your profile can deter a connection with quality girls. Keeping a comfortable, playful environment and good vibes in every step of your interaction with your POT will increase your chances of success.

Feel free to share more tips on this thread. Also be sure to check out the Richmond, Virginia Sugar Baby threads, which have contributors from around the country sharing their best tips. Good luck!

[TyphoonTarget]

It depends on the type of girl you're talking to on there. If it's a pro she won't have a problem telling you what it cost per meet up front and that's where the negotiating begins. By the way just make sure you are talking about $$ outside of the site or risk being banned. The majority of girls on there I've had offer BBFS and they all say the same thing about not doing it often and that they get checked often. Right.

As far as non pros which is what I prefer, it takes some time and they will not fuck on the first date for the most part. Meet and greet and discuss the details there if the vibes are right. Just tell them what you're wanting. If you see them long enough and they start to trust you, you can have your way with them. Those are the type of girls that don't get posted about on here. The rare gems are there but it takes time. PM me if you have more questions. Also there is an excellent post a monger posted on here not too long ago about what to do or not to do. It should be on the front page.

Curious where that post of do's and don'ts is. I couldn't find it.

[Bertil]

Hey ya'll.

Hoping I could get some of ya'lls insight on the sugar dating scene. I'm pretty familiar with the escort scene in the USA And abroad but the sugar scene is something I've stuck my toes in, but haven't figured out and can't say I've had experiences I'd repeat out of the couple of girls I did meet. But I'm definitely interested in it as an alternative and I know there's something here.

What's your approach / strategy here? I notice even some guys are getting BBFS with cip.

I'm a little apprehensive in discussing things explicitly because I've had the feeling before I'm speaking with LEO and I don't want to end up with that situation. Do you just discuss things plainly / openly with them? Do you hint at it and wait until the real life meet and then discuss the blunt details? What do you look for? How do you feel them out?

It's obvious this is a sorting game because some of these girls are beyond entitled and delusional. Even some of the arrogant ways some of them have tried to get me interested or sell me have been outright laughable.

Much appreciated in advance.

It depends on the type of girl you're talking to on there. If it's a pro she won't have a problem telling you what it cost per meet up front and that's where the negotiating begins. By the way just make sure you are talking about $$ outside of the site or risk being banned. The majority of girls on there I've had offer BBFS and they all say the same thing about not doing it often and that they get checked often. Right.

As far as non pros which is what I prefer, it takes some time and they will not fuck on the first date for the most part. Meet and greet and discuss the details there if the vibes are right. Just tell them what you're wanting. If you see them long enough and they start to trust you, you can have your way with them. Those are the type of girls that don't get posted about on here. The rare gems are there but it takes time. PM me if you have more questions. Also there is an excellent post a monger posted on here not too long ago about what to do or not to do. It should be on the front page.

[Eustisflman]

Have messaged back and forth with this one. Looks nice in the pics. I have asked what her expectations are twice and no response. Location says orlando and she says she is in the Sand Lake / I drive area. Not sure how much longer I'll spend working this one. Anyone had any luck with her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...f-0519eb121153

Blocker her already at some point. So something did not add up on her profile.

[DrGood]

Hey ya'll.

Hoping I could get some of ya'lls insight on the sugar dating scene. I'm pretty familiar with the escort scene in the USA And abroad but the sugar scene is something I've stuck my toes in, but haven't figured out and can't say I've had experiences I'd repeat out of the couple of girls I did meet. But I'm definitely interested in it as an alternative and I know there's something here.

What's your approach / strategy here? I notice even some guys are getting BBFS with cip.

I'm a little apprehensive in discussing things explicitly because I've had the feeling before I'm speaking with LEO and I don't want to end up with that situation. Do you just discuss things plainly / openly with them? Do you hint at it and wait until the real life meet and then discuss the blunt details? What do you look for? How do you feel them out?

It's obvious this is a sorting game because some of these girls are beyond entitled and delusional. Even some of the arrogant ways some of them have tried to get me interested or sell me have been outright laughable.

Much appreciated in advance.

[Gilagin]

Have messaged back and forth with this one. Looks nice in the pics. I have asked what her expectations are twice and no response. Location says orlando and she says she is in the Sand Lake / I drive area. Not sure how much longer I'll spend working this one. Anyone had any luck with her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...f-0519eb121153

[Je2010]

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...a-108950fdc288

Never said an amount, but wants spoiling for a cpl of weeks and then she was be intimate. We all know what that means, it will never happen.

[Eustisflman]

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...b-794c2e7077f5 wants 500 plus dinner and she does not host. Told her she has UCF that sets the rates way lower.

[Eustisflman]

Must be a pro asked how many hours. https://members.seeking.com/member/3...4-fdf951d1a777 I passed.

[Je2010]

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...2-9e12b00e480c

Wants 8-1 k per meet.

[Bud Green]

I looked at her profile, the not into married men and not willing to travel puts a damper to the fun.

I expect to start seeing more of this since seeking has become more of a main stream dating site. I read on redit a lot of people are being banned so make sure your messaging sugatbabies and keep messages vague until you go to text. I actually go from sa to Snapchat I verify than move to text. I'm already seeing vanilla seekers.

[Gilagin]

I've talked to Babbylj66 a few times and even a had a meet scheduled that we had to cancel. I was hoping someone had met her in person and can share info? She is slow to respond and don't want to invest more time in her if she is a complete flake.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...b-52ed34d5401a

I looked at her profile, the not into married men and not willing to travel puts a damper to the fun.

[Gilagin]

Been chatting with her too.

I don't understand the GPS.

I clicked the link through here to see her profile. Shortly after, she hit me up wanting to see my additional pics. Once we started talking she said minimum is $5. I told her thanks but no, then she asked what I would offer, I countered at $2-2. 5 depending on what is offered and the amount of time we get together. She hasn't read the message yet or responded. Doubt she will come down that much, plus not hosting adds another $- 5 for a room.

[HardWoodsman]

I've talked to Babbylj66 a few times and even a had a meet scheduled that we had to cancel. I was hoping someone had met her in person and can share info? She is slow to respond and don't want to invest more time in her if she is a complete flake.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...b-52ed34d5401a