NoVA SugarBabies

**Lobsid** · 04-28-21 22:58

This is what I do for girls I plan to see once a week. I normally ask the girl to drop $100 from the ppm and switch it to per week. If I can't make it I give them the full allowance for the week. If they cancel the allowance drops to $100 for that week. So it will encourage the girls to want to see you. Main thing you have to sell to the girls is that they will get a consistency with allowance rather then not know when the next ppm is.

Originally Posted by HeyDuhman [View Original Post]

I've had some success during my 3-mo subscription and have a nice set of girls who I have seen multiple times. All but two of them are not very active on seeking (it seems like the log in every 2-3 weeks or less). I no longer a premium member and actually don't feel the need to log in obsessively like I have been doing the past three months to msg new girls. A couple girls who I am seeing. The chemistry and connection is super, like a new bf / gf relationship. I'm not likely to get emotionally entangled (am married with kids no desire to damage that) but I am practical which means if the fun and positive vibes can be had for less $ I'm all about that.

Question for you experienced SDs here, have you moved any girls from PPM to allowance? What are best practices in doing so? One girl I see at 400 ppm and another 500 ppm. What is a good allowance offer? What other terms and conditions would be good to negotiate up front when moving to an allowance type of situation. Is it even advisable?. When I browse the sugar life reddit it seems all about the allowance. I might post there as well but for now looking for some ideas from the experienced folks here. Specially locally here in the DMV.

**Futuopedico** · 04-28-21 22:33

Originally Posted by GoodBoy07 [View Original Post]

Try to negotiate the time like 4 hrs etc she may agree. She is worth seeing at least once in my opinion. I saw her a few months ago when there are no reviews. She said I am the second person she saw (okay we have to multiply by 20 then LOL). Thought I found a low mileage gem and thought to see her few times before writing a review. She said she won't do BBFS with anyone and gets regularly tested which made me at ease (I don't do BBFS and don't like seeing girls who do BBFS with lots of men). LOL, a review popped up and then the truth revealed she is seeing all 300 Spartans and doing BBFS with everyone.

I gave her 5 bills for 3 hrs plus. Which is worth in my opinion.

Who are you talking about?

**DickLongwood** · 04-28-21 20:58

Originally Posted by HeyDuhman [View Original Post]

I've had some success during my 3-mo subscription and have a nice set of girls who I have seen multiple times. All but two of them are not very active on seeking (it seems like the log in every 2-3 weeks or less). I no longer a premium member and actually don't feel the need to log in obsessively like I have been doing the past three months to msg new girls. A couple girls who I am seeing. The chemistry and connection is super, like a new bf / gf relationship. I'm not likely to get emotionally entangled (am married with kids no desire to damage that) but I am practical which means if the fun and positive vibes can be had for less $ I'm all about that.

Question for you experienced SDs here, have you moved any girls from PPM to allowance? What are best practices in doing so? One girl I see at 400 ppm and another 500 ppm. What is a good allowance offer? What other terms and conditions would be good to negotiate up front when moving to an allowance type of situation. Is it even advisable?. When I browse the sugar life reddit it seems all about the allowance. I might post there as well but for now looking for some ideas from the experienced folks here. Specially locally here in the DMV.

First, you are paying more PPM than most guys here. But if it took that much to get them, and they make you happy, that's fine with me.

Second, why do you want to go to allowance? Are they pressuring you for that? Do you think you can get a lower average price per date? I'd try to avoid it. In many cases, the woman gives less time or effort than with a PPM. If you decide to go ahead, try to negotiate a number that costs you the same or less per date than you are paying now. For example, if you see the $500 girl 4 x per month, try for a number that's less than $2,000. Or ask for 5-6 dates for that. Also, I strongly recommend not paying for a month in advance. If you can, pay at the end of the month. I've heard of some guys who did that but skipped out before paying. That's bad form. Try to limit your exposure. Don't pay for more than 14-15 days in advance. I'd recommend paying for 2 dates on the day of the 1st date. Maybe pay $900 on the 1st and 15th of the month for the $500 girl. Some SBs like the allowance because it feels less transitional, but it's a huge risk for SDs, in my opinion.

**Dimples572** · 04-28-21 19:26

If anyone's got a hair up their ass for a bigger / bbw type big tittied girl this one wants $500 which to me is too steep for her. We originally agreed to $300 but then a few days later when it came to actually schedule something she reneged and tried to bump me to $500. I stood my ground and so did she do I wished her all the best.

https://www.seeking.com/member/a3d54...5-cea2b9a50d1f

**Lodzvisiter** · 04-28-21 16:35

Originally Posted by ShortMan22 [View Original Post]

Just wondering if any of you mongers have any experience with her? I'm currently trying to talk with her on SA. I'll share how things go.

https://www.seeking.com/member/bc327...0-a6338d8cf230

I met her a few month ago and reported on the Baltimore forum. Think she changed her profile. Definitely her name. Had a M&G dinner with her and she was ok. Cute but not hot. Conversation was tough and while she was responsive and talked, I had to drive the entire conversation. Was exhausting. Wasn't feeling a good connection but figured WTF. I'll see if she'll come back to my place to fuck. Was only 10 minutes away. I was shocked when she agreed. Wish she would have declined in retrospect.

Got to my place and and agreed to 300. Proceeded to have the worst deadfish fuck I've ever had. I've seen over 75 women on SA and she was BY FAR the worst fuck. I will say got a second round in and she blew me to get a second load out. In all fairness, the BJ was decent and she took a good facial. I told her I was going to cum and expected her to shy away or take CIM and she set it up for me to blow all over her face. That was the only positive of the whole night. Surely will never see her again.

**HeyDuhman** · 04-28-21 16:09

I've had some success during my 3-mo subscription and have a nice set of girls who I have seen multiple times. All but two of them are not very active on seeking (it seems like the log in every 2-3 weeks or less). I no longer a premium member and actually don't feel the need to log in obsessively like I have been doing the past three months to msg new girls. A couple girls who I am seeing. The chemistry and connection is super, like a new bf / gf relationship. I'm not likely to get emotionally entangled (am married with kids no desire to damage that) but I am practical which means if the fun and positive vibes can be had for less $ I'm all about that.

Question for you experienced SDs here, have you moved any girls from PPM to allowance? What are best practices in doing so? One girl I see at 400 ppm and another 500 ppm. What is a good allowance offer? What other terms and conditions would be good to negotiate up front when moving to an allowance type of situation. Is it even advisable?. When I browse the sugar life reddit it seems all about the allowance. I might post there as well but for now looking for some ideas from the experienced folks here. Specially locally here in the DMV.

**Lobsid** · 04-28-21 13:34

Originally Posted by ShortMan22 [View Original Post]

Just wondering if any of you mongers have any experience with her? I'm currently trying to talk with her on SA. I'll share how things go.

https://www.seeking.com/member/bc327...0-a6338d8cf230

Please do a search, I'm 100% sure there was a review about her a month ago.

**ShortMan22** · 04-28-21 13:03

Just wondering if any of you mongers have any experience with her? I'm currently trying to talk with her on SA. I'll share how things go.

https://www.seeking.com/member/bc327...0-a6338d8cf230

**GoodBoy07** · 04-28-21 11:58

Try to negotiate the time like 4 hrs etc she may agree. She is worth seeing at least once in my opinion. I saw her a few months ago when there are no reviews. She said I am the second person she saw (okay we have to multiply by 20 then LOL). Thought I found a low mileage gem and thought to see her few times before writing a review. She said she won't do BBFS with anyone and gets regularly tested which made me at ease (I don't do BBFS and don't like seeing girls who do BBFS with lots of men). LOL, a review popped up and then the truth revealed she is seeing all 300 Spartans and doing BBFS with everyone.

I gave her 5 bills for 3 hrs plus. Which is worth in my opinion.

**MikelSuTiger** · 04-28-21 10:27

Wow, I wonder if people are lining up to offer her that, if so, good for her. Otherwise, I'd hope that she continues to get offers od 3-4 and that she comes back to reality.

Be safe and cheers!

Originally Posted by Futuopedico [View Original Post]

She is staying firm with the five bills and can't host. Offered four and she turned it down nicely.

**Futuopedico** · 04-28-21 09:59

She is staying firm with the five bills and can't host. Offered four and she turned it down nicely.

**Futuopedico** · 04-28-21 09:38

Originally Posted by Dimples572 [View Original Post]

That's a link to your inbox.

I keep doing that!!

https://www.seeking.com/member/9fb51...6-d38fe0a9ca7b

**Ernest Ll** · 04-28-21 09:29

Originally Posted by KevinCalormis [View Original Post]

+1 on the immature / ditzy personality. Like I said, I can't imagine taking her on a date first. She even complained to me that most guys want to pretend like it's not just a straight sex transaction and that she appreciated me just getting to it. Although after I popped twice I was ready to leave, and she just wanted to keep talking in bed which was annoying.

She's racking up a lot of milage, most of it bareback with mongers. She freely admits she's not on birth control. It's only a matter of time before she gets pregnant and / or an STD.

I won't be repeating. Too much traffic, and honestly she isn't that great in bed. She's pretty lazy, and has a phobia of guys spit.

Asking $600 -- pretty insistent on getting me to agree to that -- no anal.

Pass.

**StayAnonymous** · 04-28-21 00:41

One thing I assume you are all doing to protect yourselves is using a VPN and emails such as tutanota, protonmail etc.

While trying to sign up for seeking using either of these email providers and a VPN I keep getting an error that says "the email address you entered is invalid. Enter a different one". Sound familiar? No chance I'm giving up my IP address or a traceable email to these types of sites. Anyone else have a workaround while still using a vpn and anonymous email providers?

Originally Posted by WillOckham [View Original Post]

SeekingArrangements, com and SkipTheGames.com do not require personal IDs. SeekingArrangements asks your net worth and annual income. Of course, they cannot verify that info, so you can enter anything. I've never used P411, so I don't know about that service.

**Dimples572** · 04-28-21 00:28

Originally Posted by Futuopedico [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/messages/inb...0-50f90d6c5752

Asking for eight bills and unable to host. Told her it was a pleasure and she responded with what are your thoughts. So maybe room to negotiate, but four bills would be my max and I would want what ever daddy says and whatever daddy wants for that. Didn't get a response to the four bills.

That's a link to your inbox.